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"Exactly. I shut my emotions off, just fuck me and stop with the romantic shit. Guys try that shit on dating sites to try and get laid ,it's not needed here. We know what you're really after. " It’s like you read my mind... | |||
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"Exactly. I shut my emotions off, just fuck me and stop with the romantic shit. Guys try that shit on dating sites to try and get laid ,it's not needed here. We know what you're really after. It’s like you read my mind..." I find it's the younger guys who try bringing romantic stuff in to it, like it's going to get me to fuck them faster. It does the opposite as I find it manipulative and an insult to my intelligence. | |||
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"Exactly. I shut my emotions off, just fuck me and stop with the romantic shit. Guys try that shit on dating sites to try and get laid ,it's not needed here. We know what you're really after. It’s like you read my mind... I find it's the younger guys who try bringing romantic stuff in to it, like it's going to get me to fuck them faster. It does the opposite as I find it manipulative and an insult to my intelligence." True, it’s mainly about the sex. | |||
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"18 months " Constant self pleasuring has stopped my balls reaching critical mass. | |||
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"Yeah really. I'm not looking for love but some level of connection. It doesn't mean that connection couldn't be easily achieved, with a wide range of women, but it has to be there. I'm on 18 months without sex and I'm not desperate. I can get sex if I want sex. For me I need a little more than just a body to fuck. I've done both and I know what I prefer. " What he said | |||
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"I guess we are all different I wouldn’t be able to be turned on by someone I’d no connection with " this | |||
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"Alot of men say exactly what they think you want to hear, if it means they might get a fuck " Exactly this babe | |||
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"OK. So since I've been on hear I'm reading a lot of. I like to be able to connect with a woman. Or. We must be able to dreamily stare in each others eyes. If there's no true connection then its hard going. Really. I mean really. I just wanna be fucked by two guys. A connection is the last thing I want. So be honest guys. Don't try and play the old. Oh I wanna feel something. Only thing I wanna feel is a cock in my pussy and one in my mouth. No connection or romance needed. So stop being sloppy thinking the girls are going to go awwwww Nah we wanna go ahhhhhhhh yesssss fuck me fuck me good like my hubby does " Thank fucking God! Finally, an honest woman! | |||
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"OK. So since I've been on hear I'm reading a lot of. I like to be able to connect with a woman. Or. We must be able to dreamily stare in each others eyes. If there's no true connection then its hard going. Really. I mean really. I just wanna be fucked by two guys. A connection is the last thing I want. So be honest guys. Don't try and play the old. Oh I wanna feel something. Only thing I wanna feel is a cock in my pussy and one in my mouth. No connection or romance needed. So stop being sloppy thinking the girls are going to go awwwww Nah we wanna go ahhhhhhhh yesssss fuck me fuck me good like my hubby does " Women perpetuate this stuff though and guys fall for it, even more so once they’ve hit a certain age and want to settle down with the nice guy they said they “just wanted to be friends” with when they were younger. So funny to see, thanks for being honest darlin, you’re a keeper. | |||
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"Honesty about just fuckin is refreshing We are on a swinger site not a dating site " It's not dating to want to get to know the person behind the cock. I wouldn't meet a couple who just saw me as a hole, or mouth. | |||
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"Honesty about just fuckin is refreshing We are on a swinger site not a dating site It's not dating to want to get to know the person behind the cock. I wouldn't meet a couple who just saw me as a hole, or mouth." This exactly! I was pretty naive at the beginning and was definitely told the right things and used for just an easy fuck. I'm not so gullible now, and if someone just sees me as holes then it's a definite no from me. I like to be sexually attracted to the person/s I sleep with, for me I can't get turned on if I don't fancy them, but that attraction isn't just from looks. It's from chatting to someone and finding out if they're a decent human being too, and having some sort of connection. Has nothing to do with romance, but it's quite important that I actually like the person and their personality if I'm going to sleep with them. | |||
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"Just get yourself a fucking machine; wide choice of cocks, varying speed and depth, doesn't run out of stamina, no messy cum to clean up, don’t have to worry about no shows." This | |||
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"Honesty about just fuckin is refreshing We are on a swinger site not a dating site It's not dating to want to get to know the person behind the cock. I wouldn't meet a couple who just saw me as a hole, or mouth. This exactly! I was pretty naive at the beginning and was definitely told the right things and used for just an easy fuck. I'm not so gullible now, and if someone just sees me as holes then it's a definite no from me. I like to be sexually attracted to the person/s I sleep with, for me I can't get turned on if I don't fancy them, but that attraction isn't just from looks. It's from chatting to someone and finding out if they're a decent human being too, and having some sort of connection. Has nothing to do with romance, but it's quite important that I actually like the person and their personality if I'm going to sleep with them. " It’s this exactly for me too! Sex without connection is just empty sex to me! | |||
