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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Friendship and sex without ploughing through the whole of fab…..possible?

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By *ypairCouple
over a year ago

Alsager

Depending on attitude not impossible.

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By *ubman50Man
over a year ago

chelmsford

Yes i think its possible but its hard trying to find the genuine ones

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

We have found it.

We have become really good friends with a couple of couples.

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By *ecky and justCouple
over a year ago

Godalming

It’s certainly achievable.

We’ve been lucky to find a lovely couple that we’ve become great friends with, extending beyond fab and into real life.

We have lots of close fab friends as well.

It helps if prospective friends are close by, makes meeting and establishing a friendship a lot easier.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We’re finding it hard to find a couple that are happy to chat and get to know us before an initial meet as we have a young family. A lot of couples seem eager for that initial meet. We have a busy life with work and kids (as most do) so we want to make sure that initial social meet isn’t time wasted because we didn’t chat and get to know the couples basic goals from fab and a swinging friendship

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Friends would be nice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing is impossible.

Difficult maybe.

But I keep an open mind towards couples and hope I get to meet some lovely ones that turn into a friendship

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Friendship and sex without ploughing through the whole of fab…..possible?"

Yes entirely possible

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

Defenitly is possible

Most the couples i met we became great friends and we play frequently . Yes i have lucky in found them because we have build friendship

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury


"We’re finding it hard to find a couple that are happy to chat and get to know us before an initial meet as we have a young family. A lot of couples seem eager for that initial meet. We have a busy life with work and kids (as most do) so we want to make sure that initial social meet isn’t time wasted because we didn’t chat and get to know the couples basic goals from fab and a swinging friendship "

Just keep messaging, ask questions. The right couple will feel the same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would love to chat to a couple or single lady. About absolutely anything, not necessarily about sex. I just love to chat but initially shy

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By *rGenuineMan
over a year ago

Purley

Definitely. I’ve made friends with two couples and it’s lovely.

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By *ecky and justCouple
over a year ago

Godalming

We cannot emphasise enough how much more intimate things are for us with friends.

To be able to go out for dinner or date nights on a non sexual basis and enjoy everyone’s company and then have nights where there are almost no limits is truly liberating.

The level of trust is so high that we feel so much closer.

Sounds gushy I know, but it’s an amazing feeling.

We’ve been to fab friends wedding as well, was fun to know that we’d slept with the bride and groom and no one knew.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Exactly what we’re looking for!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We're very friendly

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By *aggy dollsCouple
over a year ago

Bradford


"Friendship and sex without ploughing through the whole of fab…..possible?"

Completely possible we have achieved this with a fellow swinging couple, vanilla socials with the occasional debauchery thrown in for good measure.

Mr Hayes

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

That would be fantastic,

Doesn't seem easy to find though

Miss

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By *aggy dollsCouple
over a year ago

Bradford


"That would be fantastic,

Doesn't seem easy to find though

Miss"

We find its di6to make connections through fab, the process itself is tedious, we achieved it by accident through going to pandora's and we just clicked with a couple who have become very good friends. If you were to read both our fab profiles yould see that it shouldn't work and we would never have contacted eachother but it works perfectly, heres to finding more friends

Mr Hayes

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax


"That would be fantastic,

Doesn't seem easy to find though

Miss

We find its di6to make connections through fab, the process itself is tedious, we achieved it by accident through going to pandora's and we just clicked with a couple who have become very good friends. If you were to read both our fab profiles yould see that it shouldn't work and we would never have contacted eachother but it works perfectly, heres to finding more friends

Mr Hayes "

Brilliant

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By *D81Man
over a year ago

Swindon, Oxford, Bristol,London

Definitely possible but depends on the people and what they are looking for.

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By *izzy.miss.lizzyCouple
over a year ago

Pembrokeshire


"Friendship and sex without ploughing through the whole of fab…..possible?"

It's possible,

I met my Husband here

and have made some good friendships too.

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By *aggy dollsCouple
over a year ago

Bradford


"That would be fantastic,

Doesn't seem easy to find though

Miss

We find its di6to make connections through fab, the process itself is tedious, we achieved it by accident through going to pandora's and we just clicked with a couple who have become very good friends. If you were to read both our fab profiles yould see that it shouldn't work and we would never have contacted eachother but it works perfectly, heres to finding more friends

Mr Hayes

Brilliant "

We also have friends In this world who we don't play with but still meet up with for chats and laughs

Mr Hayes

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By *rinity666Man
over a year ago

Away for work abroad long term,

We met a cpl outside of here..long term friends now more than a decade..its gone beyond the sexual side and lifes intertwine in various ways..if anyone knew the real reasons we all get on lol.. but thats our little secret between us 4..

