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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What is your biggest turn off physically?

I’m thinking of going to a club f or club shh but wanted to know if my body would turn people away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think all body types are beautiful honestly.

My only turn off is disrespect of boundaries

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I have stretch marks off past pregnancy and I have a long surgery scar aswell,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All body types are beautiful and we all have our quirks.

But rude or ignorant people can never be attractive.

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By *irestorm81Man
over a year ago

Richmond/Harrogate

Dodgy toe nails.

I honestly wouldn’t worry. Clubs are very inclusive and there is every body type under the sun represented! It’s genuinely as much about personality as much as anything. I’ve seen some classically stunning people at ClubF who have the personality of a frying pan. Others who maybe don’t fit that stereotypical idea of what an “attractive body” is who have fantastic personalities!

As in life, there is someone for everyone, no different in swinging and for anyone who doesn’t find you attractive there will be lots who do.

Because of my job people expect a certain body type I think which i fail miserably to meet, and I couldn’t care less! Because I’m a nice guy with a sense of humour. And how you interact with people is key!

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By *lexMegasMan
over a year ago

WREXHAM


"I have stretch marks off past pregnancy and I have a long surgery scar aswell, "

Embrace them. Pregnancy stretch marks I find to be a beautiful thing. You've created life, that's awesome! Your surgery mark also shows the strength you have! Be proud of who you are and your achievements!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have stretch marks off past pregnancy and I have a long surgery scar aswell,

Embrace them. Pregnancy stretch marks I find to be a beautiful thing. You've created life, that's awesome! Your surgery mark also shows the strength you have! Be proud of who you are and your achievements!"

Aww thank you this was lovely to read x

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By *agpie and RavenMan
over a year ago

Leicester


"What is your biggest turn off physically?

I’m thinking of going to a club f or club shh but wanted to know if my body would turn people away "

Honestly? You're female so no matter what your personal hang ups are about your body there'll be a line of men wanting to fuck you. All you need to do is find the confidence to say yes to the one(s) you find attractive.

Frank

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It might just be me but attraction has a lot less to do with looks and a lot more to do with confidence.

Just have fun and I'm sure you will be fine. Theres nothing sexier then a devilish smile that says "I'm sexy and I know it"

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By *lasphemouscoupleCouple
over a year ago

Cambridgeshire

Poor hygiene or poor attitude are a turn off, everyone else is sexy to someone! Being confident and a great smile will draw us in faster than a particular body type or gender every time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rudeness

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By *nkforthekinkMan
over a year ago

london/fareham

The gunt!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they like mushrooms . Just no!

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By *J coupleCouple
over a year ago

stone


"If they like mushrooms . Just no! "

Mushrooms are the Devil’s food.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If they like mushrooms . Just no!

Mushrooms are the Devil’s food. "

Agreed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Poor hygiene or poor attitude are a turn off, everyone else is sexy to someone! Being confident and a great smile will draw us in faster than a particular body type or gender every time "

I echo what they said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have stretch marks off past pregnancy and I have a long surgery scar aswell, "

These are battle scars and you should be hugged

X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If they like mushrooms . Just no! "

Hahaha thank goodness my Sir doesn't think like that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is your biggest turn off physically?

I’m thinking of going to a club f or club shh but wanted to know if my body would turn people away

Honestly? You're female so no matter what your personal hang ups are about your body there'll be a line of men wanting to fuck you. All you need to do is find the confidence to say yes to the one(s) you find attractive.

Frank"

And they say “Romance is dead”….

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By *valanche1001Man
over a year ago

Leeds

Smelly bits

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By *eepshow1Man
over a year ago

London

I have scars on my leg from top to bottom, from a road accident when I was 13. Really big thick noticable scars.

Was always shy about them until I was around 27. Always trying to hide them without anyone noticing.Caused me so much stress and anxiety.

One day, I had to just stop worrying about them. I've had a lot of partners, attend clubs, parties etc, happy to be naked anywhere and in front of anyone.

No one has ever said anything or been put off EVER.

I know its easier said then done, but dont worry. Really. No-one will bat an eyelid.

Good luck, have fun and enjoy yourself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

don't know why but watching toys being used is a big turn off to me... I would be like

pocket toys used for a quickie are still ok though..

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By *agpie and RavenMan
over a year ago

Leicester


"What is your biggest turn off physically?

I’m thinking of going to a club f or club shh but wanted to know if my body would turn people away

Honestly? You're female so no matter what your personal hang ups are about your body there'll be a line of men wanting to fuck you. All you need to do is find the confidence to say yes to the one(s) you find attractive.

Frank

And they say “Romance is dead”…. "

What? Am I lying?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have stretch marks off past pregnancy and I have a long surgery scar aswell, "

Scars and stretch marks tell part of the story of your life, be proud of them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

for us nothing about someones body is a turn off, however attitudes can be a massive turn off

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By *akeitwet99Man
over a year ago

leeds

Smell

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