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"I'd say more in the real world " Think men like it when I show more flesh lol I usually totally cover up but on a beach day, men pay attention more | |||
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"I'd say more in the real world Think men like it when I show more flesh lol I usually totally cover up but on a beach day, men pay attention more " there you go then. you have attraction | |||
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"In person, I rarely get looked at, asked out etc but in the fab world, it a completely different story like I live a double life. Do you feel the same way when you go on fab? " Quite surprised at that OP, thought you would get a lot of attention in the real world based on your pics. | |||
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"In person, I rarely get looked at, asked out etc but in the fab world, it a completely different story like I live a double life. Do you feel the same way when you go on fab? " With so many men on here and the confidence that ‘hiding’ behind a keyboard gives it stands to reason you get hit on more here. Guys who wouldn’t be confident enough to approach you in person would be more likely to chance their arm messaging you here! As for your original question…….as a single guy on here there’s too much competition from better looking guys on here | |||
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"In person, I rarely get looked at, asked out etc but in the fab world, it a completely different story like I live a double life. Do you feel the same way when you go on fab? Quite surprised at that OP, thought you would get a lot of attention in the real world based on your pics." no men never approach me apart from the cray cray ones lol | |||
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"What is fab popularity though? In the real world I take people as I find them and never concern myself with popularity contests. I take the same approach on here but others have said that they didn't think I would chat to them because I'm so popular in the forums. Just because I post on a semi regular basis doesn't make me popular. In fact because I take a no bs approach I'd argue it makes me less popular. Perceived popularity is a thing on here. " popularity is good as you're more likely to find someone you're compactible with. Unless you're super lucky to find the right person from afew looking at your profile and messaging you. In reality, we know that's unlikely? | |||
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"In person, I rarely get looked at, asked out etc but in the fab world, it a completely different story like I live a double life. Do you feel the same way when you go on fab? " a It's the total opposite for me OP, I'm pretty much ignored on Fab but I get a lot of female attention in person; which is why I enjoy clubs so much. | |||
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"In person, I rarely get looked at, asked out etc but in the fab world, it a completely different story like I live a double life. Do you feel the same way when you go on fab? a It's the total opposite for me OP, I'm pretty much ignored on Fab but I get a lot of female attention in person; which is why I enjoy clubs so much. " I can't wait to go to some clubs and see if i get as much attention there as on fab be interested to find out if its my face putting people off or not | |||
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"I can't wait to go to some clubs and see if i get as much attention there as on fab be interested to find out if its my face putting people off or not " You’ll get loads of attentions in clubs because there’ll be likeminded people who’ll be more comfortable around you and feel more confident approaching you there | |||
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"you can tell how popular you are when your replies to a thread are constantly overlooked by the op but they reply to others. thankfully im not that rude" I'm Billy no mates on that score | |||
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"I'm not popular here OR in real life! " Nor us but it's fine. We're happy | |||
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"In person, I rarely get looked at, asked out etc but in the fab world, it a completely different story like I live a double life. Do you feel the same way when you go on fab? " Hi hun. It used to be that way for me when I was slimmer and had a much higher profile on here. Embarrassingly I was often introduced to people as ‘fab famous’ or ‘fab royalty’. Fortunately I didn’t take the hype seriously - and on the upside I got to meet, chat to and occasionally shag some marvellous people. In the real world I’m a working middle aged mum and often pretty invisible - which is how I like it a lot of the time. The last thing my teenagers want or need is for their mum to look ‘hot’ or be ogled when we’re out. For that reason I always had two very different personas. Now I’ve put weight on and gained a few more wrinkles with the menopause I get to be invisible everywhere! | |||
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"In person, I rarely get looked at, asked out etc but in the fab world, it a completely different story like I live a double life. Do you feel the same way when you go on fab? " Think it's cause I'm fab people get to see what is hiding under your clothes. Start wearing bikinis and you'll get guys coming from all sides in the real world haha | |||
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"Personally I want to approach a lass out and about but either don't know what to say or feel like I'm going to be bothering her. I never get approached and don't think I've ever caught anyone looking at me unless you count my ex haha" Hundreds of years ago when I was young men would just start talking. Most of them would back off if I made it clear I wasn't interested. I think all these dating apps have made it more difficult for people in real life | |||
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"In person, I rarely get looked at, asked out etc but in the fab world, it a completely different story like I live a double life. Do you feel the same way when you go on fab? " Cherry I’m at a loss with you tbh. From what I remember if you’re profile before you blocked me your a pretty hot looking woman and definitely popular on fab. As long as I can remember you have been looking for that one fwb and as your still looking I assume you haven’t found one. I also assume you’re photos are real so you’re obviously hot in the real world too so why you’re not getting approached by suitable guys out there I really am at a loss? Have you any ideas yourself? I do know a few women who unless they find absolute perfection they won’t dive in and they are all living sexless and lonely lives. Could it be your setting an unattainable bar ? Malcolm x | |||
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"In person, I rarely get looked at, asked out etc but in the fab world, it a completely different story like I live a double life. Do you feel the same way when you go on fab? " Not really it’s about the same. Still I’ve been told, “god loves a trier!”. Just shame I’m not religious lol | |||
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"Personally I want to approach a lass out and about but either don't know what to say or feel like I'm going to be bothering her. I never get approached and don't think I've ever caught anyone looking at me unless you count my ex haha Hundreds of years ago when I was young men would just start talking. Most of them would back off if I made it clear I wasn't interested. I think all these dating apps have made it more difficult for people in real life" Yes I 100% agree with that. But they aren't helpful at all as even some of my female mates have said that they're pointless. The only time I've actually had a proper chat with a lass is when I've been at a party or a nightclub. But even then it has not really lead to anywhere as I'm not the greatest as progressing from going from the chatting to the let's go stage. Been on nights out and my mates have called me an idiot for not taking her home and I was like... She was into me? haha | |||
