FabSwingers.com forum: Darkroom vigilance

By *mm_n_Zed OP Couple
over a year ago

Fareham

Zed and I went to a club last night and ventured into the dark room. We were enjoying a sensual clinch together with a few anonymous,wandering hands to spice things up (which was fine) when one pushy bloke kept trying to make me play with his cock (I was playing with Zed's at the time)He kept pulling my hand away from what I was doing and trying to plant it on his cock. I yanked my hand away saying 'no!' firmly.

Then the cheeky b*stard went behind me and I felt what was obviously his condom-less cock being pushed between my legs in an attempt to shag me.

I halted proceedings abruptly and the whole event was spoiled for everyone as we left the darkroom immediately in a pretty miffed state. The guy was reported and the management tried to find him but, by all accounts, he legged it as I think he knew what was about to happen.

This is just to warn others to be very vigilant at all times but especially in darkrooms where you can't actually see whether a cock is gloved or not. We heard the sound of a condom wrapper being torn open and I think this particular charmer did it to make us THINK he had a condom on.

Please just be aware there are characters out there who will compromise your safety just to get their ends away.

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By *ourbonKissMan
over a year ago

a land up north..... of leicester

These are the guys that ruin it for all the others!

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By *appyTrancerMan
over a year ago

Bristol

I know it shouldn't be this way, but sadly nothing seems to surprise me any more. I must be getting jaded in my old (ish) age!

It's really shit when your fun gets ruined and sadly you've done pretty much all you can to stop it happening again.

Hope it doesn't stop you going back.

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By *mm_n_Zed OP Couple
over a year ago

Fareham

"I know it shouldn't be this way, but sadly nothing seems to surprise me any more. I must be getting jaded in my old (ish) age!

It's really shit when your fun gets ruined and sadly you've done pretty much all you can to stop it happening again.

Hope it doesn't stop you going back.

HT"

It definitely won't stop us going back or playing how we want to play. Most single guys are respectful and fun to play with but there are the minority who are chancers. If it was just an inconvenience I'd roll my eyes not make an issue of it but I don't want to risk my health (or life!) for them. And I'm not being melodramatic - it could potentially mean that!

Most experienced swingers know that these prats exist but this post is really aimed at newcomers who might just be a little too trusting in certain situations. The message is - some people really won't give a flying f*** about you or your sexual health - just be on your guard.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is one reason why we don't play in darkrooms. Another one is from the first time we ventured into one and my wife accidently trod on someone lying on tne floor. Ouch!

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By *mm_n_Zed OP Couple
over a year ago

Fareham

"This is one reason why we don't play in darkrooms. Another one is from the first time we ventured into one and my wife accidently trod on someone lying on tne floor. Ouch!"

It's one place where a woman has to be confident enough to speak out if something happens she's not happy with. In any other situation, her partner can chaperone her and watch out for the muppets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My friend and I went to a gang bang night and a guy tried it on without a condom, we just stopped then went to the couple's room for a few hours

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And I wouldn't play in a dark room anyway, wouldn't want anyone I am not interested in coming near me

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By *ickey and MinnieCouple
over a year ago

South of Bath

This is exactly the kind of happening that puts us off wanting to try to play with single guys or go to greedy girl nights!!

Sorry to all the genuine decent single blokes but for us it's just not worth it

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By *it of fun cplCouple
over a year ago

village between York and Hull

one of the problems with dark rooms and even group rooms unfortunatly. I really do not understand why people have to be pushy. MrsH loves to play in a group situation, lots of hands etc but nearly every time two or 3 people are fighting between themselves to get heir hands between her legs! sensual touching just seems to have gone out of the window and its straight for the "Honey Pot" that is why we have now stopped playing in group rooms.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This is exactly the kind of happening that puts us off wanting to try to play with single guys or go to greedy girl nights!!

Sorry to all the genuine decent single blokes but for us it's just not worth it"

Don't be put off, it is a minority and a dark room I'd expect that, plenty of lovely single guys at clubs

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By *mm_n_Zed OP Couple
over a year ago

Fareham

"This is exactly the kind of happening that puts us off wanting to try to play with single guys or go to greedy girl nights!!

Sorry to all the genuine decent single blokes but for us it's just not worth it

Don't be put off, it is a minority and a dark room I'd expect that, plenty of lovely single guys at clubs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And I wouldn't play in a dark room anyway, wouldn't want anyone I am not interested in coming near me

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By *eakcoupleCouple
over a year ago

peak district

We've had men trying to fuck Rose without condoms when she's in a swing and in the orgy room at Chams. She gets around this by putting the guys into her, if she can't feel a condom then it's no thanks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have the same in groups.

Hubby tends to keep one eye on what he's doing and the other on me.

If i'm on my knees i cant see what's going on behind

No he doesn't have wonky eyes either

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