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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Can someone help me with this, ive messaged women and have been really nice and polite, if I wasnt in there age range I didnt message them, but no matter what I do hardly any of them reply, I feel like im the problem or im just not attractive, any thoughts???????

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By *xodussxMan
over a year ago

sheffield

It is thursday.

Since monday your status is as this : ... "there are alot of female time wasters on here, message me if your genuine and want some fun xx"...

I dont think any lady who respect herself will ever reply you no matter how hot sexy clever or call it as you want, you are.

At the same time you are sending messages, there are also at least 1000 single guys sending the same messages to the same ladies

If you want to increase your chance of getting a reply and meeting, start by doing an auto reallity check

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By *he Original TTMan
over a year ago

Brackley, Northants


"Can someone help me with this, ive messaged women and have been really nice and polite, if I wasnt in there age range I didnt message them, but no matter what I do hardly any of them reply, I feel like im the problem or im just not attractive, any thoughts???????"

It may be your whole approach to them.

Lose the status as exodus said, and try a total re-write of your profile. Be accurate, tell them about you and what you do and don't like, what they will get out of it (don't brag or boast!) and maybe a little witty. Tell them WHY you can't accommodate...

I'm no oil painting (more oil slick!) and averagely endowed - I do ok on here (3 meets this week..)

You need to make yourself stand out from the crowd. There are a LOT of me you are competing with.

Good luck!

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By *xodussxMan
over a year ago

sheffield


"Can someone help me with this, ive messaged women and have been really nice and polite, if I wasnt in there age range I didnt message them, but no matter what I do hardly any of them reply, I feel like im the problem or im just not attractive, any thoughts???????

It may be your whole approach to them.

Lose the status as exodus said, and try a total re-write of your profile. Be accurate, tell them about you and what you do and don't like, what they will get out of it (don't brag or boast!) and maybe a little witty. Tell them WHY you can't accommodate...

I'm no oil painting (more oil slick!) and averagely endowed - I do ok on here (3 meets this week..)

You need to make yourself stand out from the crowd. There are a LOT of me you are competing with.

Good luck! "

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