FabSwingers.com forum: Party ideas

By *C7995X OP Couple
over a year ago

London

Not sure if we are posting this in the right area of the forums. But anyway.

We have received a few parry invites lately that we have politely declined as they just didn’t seem right for us (£xx for couples meet at hotel etc etc)

So we are thinking about hosting our own. Having never hosted or even attended one before we are looking for ideas. Someone suggested a dinner party of approx 6 couples…this seems a bit more up our street.

Should we attend a party before hosting?

Any other classy ideas out there that people can suggest that will get our brains ticking??

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

Intimate dinner party, all guests are dressed up, all hot, flirting, games:-

Pass the parcel (the women are the parcel and the guy removes an item of clothing when the music stops).

Musical chairs (all the girls go under the table and they enjoy what’s in front of them - changing around) - the guys don’t know who is doing what. Can change the guys and girls around…

A couple of girls/guys lie on the table naked with fruits/cream on them and the rest eat the fruit off them with their mouths…

It’s a very sensual and sexy experience…

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By *C7995X OP Couple
over a year ago

London

"Intimate dinner party, all guests are dressed up, all hot, flirting, games:-

Pass the parcel (the women are the parcel and the guy removes an item of clothing when the music stops).

Musical chairs (all the girls go under the table and they enjoy what’s in front of them - changing around) - the guys don’t know who is doing what. Can change the guys and girls around…

A couple of girls/guys lie on the table naked with fruits/cream on them and the rest eat the fruit off them with their mouths…

It’s a very sensual and sexy experience…

If we do host one you guys are def getting an invite (although you already know this lol)

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By *ady C and Mr TCouple
over a year ago

birmingham

Sounds like the kind of evening we are look8ng for!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Supply cheese, cheese is life

Cheese & wine night = WINNER

I wouldn't personally go to someone's house for dinner but I'm sure plenty will. Hope it all goes well

Mrs C

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By *C7995X OP Couple
over a year ago

London

How comes you wouldn’t go to someone’s house? If you don’t mind us asking? Would u not feel comfortable?

Ideally a nice neutral location like a holiday cottage would probably be safer anyway perhaps ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How comes you wouldn’t go to someone’s house? If you don’t mind us asking? Would u not feel comfortable?

Ideally a nice neutral location like a holiday cottage would probably be safer anyway perhaps ? "

I wouldn't go for dinner, we prefer a party atmosphere. Mind you we've been to plenty of them and they don't always end well, maybe we are doing it wrong haha

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By *C7995X OP Couple
over a year ago

London

How comes you wouldn’t go to someone’s house? If you don’t mind us asking? Would u not feel comfortable?

Ideally a nice neutral location like a holiday cottage would probably be safer anyway perhaps ?

I wouldn't go for dinner, we prefer a party atmosphere. Mind you we've been to plenty of them and they don't always end well, maybe we are doing it wrong haha"

We value your input on what went well and what didn’t go so well. Feel free to pm us if u care to share your experiences so that we can hopefully avoid any mishaps and ensure a good time for all

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.

You could just start with a small group going out to a restaurant/bar and build from there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How comes you wouldn’t go to someone’s house? If you don’t mind us asking? Would u not feel comfortable?

Ideally a nice neutral location like a holiday cottage would probably be safer anyway perhaps ?

I wouldn't go for dinner, we prefer a party atmosphere. Mind you we've been to plenty of them and they don't always end well, maybe we are doing it wrong haha"

If don't mind asking? How come the one's attended didn't go well? As jealous from other partners?

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By *C7995X OP Couple
over a year ago

London

"You could just start with a small group going out to a restaurant/bar and build from there. "

Yes. Good idea!

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By *C7995X OP Couple
over a year ago

London

How comes you wouldn’t go to someone’s house? If you don’t mind us asking? Would u not feel comfortable?

Ideally a nice neutral location like a holiday cottage would probably be safer anyway perhaps ?

I wouldn't go for dinner, we prefer a party atmosphere. Mind you we've been to plenty of them and they don't always end well, maybe we are doing it wrong haha

If don't mind asking? How come the one's attended didn't go well? As jealous from other partners?"

We are interested to know this to. But also respect your privacy if you don’t want to say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How comes you wouldn’t go to someone’s house? If you don’t mind us asking? Would u not feel comfortable?

Ideally a nice neutral location like a holiday cottage would probably be safer anyway perhaps ?

I wouldn't go for dinner, we prefer a party atmosphere. Mind you we've been to plenty of them and they don't always end well, maybe we are doing it wrong haha

If don't mind asking? How come the one's attended didn't go well? As jealous from other partners?"

Mainly drink and drugs, added with excitement = trouble. The last party we went to ended with the home owner been arrested, so we stick to club or small gatherings now

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By *reepass4meCouple
over a year ago

Cheltenham

We attended a party in a very large private house. Great atmosphere on arrival, music, hot tub - lots of people and the hosts worked hard to introduce everyone.

Their rule was "tits out at ten" and all the ladies re-appeared looking spectacular. It was great.

(we contributed some ££ for food etc but it was well worth it)

In contrast, we went to a private house party which turned out to be a few people getting very d*unk in the kitchen. Didn't stay long.

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By *reepass4meCouple
over a year ago

Cheltenham

Oops. Meant to add that the dinner idea sounds good if you can give it a sexy twist to help build the atmosphere. Even something as basic as all the men rotate a chair if everyone meeting for the first time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How comes you wouldn’t go to someone’s house? If you don’t mind us asking? Would u not feel comfortable?

Ideally a nice neutral location like a holiday cottage would probably be safer anyway perhaps ?

I wouldn't go for dinner, we prefer a party atmosphere. Mind you we've been to plenty of them and they don't always end well, maybe we are doing it wrong haha

If don't mind asking? How come the one's attended didn't go well? As jealous from other partners?

Mainly drink and drugs, added with excitement = trouble. The last party we went to ended with the home owner been arrested, so we stick to club or small gatherings now"

Jesus... Going by chat on club scene that partners can get jealous especially when d*unk, but that also would put us of.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It sounds like a good idea if you are already chatting to the couple's

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By *ittlechick77Couple
over a year ago

Staines

The only thing I would say is a house party comes with an expectation that all will participate and play.

Even more so if a small group of say 6 people then pressure is greater so it is better all have got to chat know each other first. If small party then ice break with games maybe spin the bottle or sex jenga.

We have attended large house parties 30+ people a little less pressure that you must play these types of parties just evolve to be honest through lots of chatting and flirting.

Some will find it a surprise we find club meets the least pressure as you don't have to play can just socialise and play with each other if there is no attraction else where

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By *luttyLaylaWoman
over a year ago

North West

For such a small group id say it’s definitely better to ensure everyone knows each other first.

Also to ensure everyone is up for the social side of it too.

I only club rather than party (i party with a group i club with but no one else), because there’s nothing worse than the expectation to play with people you didn’t invite IMO.

More people = more choice. If one couple doesn’t fancy/ like the vibe of the others it’s so noticeable with only 6 people there

If you get a group of 6 who are all into each other I don’t doubt it would be a great night! xx

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By *C7995X OP Couple
over a year ago

London

Some good advice coming thru here. Thanks

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