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"It’s a neutral for me I.e. your sexuality wouldn’t factor into whether I found you hot or not but it certainly wouldn’t put me off either. I know people say it’s just a personal preference but I don’t get the negative response some guys get here for being true to themselves, such a shame that so many are reluctant to be honest about their bi sides to avoid missing out on meets Let that rainbow shine guys " Very well said Mr Hayes | |||
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"First of all. Yes I know I'm not female. But I'm pansexual (had to tik bisexual as pansexual wasn't a option). For me it's not what gender you are. It's if I'm attracted to you or not. " They should have a pansexual option because that's me too. | |||
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"Off for me and hate when ppl lie about it when they message me then change their preferences on their profile I have gay/lesbian friends etc doesn’t bother me I just don’t want to sleep with a guy that’s fucked a guy in any way shape or form my preference x" That is why some lie | |||
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"Off for me and hate when ppl lie about it when they message me then change their preferences on their profile I have gay/lesbian friends etc doesn’t bother me I just don’t want to sleep with a guy that’s fucked a guy in any way shape or form my preference x That is why some lie" Because they're dishonest | |||
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"Definitely a turn on for us " Your profile is definitely a turn on If you're ever looking for a kink passive bi guy, look me up! | |||
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"Actively a preference for me" | |||
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"Just wondering if you women find us bisexual guys a turn on or a turn off? " As long as they respect my boundaries I say live and let live and love All God's children | |||
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"Just wondering if you women find us bisexual guys a turn on or a turn off? " Turn on. | |||
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"Just wondering if you women find us bisexual guys a turn on or a turn off? Turn on. " Cheers | |||
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"Don’t do it for us, especially the bisexual female." Each to their own | |||
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"Don’t do it for us, especially the bisexual female. Each to their own " Are we being castigated from the community? | |||
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"Off for me and hate when ppl lie about it when they message me then change their preferences on their profile I have gay/lesbian friends etc doesn’t bother me I just don’t want to sleep with a guy that’s fucked a guy in any way shape or form my preference x" of course bi men are going to keep their sexual past a secret sometimes when people carry these silly biphobic attitudes from the past to this day my past sexual partners are none of anyone elses business, and the same applies to everyone else on here. if someone carries some bigoted attitude that a man has HIV/is less of a man/is automatically going to ignore boundaries because they're not straight that's their problem, not anyone elses. | |||
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"Off for me and hate when ppl lie about it when they message me then change their preferences on their profile I have gay/lesbian friends etc doesn’t bother me I just don’t want to sleep with a guy that’s fucked a guy in any way shape or form my preference x of course bi men are going to keep their sexual past a secret sometimes when people carry these silly biphobic attitudes from the past to this day my past sexual partners are none of anyone elses business, and the same applies to everyone else on here. if someone carries some bigoted attitude that a man has HIV/is less of a man/is automatically going to ignore boundaries because they're not straight that's their problem, not anyone elses. " Well said | |||
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"Off for me and hate when ppl lie about it when they message me then change their preferences on their profile I have gay/lesbian friends etc doesn’t bother me I just don’t want to sleep with a guy that’s fucked a guy in any way shape or form my preference x of course bi men are going to keep their sexual past a secret sometimes when people carry these silly biphobic attitudes from the past to this day my past sexual partners are none of anyone elses business, and the same applies to everyone else on here. if someone carries some bigoted attitude that a man has HIV/is less of a man/is automatically going to ignore boundaries because they're not straight that's their problem, not anyone elses. " I agree, although I question why bi men would lie to get biphobic people in bed in the first place. Why on earth would you want to sleep with people who would be turned off by you otherwise? I would hate to sleep with people in that context. Get some self worth and only sleep with people who accept you for you, genuine sex then. It is also respectful to the other side | |||
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"Off for me and hate when ppl lie about it when they message me then change their preferences on their profile I have gay/lesbian friends etc doesn’t bother me I just don’t want to sleep with a guy that’s fucked a guy in any way shape or form my preference x of course bi men are going to keep their sexual past a secret sometimes when people carry these silly biphobic attitudes from the past to this day my past sexual partners are none of anyone elses business, and the same applies to everyone else on here. if someone carries some bigoted attitude that a man has HIV/is less of a man/is automatically going to ignore boundaries because they're not straight that's their problem, not anyone elses. " Agree all round. | |||
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"Don’t do it for us, especially the bisexual female. Each to their own Are we being castigated from the community?" Hopefully not lol | |||
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"Having a guys wife watching us guys enjoying some bi fun is so Hot!" | |||
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"Off for me and hate when ppl lie about it when they message me then change their preferences on their profile I have gay/lesbian friends etc doesn’t bother me I just don’t want to sleep with a guy that’s fucked a guy in any way shape or form my preference x" What is it that bothers you though? | |||
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"On for us. We have found that lot of “straight” guys are bi however state straight so that single guys don’t come on to them - we state our preference in our profile" That’s why I use the messsge filter and block single guys. I can then have bi in my profile and not get pestered. | |||
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"Off for me and hate when ppl lie about it when they message me then change their preferences on their profile I have gay/lesbian friends etc doesn’t bother me I just don’t want to sleep with a guy that’s fucked a guy in any way shape or form my preference x" So help me understand what about that makes it a preference as opposed to a prejudice. A man having had sex with another man (unknown to you), at some point in their history, has no bearing on your interaction, his attractiveness to you or your attraction to him. What about finding that out makes him unattractive? And don't go with the 'oh it's like only being attracted to brunettes...' You found a drop dead gorgeous brunette but found it was out of a bottle would you actually suddenly find them unattractive? | |||