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By *lym4realCouple
over a year ago

plymouth

We are friends with a few couples( even some males and a female) after talking like grown ups/Adults that the "Sexual Attraction" etc etc wasn't there but they enjoyed our company and we enjoyed theirs ? and sadly had more than a few couples/males and even a few singles fems where the total opposite was true and chaos/insults and general name calling ensued !? and they acted like children but we just blocked/deleted and ignored them...so yes it is possible !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We cannot emphasise enough how much more intimate things are for us with friends.

To be able to go out for dinner or date nights on a non sexual basis and enjoy everyone’s company and then have nights where there are almost no limits is truly liberating.

The level of trust is so high that we feel so much closer.

Sounds gushy I know, but it’s an amazing feeling.

We’ve been to fab friends wedding as well, was fun to know that we’d slept with the bride and groom and no one knew. "

Pretty much our ideal… might not happen so not the be all and end all but would be great to have that kind of relationship where you can just have a night or weekend away without the end goal being jumping into the same bed, but sometimes that does happen and all is good in the world.

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By *itzimadCouple
over a year ago

harwich

you will be lucky to find that scenario online

wve had lots of friends over the year with both couples and singles weve met at clubs and usually its a case of becoming friends first and then possibly sexual one couple we were friends with for 5 years before anything happened sexually

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's something we actively seek... haven't found yet...but totally possible.

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

Seen it have been told works well but not for us.

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By *Ci LutherMan
over a year ago

Taunton

I’m good friends with a couple on here we become friends way before fab.. was a little surprised to see them in here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We cannot emphasise enough how much more intimate things are for us with friends.

To be able to go out for dinner or date nights on a non sexual basis and enjoy everyone’s company and then have nights where there are almost no limits is truly liberating.

The level of trust is so high that we feel so much closer.

Sounds gushy I know, but it’s an amazing feeling.

We’ve been to fab friends wedding as well, was fun to know that we’d slept with the bride and groom and no one knew. "

That must be so sexy to see

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By *oxyukCouple
over a year ago

hitchin

We’d like to make friends with some other couples who are interested in the same sort of things as us without any pressures of playing. Just people we can have a laugh with and discuss non vanilla topics!

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By *ornycpl2000Couple
over a year ago

Swansea

It’s something we’ve been looking for, friends we could go out for dinner with, cinema, theatre, or even a group and if the mood takes everyone some fun, we’ve even toyed with the idea of going out as foursome, but with each partners, like holding hands, touching like normal couples, but with the couples wife, or and visa versa, lots of trust but lots of fun.

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By *rMrsBrightsideCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle

We’d like this. Nothing too regular but people you maybe get together with a couple of times a year and know you’re going to have a great time. The social side being just as important as the sex.

Kx

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By *hrough the looking gla55Couple
over a year ago

Cheam

It’s hard trying to find a match with all four.

But…

Hoping and waiting but until then we’ll be each other’s besties

Bx

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By *ornyandachingCouple
over a year ago

Middlesbrough

This works and works well

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By *unny ValentineCouple
over a year ago

Crewe

Why are all these friendly couples so far away? though surely that has an impact too - distance?

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

Finding the right chemistry between 4 people is easier said than done.

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By *iliciousCouple
over a year ago

South East


"We cannot emphasise enough how much more intimate things are for us with friends.

To be able to go out for dinner or date nights on a non sexual basis and enjoy everyone’s company and then have nights where there are almost no limits is truly liberating.

The level of trust is so high that we feel so much closer.

Sounds gushy I know, but it’s an amazing feeling.

We’ve been to fab friends wedding as well, was fun to know that we’d slept with the bride and groom and no one knew. "

Yep we’ve done the wedding thing as well.

We much prefer to make long term friendships. We have a very long time term one with a great couple who are best friends now both.vanilla and intimately.

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By *orkshrCplCouple
over a year ago

Ripon

Definitely possible x

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

We'd prefer friendship only, now that's super difficult. We like our single male meets only but friends with swinger couples are proving impossible, we're going to clubs soon and expecting it to be even more difficult there tbh.

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By *actileGent69Man
over a year ago

East Cheshire

Possible but incredibly difficult. We've had a few couple friendships that lasted from a few months to a couple of years but all faded away (they missed the excitement of meeting new folk, turned a bit weird, split up or wanted something different like a normal relationship etc). We have on the other hand kept the male half of one past couple for a few years now and a new lady has joined our clan and seems to be a long term thing too !. Fingers crossed you find something good and lasting...

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By *anestewartCouple
over a year ago

Worcestershire

We’d like this

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By *rumcouple2013Couple
over a year ago

Tamworth

Yes it is possible. We had had some great friendships with couples over the years. But it does take a while to find the right ones.

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