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What turns you on the most in someone of the opposit/same sex?

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By *eparrain1 OP   Man
over a year ago

Stone

We are turned on by the opposite/same sex for different reasons.

In my case there is not one thing.

It could be the personality, the instant chemistry, the smile, the face, the voice, the body shape, the way we connect etc...

What say you?

Keep it clean and legal please!

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

Face

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely personality, also how they dress, smell and carry themselves as a person.

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By *eparrain1 OP   Man
over a year ago

Stone


"Definitely personality, also how they dress, smell and carry themselves as a person. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personality is the key to the door of all other areas of attraction.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personality and humour

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personality, intelligence, and humour above all

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By *eparrain1 OP   Man
over a year ago

Stone


"Personality, intelligence, and humour above all"

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By *onnyABCMan
over a year ago

tain

I like long nails, high heels and short skirts

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By *BWBI2019Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Alternative appearance and style is an immediate eye catcher for me.

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By *acktar74Man
over a year ago

leeds

Dread locks dark lipstick

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By *witchblade RomanceWoman
over a year ago

Country Bumpkin...


"Alternative appearance and style is an immediate eye catcher for me."

This for me too

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By *u41Man
over a year ago

bristol

Personality, eyes and smiles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just something about that person has to draw me in. I like a man with a quiet confidence and a little naughtiness about them.

Face is very important

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personality and clean looking x

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By *eddy004Man
over a year ago

Toy Town

Initially a smile and captivating eyes followed by a great pair of boobs then the icing on the cake as I get to speak to them is good conversation and self belief xx

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By *eparrain1 OP   Man
over a year ago

Stone


"Initially a smile and captivating eyes followed by a great pair of boobs then the icing on the cake as I get to speak to them is good conversation and self belief xx"

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By *aria_dreamgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

stockport

Honesty and integrity. Knowing that someone will not let you down and if they can't meet you then they will always give you prior notice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would say personality, good conversation, intelligence. It doesn’t matter whether they are fat or thin, it’s about how they are with you

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By *88rpbMan
over a year ago

kidderminster

Hairy pussy every time

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By *witchblade RomanceWoman
over a year ago

Country Bumpkin...

Charismatic & a magnetic personality. One who stands out from the normal kinda guy.

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By *eparrain1 OP   Man
over a year ago

Stone


"Charismatic & a magnetic personality. One who stands out from the normal kinda guy. "

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By *unny!Woman
over a year ago

Eyes and smile always wins for me.

Ohh and sexy big arms on a man

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

intelligence and kind heart

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By *oudLoutishLoverWoman
over a year ago

Colchester

Intelligence, all the way.

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

I met a lady recently. She just had THAT twinkle in her eye. That just did it for me.

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By *asha86Couple
over a year ago

walsall

Banter, personality, eyes and smell. Have to be able to have a laugh and feel at ease with them and vice versa xT

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Big arms and broad shoulders.

Oh; tall too.

And feeling his cock grow in my mouth.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Her bum. Love the look and feel of a nice bum. Even better in a thong. Lol

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By *reampie Cleaner 69Man
over a year ago

Barnsley

Legs & tights for me x

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By *assy LassieWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

Shoulders do it for me. Also that certain look in the eyes when you just know you won't be able to resist temptation

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By *eparrain1 OP   Man
over a year ago

Stone


"Intelligence, all the way."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm surprised nobody's said voice yet, but top of my list is confidence, and eyes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hygiene is a must for me,

And cock growing in my mouth x

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By *eparrain1 OP   Man
over a year ago

Stone


"I'm surprised nobody's said voice yet, but top of my list is confidence, and eyes"

I did

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

atitude

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By *eparrain1 OP   Man
over a year ago

Stone


"atitude"

What do you mean?

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By *r easy1981Man
over a year ago

leeds

Got to be able to laugh together

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Intelligence, charm and personality

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By *eparrain1 OP   Man
over a year ago

Stone


"Intelligence, charm and personality "

Nice one!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"atitude

What do you mean?"

not bad atitude if thats what you mean, other than that its fairly obviouse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"altitude

What do you mean?"

The thinner air give you a euphoric feeling. It’s quite arousing.

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By *luvpussy40Man
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

Personality, how they carry themselves, and a nice peachy bum

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By *eparrain1 OP   Man
over a year ago

Stone


"altitude

What do you mean?

The thinner air give you a euphoric feeling. It’s quite arousing. "

I understand now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"altitude

What do you mean?

The thinner air give you a euphoric feeling. It’s quite arousing.

I understand now"

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By *eparrain1 OP   Man
over a year ago

Stone


"altitude

What do you mean?

The thinner air give you a euphoric feeling. It’s quite arousing.

I understand now

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By *lice MaliceWoman
over a year ago

The Facility

Confidence and cheekiness. Someone with the glint of mischief making in their eye.

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By *igtatsMan
over a year ago

gravesend

Pretty eyes and a cheeky smile everytime

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A really posh accent with a nice figure and classy look really gets me going OP

#poshtotty!

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By *iman2100Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

Tits and breathing ... well maybe the breathing ain't so important.

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By *ominant 71Man
over a year ago

Dalton le Dale

What a load of bollocks! Most saying, personality, smile, smell lol

Rubbish... 99.9% on here goes on looks only, they say "send a face pic with your first message or you'll delete etc" most ask for face pics and don't have any themselves. Everyone goes by looks alone... Me on the other hand I actually state looks not important and I will meet without a photo because I never judge anyone by looks or size! So come on... You know I'm right! Stop talking bullshit and be honest!

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By *eparrain1 OP   Man
over a year ago

Stone


"What a load of bollocks! Most saying, personality, smile, smell lol

Rubbish... 99.9% on here goes on looks only, they say "send a face pic with your first message or you'll delete etc" most ask for face pics and don't have any themselves. Everyone goes by looks alone... Me on the other hand I actually state looks not important and I will meet without a photo because I never judge anyone by looks or size! So come on... You know I'm right! Stop talking bullshit and be honest! "

I get your point. It happened to me regarding the pic but most people are genuine in their way of thinking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Self assurance is the biggest turn on

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By *imon_hydeMan
over a year ago

Butlins, Bognor Regis

Intelligence is a big turn on. As is geekiness.

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By *vmarisaTV/TS
over a year ago

Motherwell

In my younger days I was very shallow, females had to have big boobs, males well hung.Now I still like large equipment in a man, but I have been with guys because of their passionate personality too and found them just as satisfying. Mx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Brains and a big . . . heart.

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By *eparrain1 OP   Man
over a year ago

Stone


"Brains and a big . . . heart."

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

Humour and kissing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A man's tight buns, brown eyes has me everytime, strong hands.. Hmm I am having fantasies

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By *eparrain1 OP   Man
over a year ago

Stone


"Humour and kissing"

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By *eparrain1 OP   Man
over a year ago

Stone


"Self assurance is the biggest turn on "

I agree

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By *aria_dreamgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

stockport

A good sense of humour

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Getting them undressed.

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

When it comes to women I have an absolute type. I go for zaftig women. I like someone very competent, very straightforward and a bit outspoken, no nonsense and taking no shit. Mary Portas with that sharp ginger bob, Viv Deering from No Offence (not Joanna Scanlon the actress, it's the character I fantasize about), Jay Hunt the TV presenter, Anna Richardson in 2008/9 when she was a bit more curvaceous. Theres something so attractive about that earthy sexuality.

Men I don't have a physical type, but I like them sharp. I like a witty conversation, and I like someone who can keep me on my toes. I like a guy who has passions, who can get geeky about something, anything.

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