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"We’ve been on fab a while now and go through cycles of being excited and bored. We never really get that close to making the jump to going to a club or a meet. We are busy, have responsibilities, and are nervous. But the thought is so exciting. Does anybody have any suggestions we could try to bridge the gap?" Sometimes in life you just have to put on your big girl/boy pants and step out of your comfort zone. Better to be on your deathbed thinking I shouldn't have done that rather than I wish I'd tried that. | |||
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"Splash some cash. Book a train and a non-refundable room in a hotel to go to a club far from home (I’d suggest Xtasia is a fair way from where you live but easy to get to) and book a nice meal in a restaurant too. Basically, put a bit of pressure on yourselves to follow through with it. Based on the photos on your profile, I think once you go through with it, you’ll love it." When we think we might jump in the deep end, this is a great idea - I’d be so pissed to waste the money! Haha | |||
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"Splash some cash. Book a train and a non-refundable room in a hotel to go to a club far from home (I’d suggest Xtasia is a fair way from where you live but easy to get to) and book a nice meal in a restaurant too. Basically, put a bit of pressure on yourselves to follow through with it. Based on the photos on your profile, I think once you go through with it, you’ll love it. When we think we might jump in the deep end, this is a great idea - I’d be so pissed to waste the money! Haha" | |||
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"We’ve been on fab a while now and go through cycles of being excited and bored. We never really get that close to making the jump to going to a club or a meet. We are busy, have responsibilities, and are nervous. But the thought is so exciting. Does anybody have any suggestions we could try to bridge the gap?" | |||
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"Splash some cash. Book a train and a non-refundable room in a hotel to go to a club far from home (I’d suggest Xtasia is a fair way from where you live but easy to get to) and book a nice meal in a restaurant too. Basically, put a bit of pressure on yourselves to follow through with it. Based on the photos on your profile, I think once you go through with it, you’ll love it. When we think we might jump in the deep end, this is a great idea - I’d be so pissed to waste the money! Haha" To be fair its OK for your first club visit to be a bit of a drinky night out rather than a big sexy sex fest. Sometimes it's nice to go out, have a few drink with like minded people and get a feel for everything without taking part as such. Maybe even make some freinds for future adventures. Clubs are more than just a place to have lots of sex. They're social spaces, spaces to chill, places just to hang out and have a laugh too. Often we can be found mainly at the bar. You could go and just see where the mood takes. Either way you will have been and then hopefully be totally more relaxed about visiting clubs in future. | |||
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"We’ve been on fab a while now and go through cycles of being excited and bored. We never really get that close to making the jump to going to a club or a meet. We are busy, have responsibilities, and are nervous. But the thought is so exciting. Does anybody have any suggestions we could try to bridge the gap?" I've only been to a club once. I was nervous as hell. But if you go with the thought of just seeing what it's all about and not playing you don't put any pressure on yourselves. It's just like going out for the night as normal. You'll end up chatting to a few people anyway most likely and come across others in the same boat as you. The atmosphere is great and you'll feel at ease much more than you expect. The go again and see what happens. No expectations will have you more relaxed. Plus most have private rooms you can shut yourself away in and have fun with each other. Ease yourselves in gently. It's just making that first leap to go the first time. Bite the bullet and try it. | |||
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