FabSwingers.com forum: ,why would you go bareback

By *andystick72 OP Man
over a year ago

kinky Street

The amount of peeps going bareback and some of the pictures on hear,it's a great advertisement for a trip to your sti clinic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thier bodies, thier choice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not for us but neither is judging people we don't know

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By *andystick72 OP Man
over a year ago

kinky Street

Not judging people either

Life's short enough

And after reading about someone who on a course of pep, (I think that's what's they said ) and he's got to tell he's wife ,

Agree it's there choice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not judging people either

Life's short enough

And after reading about someone who on a course of pep, (I think that's what's they said ) and he's got to tell he's wife ,

Agree it's there choice "

Well thats a good advertisment that the gov could use to help reduce sti's.

"Wear a condom & your wife will never know your cheating"

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By *vpamelaTV/TS
over a year ago

kinkville

"The amount of peeps going bareback and some of the pictures on hear,it's a great advertisement for a trip to your sti clinic

Well, some of them are married, in a committed relationship, exclusive fuckbuddies, etc etc.

And a few (a very small few, hopefully) like to roll the dice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In a trusted FWB arrangement and appropriate tests then I can see no issue.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you mean here not hear and their not there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do blow jobs without a condom count ?

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

No idea, someone I chatted to had a scare last week, girl he'd seen tested positive for Chlamydia despite being careful, and after she'd been with him she'd had a gang bang... So I dread to think how many more people she had to msg.

It's really not worth the risk in my eyes, and then for some of us there's babies to worry about!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer bare, it feels much better and condoms cause me dryness and irritation making sex uncomfortable, even latex free. I get tested monthly and have never had a STI, I'm honest with all my partners, our risk to take xx

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

"The amount of peeps going bareback and some of the pictures on hear,it's a great advertisement for a trip to your sti clinic

Just chill not your problem.

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By *abasaurus RexMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

"The amount of peeps going bareback and some of the pictures on hear,it's a great advertisement for a trip to your sti clinic

Live and let live.

Or is this another knight in armour thread where someone appeals to a popular topic to win favour?

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By *andystick72 OP Man
over a year ago

kinky Street

"I think you mean here not hear and their not there "

Nice 1,, pre txt took over I think

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

"Do blow jobs without a condom count ?"
not in the same league as full sex without a condom. Some risks yes but much lower.

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By *rOralMan
over a year ago

Dublin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don’t you get tested ever?? Even if you have protected sex with lots of people you should at least get a regular test.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do blow jobs without a condom count ?"

Yes they do.

I find that people often criticise BB but don’t see the hypocrisy of having oral sex without protection?

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By *mma29Couple
over a year ago

wirral

"Do blow jobs without a condom count ?

Yes they do.

I find that people often criticise BB but don’t see the hypocrisy of having oral sex without protection? "

Probably because they aren't aware of the dangers of HPV and head and neck cancers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we have bb between oursevles, but we are in a comited relationship, but we never go bare with anyone else, not worth the risk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do those who chose to not use condoms get any of the Hepatitus/Hpv injections, or use Prep as a precaution?

People will make their own decisions on how to play. Sometimes all rules go out the window when a steamy, adenaline fueled session is happening.

I think instinct and intuition on play partners are a key factor as well before taking the step, as well as regular testing.

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By *uitednbooted2Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

"In a trusted FWB arrangement and appropriate tests then I can see no issue. "

Exactly this

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By *attoo manMan
over a year ago

Rhyl

I will go bareback every time if i could. If have to wear a condom then so be it.

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By *actileGent69Man
over a year ago

East Cheshire

"In a trusted FWB arrangement and appropriate tests then I can see no issue. "

Absolutely !

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Their circus, their monkeys.

Makes it an easy filter as to who not to meet x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because they want to. You do you, they can do them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally no.

If others do that's fine.

I don't hold it against anyone who chooses too

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By *assing Fancies xCouple
over a year ago

Sherwood Forest

"Not judging people either

Life's short enough

And after reading about someone who on a course of pep, (I think that's what's they said ) and he's got to tell he's wife ,

Agree it's there choice "
absolutely sounds like you are judging or why even make the post?

each to there own and all that

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By *uzboxCouple
over a year ago

Northwich

For an outdoor meet its condoms, sun block, baseball cap, sun glasses, face mask, rigger boots, hi-viz, ear defenders and a pair of marigolds. Not playing safe, just like dressing up.

