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Besides orgasms, what is the best part of sex?

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By *eparrain1 OP   Man
over a year ago

Stone

Foreplay, kissing, BDSM among many for me..

What say you

Keep it clean and legal please!

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By *imply_SensualMan
over a year ago

warrington

That ‘look’ knowing you both want it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The little Kinks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First time you slide inside a nice wet juicy pussy and the woman gasps ...

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By *rsmith21zMan
over a year ago

Peterborough

Foreplay and teasing the build up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love the feeling of him cuming in me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being lost in eachother

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By *lexMegasMan
over a year ago

WREXHAM

Exploring bodies, the connection, the submission to each other. It's all good stuff!

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By *eparrain1 OP   Man
over a year ago

Stone


"I love the feeling of him cuming in me "

I know what you mean!!

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

Making them moan with pleasure.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Flirting

The adrenaline wondering will it/won’t it happen

The kiss when it happens

Wandering hands

Nipple touch over clothes

Feeling the bulge

Undressing

Passion

Excitement

Foreplay and watching the person you’re playing will be pleasured and vice versa

The moment of penetration

The look in the eye during penetration

And depending on who you’re with the after glow or the brief moment of silence wondering who’s going to speak first!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I watched a girl with her bf not comfortable to play in a group sex but i got her attention me watching them from the door (it is only cpls room , soo..).

later she joined us group of guys and girls in jacuzzi, after seeing me being part of the group. I was missing her at cpls room but had awesome time later in jacuzzi.

This whole thing happened around sex is so turn on

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By *ailingSwagmanMan
over a year ago

North Essex / Midlands / Southcoast

Anticipation, foreplay, cuffs, collar, blindfolds...

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By *arlly83Couple
over a year ago

wilmslow


"First time you slide inside a nice wet juicy pussy and the woman gasps ..."
i love this , that little gasp we make means we ARE going to enjoy it. I love the feeling of first being filled nice and slow

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By *95888Man
over a year ago

carlisle


"First time you slide inside a nice wet juicy pussy and the woman gasps ... i love this , that little gasp we make means we ARE going to enjoy it. I love the feeling of first being filled nice and slow "

Love this too

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By *eparrain1 OP   Man
over a year ago

Stone


"Flirting

The adrenaline wondering will it/won’t it happen

The kiss when it happens

Wandering hands

Nipple touch over clothes

Feeling the bulge

Undressing

Passion

Excitement

Foreplay and watching the person you’re playing will be pleasured and vice versa

The moment of penetration

The look in the eye during penetration

And depending on who you’re with the after glow or the brief moment of silence wondering who’s going to speak first!

"

Wonderful list

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"First time you slide inside a nice wet juicy pussy and the woman gasps ... i love this , that little gasp we make means we ARE going to enjoy it. I love the feeling of first being filled nice and slow "

yea, wow i am imagining the lady closing her eyes too

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By *arlly83Couple
over a year ago

wilmslow

Touching over clothes wondering whether things feel as good in the flesh,

Neck and shoulders being kissed,

Being lay on my tummy being kissed and then being pulled up by the hips and having fingers/ tongue slide in

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By *rsmith21zMan
over a year ago

Peterborough


"Touching over clothes wondering whether things feel as good in the flesh,

Neck and shoulders being kissed,

Being lay on my tummy being kissed and then being pulled up by the hips and having fingers/ tongue slide in "

wow yes that's very very hot indeed...Love to use my tongue first...

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By *eparrain1 OP   Man
over a year ago

Stone


"Touching over clothes wondering whether things feel as good in the flesh,

Neck and shoulders being kissed,

Being lay on my tummy being kissed and then being pulled up by the hips and having fingers/ tongue slide in "

Yum yum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The tip of my nob on her clit before sliding in watching her expression of satisfaction and oncoming pleasure.

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Anticipation, knowing the brain is engaged and the body is waiting.

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By *icola2202Couple
over a year ago

Chatham

The intimacy

Closeness of our bodies connecting in a way your so close x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing, hand holding, stroking my back, eye gazing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Those first post coital seconds

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Weighing up a number of options ... it has to be kissing (passionately)

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By *akeitwet99Man
over a year ago

leeds

The teasing of her body and seeing her body struggle to handle it before cuming

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By *alking HeadMan
over a year ago

Bolton

Feeling wanted and appreciated as opposed to feeling rejected and made to feel like a pest for even bringing the subject up.

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By *eparrain1 OP   Man
over a year ago

Stone


"Anticipation, knowing the brain is engaged and the body is waiting."

