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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Would most people/couples only really chat/meet with people who have verifications?

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

That's the case with us yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only talk to people with verifications as there are plenty of fakes on here, many guys acting as couples or a women

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

As a single women, yes I would

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you all. I totally understand that, too many fakes everywhere unfortunately!!

It's frustrating being genuine and getting nowhere, i Don't feel as bad now lol x

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up


"Would most people/couples only really chat/meet with people who have verifications?

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I've met and chatted with plenty of people with no verifications.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"As a single women, yes I would "

So you should for your own safety.

I would love to meet some people just to say I'm real

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By *ofdiamondsMan
over a year ago

Coningsby

Think it's a general rule of thumb as in theory confirms the person is real.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"As a single women, yes I would

So you should for your own safety.

I would love to meet some people just to say I'm real "

Best way is to attend socials x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Would most people/couples only really chat/meet with people who have verifications?

I've met and chatted with plenty of people with no verifications. "
Cool, nice to hear from people who do. I would but it might be different for a man.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"As a single women, yes I would

So you should for your own safety.

I would love to meet some people just to say I'm real

Best way is to attend socials x"
Thank you, i will look out for some or if anyone knows any around Bicester area x

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By *edantic SheilaWoman
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

I don't mind talking/ meeting to people without verifications....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Even i do bud...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't mind talking/ meeting to people without verifications...."
That's good to know thank you, I'm free if you fancy a chat?

Trying my luck

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

That's one of the reasons that we find the clubs better.

You can see and speak to the people in front of you and then verify each other should you wish too.

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By *oobyHotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Thurrock


"As a single women, yes I would

So you should for your own safety.

I would love to meet some people just to say I'm real "

Try and go to a club or a social event, I'm sure someone will verify you the following day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone needs to start somewhere so depending on the person or persons we'd give them a chance , that said most are pic collectors or dreamers ,but if you came across as geniune and chatting with you wasnt like getting blood out of a stone ,then yes we'd give someone a chance

Just dont make people ask for pics ...lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone starts somewhere

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Too many veris, or very explicit ones, turn me off people.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Too many veris, or very explicit ones, turn me off people."
I didn't expect that but your right in a way too many varys doesn't appeal..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Everyone needs to start somewhere so depending on the person or persons we'd give them a chance , that said most are pic collectors or dreamers ,but if you came across as geniune and chatting with you wasnt like getting blood out of a stone ,then yes we'd give someone a chance

Just dont make people ask for pics ...lol "
You both sound lovely, i don't want pics i would like to chat, meet for drinks anything else is a bonus. Nice to make friends x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"As a single women, yes I would

So you should for your own safety.

I would love to meet some people just to say I'm real

Try and go to a club or a social event, I'm sure someone will verify you the following day "
I will have to tey and find one near me, thank you x

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By *jorkishMan
over a year ago

Seaforth

Verifications mean nothing in a lot of cases. They do not mean they will actually meet you even if they say they will. Had time wasters with lots of verifications, sent to wrong addresses or not answering when your in the street etc. On the other hand I've had great meets with some who have had no verifications at all, plus not everyone wants a verification

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Verifications mean nothing in a lot of cases. They do not mean they will actually meet you even if they say they will. Had time wasters with lots of verifications, sent to wrong addresses or not answering when your in the street etc. On the other hand I've had great meets with some who have had no verifications at all, plus not everyone wants a verification"
basically verifications or not people will still mess you about? Most seem nice on here and know each other.

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

I'll chat with anyone fun to chat to. If we get on well and the conversation flows then I'd meet for a social with no concern about verifications.

Most newer profiles aren't up for much conversation, so we never get as far as a social anyway.

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By *ffshoreguy4funMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

It's extremely hard for single guys to get chatting or anywhere I find personally if no verifications but obviously need to chat etc to get verified so it seems like a lose lose at times that's why I end up going off again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had people mail me saying they were shocked I'd met a certain person they clearly had a problem with.

I wouldn't go to much on a verification. It's how you are with me that I'm interested in. Not an opinion from someone I've no interest in.

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By *AYENCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

We don't mind the unverified, everyone has to start somewhere.

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By *helroyCouple
over a year ago

Skegness

same with us we all started with non

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'll chat with anyone fun to chat to. If we get on well and the conversation flows then I'd meet for a social with no concern about verifications.

Most newer profiles aren't up for much conversation, so we never get as far as a social anyway."
Nice way of looking at it, soo true you get on with someone vary or not just a personal choice. Thank you x

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By *oldyoudown41Man
over a year ago

caledonian

Yes of course , no harm in finding out

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've had people mail me saying they were shocked I'd met a certain person they clearly had a problem with.

I wouldn't go to much on a verification. It's how you are with me that I'm interested in. Not an opinion from someone I've no interest in."
Each to their own then basically, a good mix of answers. If it works it works..

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By *rad670Man
over a year ago

South Lakes

I've had more people chat with me and potentially could turn into meets since getting verifications for a social and two meets so I would say it helps a great deal to know you are for real and what kind of person you are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i dont have any and im 100% real although i wish i was not when i have to pay the bills lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well said people seem for forget when they started and how hard it was to chat with people without any veri even hard as a single guy with out any wish me luck hehe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A verification to me just tells me that you’re probably not an axe murderer. That’s all I look at them for

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By *inkycreamCouple
over a year ago

manchester

Much easier with verifications, to many fakes decent verifications generally cross reference people you know.

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

I prefer men with decent verifications as they know how to play well on fab

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By *eventysixCouple
over a year ago

glossop

We would and do

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By *aywalton1Man
over a year ago

Walton on the Hill

I tend to look if they have been photo verified rather than meet verified. The latter doesn't bother me.

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By *oudLoutishLoverWoman
over a year ago

Colchester

More than three meet verifications and they’re not for me. Just my preference.

I’m not attracted to swingers. I like to catch someone early on in their corruption!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

^ Just the 3.....

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By *arte_Blanche_NECouple
over a year ago

Northern


"Would most people/couples only really chat/meet with people who have verifications?

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Pretty much

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you all taking the time, it's bit of a mixed bag but that definitely helps.

Maybe just being in here chatting will make a difference, like anything you need to get to know people first

I would meet for a social in a safe place like most sensible people would. Any offers gladly excepted

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By *rivervaderMan
over a year ago

bolton


"We don't mind the unverified, everyone has to start somewhere."

But some find it hard to send face pick with there first message with the fear of rejection without getting to know them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I give people without verifications a chance, have met some quality people. As long as they prove they are real directly to me on web camera. I do see the merit of verifications though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"^ Just the 3....."

You are a swinger with your tally at 4

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. Verifications show people are genuine. Photo verification is a bare minimum. It's free private and says you are who you claim. That's not to say someone with no verification is fake, but everytime we've been messed about, it's by someone that wasn't even photo verified

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"^ Just the 3.....

You are a swinger with your tally at 4 "

You missed it... brilliant...

Didn't take you for the judgemental type impressive!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"^ Just the 3.....

You are a swinger with your tally at 4

You missed it... brilliant...

Didn't take you for the judgemental type impressive!"

I am not judging, I am looking in awe at your magnificence

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm more keen to meet someone with verifications as opposed to not

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