Seems nowadays that asking people to wear a face mask and respect personal space is asking to much, so why be so risk averse when it comes to sex?

I have had the snip so she ain't on the pill, so we use condoms for what the were originally intended (no babies)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because they want to. You do you, they can do them."

I'm getting bored of doing me now

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By *andystick72 OP Man
over a year ago

kinky Street

"Their circus, their monkeys.

Makes it an easy filter as to who not to meet x"

100% agree with that

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By *atonMan
over a year ago

barnet

"The amount of peeps going bareback and some of the pictures on hear,it's a great advertisement for a trip to your sti clinic

Live and let live.

Or is this another knight in armour thread where someone appeals to a popular topic to win favour?

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Yes its called white knighting..a simp tactic

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By *ewcouple11169Couple
over a year ago

Glasgow

Let's be honest, nothing feels better than being filled with cum.

Only with my bf atm, I'd love to do it with others & he would love me to as well. I'm sure it'll happen sometime.

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

Bare is definitely nicer and less faff.

I only go bare with my husband but as adults, we can all make our own decisions, as to what level of risk we're willing to take.

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By *ugRollersCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle

I don’t mind the guy not having one on when giving bj but needs to have one on during sex. I think it’s fair to say everyone prefers bareback... probably more so the blokes for the feeling but I’d worry about impregnation and catching something that I then pass to hubs ... but each to their own and all that

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By *ornwallkink2017Couple
over a year ago

Cornwall

"I prefer bare, it feels much better and condoms cause me dryness and irritation making sex uncomfortable, even latex free. I get tested monthly and have never had a STI, I'm honest with all my partners, our risk to take xx"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In a complete ideal world none of us would use condoms let's be honest. But suppose it's all down to your own risk judgement

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By *aylonMan
over a year ago

Earlsfield

Because it feels great, what's funny is alot of people who go on about no bareback, in the heat of the moment so many change their mind, their sexual desires kick in and they just want it in. After they've cum they chuckle when ask what happened to the condom ??

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Personally, if I was into pontificating, I’d. be better off in church, not on a fun sexual contact site,

Think that either or or not is context linked.

Personally, I like and.

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By *iman2100Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

I think this topic must have been the first on any Fab forum and it almost always goes the same way. No to bareback or yes to bareback; saints and sinners. If however it is looked upon as a simple matter of risk to life and limb it is a little more interesting.

IF, you attend a STI clinic regularly, as you should whether or not you use condoms, then no TREATED STI these days is going to kill you and very few cause any serious harm. Not even HIV AIDS. [I know the treatment is onerous but we are talking risk here.]

Alternatively you will find on Fab smokers demanding condoms when their chances of dying of cancer are around 1 in 5. Bike riding has a far higher risk of death and injury, rock climbing, driving, obesity, alcohol abuse and so on.

So why is there such a preoccupation with STDs? Well it is, I would suggest, the embarrassment factor. It is easier to tell friends and relatives "Tony is a paraplegic because he had a motorbike accident" than "Charlie has 3 small warts on his ball sack from a STI."

I would also hazard to suggest that those facing the greatest risk from the ill effects of untreated STDs are those who wear condoms and consequently decide to NEVER get tested at a clinic and are thus unaware they have a STI. The "sinners" at least find out and get treated and can act accordingly whilst infectious.

So each to their own. You assess the risks and rewards and make your own choices but I suggest you do so on the basis of a realistic risk assessment and not one coloured by the social acceptability of the risk occuring.

[Footnote - I know there are condom wearers who get tested. I know there are barebackers who have never caught a STI. I know circumcised cocks are much less likely to become infected, etc etc. I was discussing the risks involved and why the apparent fear of a STI is disproportionately high.]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a married couple obviously we play bareback together. Like a few people above we do that because it just feels nicer. Me personally, I don’t like condoms because I lose feeling but I fully understand the necessity of them when playing with others. We would always abide by other people’s wishes. If they insisted on condoms I would never question it. It is down to personal choice, just be careful.

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By *ust_FlynnMan
over a year ago

St Neots

Im a student nurse and I spent a placement working in a sexual health clinic. Seeing first hand the physical and mental effects that catching/passing on sti's has on people is all the eye opening I need.

Long term relationships and regular trusted arrangements are a different thing but first meets and one offs we'd never go with out.