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By *ongueTwistererMan
over a year ago

telford/ shrewsbury/ bridgnorth/ wolverhampton

Skin on Skin you can feel the passion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The 'spine-tingling' kiss. You just know I'm right about that!

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By *rivervaderMan
over a year ago

bolton

The joys of hearing her orgasm then carry on to let her orgasm more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Licking your cum from her pussy and bringing it to her mouth for a kiss to taste how good we are

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By *ememberTheNameMan
over a year ago

barnsley


"Foreplay, kissing, BDSM among many for me..

What say you

Keep it clean and legal please!"

The fire build up tearing clothes off to feel the sensations of another’s touch

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By *ogerroger69Man
over a year ago

West Yorks

The first kiss

And stroke of the pussy/cock through the clothes?

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By *95888Man
over a year ago

carlisle

Got to be kissing

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

The build up and tension, getting ready and the first time you meet, it's all part of the fun.

Then can be instantly killed when the guy/ girl can't kiss.

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By *ictoriaathomeTV/TS
over a year ago

Huddersfield

Finger tips just touching skin, first intake of breath. Slow almost silk like kiss, smell of her hair as it brushes your face.

Pressing of bodies gentle but working harder to touch!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anticipation, knowing the brain is engaged and the body is waiting."

Totally agree x

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By *eparrain1 OP   Man
over a year ago

Stone


"The build up and tension, getting ready and the first time you meet, it's all part of the fun.

Then can be instantly killed when the guy/ girl can't kiss. "

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By *ornyandachingCouple
over a year ago

Middlesbrough

The build up, getting all clean in the bath… dressing up knowing it’s going to excite the others… and then the teasing, playing, foreplay xxx

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By *oldfischMan
over a year ago

HARROW

initial penetration

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By *ubal1Man
over a year ago

Newry Down

The moment when both parties decide to undress!

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By *uncpl187Couple
over a year ago

Ramsgate

The feel of my finger going into hubby

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By *ikesEmBigMan
over a year ago

Herts

The nectar points

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By *ootballFlowerCouple
over a year ago

Ollerton

After playing with others it is that moment when you reconnect with your other half.

If its just the 2 of us then it's the knowing what you can do to each other

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Watching your wife relax and enjoy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oral, rimming. Really gets me going.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love the chase, anticipation and then the first kisses

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Taking her knickers off while she's laying on her back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Has to be that feeling of desire while kissing, knowing whats to come.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The build up when you both have that feeling of wanting to just rip each other’s clothes off but let the intensity build up even more with slow passionate teasing, kissing & touching.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Flirting

The adrenaline wondering will it/won’t it happen

The kiss when it happens

Wandering hands

Nipple touch over clothes

Feeling the bulge

Undressing

Passion

Excitement

Foreplay and watching the person you’re playing will be pleasured and vice versa

The moment of penetration

The look in the eye during penetration

And depending on who you’re with the after glow or the brief moment of silence wondering who’s going to speak first!

"

^ what this lady said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anticipation, knowing the brain is engaged and the body is waiting."

Perfectly put

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By *oldyoudown41Man
over a year ago

caledonian

It’s the first trust , just amazing

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By *ub23Man
over a year ago

wandering

Grinding

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By *rad670Man
over a year ago

South Lakes

Absolutely the foreplay, the touching, stroking, licking and kissing that gets you both wet and shaking wanting more.

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By *ingerTwistWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

That second where someone figures out where you like to be touched. Notices, and really goes to town teasing you there. When a guy can read signals well that totally gets me excited with anticipation. That's when you know he cares about making sure you have a good time!

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By *illUpMySensesMan
over a year ago

SHEFFIELD

The mental stimulation of being teased, the sound of your partner enjoying herself and possibly most of all, the look on her face.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The variety!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jumping out the bedroom window before her husband comes home

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By *orkshrCplCouple
over a year ago

Ripon

Locking eyes when two people connect and kissing x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That moment when you wipe your cock on the towel before throwing it toward your partner.

Who said romance is dead.

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By *otts72Man
over a year ago

London

The look on her face when you slide inside her after some foreplay

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By *rincess PhoenixWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

The feeling of being stretched as he enters you but I'm also a sucker for those post coital moments of tenderness - cuddling up against his chest as you come back down to earth, forehead kisses and stroking my back which usually makes me want round 2 lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Watching the other ones expression

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wiping my cock on the curtains on my way out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Watching the other ones expression "

Totally this

One of the things I love about giving oral (my preference being women) is being able to find the right buttons to press and watch her moan, writhe and cream herself in pleasure...

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By *itsAndTaffCouple
over a year ago

Grays, Essex


"First time you slide inside a nice wet juicy pussy and the woman gasps ..."

