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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just wondering if you women find us bisexual guys a turn on or a turn off?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On

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By *aggy dollsCouple
over a year ago

Bradford

On, for both of us

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By *plpxp2Couple
over a year ago

Middlesbrough

Huge turn on for both of us x

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By *exysoul888TV/TS
over a year ago

Newcastle

Turn on for me!!

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By *aimeDWoman
over a year ago

Shaftesbury, Dorset

It’s a neutral for me I.e. your sexuality wouldn’t factor into whether I found you hot or not but it certainly wouldn’t put me off either.

I know people say it’s just a personal preference but I don’t get the negative response some guys get here for being true to themselves, such a shame that so many are reluctant to be honest about their bi sides to avoid missing out on meets

Let that rainbow shine guys

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By *aggy dollsCouple
over a year ago

Bradford


"It’s a neutral for me I.e. your sexuality wouldn’t factor into whether I found you hot or not but it certainly wouldn’t put me off either.

I know people say it’s just a personal preference but I don’t get the negative response some guys get here for being true to themselves, such a shame that so many are reluctant to be honest about their bi sides to avoid missing out on meets

Let that rainbow shine guys "

Very well said

Mr Hayes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I consider myself bi , but not just for the sake of it , I need to see some sexual attraction in a guy , the same way that I do in a woman , twinkle in the eye is a must !

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By *w79Man
over a year ago

Stalbridge

First of all.

Yes I know I'm not female.

But I'm pansexual (had to tik bisexual as pansexual wasn't a option).

For me it's not what gender you are. It's if I'm attracted to you or not.

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By *iffyjeffMan
over a year ago

lancs

Good looking cock

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Not for either of us, just a preference.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"First of all.

Yes I know I'm not female.

But I'm pansexual (had to tik bisexual as pansexual wasn't a option).

For me it's not what gender you are. It's if I'm attracted to you or not. "

They should have a pansexual option because that's me too.

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By *unmatt888Man
over a year ago

Marlborough

My kind of thread! Doesn’t seem to be that many in the South West though

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By *orkshrCplCouple
over a year ago

Ripon

Turn on (Mrs)

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By *razywantingfunWoman
over a year ago

rochdale

Off for me and hate when ppl lie about it when they message me then change their preferences on their profile I have gay/lesbian friends etc doesn’t bother me I just don’t want to sleep with a guy that’s fucked a guy in any way shape or form my preference x

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By *.nottsbloke..Man
over a year ago

1nottsbloke


"Off for me and hate when ppl lie about it when they message me then change their preferences on their profile I have gay/lesbian friends etc doesn’t bother me I just don’t want to sleep with a guy that’s fucked a guy in any way shape or form my preference x"

That is why some lie

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By *lasphemouscoupleCouple
over a year ago

Cambridgeshire

On.. definitely a turn on for us

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By *ylonloverboy69Man
over a year ago

cheltenham

Turn on for me. Best of both worlds

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Off for me and hate when ppl lie about it when they message me then change their preferences on their profile I have gay/lesbian friends etc doesn’t bother me I just don’t want to sleep with a guy that’s fucked a guy in any way shape or form my preference x

That is why some lie"

Because they're dishonest

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By *hezzie BikersCouple
over a year ago

Chesterfield

Turn on for both of us x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

massive turn on for us both

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By *ot4itcplCouple
over a year ago

edinburgh

Turn on for both of us

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By *ickedwillyCouple
over a year ago

Bangor

Same here a big turn on for us

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

Don't have any issues with them but wouldn't want one as a playmate.

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By *ASTER and his WHORECouple
over a year ago

Chester

Definitely a turn on for us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being bisexual is neither turn on nor off for me. It's everything else I'll either be interested in or not.