We use protection when fucking other people and we still get tested monthly (the home kits make it so simple these days) I wonder how many people who arent using protection actually do get regular tests rather than just saying they do ?

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By *agpie and RavenMan
over a year ago

Leicester

"I think this topic must have been the first on any Fab forum and it almost always goes the same way. No to bareback or yes to bareback; saints and sinners. If however it is looked upon as a simple matter of risk to life and limb it is a little more interesting.

Put way more eloquently than I could've done.

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By *ftereightMan
over a year ago

SouthEast

Personally we strictly only play with others using condoms for full sex (as a married couple with each other obviously we dont). We also take notice if people are into bareback on Fab to if interacting with them and will generally avoid barebackers.

We get tested every 6 weeks if we have been actively swinging to..as we are fully aware of risks via oral etc.

I will say if either of us was in a committed long term fwb deal with regular testing, condom use might be a different scenario but the chances of that happening are very remote..and that certainly doesn't qualify us as barebackers.

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By *uitednbooted2Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

Surely it’s down to common sense and respect for those you play with. It’s been so long now I can’t even remember what bareback feels like. However if I was in a trusted exclusive fwb arrangement I would go bare of course.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm with those who believe you have to assess the risk and your own feelings about the people you meet and whether you can trust them, especially when they claim to have had few partners.

I play bareback with the couple I've been seeing for a while and that's worked fine, but I would be very hesitant to do so with anyone new.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The amount of peeps going bareback and some of the pictures on hear,it's a great advertisement for a trip to your sti clinic

You just look after you!

Even people away from this swinging lifestyle, still take chances!

It's because you have the pictures of proof, that's messing with your mind!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The amount of peeps going bareback and some of the pictures on hear,it's a great advertisement for a trip to your sti clinic

You just look after you!

Even people away from this swinging lifestyle, still take chances!

It's because you have the pictures of proof, that's messing with your mind!"

Reasonable

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

definitely wouldn't myself. let alone sti, what about unwanted pregnancy?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The amount of peeps going bareback and some of the pictures on hear,it's a great advertisement for a trip to your sti clinic

Hopefully people have been vaccinated against Hepatitis A and B plus HPV. They could have ‘on-demand dosing’ of PREP to reduce any risk of HIV infection. But as for everything else, open and exposed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think with people using that kind of pic on there profiles let’s you know who you can avoid if BB is not your thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think with people using that kind of pic on there profiles let’s you know who you can avoid if BB is not your thing "

Possibly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love bareback nothing better than the feel of ait, totally understand why others don't just a personal preference

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

"The amount of peeps going bareback and some of the pictures on hear,it's a great advertisement for a trip to your sti clinic

I do not do bareback sex but wondered OP if you wore a condom when receiving oral?.

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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago

Wakefield

"The amount of peeps going bareback and some of the pictures on hear,it's a great advertisement for a trip to your sti clinic

Sensible people on here get regularly tested whether they bareback or not.

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By *asher11Man
over a year ago

playa del ingles

nobody has mentioned russian roulette yet

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By *B_andyMan
over a year ago

Rochdale

Nothing pisses me off more than some pillock trying to pass off moral judgement on someone else. As my username suggests I'm bb all the way. I'm careful who I have sex with. I get tested regularly, I'm on PREP. In over 40 years of bb fun I've never had an STI and even if I do I know to get it treated pronto. And they are all treatable so what's the OP's beef?

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By *inkyKittyWoman
over a year ago

Swindon

Like most I do prefer bare back, but never ever would I go bare back at the start.

granted, once a friendship and trust is built I may do. But that’s my choice!

After being in the scene for sometime and reading/learning from professional health care professionals, it’s not always the common STDs you should be worried about. That’s what made my choice not to bare back.

Before covid I saw a small number of people going bare back, who I knew had just met. Before I’d have said something, but now think it’s their choice and their responsibility.

As it’s been said before, it’s your body, your choice. Live it they way you want to!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I trust the people person and do with a long term group

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By *wistedbambi69Woman
over a year ago

Somerset

"Do blow jobs without a condom count ?

Yes they do.

I find that people often criticise BB but don’t see the hypocrisy of having oral sex without protection? "

This

it isn't as easily transmitted, but the risk is still there. I just test regularly between meets, then if I have anything, I know where it came from. I don't do BB but I do oral with no condom

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By *inkyKittyWoman
over a year ago

Swindon

"Do blow jobs without a condom count ?

