FabSwingers.com forum: Anklet in public

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Is it acceptable to approach someone wearing an anklet in public.

This evening I saw a woman with a wedding ring and an anklet on her right leg.

I smiled at her and said "I like your anklet", she looked at me confused but politely said thank you.

I obviously walked away.

Thought this was a well known thing or am I wrong??

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By *iss.ddWoman
over a year ago

Leeds + Newcastle

Not all anklets mean hot wife and not all hot wives want to be approached

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

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By *edantic SheilaWoman
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

"Not all anklets mean hot wife and not all hot wives want to be approached "
This

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By *asterandGenieCouple
over a year ago

Norfolk

"Is it acceptable to approach someone wearing an anklet in public.

This evening I saw a woman with a wedding ring and an anklet on her right leg.

I smiled at her and said "I like your anklet", she looked at me confused but politely said thank you.

I obviously walked away.

Thought this was a well known thing or am I wrong??"

That’s a big wedding ring lol

Maybe she just likes her anklet but at least you were polite and doesn’t assume anything I’m sure if she was a hot wife and you were her type then she might have responded differently

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By *inxnmasterCouple
over a year ago

naughty valley

nothing wrong with your approach . If she was wearing it as it is known in the lifestyle and she would have fancied you she probably would have signalized it, otherwise she always has the escape of the anklet being a fancy piece of jewelry

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

"Is it acceptable to approach someone wearing an anklet in public.

This evening I saw a woman with a wedding ring and an anklet on her right leg.

I smiled at her and said "I like your anklet", she looked at me confused but politely said thank you.

I obviously walked away.

Thought this was a well known thing or am I wrong??"

Not really no

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By *hrobbermanMan
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

Er.... no.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Nope ...but I wouldn't have the expectation that she's a swinger ..or interested in you in the slightest

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By *ogiCouple
over a year ago

Bedford

She fancied you

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By *inkycatWoman
over a year ago

High Wycombe

I wear an anklet sometimes, especially in the summer. For no other reason that I like wearing an anklet in the summer… I assume I’m not the only lady who does this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s just jewellery.

It’s not there to say “ please approach me random men “

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Perhaps she just thinks it's pretty

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

Dude you missed out she was obviously gagging for it

Seriously though while discretion is everything your approach wasn't to bad a polite compliment and left it at that.

Anymore would have been creepy.

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By *uteness69Woman
over a year ago

Walthamstow

"Is it acceptable to approach someone wearing an anklet in public.

This evening I saw a woman with a wedding ring and an anklet on her right leg.

I smiled at her and said "I like your anklet", she looked at me confused but politely said thank you.

I obviously walked away.

Thought this was a well known thing or am I wrong??"

Hahahaha

You made me laugh

Thank you

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By *heekyFlirtyCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Stockport

I’ve worn an anklet on and off for about 30+ years and I didn’t even know swinging existed until about 6 years ago

Mrs J x

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

"It’s just jewellery.

It’s not there to say “ please approach me random men “

"
or randy men

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By *uriouscouple83Couple
over a year ago

Worcester

I have to wear an anklet until my probation officer tells me otherwise.

I only wish they had warned me that it was a signal to horny gents.

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By *andido63Man
over a year ago

Stafford

I'm sure to most women its just a nice piece of jewellery.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Learn something new everyday .

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By *laymateteeMan
over a year ago

Southampton

"Is it acceptable to approach someone wearing an anklet in public.

This evening I saw a woman with a wedding ring and an anklet on her right leg.

I smiled at her and said "I like your anklet", she looked at me confused but politely said thank you.

I obviously walked away.

Thought this was a well known thing or am I wrong??"

Was it just a normal amulet or did it say hot wife or have HW on it?

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By *he Ring WraithMan
over a year ago

Bradford

"I have to wear an anklet until my probation officer tells me otherwise.

I only wish they had warned me that it was a signal to horny gents. "

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By *tarburst babydollMan
over a year ago

Dingwall

I have a range of anklets that I wear most of the time. If I have a plain one on as in day to day life I would not want to be approached because of it. However on a night out I usually have either a HW or Vixen anklet I don't mind it being mentioned

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wear HW anklet everyday and no your approach was fine and subtle enough lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wear an anklet because I've had leg infections that have left my leg scarred. An anklet; to me, is just a little something pretty to help me feel good about it all.