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By *ikilovesCCouple
over a year ago

village life, closest main town inverness

Inexperienced but yes, it's a turn on for both of us too

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By *E_13Couple
over a year ago

Burton on trent

As others have said, someone's sexual preference doesn't make them any more or less attractive to me. However seeing a man playing with another man (not full sex but using hands/mouth) turns me on hugely! (Mrs)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hell yes! Love it

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By *atureGuy62Man
over a year ago

DE7

Happy to identify as bi and love to crossdress too, I have a Tgurl profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both get a massive kick out off bi guys especially if there what we’re after mmmm ?? would love to find some new guys to play with

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By *ylonloverboy69Man
over a year ago

cheltenham

Love too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bi guys are the best

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By *euve4usCouple
over a year ago

Teddington

On for us. We have found that lot of “straight” guys are bi however state straight so that single guys don’t come on to them - we state our preference in our profile

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

It doesn't bother me either way tbh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There’s hope yet ….

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By *lexMegasMan
over a year ago

WREXHAM


"Definitely a turn on for us "

Your profile is definitely a turn on If you're ever looking for a kink passive bi guy, look me up!

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By *uncpl187Couple
over a year ago

Ramsgate

Turn on for us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Actively a preference for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Actively a preference for me"

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By *he Cram-BetweensCouple
over a year ago

A Club or Your Bedroom!

Huge turn on for the both of us although we dont worry about how people label themselves as much as we used to and focus more on if they genuinly like what we like

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By *inkyJamesMan
over a year ago

80020 Broomfield


"Just wondering if you women find us bisexual guys a turn on or a turn off? "

As long as they respect my boundaries I say live and let live and love All God's children

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By *hort Stop 1969Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere in East Lothian


"Just wondering if you women find us bisexual guys a turn on or a turn off? "

Turn on.

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By *heGigglersCouple
over a year ago

Stourbridge

Definite turn on for both of us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I do love to be with a couple x

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By *oudLoutishLoverWoman
over a year ago

Colchester

Hard no, for me.

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By *arl17Man
over a year ago

Central Portugal


"Just wondering if you women find us bisexual guys a turn on or a turn off?

Turn on. "

Cheers

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Don’t do it for us, especially the bisexual female.

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By *arl17Man
over a year ago

Central Portugal


"Don’t do it for us, especially the bisexual female."

Each to their own

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely a turn on

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills


"Don’t do it for us, especially the bisexual female.

Each to their own "

Are we being castigated from the community?

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By *illyyrosexWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Off for me and hate when ppl lie about it when they message me then change their preferences on their profile I have gay/lesbian friends etc doesn’t bother me I just don’t want to sleep with a guy that’s fucked a guy in any way shape or form my preference x"

of course bi men are going to keep their sexual past a secret sometimes when people carry these silly biphobic attitudes from the past to this day

my past sexual partners are none of anyone elses business, and the same applies to everyone else on here. if someone carries some bigoted attitude that a man has HIV/is less of a man/is automatically going to ignore boundaries because they're not straight that's their problem, not anyone elses.

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By *urnhambiguyMan
over a year ago

Swindon


"Off for me and hate when ppl lie about it when they message me then change their preferences on their profile I have gay/lesbian friends etc doesn’t bother me I just don’t want to sleep with a guy that’s fucked a guy in any way shape or form my preference x

of course bi men are going to keep their sexual past a secret sometimes when people carry these silly biphobic attitudes from the past to this day

my past sexual partners are none of anyone elses business, and the same applies to everyone else on here. if someone carries some bigoted attitude that a man has HIV/is less of a man/is automatically going to ignore boundaries because they're not straight that's their problem, not anyone elses. "

Well said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Off for me and hate when ppl lie about it when they message me then change their preferences on their profile I have gay/lesbian friends etc doesn’t bother me I just don’t want to sleep with a guy that’s fucked a guy in any way shape or form my preference x

of course bi men are going to keep their sexual past a secret sometimes when people carry these silly biphobic attitudes from the past to this day

my past sexual partners are none of anyone elses business, and the same applies to everyone else on here. if someone carries some bigoted attitude that a man has HIV/is less of a man/is automatically going to ignore boundaries because they're not straight that's their problem, not anyone elses. "