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"ok i like bi guys as long as theres an sexual attraction but i dont see why we have to knock those that dont ? if its not for them then its not for them no matter what they think ?? " Agree but would prefer not being approached by straight guys all the time as nobodys been honest which is bad in my humble opinion | |||
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"Since I added bi to our profile the number of people contacting us has plummeted. Don't understand why people seem to think bi guys are such a threat. Do they think we are just going to pounce on them or something? Wish people just understood that it doesn't make us greedy or predatory people. We just like to have fun same as everyone else but if there is mutual attraction and discussion before hand then we are happy to play with everyone. There isn't the same stigma around bi ladies. Why is that?" There's a lot of homophobia around, especially among the "wife swapping" community. Couples of a certain demographic that think anything other than missionary position with someone else's wife is a "bit weird". | |||
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"A turn on for us. We enjoy bi fun and Claire actively seeks bi guys for us - a lot of our encounters have been with “straight” guys on here who are bisexual - not just orally bi. " These guys should just be honest about it as it’s a bloody pain for us genuinely straight guys who have the message filters off as we occasionally play games in the forums. Even with the text I have at the bottom of my profile, I still get messages. It’s always the line, “I get a lot of straight guys wanting to meet”. Or “I only meet straight guys”. Any man meeting a man for anything remotely sexual isn’t straight. Please just be bloody honest | |||
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"Hell yes! Love it " | |||
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"I Don't see what's wrong with people putting that they won't meet bi men personally. I have nothing against bi or gay men but everyone has the choice of who they want to meet, doesn't mean they are homophobic they just don't want to meet them in a sexual way as that's not there preference. Some people don't want to meet BBWs and that's fine with us we just don't message those people. " Just makes no sense. Not being attracted to BBW makes sense, that's a taste in body shape thing. However a bi guy could just say straight, and has had sex with loads of men, and you wouldn't know, what's the difference? That's what I don't get. | |||
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"My kind of thread! Doesn’t seem to be that many in the South West though " Might be because you've blocked them? | |||
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"Just wondering if you women find us bisexual guys a turn on or a turn off? " Surely that will depend on many different factors. Both in terms of your appearance, behaviour, charm and whether the woman enjoys bi men? | |||
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"Off for me and hate when ppl lie about it when they message me then change their preferences on their profile I have gay/lesbian friends etc doesn’t bother me I just don’t want to sleep with a guy that’s fucked a guy in any way shape or form my preference x of course bi men are going to keep their sexual past a secret sometimes when people carry these silly biphobic attitudes from the past to this day my past sexual partners are none of anyone elses business, and the same applies to everyone else on here. if someone carries some bigoted attitude that a man has HIV/is less of a man/is automatically going to ignore boundaries because they're not straight that's their problem, not anyone elses. " Can't convey how much I appreciate women like yourself speaking out. Thank you | |||
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"Love sucking a cock with another guy " That’s a damn good reply lol | |||
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"Some great comments Being bi is way more acceptable today than 30 years ago... I’m orally bi and love it x" Same here, orally bi, love bi mmf's | |||
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"Bi guys are a total turn ON so hot " Yes it seems more acceptable now a days. A lot of women like bi guys. It’s all about personal taste and what turns you on. | |||
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"On for us. We have found that lot of “straight” guys are bi however state straight so that single guys don’t come on to them - we state our preference in our profile" And "straight" guys having "not looking for single guys" in their profile, message and meet gay guys every week. I think I've met an equal amount of "straight" as I have big guys | |||
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"On for us. We have found that lot of “straight” guys are bi however state straight so that single guys don’t come on to them - we state our preference in our profile And "straight" guys having "not looking for single guys" in their profile, message and meet gay guys every week. I think I've met an equal amount of "straight" as I have bi guys" | |||
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"Off for me and hate when ppl lie about it when they message me then change their preferences on their profile I have gay/lesbian friends etc doesn’t bother me I just don’t want to sleep with a guy that’s fucked a guy in any way shape or form my preference x So help me understand what about that makes it a preference as opposed to a prejudice. A man having had sex with another man (unknown to you), at some point in their history, has no bearing on your interaction, his attractiveness to you or your attraction to him. What about finding that out makes him unattractive? And don't go with the 'oh it's like only being attracted to brunettes...' You found a drop dead gorgeous brunette but found it was out of a bottle would you actually suddenly find them unattractive? " Good work | |||
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"Nope" The question is asked of women ? | |||
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"we are both bi but you cant say bi guys turn on or off ?? the simple answer would be if we fancy what we see the yes but thats a no to the other 95% its not rocket science to understand we/i wont meet anyone we/i dont at the very least fancy. see it so often on here guy think they are in because they like something the same as us but always forget the ''we must at least sexually fancy tou'' bit ....the oh i tick all your boxes yep bar the most important one....." It is sadly true! Im kinky and any guy who is thinks I must go for him. | |||
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"Just wondering if you women find us bisexual guys a turn on or a turn off? " My Mistress wants to see me with a guy and I'm interested to find out if I like it. It will definitely work for her, and if it works for me too it will open a whole new world for us, especially as we're exploring BDSM too | |||
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"Just wondering if you women find us bisexual guys a turn on or a turn off? " Hopefully a decent number find it a turn on | |||
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"On for us. We have found that lot of “straight” guys are bi however state straight so that single guys don’t come on to them - we state our preference in our profile" Yes that is the same for me, I would say bi-curious as have no real experience. | |||
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"It's a huge turn on for me, there's something so sexy about the combination of 2 guys and a woman playing together all touching, licking, kissing each other that is ridiculously hot. " I so agree and enjoy it. | |||
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"I arranged a meet with a girl,who then put,oh see your bi, and blocked me wtf,just no thanks would be nice" You dodged a bullet there | |||
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