This, the first time a guy slide inside you for the first time knowing they'll soon be shooting their load inside of you

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By *otts72Man
over a year ago

London


"Watching the other ones expression

Totally this

One of the things I love about giving oral (my preference being women) is being able to find the right buttons to press and watch her moan, writhe and cream herself in pleasure... "

Exactly this. Love giving oral to her too, feeling her get wetter , hearing her moan with pleasure taking her to the edge

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By *eparrain1 OP   Man
over a year ago

Stone


"First time you slide inside a nice wet juicy pussy and the woman gasps ...

This, the first time a guy slide inside you for the first time knowing they'll soon be shooting their load inside of you "

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By *luvpussy40Man
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

The kissing, foreplay, the moment of anticipation knowing what we both Want

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That moment, just as he's about to enter you and your eyes lock, breath held and then....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A great thread.....what's fascinating is how much of it focuses on the intimate, erotic side rather than raw raunch.

FWIW I think that IS the really special side but one which demands more emotional opening up than I would normally think of while swinging. Perhaps the ur swingers are right.....?

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By *xfordshireCoupleMFCouple
over a year ago

Nr. Oxford

The naughty and nervous moment just before undressing, and the exploring as the clothes come off and expose some nice underwear.

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By *oeBiggs321Man
over a year ago

Reading


"The naughty and nervous moment just before undressing, and the exploring as the clothes come off and expose some nice underwear. "

100% agree with this

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By *ark69x_glosMan
over a year ago

Cirencester

Absolutely the anticipation. The lead up, the flirting.

The racing heart beat, the slightly flushed face it's such a strong. life affirming feeling!

Damn I need more of that in my life!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All the gorgeous things that have built you up for that final, fabulous orgasm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The rush of long term relationship sex.. trying new things...discovering..txting at work the next day..on what happened and will happen later etc...so many facets to this its too big to explain..

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

The recovery time when you're both fuck-dr*nk and sated, tangled up in each other and just lazily stroking whatever bit of skin you can reach without moving too far.

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials

Bending j over and giving her a good rimming

T

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By *alty surpriseMan
over a year ago

Uttoxeter


"That ‘look’ knowing you both want it "
that's it exactly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Getting change from a twenty...

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley


"Foreplay, kissing, BDSM among many for me..

What say you

Keep it clean and legal please!"

I agree with you. Sensual play, blind folds, oral, kissing. You can keep playing for ages doing the above.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Him cumming xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm sure we'd all love to cum in you Jessica xx

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By *eparrain1 OP   Man
over a year ago

Stone


"Foreplay, kissing, BDSM among many for me..

What say you

Keep it clean and legal please!

I agree with you. Sensual play, blind folds, oral, kissing. You can keep playing for ages doing the above. "

i love watching the effect I have: the wetness, the squirting, the moaning, the pleasure I am givcing...intoxicating!

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By *eparrain1 OP   Man
over a year ago

Stone


"Him cumming xx"

An affirmation Jess?

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By *outhman15Man
over a year ago

southampton

I love the look on the womans face with that first deep thrust inside her

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By *trongbobMan
over a year ago

rochester

It's been so long I cant remember

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The look on us both before we start playing,

Amazing, xx

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By *urvyBi-84Man
over a year ago

Lancs

For me it’s feeling and hearing a partner orgasm, and pausing just briefly for a kiss and a cuddle before carrying on.

On the flip side, one of my biggest turn OFFs is when you make someone cum and rather than having that brief intimate moment they lose interest. I had a guy do that to me once, and he didn’t even have the decency to return the favour. Pump, pump, spunk, I’m done, bye.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess its that intimate time that is private. Your doing something that some people may have in their imagination when they see your partner.

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By *oson-BlueCouple
over a year ago

North Kent


"That second where someone figures out where you like to be touched. Notices, and really goes to town teasing you there. When a guy can read signals well that totally gets me excited with anticipation. That's when you know he cares about making sure you have a good time! "

Oh indeed ha Mr R is particularly skilled at this

Ms D

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Long foreplay

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

When she teases and turns you on so much you are surprised by just how big and hard and throbbing you are and you get her on all fours , grab her by the hair slowly part her from behind and ever so slowly ease it all the way in as she groans and gasps …..Mmmmm fuck that’s good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That burst of pain from my nipples as she twists them in an effort to make me cum, whist rhymicly slide deep inside and out again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tasting the pussy for the first time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Plus getting better at mental arithmetic.

As I count backwards in 7s from 250 to take my mind off cumming. LOL

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