Yes they do.

I find that people often criticise BB but don’t see the hypocrisy of having oral sex without protection?

This

it isn't as easily transmitted, but the risk is still there. I just test regularly between meets, then if I have anything, I know where it came from. I don't do BB but I do oral with no condom"

Herpes can be transmitted very easily this way … one touch of the skin!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nothing pisses me off more than some pillock trying to pass off moral judgement on someone else. As my username suggests I'm bb all the way. I'm careful who I have sex with. I get tested regularly, I'm on PREP. In over 40 years of bb fun I've never had an STI and even if I do I know to get it treated pronto. And they are all treatable so what's the OP's beef? "

No, they are NOT all treatable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

These forum posts are just make us laugh. We are quite honest on our profile about playing bare and the reason why. We get tested monthly using the free online NHS kits and in 30 years have never caught anything.

It always surprises us just how many times we are messaged by couples and the occasional single ladie who say they love bb despite what it says on their profiles!

All you anti bb people who try to ram your views onto others, need to just step back. You are simply bullying others by trying to impose your views on them when you can simply press the block button. Perhaps even ask yourself if you should be on this site at all if you are so worried about catching something!

According to the docs you are almost as likely to catch a sti from oral sex but how many of us ask for a dental dam or use a condom for that?

Please feel free to block us from your profile, it is amazingly simple to do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Put way more eloquently than I could've done."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just another one of life’s choices that we decide on and have to live with, it’s not any more complicated than that really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a learning curb...

Hopefully he's doing just that, by reading this thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"definitely wouldn't myself. let alone sti, what about unwanted pregnancy? "

Depends on your family situation and how much you're concerned about having more children really xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't go bareback unless I know the guy well and know they're not sleeping around.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The amount of peeps going bareback and some of the pictures on hear,it's a great advertisement for a trip to your sti clinic

How can a visual be on hear, images you’re looking at them not listening to them.

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By *ubal1Man
over a year ago

Newry Down

If two couples trust each other and are regularly tested, BB is fine; 'trust' in this instance infers that the matter of BB penetration (anal, vaginal or both) or oral stimulation without condoms, etc., has been thoroughly negotiated and discussed, and reassurances given that other casual encounters are protected.

There are no guarantees, but if both couples prefer BB, there has to be a degree of commitment.

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By *ollydoesWoman
over a year ago

Shangri-La

I met a guy while back. Had already spoken and he was the one who asked about B&B and I said safe only. When we got down to it at the time and I said about grabbing his condoms or mine, he got in a little flap but went and got them. Was all fingers and thumbs tryimg to get it on and I said " you got the right size they look small" his reply was " I dont know, I've never bothered wearing one before, don't know why your wanting me to now"..

I did point out that is exactly the reason no BB.

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By *aunchy RaccoonsCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

Only between us. There's just so much at risk.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any matelots on this thread?

I wear my pussers thick blacks for protection, they’re safe as fuck.

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By *edicinneedMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

Mimi please do share your friend’s details as Many of us enjoy bareback creampie fun. I get tested 2 weeks after ever meet. Why two weeks. 12 days is the average incubation period for an STI. Regular sexual health checks confirm cleanliness and so long as your circle of friends also play in this way unprotected is fine. Prep is also advisable. Medic x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I met a guy while back. Had already spoken and he was the one who asked about B&B and I said safe only. When we got down to it at the time and I said about grabbing his condoms or mine, he got in a little flap but went and got them. Was all fingers and thumbs tryimg to get it on and I said " you got the right size they look small" his reply was " I dont know, I've never bothered wearing one before, don't know why your wanting me to now"..

I did point out that is exactly the reason no BB.

Are you sure he wasn't asking for bed and breakfast?

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By *wholeLotOfRosieWoman
over a year ago

Pontypridd

I don’t judge, I just play my way. But your comments are not accurate and if you are saying this stuff to other people you may be putting them at risk.

Not all STIs are treatable. Some stay with you for life.

Prep is useful for people exposed to hiv. If you haven’t been exposed why are you on it? It offers no protection to any other STI.

There’s no way to know who may be infected. They may not know themselves. So being careful is as much use in safe sex as withdrawing is in pregnancy prevention.

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

"The amount of peeps going bareback and some of the pictures on hear,it's a great advertisement for a trip to your sti clinic

It’s really not any of your business what other people do

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By *ominant 71Man
over a year ago

Durham

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The amount of peeps going bareback and some of the pictures on hear,it's a great advertisement for a trip to your sti clinic

Maybe they choose to use Prep and visit the Sti clinic regularly?