I agree, although I question why bi men would lie to get biphobic people in bed in the first place. Why on earth would you want to sleep with people who would be turned off by you otherwise? I would hate to sleep with people in that context. Get some self worth and only sleep with people who accept you for you, genuine sex then. It is also respectful to the other side

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Off for me and hate when ppl lie about it when they message me then change their preferences on their profile I have gay/lesbian friends etc doesn’t bother me I just don’t want to sleep with a guy that’s fucked a guy in any way shape or form my preference x

of course bi men are going to keep their sexual past a secret sometimes when people carry these silly biphobic attitudes from the past to this day

my past sexual partners are none of anyone elses business, and the same applies to everyone else on here. if someone carries some bigoted attitude that a man has HIV/is less of a man/is automatically going to ignore boundaries because they're not straight that's their problem, not anyone elses. "

Agree all round.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dont mind meeting bi men.however. when i have done a threesome with two bi men i dont like then to play with each other.(seen it happen and its not for me).the focus has to be on me or am walking.

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By *urious couple22Couple
over a year ago

Derby

don't mind

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By *picy2Couple
over a year ago

essex

Turn on for us

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By *arl17Man
over a year ago

Central Portugal


"Don’t do it for us, especially the bisexual female.

Each to their own

Are we being castigated from the community?"

Hopefully not lol

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By *inky_CarpenterMan
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Having a guys wife watching us guys enjoying some bi fun is so Hot!

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By *heGigglersCouple
over a year ago

Stourbridge


"Having a guys wife watching us guys enjoying some bi fun is so Hot!"

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By *zlakMan
over a year ago

Norwich

The woman watching me with her man is just as much of a turn on as playing with the guy!

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By *ickedwillyCouple
over a year ago

Bangor

Huge turn on for us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Off for me and hate when ppl lie about it when they message me then change their preferences on their profile I have gay/lesbian friends etc doesn’t bother me I just don’t want to sleep with a guy that’s fucked a guy in any way shape or form my preference x"

What is it that bothers you though?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"On for us. We have found that lot of “straight” guys are bi however state straight so that single guys don’t come on to them - we state our preference in our profile"

That’s why I use the messsge filter and block single guys. I can then have bi in my profile and not get pestered.

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By *thleticgirthMan
over a year ago

wirral

Orally yes.

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By *thleticgirthMan
over a year ago

wirral

In a mfm setting

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By *ooandSteveCouple
over a year ago

Bideford

Massive turn on for us. Both fully bi and yet to find our boundaries.

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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago

Burnleyish (She/They)


"Off for me and hate when ppl lie about it when they message me then change their preferences on their profile I have gay/lesbian friends etc doesn’t bother me I just don’t want to sleep with a guy that’s fucked a guy in any way shape or form my preference x"

So help me understand what about that makes it a preference as opposed to a prejudice.

A man having had sex with another man (unknown to you), at some point in their history, has no bearing on your interaction, his attractiveness to you or your attraction to him.

What about finding that out makes him unattractive?

And don't go with the 'oh it's like only being attracted to brunettes...' You found a drop dead gorgeous brunette but found it was out of a bottle would you actually suddenly find them unattractive?

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By *enatton2Couple
over a year ago

West Midlands

We don’t mind at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ok i like bi guys as long as theres an sexual attraction but i dont see why we have to knock those that dont ? if its not for them then its not for them no matter what they think ??

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By *arl17Man
over a year ago

Central Portugal


"ok i like bi guys as long as theres an sexual attraction but i dont see why we have to knock those that dont ? if its not for them then its not for them no matter what they think ??