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"In person, I rarely get looked at, asked out etc but in the fab world, it a completely different story like I live a double life. Do you feel the same way when you go on fab? " Yes, offline no one looks at me twice. | |||
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"you can tell how popular you are when your replies to a thread are constantly overlooked by the op but they reply to others. thankfully im not that rude" Us with the transparent posts! () | |||
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"Personally I want to approach a lass out and about but either don't know what to say or feel like I'm going to be bothering her. I never get approached and don't think I've ever caught anyone looking at me unless you count my ex haha Hundreds of years ago when I was young men would just start talking. Most of them would back off if I made it clear I wasn't interested. I think all these dating apps have made it more difficult for people in real life Yes I 100% agree with that. But they aren't helpful at all as even some of my female mates have said that they're pointless. The only time I've actually had a proper chat with a lass is when I've been at a party or a nightclub. But even then it has not really lead to anywhere as I'm not the greatest as progressing from going from the chatting to the let's go stage. Been on nights out and my mates have called me an idiot for not taking her home and I was like... She was into me? haha" I know a bit of how it is for the younger dating generation nowadays from our kids. One's married but they met through mutual friends the other is very friendly and will literally strike up a conversation anywhere with anybody and never seems short of a date. However it does seem far less acceptable to approach people cold now. | |||
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"Personally I want to approach a lass out and about but either don't know what to say or feel like I'm going to be bothering her. I never get approached and don't think I've ever caught anyone looking at me unless you count my ex haha Hundreds of years ago when I was young men would just start talking. Most of them would back off if I made it clear I wasn't interested. I think all these dating apps have made it more difficult for people in real life Yes I 100% agree with that. But they aren't helpful at all as even some of my female mates have said that they're pointless. The only time I've actually had a proper chat with a lass is when I've been at a party or a nightclub. But even then it has not really lead to anywhere as I'm not the greatest as progressing from going from the chatting to the let's go stage. Been on nights out and my mates have called me an idiot for not taking her home and I was like... She was into me? haha I know a bit of how it is for the younger dating generation nowadays from our kids. One's married but they met through mutual friends the other is very friendly and will literally strike up a conversation anywhere with anybody and never seems short of a date. However it does seem far less acceptable to approach people cold now. " It's not a matter of being cold. It's a matter of women finding it creepy or annoying these days. I would have thought it would have been flattering for a guy to come up and complement you. But then I've seem a mate at uni do that and the girl has said "well I didn't get dressed for your approval". I just thought what even are people these days. Wasn't even a fact he was a bad looking guy. It was the fact that people don't know what a complement is these day so approaching a person is near impossible because you don't know if they're gonna see it as a predatory attack or an insult. | |||
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"On fab yes , on the forums no " yeah me too, I get inundated with messages but nothing in real life or on forums. like to see if i meet people in clubs | |||
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"On fab yes , on the forums no yeah me too, I get inundated with messages but nothing in real life or on forums. like to see if i meet people in clubs " I'll be honest. Looking at your body can't comment on your face as you don't show it on your profile. You are definitely up there on the attractive scale so in the real world guys are probably shy to come up to you or because of your age maybe assume you already have someone in your life so don't want to bother you. | |||
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"i get no looks. but thats not important, what is important to me is finding out who you are. im sure a lot of you ladies get looks just dont see it " I'm shocked by this. You're gorgeous. | |||
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"In person, I rarely get looked at, asked out etc but in the fab world, it a completely different story like I live a double life. Do you feel the same way when you go on fab? a It's the total opposite for me OP, I'm pretty much ignored on Fab but I get a lot of female attention in person; which is why I enjoy clubs so much. I can't wait to go to some clubs and see if i get as much attention there as on fab be interested to find out if its my face putting people off or not " I rarely get approached in real life... Definitely my face that's the problem... It says everything so I don't need to | |||
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"In person, I rarely get looked at, asked out etc but in the fab world, it a completely different story like I live a double life. Do you feel the same way when you go on fab? " I'm aloof in both worlds, so nobody approaches | |||
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"I definitely get more attention here than irl. I might need to try going out to the pubs topless " If you do I will need the details of when and where | |||
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"I probably get a similar amount of attention, on here and irl. I get more messages on here though " One of the best bodies on fab | |||
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"In person, I rarely get looked at, asked out etc but in the fab world, it a completely different story like I live a double life. Do you feel the same way when you go on fab? " It's the opposite for me, I have much more success in the 'real' world, than on fab. | |||
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"In person, I rarely get looked at, asked out etc but in the fab world, it a completely different story like I live a double life. Do you feel the same way when you go on fab? Quite surprised at that OP, thought you would get a lot of attention in the real world based on your pics. no men never approach me apart from the cray cray ones lol " Driven round 5 times now and still can’t find you | |||
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"In person, I rarely get looked at, asked out etc but in the fab world, it a completely different story like I live a double life. Do you feel the same way when you go on fab? " It's obvious really. In a real world people are not looking at you for sex. Lust etc but as a human being. On Fab you are a potential sex partner. Not rocket science. | |||
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"I probably get a similar amount of attention, on here and irl. I get more messages on here though One of the best bodies on fab " Thank you | |||
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"In person, I rarely get looked at, asked out etc but in the fab world, it a completely different story like I live a double life. Do you feel the same way when you go on fab? It's obvious really. In a real world people are not looking at you for sex. Lust etc but as a human being. On Fab you are a potential sex partner. Not rocket science. " I disagree as how comes some members say they're more popular with opposite sex outside of fab? | |||
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