Unless you use condoms and dams for oral too then you are not immune!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not judging people either

Life's short enough

And after reading about someone who on a course of pep, (I think that's what's they said ) and he's got to tell he's wife ,

Agree it's there choice "

Prep, pep would be pepper and not nice

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By *rivervaderMan
over a year ago

bolton

Aslong as ur honest with each other of ur sex partners it’s ok

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By *um2me123Man
over a year ago

burin

In an exclusive fwb type situation theres so many reasons why its so much messy fun.

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By *inkyKittyWoman
over a year ago

Swindon

"Aslong as ur honest with each other of ur sex partners it’s ok"

Even I question this with FWB….. it’s easy to say you don’t go BB with anyone else.

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By *um2me123Man
over a year ago

burin

Very true _inkykitty...if thats your desire for sure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow a man of your age actually believes they are all treatable. My god.

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By *ounty durham bbw coupleCouple
over a year ago

darlington

People pick and choose what they outraged about some folks who are vocal against bareback were looking for meets on status in lockdown a lot more people than admit it in forum play bare

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By *luttyLaylaWoman
over a year ago

North West

Why do you care lol.

Just block people your not interested in (for any reason) and move on lol.

The arguments for and against bare are totally obvious... lol

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By *aughtywifeandhimCouple
over a year ago

bedford

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its a definite yes for us, with a trusted regular guy

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By *iman2100Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

"The amount of peeps going bareback and some of the pictures on hear,it's a great advertisement for a trip to your sti clinic

You should be going to the STI clinic whether you do BB or not. Are you saying you never go because you are safe sex only?

From a risk point of view, if the generally harmless (if treated) sti diseases fill you with such dread what steps do you take to avoid the big killers in life? Smoking, alcohol, influenza, bicycling, motor bikes, hanggliding, contact sports, flying, etc etc.

Remember it is quite reasonable for you to wear a condom with a new female but not realise she has ebola!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

free will. Human choice. Risk assessed. It’s a turn in. It feels better. You don’t know the relationship of that people involved.. Etc etc etc.

And for crying out loud.. everyone.. you should all be on PrEP.

Taht you be the question. Are you on PrEP? If not why not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Two things.

PrEP = cannot catch HIV from others.

HIV+ undetectable = cannot transmit HIV to others.

anyone who Is one of the above is safer than someone whose tested every 3months.

FACT.

https://www.tht.org.uk/hiv-and-sexual-health/prep-pre-exposure-prophylaxis

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By *ollydoesWoman
over a year ago

Shangri-La

I did point out that is exactly the reason no BB.

Are you sure he wasn't asking for bed and breakfast? "

Whoops lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve been on and off fab for years and you would be surprised how many go bare but would never say so. How many people have arranged meets and safe sex has never been talked before you meet. I’m straight out asking people I meet. Have you been tested. If so when. I’ve got emails and text from my test results I’ll show.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The amount of peeps going bareback and some of the pictures on hear,it's a great advertisement for a trip to your sti clinic

I think when it comes to pictures then some could be with long term partners so don't be too quick to judge.

But in the end I can see the appeal, it feels better and they may be prepared for the risk.

We can only hope people are informed and make their choices, we don't have to join them.

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By *innerforthreeMan
over a year ago

London/herts

Given the stats, 1 in 10 of us are carrying type 2 herpes, that's the nasty genital one not the still quite nasty oral one.

Given that's an average of the whole adult population it's going to be higher in the swinging community, which suggests that quite a lot of people on this thread will have it!

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By *estMidsHotwifeCouple
over a year ago

Near Malvern

OP you're a hero and nobody will think for one minute you're white knighting...

As for us, we only play bareback together and with others if there is a Y in the day. Otherwise its condoms and morph suits all the way.

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By *m3232Man
over a year ago

maidenhead

I avoid the ones that advertise for bareback.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Still talking about it… yawn

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By *edicinneedMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

"OP you're a hero and nobody will think for one minute you're white knighting...

As for us, we only play bareback together and with others if there is a Y in the day. Otherwise its condoms and morph suits all the way."

So bareback at the weekend?

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By *moothdickMan
over a year ago

stoke

Cuz it’s a great feeling

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t judge, I just play my way. But your comments are not accurate and if you are saying this stuff to other people you may be putting them at risk.