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"OK. So since I've been on hear I'm reading a lot of. I like to be able to connect with a woman. Or. We must be able to dreamily stare in each others eyes. If there's no true connection then its hard going. Really. I mean really. I just wanna be fucked by two guys. A connection is the last thing I want. So be honest guys. Don't try and play the old. Oh I wanna feel something. Only thing I wanna feel is a cock in my pussy and one in my mouth. No connection or romance needed. So stop being sloppy thinking the girls are going to go awwwww Nah we wanna go ahhhhhhhh yesssss fuck me fuck me good like my hubby does " Oh yes, sounds awesome | |||
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"We’re all looking for different things on here. Personally I find the sex is better with someone I have got to know a bit first. Just being fucked by a random person isn’t so much of a turn on for me. Kx " Agreed. We all seek different things. Sex without emotions is something I find empty and pointless, personally, but do what works for you. | |||
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"No we are a couple with a connection an extremely big one hence why we ben together for 20 years. Why would I want or need a connection from anyone else. All I want is Fuking hard. Not love notes and forget me nots" That's great if it works for you but it doesn't apply to everybody. | |||
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"OK. So since I've been on hear I'm reading a lot of. I like to be able to connect with a woman. Or. We must be able to dreamily stare in each others eyes. If there's no true connection then its hard going. Really. I mean really. I just wanna be fucked by two guys. A connection is the last thing I want. So be honest guys. Don't try and play the old. Oh I wanna feel something. Only thing I wanna feel is a cock in my pussy and one in my mouth. No connection or romance needed. So stop being sloppy thinking the girls are going to go awwwww Nah we wanna go ahhhhhhhh yesssss fuck me fuck me good like my hubby does " That's what I'm hoping to get while we're away this weekend | |||
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"OK. So since I've been on hear I'm reading a lot of. I like to be able to connect with a woman. Or. We must be able to dreamily stare in each others eyes. If there's no true connection then its hard going. Really. I mean really. I just wanna be fucked by two guys. A connection is the last thing I want. So be honest guys. Don't try and play the old. Oh I wanna feel something. Only thing I wanna feel is a cock in my pussy and one in my mouth. No connection or romance needed. So stop being sloppy thinking the girls are going to go awwwww Nah we wanna go ahhhhhhhh yesssss fuck me fuck me good like my hubby does " Very refreshing lol | |||
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"Everyone is entitled to approach this in their own way. I prefer to have a connection with someone, some people just want to fuck, and there’s nothing wrong with either way. " Yes, exactly. We’re not interested in sharing our bedroom with people we have no connection with, simply because that’s what we like. What other people like is entirely their own affair. | |||
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"OK. So since I've been on hear I'm reading a lot of. I like to be able to connect with a woman. Or. We must be able to dreamily stare in each others eyes. If there's no true connection then its hard going. Really. I mean really. I just wanna be fucked by two guys. A connection is the last thing I want. So be honest guys. Don't try and play the old. Oh I wanna feel something. Only thing I wanna feel is a cock in my pussy and one in my mouth. No connection or romance needed. So stop being sloppy thinking the girls are going to go awwwww Nah we wanna go ahhhhhhhh yesssss fuck me fuck me good like my hubby does " clubs and at parties yes but one to one meets to me are different and I prefer the connection to be there. Not because I want to fall in love it is purely due to spending more time with that person. | |||
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"So refreshing to hear someone feel the same way as us. I guess it is down to the individuals. This is our bit of fun, escape from normal life if you like. So it is just sex, more the better Have played with a few couples we really got on with on different levels. Single men, sorry it's just your cock that is wanted. Not even foreplay, just pure sex is what is wanted. You shoot and score, then onto the next one. And another if we are lucky " Oh my, you stole our words! This is a perfect discription of us! It's just sex - to us. We / I do have my " no's". This slut won't shag anything with a heart beat. Blocked 3 yesterday. | |||
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"Honesty about just fuckin is refreshing We are on a swinger site not a dating site It's not dating to want to get to know the person behind the cock. I wouldn't meet a couple who just saw me as a hole, or mouth. This exactly! I was pretty naive at the beginning and was definitely told the right things and used for just an easy fuck. I'm not so gullible now, and if someone just sees me as holes then it's a definite no from me. I like to be sexually attracted to the person/s I sleep with, for me I can't get turned on if I don't fancy them, but that attraction isn't just from looks. It's from chatting to someone and finding out if they're a decent human being too, and having some sort of connection. Has nothing to do with romance, but it's quite important that I actually like the person and their personality if I'm going to sleep with them. It’s this exactly for me too! Sex without connection is just empty sex to me! " Agreed, that kinda sex is no more than a complicated wank. | |||
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"Exactly. I shut my emotions off, just fuck me and stop with the romantic shit. Guys try that shit on dating sites to try and get laid ,it's not needed here. We know what you're really after. " Really? I disagree. It doesn't matter what a guy says except sometimes saying that is,better than the drivel and filth that comes out of their mouths so give me a little I want to connect conversation anytime. Im a woman not an empty vessel to shove a cock in because I want to be fucked. | |||
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"A lot of people write a lot of stuff they don't necessarily mean or believe on places like this. All sorts of white lies and half truths hoping it makes them more appealing. Now when people say connection, that can be as basic as, your able to converse about little more than the weather. Or as far as debating the ancient philosophers and anywhere inbetween. My point being, no connection of any sort will be made if they don't like what they see. " Absolutely agree, a connection could be find each other attractive with a engaging conversation you want to meet in the flesh quickly or after some time getting to know more about each other’s minds. Some people think wanting a connection means some type of long term relationship which certainly isn’t the case is just about it adding more to the scenario | |||
