FabSwingers.com forum: Dates or just sex?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I’m actually looking to date someone but who’s got the same sexual interest as me? Am I on the wrong site? Opinions?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are plenty of people who have got together on fab and are now couples.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By *wistedTooCouple
over a year ago

Frimley

I would suggest you don’t think of this as a dating site, but know that if a social meet went well there might be more option for it after. But no, don’t treat it like a site you want dates from… that will happen with the right person if you can find them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I would suggest you don’t think of this as a dating site, but know that if a social meet went well there might be more option for it after. But no, don’t treat it like a site you want dates from… that will happen with the right person if you can find them."
thank you

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

I think the issue is that whilst there are people on here looking for relationships, the ratio of men to women is so imbalanced, it's difficult for men to find the right woman. It's also difficult for women because whilst there is a lot of choice for them, there's a lot of chaff to sort from the wheat.

I would certainly encourage you to try, but don't put all your eggs in one basket. Look through other dating routes too.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I think the issue is that whilst there are people on here looking for relationships, the ratio of men to women is so imbalanced, it's difficult for men to find the right woman. It's also difficult for women because whilst there is a lot of choice for them, there's a lot of chaff to sort from the wheat.

I would certainly encourage you to try, but don't put all your eggs in one basket. Look through other dating routes too. "
soo true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same here!

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

"I’m actually looking to date someone but who’s got the same sexual interest as me? Am I on the wrong site? Opinions?

Hi lovely - not at all - but I don’t think it helps that you don’t have any discernible pictures. X

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I’m actually looking to date someone but who’s got the same sexual interest as me? Am I on the wrong site? Opinions?

Hi lovely - not at all - but I don’t think it helps that you don’t have any discernible pictures. X"

Hi peachy! Sorry I took them off due to me being a little paranoid due to the line of work I do

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Same here! "

I’m here !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Same here!

I’m here !!!

You’re hot

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Same here!

I’m here !!!

You’re hot

Your beautiful !

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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago

stockport

Awwwwww this is cute

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Awwwwww this is cute

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haha x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Awwwwww this is cute

Haha we are messaging!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Awwwwww this is cute

Haha we are messaging! "

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By *exy-Lady-1975Couple
over a year ago

Bewdley

Yes, it isnt a dating site, just sex. Its why I normally delete white guys as they almost always want to date either before I have met and almost always after they have. P

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By *orkshrCplCouple
over a year ago

Ripon

"Awwwwww this is cute

Haha we are messaging! "

Quite excited to see if fab makes another couple here! X

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

Now that would be the ultimate thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes, it isnt a dating site, just sex. Its why I normally delete white guys as they almost always want to date either before I have met and almost always after they have. P"

Crikey really???

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

"Awwwwww this is cute

Haha we are messaging! "

So cute

let us know what happens… I hate cliff hangers !

And if it doesn’t work out , message me

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

"I’m actually looking to date someone but who’s got the same sexual interest as me? Am I on the wrong site? Opinions?

Hi lovely - not at all - but I don’t think it helps that you don’t have any discernible pictures. X

Hi peachy! Sorry I took them off due to me being a little paranoid due to the line of work I do

Couldn’t you at least have some good torso and dressed ones without showing your face? At least it’d give people a vague idea of what they might be getting?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Awwwwww this is cute

Haha we are messaging!

So cute

let us know what happens… I hate cliff hangers !

And if it doesn’t work out , message me

Haha I’ll keep you updated

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

"Yes, it isnt a dating site, just sex. Its why I normally delete white guys as they almost always want to date either before I have met and almost always after they have. P"

Perhaps it’s just a sex site for you because you already have your ‘mr right’ so are literally just looking for no frills nsa sex without socialising?

However - many singles are understandably open to more friendships etc on here and some are looking for a sexually adventurous life partner.

I think it’s become apparent in recent years that the site has evolved and branched off considerably - and it’s no longer just a site where couples come to get their kicks and singles gratefully accommodate them - though I’m sure many are more than happy with what you offer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes, it isnt a dating site, just sex. Its why I normally delete white guys as they almost always want to date either before I have met and almost always after they have. P

Perhaps it’s just a sex site for you because you already have your ‘mr right’ so are literally just looking for no frills nsa sex without socialising?

However - many singles are understandably open to more friendships etc on here and some are looking for a sexually adventurous life partner.

Said it better than I could! Finding a partner that you’ll swing with seems like exactly what a swinging site can be used for.

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

"Yes, it isnt a dating site, just sex. Its why I normally delete white guys as they almost always want to date either before I have met and almost always after they have. P

Perhaps it’s just a sex site for you because you already have your ‘mr right’ so are literally just looking for no frills nsa sex without socialising?

However - many singles are understandably open to more friendships etc on here and some are looking for a sexually adventurous life partner.

Said it better than I could! Finding a partner that you’ll swing with seems like exactly what a swinging site can be used for. "

Precisely - and best of luck in your endeavours my lovely.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Awwwwww this is cute

Haha we are messaging!

Quite excited to see if fab makes another couple here! X"

Hahaha it’s going well!!

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By *renzMan
over a year ago

Between Chichester and Havant

Personally I'm here for nsa. But that's not to say I haven't felt close to people over the years. With a couple it's easy, the boundaries are there, with a single female, feelings can develop if you have nsa regularly enough. I'm a great believer in, if things happen, they happen, but I don't use fab as a dating site. I use it for the reasons it was primarily set up for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm looking to date but it's pretty much impossible on here. But dating apps ain't that much better

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm looking to date but it's pretty much impossible on here. But dating apps ain't that much better

xxx"

Agree!!

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By *luttyLaylaWoman
over a year ago

North West

"I’m actually looking to date someone but who’s got the same sexual interest as me? Am I on the wrong site? Opinions?

I’ve met and ended up dating off here, twice. And I don’t do socials at all so it’s just 2 men I met at a mutual friends party.

It can happen, but I don’t think you’ll have many people on this site particularly looking for it.

If your only explicitly looking to date then yeah, I think wrong site x

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By *oldyoudown41Man
over a year ago

caledonian

I’ve experienced both and although nothing long term came of them I do like to have dates , the social side , meeting in a cafe / bar some drinks and flirting before anything else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would like a guy to treat Miss B with respect and treat her well so somewhere in between dating and just sex would be good, if he fancied chatting and enjoying a social as well.

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By *luttyLaylaWoman
over a year ago

North West

Just a heads up.... Check reverse image search before messaging

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By *ack n FoxyCouple
over a year ago

Notts/Derby border

Just sex for us. We have enough friends and a busy social life. Don’t want dates or socials although happy to mingle and chat socially at clubs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just a heads up.... Check reverse image search before messaging

So glad you sent this! I used tineye

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just a heads up.... Check reverse image search before messaging

So glad you sent this! I used tineye"

Not heard of it…sounds like I should heed the advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just a heads up.... Check reverse image search before messaging

So glad you sent this! I used tineye

Not heard of it…sounds like I should heed the advice

It’s great for sussing out those who use someone else’s pics!

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By *renzMan
over a year ago

Between Chichester and Havant

"Just a heads up.... Check reverse image search before messaging

So glad you sent this! I used tineye

Not heard of it…sounds like I should heed the advice

It’s great for sussing out those who use someone else’s pics!"

There are plenty on here that do.

A few that disappear too!

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