Not all STIs are treatable. Some stay with you for life.

Prep is useful for people exposed to hiv. If you haven’t been exposed why are you on it? It offers no protection to any other STI.

There’s no way to know who may be infected. They may not know themselves. So being careful is as much use in safe sex as withdrawing is in pregnancy prevention. "

It's also giving the wrong impression from the OPs perception - that ALL cocks in a pussy picture are of somebody they've met for the first time to fuck.... Those two people could of known each other for a while and let's face it, either one, might not be on here at all and pics are from a relationship....

Worth a thought!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The amount of peeps going bareback and some of the pictures on hear,it's a great advertisement for a trip to your sti clinic

Only with own partner.

There are only two reasons for bareback sex . One is it feels natural and the second is some guys can't get erection with a condom.

All other things are just filthy play like cucks love cleaning up creampies etc .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thier bodies, thier choice."

Totally agree but they put others at risk who play safe . They should be playing with like minded people only .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do blow jobs without a condom count ?

Yes they do.

I find that people often criticise BB but don’t see the hypocrisy of having oral sex without protection?

Probably because they aren't aware of the dangers of HPV and head and neck cancers"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thier bodies, thier choice.

Totally agree but they put others at risk who play safe . They should be playing with like minded people only .

May I ask for an example how they put others at risk who play safe?

Would like to learn something here....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thier bodies, thier choice.

Totally agree but they put others at risk who play safe . They should be playing with like minded people only .

May I ask for an example how they put others at risk who play safe?

Would like to learn something here.... "

Probably because they have unprotected oral with everyonethey meet!

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By *apxxxWoman
over a year ago

North Shropshire not Wales!!!ffs & Manchester

"The amount of peeps going bareback and some of the pictures on hear,it's a great advertisement for a trip to your sti clinic

They can do what they like...doesn't affect my life..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The amount of peeps going bareback and some of the pictures on hear,it's a great advertisement for a trip to your sti clinic

"
nothing wrong if you di that with you regular partner.when it comes to random shags it's a bit weird alright.but we are all different I suppose.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thier bodies, thier choice.

Totally agree but they put others at risk who play safe . They should be playing with like minded people only .

May I ask for an example how they put others at risk who play safe?

Would like to learn something here....

Probably because they have unprotected oral with everyonethey meet! "

Well that tells me nobody is 100% safe....

Always fucks my mind up the BB chat ... I shouldn't get involved

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *ic_khan2341Man
over a year ago

Manchester

"Not judging people either

Life's short enough

And after reading about someone who on a course of pep, (I think that's what's they said ) and he's got to tell he's wife ,

Agree it's there choice

Well thats a good advertisment that the gov could use to help reduce sti's.

"Wear a condom & your wife will never know your cheating""

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By *ic_khan2341Man
over a year ago

Manchester

"The amount of peeps going bareback and some of the pictures on hear,it's a great advertisement for a trip to your sti clinic

Simple. They make a judgement and perceive the risk as worth it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

people always have a choice wether to wear a condom or not.plus how many men want their cocks sucked with a condom on??

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By *ocoDeeLiteCouple
over a year ago

Brentwood

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By *ocoDeeLiteCouple
over a year ago

Brentwood

"The amount of peeps going bareback and some of the pictures on hear,it's a great advertisement for a trip to your sti clinic

If there’s a rapport and trust built up over time, then it’s something that could be an option.

We see these bareback creampie gangbangs advertised. Now that is a whole next level of risk taking. Very reckless!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The amount of peeps going bareback and some of the pictures on hear,it's a great advertisement for a trip to your sti clinic

Simple. They make a judgement and perceive the risk as worth it."

. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think if you want something longer term, with mutual exclusivity and trust there's no issue with bareback.

A hubby wanting to watch his wife filled with cum is fine, if you can limit the risk to a level you find acceptable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a personal choice for all of us! So no judgement at all xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have twice. Once I couldn't stop myself and the second time was because I knew the man and trusted them (having had reg sex with them). It is a choice you have to make

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Im a student nurse and I spent a placement working in a sexual health clinic. Seeing first hand the physical and mental effects that catching/passing on sti's has on people is all the eye opening I need.

Long term relationships and regular trusted arrangements are a different thing but first meets and one offs we'd never go with out.