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

"Is it acceptable to approach someone wearing an anklet in public.

This evening I saw a woman with a wedding ring and an anklet on her right leg.

I smiled at her and said "I like your anklet", she looked at me confused but politely said thank you.

I obviously walked away.

Thought this was a well known thing or am I wrong??"

Is it ok to approach someone wearing a short skirt, a low cut blouse, topless on a beach, or naked on a naturist beach? Of course it isn't. What a woman chooses to wear or not wear is not a signal to you or any predatory man that she's available.

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By *batMan
over a year ago

Alicante, Spain. (Sometimes in Wales)

" What a woman chooses to wear or not wear is not a signal to you or any predatory man that she's available. "

Unless it's a large badge that says "Free fucks! Just ask me. Always available"

I would take that as a sign she's approachable.

Gbat

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Finally someone got the reference!

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

C wears an anklet which I bought her which is relevant to us, not to anyone else. She doesn’t wear it to signify anything…some people wear things because they want to.

I wouldn’t approach anyone with an anklet on unless I was in an environment which they may want to be approached, which I can only think would be a club.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is it acceptable to approach someone wearing an anklet in public.

This evening I saw a woman with a wedding ring and an anklet on her right leg.

I smiled at her and said "I like your anklet", she looked at me confused but politely said thank you.

I obviously walked away.

Thought this was a well known thing or am I wrong??"

Anklets are just anklets.

Unless it has cuck or hotwife symbols attached.

Even then they may not like the look of you, even hotwives can be picky.

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By *ananas57Couple
over a year ago

lake ariel

I have one I wear with HW on it, and depending on how I’m approached it can mean His Wife or Hotwife

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By *arc and KamaCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

Kama has been wearing an anklet for years and we did not know what is that mean. For her it was a nice piece of silver or gold.

The question is if any anklet means hot wife in swinging world or it must be HW or 3some symbol ?

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By *xhibitionisticvoyeurMan
over a year ago

Wrexham

"Is it acceptable to approach someone wearing an anklet in public.

This evening I saw a woman with a wedding ring and an anklet on her right leg.

I smiled at her and said "I like your anklet", she looked at me confused but politely said thank you.

I obviously walked away.

Thought this was a well known thing or am I wrong??"

I know how you feel, I've been knocking the door of every house with pampas grass outside expecting to be invited to a swingers party but all I get is confused looks...

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas

definitely not I just wear them because I think they are pretty

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By *B69Woman
over a year ago

Wiltshire

It’s just jewellery to me, no meaning to it at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It’s just jewellery to me, no meaning to it at all"

What's your like wild?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its just jewelry, nothing more, unless it says something spacific on it, even then its not cool to approch someone and ask

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By *B69Woman
over a year ago

Wiltshire

"It’s just jewellery to me, no meaning to it at all

What's your like wild?"

2 silver chains with hearts on

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By *arc and KamaCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

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By *arc and KamaCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

Any place where you can buy a good quality anklet? Silver or gold with mfm symbol not just HW letters

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By *osmic-GirlWoman
over a year ago

London

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By *osmic-GirlWoman
over a year ago

London

I must admit that I love wearing anklets in the summer too - I also wear toe rings, and wondered if that also means something too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It’s just jewellery to me, no meaning to it at all

What's your like wild?

2 silver chains with hearts on"

Cool

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

Women should be able to wear or not wear what they want without this shite.

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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago

Wakefield

"Women should be able to wear or not wear what they want without this shite."

What shit?

There is a problem with this thread in that there are specific anklets such as the HW or the three symbols for male female male that are telling the world the wearer engages in sex with multiple males, there are also anklets signifying innocent love, good luck etc and also other anklets that have no particular meaning.

B wears her MFM anklet to actively encourage men to approach her and this has happily led on to full sex at a mutually convenient time with some who have. Approached her. Men can and do know how to complement a woman who is indicating she is open to be approached without causing offence.

We are all adults and as adults have a right to act as we want within the law without being insulted by others.

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

"Is it acceptable to approach someone wearing an anklet in public.

This evening I saw a woman with a wedding ring and an anklet on her right leg.

I smiled at her and said "I like your anklet", she looked at me confused but politely said thank you.

I obviously walked away.

Thought this was a well known thing or am I wrong??

