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"Totally agree which is why I’m interested in peoples thoughts " Fair enough | |||
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"I thiy it very much depends on individuals. There's no one size fits all and some people might enjoy being given orders " So for a start it’s not mindful but sometimes physical can set the mind.. I see your a very stylish submissive which is sexy | |||
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"I thiy it very much depends on individuals. There's no one size fits all and some people might enjoy being given orders So for a start it’s not mindful but sometimes physical can set the mind.. I see your a very stylish submissive which is sexy " Thanks. We don't have a sub/dom relationship outside of the bedroom and not always within it. My definition of a dom will be quite different to many I think but I agree the physical can set the cerebral. | |||
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"What makes you dominant and what makes a person sexually enjoyably dominant ? Lots of people say they are dominant but after 10 mins of chatting they don’t seem Very dominant more just like to give orders !" I agree completely for some being dominant is like being a caracture of a sergeant major barking orders and demanding photos. Similarly, many believe being submissive involves just relentlessly asking what you want to do with them and call you sir/ master/ mistress etc. | |||
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"What makes you dominant and what makes a person sexually enjoyably dominant ? Lots of people say they are dominant but after 10 mins of chatting they don’t seem Very dominant more just like to give orders ! I agree completely for some being dominant is like being a caracture of a sergeant major barking orders and demanding photos. Similarly, many believe being submissive involves just relentlessly asking what you want to do with them and call you sir/ master/ mistress etc." If that's what they enjoy | |||
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"What makes you dominant and what makes a person sexually enjoyably dominant ? Lots of people say they are dominant but after 10 mins of chatting they don’t seem Very dominant more just like to give orders !" This is such a wide question - where to even start? Two things I can point out from my own understanding and experience: 1. There is no Van Twue Vey (common caricature expression of One True Way). If anyone tells you that there is, RUN. 2. It is easier to describe what dominance IS NOT. So pretty much everything described in Fifty Shades of Lies and Abuse such as domestic violence, coercion, manipulation, abuse, isolating from community, transaction of BDSM in exchange to a romantic relationship, imposing a dynamic on someone who has not agreed to it, preying on someone much less experienced etc. So unless it is based on fully informed (or as fully as humanly possible) enthusiastic consent with a decent risk evaluation, it is not dominance. | |||
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"Ok then something from me.. is it possible to want to dress up and enjoy it and yet be humiliated by it as well?" If that's your experience then yes, it's possible | |||
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