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Agree but would prefer not being approached by straight guys all the time as nobodys been honest which is bad in my humble opinion

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By *umblebiMan
over a year ago

ayles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Where are all the Norfolk, Suffolk bi guy lovers?!?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wish a couple would like me lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A definite yes from me, but it does get confusing when someone sends a message and their profile says straight, it makes you wonder if they have actually read your profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do notice though that some bi couples don't have pictures of the chap on their profiles.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Massive turn on. I live watching hubby and another guy together.. Sadly too many equate bisexuality to femininity... Hubby is all man, not feminine at all.. Show me a guy that doesn't enjoy seeing two women together... Surprise... Works the other way too

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By *aradiselost747Couple
over a year ago

dundonald

Love love love it, it my major turn on at the minute, to the point I want to meet a gay man that Gareth can just play with while I watch and amuse myself. So hot watching two dudes x

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By *j321Man
over a year ago

Huddersfield

Don't mind a bi couple at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Will admit I don't understand why its "bisexual guys" rather than than "bisexual acts" that tend tend to be the focus.

I get not everyone gets turned on by seeing it, and that's cool. Plenty of things leave me indifferent or turned off.

But always feels odd that it's something that happened in the past (maybe not even that, it's something they have considered) that turns people off.

Happy to be educated here. The lack of understanding and empathy is likely my own blind spot.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm bi

Doesn't bother me that there are people still out there repulsed by the idea of playing with a bi guy. They can do whatever they want as far as I am concerned.

I do however find it rather funny at the amount of so called straight guys in couples who contact me saying they are straight but wouldn't mind trying bi play. I'm always happy to encourage and oblige such experimentation!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Turn on

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By *istressdandsubtCouple
over a year ago

caterham

It's a definite yes from us bi all the way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi all

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By *thleticgirthMan
over a year ago

wirral

Orally with a couple

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By *aughtybuggersCouple
over a year ago

somewhere

Definitely a turn on for us both

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By *andy2Man
over a year ago

Ealing

Huge turn on for me

I love playing with the husband with his wife watching

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By *KentMan
over a year ago

Canterbury

Following…mainly to see which couples in Kent like this…

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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago

nr Stamford

We'd always pick a bi-guy over a straight one given the choice. Bry only plays with bi-guys and we love to share a cock....

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

Well as the Op is UNLOS he obviously didn’t like the answers

(Not bothered to read the thread )

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By *rcadian110Couple
over a year ago

Barnsley

Since I added bi to our profile the number of people contacting us has plummeted. Don't understand why people seem to think bi guys are such a threat. Do they think we are just going to pounce on them or something? Wish people just understood that it doesn't make us greedy or predatory people. We just like to have fun same as everyone else but if there is mutual attraction and discussion before hand then we are happy to play with everyone. There isn't the same stigma around bi ladies. Why is that?

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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago

nr Stamford


"Since I added bi to our profile the number of people contacting us has plummeted. Don't understand why people seem to think bi guys are such a threat. Do they think we are just going to pounce on them or something? Wish people just understood that it doesn't make us greedy or predatory people. We just like to have fun same as everyone else but if there is mutual attraction and discussion before hand then we are happy to play with everyone. There isn't the same stigma around bi ladies. Why is that?"

There's a lot of homophobia around, especially among the "wife swapping" community. Couples of a certain demographic that think anything other than missionary position with someone else's wife is a "bit weird".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love sucking a cock with another guy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love this thread aha x so many true things being said, a lot of hot ones too!

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By *euve4usCouple
over a year ago

Teddington

A turn on for us. We enjoy bi fun and Claire actively seeks bi guys for us - a lot of our encounters have been with “straight” guys on here who are bisexual - not just orally bi.

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By *an SummersMan
over a year ago

Halifax


"A turn on for us. We enjoy bi fun and Claire actively seeks bi guys for us - a lot of our encounters have been with “straight” guys on here who are bisexual - not just orally bi. "

These guys should just be honest about it as it’s a bloody pain for us genuinely straight guys who have the message filters off as we occasionally play games in the forums.

Even with the text I have at the bottom of my profile, I still get messages. It’s always the line, “I get a lot of straight guys wanting to meet”. Or “I only meet straight guys”. Any man meeting a man for anything remotely sexual isn’t straight. Please just be bloody honest

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By *ecky and justCouple
over a year ago

Godalming

We’re both bi.

But, only with those people were attracted to both physically and mentally.

