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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Morning all you lovely lot.

I hear so often about vanilla play and it left me thinking. (Nosey) what do people consider vanilla and what do people consider other?

Maybe tell us an example of each?

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By *umbriaman1962Man
over a year ago

outside of penrith

No straight answer i had ex that thought oral was too kinky. I had ex that thought anal spanking was vanilla .

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

Vanilla to us is sex with each other or a night out in a pub or restaurant. Maybe it means different to others?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No straight answer i had ex that thought oral was too kinky. I had ex that thought anal spanking was vanilla ."

I like the sound of the second 1 ha

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Vanilla to us is sex with each other or a night out in a pub or restaurant. Maybe it means different to others?"

And your kink….

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Morning all you lovely lot.

I hear so often about vanilla play and it left me thinking. (Nosey) what do people consider vanilla and what do people consider other?

Maybe tell us an example of each?

"

Have you got your examples?

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By *inkycreamCouple
over a year ago

manchester

Ones ice cream, the other gets your rocks off

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By *igwilly2kMan
over a year ago

The Land of Kink!


"Ones ice cream, the other gets your rocks off "
Boom!

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By *igwilly2kMan
over a year ago

The Land of Kink!

Vanilla to me is anything you would do with your non kinky mates and put on your facebook,kink is mostly what I do hahaha! One of which being switch, striped naked, cuffed, on my knees and being used and humiliated for someone elses pleasure!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Vanilla to me is anything you would do with your non kinky mates and put on your facebook,kink is mostly what I do hahaha! One of which being switch, striped naked, cuffed, on my knees and being used and humiliated for someone elses pleasure! "

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By *landfordfabbersCouple
over a year ago

Blandford ish

Issue is ( myself included) many pretty vanilla people consider themselves kinky/ dirty what ever but then someone like mark comes along blindsides you and you realise how vanilla you are. I also think it’s almost derogatory to call someone vanilla like they are boring! It’s a very tricky subject! Kinks come in all shapes and sizes which means one persons kink is another’s vanilla and vice versa

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands


"Vanilla to us is sex with each other or a night out in a pub or restaurant. Maybe it means different to others?

And your kink…."

Our kink is swinging, playing with others. Non swingers would think that's kinky.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Issue is ( myself included) many pretty vanilla people consider themselves kinky/ dirty what ever but then someone like mark comes along blindsides you and you realise how vanilla you are. I also think it’s almost derogatory to call someone vanilla like they are boring! It’s a very tricky subject! Kinks come in all shapes and sizes which means one persons kink is another’s vanilla and vice versa "

Totally agree with this

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Morning all you lovely lot.

I hear so often about vanilla play and it left me thinking. (Nosey) what do people consider vanilla and what do people consider other?

Maybe tell us an example of each?

Have you got your examples?"

Well of course….

Vanilla to me is just sex, varying positions but at the end of the day just sex. No spice same stuff.

Kink… well that is where other things come in to it, toys, dress up, scenarios…

Then there’s levels of kink

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ones ice cream, the other gets your rocks off "

Smarty pants

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Issue is ( myself included) many pretty vanilla people consider themselves kinky/ dirty what ever but then someone like mark comes along blindsides you and you realise how vanilla you are. I also think it’s almost derogatory to call someone vanilla like they are boring! It’s a very tricky subject! Kinks come in all shapes and sizes which means one persons kink is another’s vanilla and vice versa "

That’s what I meant… 1 persons kink is another’s vanilla

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Totally vanilla.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Totally vanilla."

What is?

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills


"Totally vanilla.

What is?"

Sex.

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