FabSwingers.com forum: meet me now

By *herryblossom_BJ OP Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

Since covid restrictions lifted, I keep getting "meet me now" messages. They haven't spoken to me or seen my face. So strange thing to say to someone, don't ya think? Or am I too old fashion about swinging?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no offence, but its not you, they are messaging everyone, post lockdown blueballs i call it

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

My filters are still super high, but it was a thing before the pandemic, too.

It's one reason my filters are still super high

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I’ve had a sudden surge in messages too. Since Monday I’ve had atleast 5 messages a day that are just one liners “meet today/tonight”

No pics attached or nothing

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By *95888Man
over a year ago

carlisle

I keep getting a guy saying “now?” Must be very desperate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

use message filters and you wont get these messages.

fabswingers has a mail system in place to make the swinging experience a good and safe one for women.

anything else is placing yourself at the hands of the beast.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"use message filters and you wont get these messages.

fabswingers has a mail system in place to make the swinging experience a good and safe one for women.

anything else is placing yourself at the hands of the beast. "

the filters dont let you choose the block idiot button tho

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I've had 2 today asking to meet 1st message no other contact

It says I'm not meeting and deffo not after 1 message

Its a good filter lol

I'm guessing there's a lot of frustration now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meet me now isn't swinging. Just saying.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah it was crazy on Monday - settled a bit now...

I had requests from all over the UK

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Since covid restrictions lifted, I keep getting "meet me now" messages. They haven't spoken to me or seen my face. So strange thing to say to someone, don't ya think? Or am I too old fashion about swinging? "
you will get a lot of that, prob fake profiles, if you do meet make sure you know what they look like, and tell a friend were your going, stay safe x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Drives me up the walls!!!! Like, swear to god…

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By *herryblossom_BJ OP Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

"use message filters and you wont get these messages.

fabswingers has a mail system in place to make the swinging experience a good and safe one for women.

anything else is placing yourself at the hands of the beast. "

I don't think the filters are that effective

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I replied to one last night and said 'ok then'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah the ‘meet me’ or ‘fancy meeting in my hotel room with AC’ messages are on the up. I just ignore them. No point getting annoyed. People will try their luck where they can.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They just chancers ignore them it’s what I do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a percentage, the people who ask to meet you now if you called their bluff and said “ ok let’s do it then “ how many do you think would go through with it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you think anyone ever meets them though?

Surely someone must or they wouldn’t stick to this strategy?

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By *antsguy007Man
over a year ago

Whiteley

Damn.....no one has messaged me demanding to meet now

Must be something up with my profile

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

"I replied to one last night and said 'ok then' "

I love doing that! I had one who said he'd drive all the way from Kent.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meet me tomorrow would do me.

Or rather meet us tomorrow!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm gonna try this 'meet me now' thing

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By *urulovesnylonMan
over a year ago

Harrow

Seems to be disconnect here between a swing/dating site and people looking for a free hooker..

I don’t get meet now messages but it be bloody annoying.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes it is very strange behaviour...But unfortunately it's quite `normal` for here...

`fab normal`

... Expecting a person to meet a total online stranger just like that...

I'm sure you've got the other crude 1st msg 1-liners too

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By *ostguy321Man
over a year ago

Princes Risborough

Does it actually work on anybody? It's something I cannot understand and is usually accompanied by ....I have a van lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I replied to one last night and said 'ok then'

I love doing that! I had one who said he'd drive all the way from Kent. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honestly I’m sick of it !!!

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

Yeah it was crazy on Monday - settled a bit now...

I had requests from all over the UK

Can you do the Birdy song

Go on, please

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

Yeah it was crazy on Monday - settled a bit now...

I had requests from all over the UK

Can you do the Birdy song

Go on, please

Oh.....not that type of request

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was getting a lot of "meet now's during the lockdowns. Before a vaccine had even been developed, and despite me saying I was in the clinically extremely vulnerable group.

It's nice to know some people value sex over human lives.

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By *andyoldman49Man
over a year ago

Sheffield

"I replied to one last night and said 'ok then' "

Did he reply back.

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By *allnlongMan
over a year ago

Torpoint & Stonehouse

"Meet me now isn't swinging. Just saying. "

This is so very true

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By *aunchy RaccoonsCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

The meet me after first message brigade aren't swingers, just frustrated townies that haven't been able to go on the pull on a Saturday night.

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By *orny IrishMan
over a year ago

Rural Wiltshire

As others have said its not you. Its them. They get horny and see a lady with some sexy well taken profile pics and think if the send a FAF message they will pull.

Just ignore and move on to the ones who do pay attention and read.

Love your profile pictures especially the room with the view.

Ignore and have fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely seems a bit odd or maybe they could possibly be time waster. Still strange way for anyone to introduce themselves that way unless the person they’re messaging says on their profile that they like random one off meets with strangers and want to no as little as possible about them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Blue balls

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

nothing worse lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I replied to one last night and said 'ok then'

I love doing that! I had one who said he'd drive all the way from Kent. "

we had a series of one word exchanges that ended in OMG

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I might try this approach … law of averages someone might say yes hahaha

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By *herryblossom_BJ OP Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

"I might try this approach … law of averages someone might say yes hahaha

This is the issue. Men said too many mindless copy and paste messages. Women get fed up and leave the site. Please don't be a sheep

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By *herryblossom_BJ OP Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

"As others have said its not you. Its them. They get horny and see a lady with some sexy well taken profile pics and think if the send a FAF message they will pull.

Just ignore and move on to the ones who do pay attention and read.

Love your profile pictures especially the room with the view.

Ignore and have fun.

Thanks, that photo was taken in Thailand. (yes i was hot naked and sweaty at that time lol... but all on my own in a big beautiful hotel room

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By *luvpussy40Man
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

Sounds extremely desperate, I like to get to know the person first as you have no idea what your walking into

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I might try this approach … law of averages someone might say yes hahaha

This is the issue. Men said too many mindless copy and paste messages. Women get fed up and leave the site. Please don't be a sheep"

Apologies I was only saying it in jest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont get them kind of messages if im honest

I would rather fuck myself then meet someone for a quick shag

but we are all different.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I replied to one last night and said 'ok then' "

Let me guess “user no longer on site”

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By *acksparrow99Man
over a year ago

London

If it's any consolation, I am getting a lot of winks and messages from TVs.

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By *uitednbooted2Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

"Yeah the ‘meet me’ or ‘fancy meeting in my hotel room with AC’ messages are on the up. I just ignore them. No point getting annoyed. People will try their luck where they can. "

Exactly this

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