It hasn’t stopped us getting invites or meets and there’s been many times we’ve played straight.

The total honesty with ourselves about our sexuality is the nicest thing about being swingers.

And to answer the original question, Becky gets very turned on watching me play with a bi guy but usually doesn’t watch for long before joining in.

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By *pertureTV/TS
over a year ago

New Ferry, wirral in stockings and sussies

Am bi myself, been that way all my adult life, not so much bisexual guys as a whole, but certainly bisexual play is a turn on, dependent of course on attraction.

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By * New YorkieMan
over a year ago

Leeds

Orally bi Yorkshire guy here that prefers bi mmfs to be honest..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Glad to see plenty like it.

I’m only curious but it does genuinely hurt when I see stuff that is dead against bi men, I can only imagine what it’s like for LGBTQ people in the real world, so sad. It is very easy for me to be tempted to change it back to straight but then what’s the point? I wouldn’t want to go near anyone that would be against me being bi anyway!

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By *zlakMan
over a year ago

Norwich


"Hell yes! Love it "

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By *andKBCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth

C is Bi Curious and really wants to explore that side more. K thinks watching would be hit so we're really keen to explore it more, ideally with another bi couple, if not, just a bi male.

Don't get the biphobia that exists in the scene at all, makes no sense at all when bi women are so desired.

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By *JcouplemidlandsCouple
over a year ago

Peak District

I Don't see what's wrong with people putting that they won't meet bi men personally. I have nothing against bi or gay men but everyone has the choice of who they want to meet, doesn't mean they are homophobic they just don't want to meet them in a sexual way as that's not there preference. Some people don't want to meet BBWs and that's fine with us we just don't message those people.

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By *andKBCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth


"I Don't see what's wrong with people putting that they won't meet bi men personally. I have nothing against bi or gay men but everyone has the choice of who they want to meet, doesn't mean they are homophobic they just don't want to meet them in a sexual way as that's not there preference. Some people don't want to meet BBWs and that's fine with us we just don't message those people. "

Just makes no sense. Not being attracted to BBW makes sense, that's a taste in body shape thing.

However a bi guy could just say straight, and has had sex with loads of men, and you wouldn't know, what's the difference?

That's what I don't get.

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By *ieandteaseMan
over a year ago

Wiltshire


"My kind of thread! Doesn’t seem to be that many in the South West though "

Might be because you've blocked them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Huge turn on for both

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

In your bed


"Just wondering if you women find us bisexual guys a turn on or a turn off? "

Surely that will depend on many different factors.

Both in terms of your appearance, behaviour, charm and whether the woman enjoys bi men?

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By *urious couple22Couple
over a year ago

Derby

don't mind

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By *angerous123Man
over a year ago

Leeds


"Off for me and hate when ppl lie about it when they message me then change their preferences on their profile I have gay/lesbian friends etc doesn’t bother me I just don’t want to sleep with a guy that’s fucked a guy in any way shape or form my preference x

of course bi men are going to keep their sexual past a secret sometimes when people carry these silly biphobic attitudes from the past to this day

my past sexual partners are none of anyone elses business, and the same applies to everyone else on here. if someone carries some bigoted attitude that a man has HIV/is less of a man/is automatically going to ignore boundaries because they're not straight that's their problem, not anyone elses. "

Can't convey how much I appreciate women like yourself speaking out. Thank you

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By *udist2ukMan
over a year ago

chudleigh

I wish more women did

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Love sucking a cock with another guy "

That’s a damn good reply lol

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By *leanor1717Woman
over a year ago

Gillingham

Bi guys are a total turn ON so hot

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By *oneyBear100Couple
over a year ago

Gatwick area

Only a turn off if they want to jump hubby more than me as he's straight. Otherwise, who cares

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By *ogerroger69Man
over a year ago

West Yorks

Some great comments

Being bi is way more acceptable today than 30 years ago...

I’m orally bi and love it x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some great comments

Being bi is way more acceptable today than 30 years ago...