E "

Surely on your placement you learnt that monthly testing is pointless as for a BBV screen now it needs to be 6 weekly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A test is just that, a test.

It lets you know what you have or haven't got.

Nobody has really mentioned precautions taken before playing with others or after.

People are free to play however they want, its their choice.

I think the issue is, how safe can you play bareback?

One mans standards of safe, may not be the standards of the people they play with, either hygienically, sexually or physically.

You'll never stop people playing bareback, but common sense should prevail. Alas, in the heat of the moment, many standards and guidelines are dropped.

This is why the preventative measures should be taken at clinics with jabs and check ups.

Just do what you do, but do it safely

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

Because it feels so much better.

No saying I do, just answering the question as to why.

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By *edicinneedMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

Long term relationships and regular trusted arrangements are a different thing but first meets and one offs we'd never go with out.

Surely on your placement you learnt that monthly testing is pointless as for a BBV screen now it needs to be 6 weekly "

Partially correct. Mean incubation periods for BBVs is 12 days. Therefore one should get tested a days 11 to 14 after your last unprotected sex. Viral load will then be at its peak if you have anything.

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By *amb47gayMan
over a year ago

Cambridge

I'm fairly promiscuous so I normally use a condom to reduce the risk. However occasionally I lapse, as happened 3 weeks ago when I met a cute young Asian guy. He didn't have a condom so I fucked him bareback anyway, it just felt right at the time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

people need to worry about themselve rather than judge others ....

also bareback is much much bigger than people think its post like this that make them change the peference to fit in on fab.

28 years on the scene ive seen far more bare than protected and lots alots of women and couples who like bare there body there choice as long as you protect yourself then thats all you can do .

the real problem is not bare or protcted its getting everyone to gey tested if they play safe or not i know loads of safe players never vist for testing but know quite a few barebacker who test religously so whos the bad ???

no one has the rights to tell anyone how they go about there sexual fun just look after yourself

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By *ustinCredible.Man
over a year ago

whitecross/sankey valley

"Do blow jobs without a condom count ? not in the same league as full sex without a condom. Some risks yes but much lower. "

You squirt in my mouth while I'm eating you out we kiss and then you suck my dick... bad things can happen. I'm safe with new meets for the 1st few meets and I feel like they aren't fucking half the nation bare then I can be tempted but I will always get checked very regular (2 times a month when I'm met/meeting)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *lex46TV/TS
over a year ago

Near Wells

I prefer bare but usually let the other person decide if they want to use a condom.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If i was exclusively meeting the other person yes i would.

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By *otgirl32Woman
over a year ago

Ashton Under Lyne

"people need to worry about themselve rather than judge others ....

also bareback is much much bigger than people think its post like this that make them change the peference to fit in on fab.

28 years on the scene ive seen far more bare than protected and lots alots of women and couples who like bare there body there choice as long as you protect yourself then thats all you can do .

no one has the rights to tell anyone how they go about there sexual fun just look after yourself"

That! Bareback is a choice. Everyone can do what works for them. I'm one who loves spunky bareback sex and not hesitant to admit to it. Block me those that need to

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By *rKinksMan
over a year ago

Alton

I don't think it's a good idea to promote bareback as within the population it leads to more cases and more likely anti biotic resistance.

Don't want super clap

That said with trusted and semi explosive friend bare back fun is incredible

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By *ldhillhotwifeCouple
over a year ago

Old Hill

"people need to worry about themselve rather than judge others ....

also bareback is much much bigger than people think its post like this that make them c

hange the peference to fit in on fab.

28 years on the scene ive seen far more bare than protected and lots alots of women and couples who like bare there body there choice as long as you protect yourself then thats all you can do .

no one has the rights to tell anyone how they go about there sexual fun just look after yourself

That! Bareback is a choice. Everyone can do what works for them. I'm one who loves spunky bareback sex and not hesitant to admit to it. Block me those that need to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The amount of peeps going bareback and some of the pictures on hear,it's a great advertisement for a trip to your sti clinic

Live and let live.

Or is this another knight in armour thread where someone appeals to a popular topic to win favour?

Yes its called white knighting..a simp tactic"

It's called virtue signalling and and it happens alot on the forums .... the forums are very virtuous for a swinging site

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By *reampie Cleaner 69Man
over a year ago

Barnsley

"The amount of peeps going bareback and some of the pictures on hear,it's a great advertisement for a trip to your sti clinic

So is it fair to assume that every person you've had sex with you've asked them to take a test first??