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By *rGenuineMan
over a year ago

Purley

Yes every woman wearing an anklet knows what it means and is gagging to do it with anyone at the back of the car park. I thought this was common knowledge?

Wow some of these threads...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not all anklets mean hot wife and not all hot wives want to be approached "

Exactly this - it's fun to think it might get you noticed but in reality I don't want to get approached because of my anklet ...or is this just me?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Reminds me of the time I approached a young couple in their car at a local dogging spot. I’d never done it before so walked up to the window, she wound the window down… looking confused, I realized quickly they were just, you know, parked up.

I played it cool - told them I was undercover police and to watch out for carjackers in the area….

The things you do when you’re young, stupid and totally caught on the hop

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wife had a hotwife anklet she wears. Though she still wouldn’t want to be approached. It’s just Jewelry to her that’s tells people what she likes but that’s it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My wife would wear one over her stockings

It doesn't mean who wants to be approached by a stranger

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area

Wow ! I'm shocked by several people's reaction on this thread. The OP wasn't rude in anyway. Complimenting someone on their jewellery was a subtle and appropriate comment and he acted sensibly immediately the person responded. Stunned that people freak out that a man talked to a female.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Interesting

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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago

Wakefield

We would suggest if anyone is not sure what the gender or sex symbols are they should google gender symbol.

These are symbols used in livestock breeding for decades to distinguish males and females in stock.

If therefore a woman wears a bracelet or more likely an anklet with two male symbols and one female symbol or two female symbols she is sending the world an indication of her preferences.

It is perfectly acceptable in adult conversations to mention her anklet or bracelet, just like one could any other jewellery, that is what happens in social interaction.

It seems to me some here are taking a very infantile approach to immediately think and man would see the two male, one female anklet and instantly think the could then ask her for sex.

In adult conversation a lady's hat, shoes, or even her general dress etc. are always open to polite comment, we would suggest it says more about the individual who instantly assumes otherwise.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wear one but I’m single and it’s just pretty. It means nothing

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

"Is it acceptable to approach someone wearing an anklet in public.

This evening I saw a woman with a wedding ring and an anklet on her right leg.

I smiled at her and said "I like your anklet", she looked at me confused but politely said thank you.

I obviously walked away.

Thought this was a well known thing or am I wrong??"

Wow just wow next if see some with a tin pineapple in there trolley you at them..

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By *hebfg2020Man
over a year ago

Doncaster

Met a lady ones with an anklet , went back to mine … 10 o’clock come, bang at the door, was the police … lady broke her tag curfew….

Careful who you approach with anklets on

Haha

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By *tarburst babydollMan
over a year ago

Dingwall

"Wow ! I'm shocked by several people's reaction on this thread. The OP wasn't rude in anyway. Complimenting someone on their jewellery was a subtle and appropriate comment and he acted sensibly immediately the person responded. Stunned that people freak out that a man talked to a female. "

Agree entirely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I often knock on doors if they have a pampas grass in the front garden

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

I don't think anyone has said that there is anything at all wrong with a man talking to a female. What many think is wrong is a man talking to a female he thinks is an easy pull under the assumption she's a potential fuck because she wears a particular piece of jewellery that he thinks is a secret sexual message to him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Couldn’t have put the point any better

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By *eat and discreetCouple
over a year ago

somewhere

"I’ve worn an anklet on and off for about 30+ years and I didn’t even know swinging existed until about 6 years ago

Mrs J x

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same here x

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Is it acceptable to approach someone wearing an anklet in public.

This evening I saw a woman with a wedding ring and an anklet on her right leg.

I smiled at her and said "I like your anklet", she looked at me confused but politely said thank you.

I obviously walked away.

Thought this was a well known thing or am I wrong??"

What were you expecting her to reply ? Fancy a quick shag behind the KFC bins ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would imagine the vast majority of folk wouldn't know the connection and a LOT of women just wear them because they're pretty... I've worn one but not because I'm a swinger. I wouldn't even class myself as a swinger tbh

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

I wear mine all time and always have, I was unaware of the connotations until I joined here. To me it's a nice piece of jewellery and that is it. However, if approached like the OP o wouldn't be offended, it would be like saying I had a nice necklace on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

End of the day I find them extremely erotic, whether they are supposed to or not.

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By *orsche40Couple
over a year ago

northwich

Check out my latest pic

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