I’m orally bi and love it x"

Same here, orally bi, love bi mmf's

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By *nya888Woman
over a year ago

London

Definitely a turn on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bi guys are a total turn ON so hot "

Yes it seems more acceptable now a days. A lot of women like bi guys. It’s all about personal taste and what turns you on.

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By *955vintageMan
over a year ago

itchen stoke

Interesting that the majority of those who have replied to this post either enjoy meeting with bi guys or have no objection and yet I see numerous posts from single ladies and couple tgat state no bi men.

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By *ets get steamyCouple
over a year ago

Skipton

Yessss! Love it ??

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By *ets get steamyCouple
over a year ago

Skipton

Great to hear

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By *orkshrCplCouple
over a year ago

Ripon

Massive turn on for me.

Her

X

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By *antasy Explorers 1313Couple
over a year ago

A place where others reside (nr Oxford)

Not a turn off for us but also not a turn on either. We don't play with bi men for personal reasons but could change in the future. Who knows.

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By *exycouple.xCouple
over a year ago

leeds

Massive turn on for us x

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By *iss pleasuringWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere near

Huge turn on.

My fwb is bi and it's my favourite type of playing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Total turn on for me

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By *jorkishMan
over a year ago

Seaforth


"On for us. We have found that lot of “straight” guys are bi however state straight so that single guys don’t come on to them - we state our preference in our profile"

And "straight" guys having "not looking for single guys" in their profile, message and meet gay guys every week. I think I've met an equal amount of "straight" as I have big guys

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By *jorkishMan
over a year ago

Seaforth


"On for us. We have found that lot of “straight” guys are bi however state straight so that single guys don’t come on to them - we state our preference in our profile

And "straight" guys having "not looking for single guys" in their profile, message and meet gay guys every week. I think I've met an equal amount of "straight" as I have bi guys"

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By *he_Last_TitanMan
over a year ago

Bristol


"Off for me and hate when ppl lie about it when they message me then change their preferences on their profile I have gay/lesbian friends etc doesn’t bother me I just don’t want to sleep with a guy that’s fucked a guy in any way shape or form my preference x

So help me understand what about that makes it a preference as opposed to a prejudice.

A man having had sex with another man (unknown to you), at some point in their history, has no bearing on your interaction, his attractiveness to you or your attraction to him.

What about finding that out makes him unattractive?

And don't go with the 'oh it's like only being attracted to brunettes...' You found a drop dead gorgeous brunette but found it was out of a bottle would you actually suddenly find them unattractive? "

Good work

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By *ornyandachingCouple
over a year ago

Middlesbrough

Although I am Bi, I actually find man and man together not appealing, hubby is the same, he allows me to embrace my Bi side which I enjoy but he’s straight xx

However the world will be dull if we were all the same xx

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By *heltenhamBiGuyMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham

Good to see in this thread that both ladies and couples are in favour of us Bi guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Majority of the guys that contact me have straight on their profiles.

It's like they want to maintain the illusion they are straight because a bisexual tag for them may affect there luck with the ladies.

Dosnt bother me, I fuck them regardless

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have no preference - straight or bi. It's whether I connect with someone. I find two men together very sexy though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nope"

The question is asked of women ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we are both bi but you cant say bi guys turn on or off ?? the simple answer would be if we fancy what we see the yes but thats a no to the other 95% its not rocket science to understand we/i wont meet anyone we/i dont at the very least fancy.

see it so often on here guy think they are in because they like something the same as us but always forget the ''we must at least sexually fancy tou'' bit ....the oh i tick all your boxes yep bar the most important one.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I absolutely love it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"we are both bi but you cant say bi guys turn on or off ?? the simple answer would be if we fancy what we see the yes but thats a no to the other 95% its not rocket science to understand we/i wont meet anyone we/i dont at the very least fancy.

see it so often on here guy think they are in because they like something the same as us but always forget the ''we must at least sexually fancy tou'' bit ....the oh i tick all your boxes yep bar the most important one....."

It is sadly true! Im kinky and any guy who is thinks I must go for him.