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"I guess we are all different I wouldn’t be able to be turned on by someone I’d no connection with " This. Sex is empty without a connection, i want to feel it all when having sex, not just a empty orgasm | |||
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"Be nice if some did that here. I think most around my area are picky as anything unless someone can prove me wrong " There’s nothing wrong with being “picky” wether that be men, women, couples,tv’s etc…… We all have our preferences | |||
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"No we are a couple with a connection an extremely big one hence why we ben together for 20 years. Why would I want or need a connection from anyone else. All I want is Fuking hard. Not love notes and forget me nots" Forget me knots | |||
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"You can have a connection without emotions being involved " Exactly this. It has nothing to do with wanting romance or any feelings for someone. It’s about wanting to have sex with someone who I actually get on with and have built up some desire with. That’s what gets me really turned on. I have had meets where it has just been sex and although it’s been fun it hasn’t left me thinking about it for days after. I’m here for memorable experiences not just quick fucks. Kx | |||
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"You can have a connection without emotions being involved Exactly this. It has nothing to do with wanting romance or any feelings for someone. It’s about wanting to have sex with someone who I actually get on with and have built up some desire with. That’s what gets me really turned on. I have had meets where it has just been sex and although it’s been fun it hasn’t left me thinking about it for days after. I’m here for memorable experiences not just quick fucks. Kx" I agree there is the middle ground, a connection mentally and physically as you have to click and have that fire but still just the fun and excitement of a very sexy meet that lives on in the memory x | |||
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"OK. So since I've been on hear I'm reading a lot of. I like to be able to connect with a woman. Or. We must be able to dreamily stare in each others eyes. If there's no true connection then its hard going. Really. I mean really. I just wanna be fucked by two guys. A connection is the last thing I want. So be honest guys. Don't try and play the old. Oh I wanna feel something. Only thing I wanna feel is a cock in my pussy and one in my mouth. No connection or romance needed. So stop being sloppy thinking the girls are going to go awwwww Nah we wanna go ahhhhhhhh yesssss fuck me fuck me good like my hubby does " Exactly. Exactly this! Not only that but understand the guys LOVES somebody fucking his wife well. | |||
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"Honesty about just fuckin is refreshing We are on a swinger site not a dating site It's not dating to want to get to know the person behind the cock. I wouldn't meet a couple who just saw me as a hole, or mouth. This exactly! I was pretty naive at the beginning and was definitely told the right things and used for just an easy fuck. I'm not so gullible now, and if someone just sees me as holes then it's a definite no from me. I like to be sexually attracted to the person/s I sleep with, for me I can't get turned on if I don't fancy them, but that attraction isn't just from looks. It's from chatting to someone and finding out if they're a decent human being too, and having some sort of connection. Has nothing to do with romance, but it's quite important that I actually like the person and their personality if I'm going to sleep with them. " This!! I might not want to live with them but I want to enjoy their company and have a laugh and feel wanted for me | |||
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"OK. So since I've been on hear I'm reading a lot of. I like to be able to connect with a woman. Or. We must be able to dreamily stare in each others eyes. If there's no true connection then its hard going. Really. I mean really. I just wanna be fucked by two guys. A connection is the last thing I want. So be honest guys. Don't try and play the old. Oh I wanna feel something. Only thing I wanna feel is a cock in my pussy and one in my mouth. No connection or romance needed. So stop being sloppy thinking the girls are going to go awwwww Nah we wanna go ahhhhhhhh yesssss fuck me fuck me good like my hubby does Exactly. Exactly this! Not only that but understand the guys LOVES somebody fucking his wife well. " I can understand couples feeling this way, you already have the close connection so you just want an additional cock. For myself it's about more than that. | |||
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"OK. So since I've been on hear I'm reading a lot of. I like to be able to connect with a woman. Or. We must be able to dreamily stare in each others eyes. If there's no true connection then its hard going. Really. I mean really. I just wanna be fucked by two guys. A connection is the last thing I want. So be honest guys. Don't try and play the old. Oh I wanna feel something. Only thing I wanna feel is a cock in my pussy and one in my mouth. No connection or romance needed. So stop being sloppy thinking the girls are going to go awwwww Nah we wanna go ahhhhhhhh yesssss fuck me fuck me good like my hubby does Exactly. Exactly this! Not only that but understand the guys LOVES somebody fucking his wife well. I can understand couples feeling this way, you already have the close connection so you just want an additional cock. For myself it's about more than that. " That’s entirely understandable. If we like the sex then people do become friends after that. A bit backwards maybe but we have limited time to meet. | |||
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" Agreed, that kinda sex is no more than a complicated wank. " "Complicated wank" love it, will have to introduce to a polite conversation! | |||
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