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By *inkyBoroCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Middlesbrough

Big "on" for us too

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By *ams12345Man
over a year ago

london

On or off it don’t matter, either way we’re not going to be getting any replies cos you either need to have a BBC or be Thor.

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By *arkbicrossMan
over a year ago

chingford

Would love to find local couple who would enjoy using me for there pleaser x

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By *rindnbumpCouple
over a year ago

Our little world of Kinky Fuckery in Durham

Huge turn on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to play with both, but really must be an attraction. Otherwise there is absolutely no point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not something that does anything for me but everyone is different so if it works for you then it's all good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely a turn on , especially for purple she’s always wanted to see me suck a cock but hasn’t happened yet

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By *ondonwest2018Man
over a year ago

Essex

I’ve never done it but I have a massive fantasy of sucking a guy on my knees with his wife…..

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By *uffolkClareClactonDaveCouple
over a year ago

Felixstowe/Clacton-on-Sea


"Just wondering if you women find us bisexual guys a turn on or a turn off? "

My Mistress wants to see me with a guy and I'm interested to find out if I like it.

It will definitely work for her, and if it works for me too it will open a whole new world for us, especially as we're exploring BDSM too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just wondering if you women find us bisexual guys a turn on or a turn off? "

Hopefully a decent number find it a turn on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Off

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By *iJandJCouple
over a year ago

liverpool

Turn on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Turn on

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By *enjamanMan
over a year ago

cheshire

Am bi if any cples or singles are interested in a hot session msg me

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By *lirty_dirtyCouple
over a year ago

Lingfield

Huge turn on for both of us. I'm very bi and Jane loves watching me with other men or hearing about meets I've had

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By *G_and_HorseCouple
over a year ago

home

We actively look for bi guys,mr is bi ,and I absolutely love to see it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good to see us greedy bi sexuals getting some love

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By *orty-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Leyland

Me yes Mrs not so much

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By *ice guy 77Man
over a year ago

ashford

I arranged a meet with a girl,who then put,oh see your bi, and blocked me wtf,just no thanks would be nice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm bi and top if needed.

I get straight men/women and couples look at my profile it says bisexual at the top. Some send messages so being polite I reply saying your straight I'm bi. Then I get blocked what was the point of contacting me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My hubby is bi curious and I find it so damn hot

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By *otts72Man
over a year ago

London

Turn on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Big turn on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"On for us. We have found that lot of “straight” guys are bi however state straight so that single guys don’t come on to them - we state our preference in our profile"

Yes that is the same for me, I would say bi-curious as have no real experience.

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By *izzy.miss.lizzyCouple
over a year ago

Pembrokeshire

it's a turn on for us

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By *ixi n DogCouple
over a year ago

Pembrokeshire

Massive turn on for both us. We're both genuine 50/50 bisexual not bi curious. Dog.

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By *iss DevilWoman
over a year ago

Bedford

Big turn on, but only manly men. Not into sissies, subs etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's an added delightful bonus..lots of fun.

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By * very big boyMan
over a year ago

south east clacton

Bi sex a huge turn on I love it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd consider myself bi curious, but just appreciating attractive people is the key I think

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By *ure ShotMan
over a year ago

Cotswolds

It's a huge turn on for me, there's something so sexy about the combination of 2 guys and a woman playing together all touching, licking, kissing each other that is ridiculously hot.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's a huge turn on for me, there's something so sexy about the combination of 2 guys and a woman playing together all touching, licking, kissing each other that is ridiculously hot. "

I so agree and enjoy it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Big plus for me.

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By *ammy lynWoman
over a year ago

Stoke-on-trent

It’s a turn on for myself and my partner.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely delicious

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's my go to Porn category but never experienced IRL.

love the idea bi mmf but maybe it's would be one of those scenarios that's better as fantasy.

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By *angerous123Man
over a year ago

Leeds


"I arranged a meet with a girl,who then put,oh see your bi, and blocked me wtf,just no thanks would be nice"

You dodged a bullet there

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