Thought not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It was a huge step to allow a bull to bareback my ex, we only entrusted one guy as he remained exclusive to us and it seemed pretty safe to us, I used a condom which only enhanced the cuckold element. But as a result of that we explored more such as creampie eating which we never thought we’d ever do!

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By *oldenBalls50Man
over a year ago

chelmsford

Hi guys

Just strolling and reading the comments about BB,

Sorry for me I rather safe sex and wear condoms. Unfortunately for me every time I put one on and it and my cock goes limp and wonder if it the condom or my mind? I would play BB if I know and trust the person.

Sorry for my ignorance what Prep !? Few people writing down this and never heard of it ?

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Whilst people do take precautions and get regularly tested do they also wish to see confirmation that other parties have also or continue taking further risks.if all parties involved have been regularly testing I myself would say that it's ok but not something I'd do as in bareback unless in a committed relationship

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi guys

Just strolling and reading the comments about BB,

Sorry for me I rather safe sex and wear condoms. Unfortunately for me every time I put one on and it and my cock goes limp and wonder if it the condom or my mind?

This is one of the main reasons for some people doing bareback, the latex allergy is a BS reason.

Can understand cuckold cpls getting into it as the cuck likes the clean the cream pie .

If I can't get erection due to condoms then I would stop swinging completely but won't risk as it's not worth it .

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By *ickdasterdly51Man
over a year ago

Lingfield

If I entered into an exclusive arrangement with a new couple who had never been with anyone else before then I'd be okay with BB if they were. If it was with a more 'experienced' couple then definitely safe sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

before i add my so called say i play safe unless with a long term boyfriend...

ive done plenty of voluntary work for sexual health and it amazes me most of the people ive seen that get tested play bare you hardly ever see people who play safe for regular testing ... condoms make it safer not 100% safe.

now see lots talk about oral and rightly so because its a risk but nearly everyone for gets about foreplay touching inserting touching again this will spread tings too ...we all know from covid and hand washing yet no one is talking about fore play .... something simple like a woman wanking a guy off and fingering herself will do the same thing as going bare ...

why are you hollier than holly who preach safe sex not getting tested ? yet for all we know you could be those that carry a sti id rather have fun with a barebacker that gets tested every 4 to 6 weeks that a play safe person who never gets tested ..

we are both tested every 6 weeks and if not playing every 12 to 18 weeks

people sould look after themselves and whats going on in there own bubble not what others are doing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi guys

Just strolling and reading the comments about BB,

Sorry for my ignorance what Prep !? Few people writing down this and never heard of it ?

PrEP is medication which prevents the person taking it from contracting the HIV virus.

It is just one pill a day and has been proven to be more effective than condoms in preventing HIV transmission.

People taking it get a full sexual health screening every 3 months when they collect their next lot of tablets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you trust someone, say a wife or couple and its all been agreed and everyones safe then why not . You can see someone a couple of times and when it becomes regular theres trust there so why not . I get just random one off meets for just a quick fuck can be a bit of flipping a coin tho , unless everyones been tested before and shown proof . Cant beat bareback sex as long as its done trustingly and all bases are covered . Just my opinion anyway guys .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They just break. By end of a fuck it’s just a tattered rubber band round the base. I had the same fb for 7 years because it’s the only way to be safe without condoms or pills.

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By *isspurplechesterWoman
over a year ago

Chester

Each to their own and personal choice right!

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By *wistedTooCouple
over a year ago

Frimley

It’s their choice. Does it need a thread?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe the next thread will be about smoking and the dangers of that ? Lol

It’s a life choice at the end of the day, if people want to go bareback that is there choice, it doesn’t affect you so I don’t see the issue ?

You also don’t get a sti everytime you do bareback so once again there’s a small risk, just like everything else in life,

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By *reeze BabyWoman
over a year ago

Cottingham

Totally agree!! I LOVE bare, it’s just so much better sex, and as long as it’s an honest up front convo totally our own risk assessment!! xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Didnt the last thread like this turn into a rant about imigrants bringing diseases over? Mod locked it pretty much then and there. Not from this OP mind.

I dont get it. You do you. They can do them. Just dont fuck them? Feels like another 'look at these stupid and probably sti ridden people' thread

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By *oldenBalls50Man
over a year ago

chelmsford

"Hi guys

Just strolling and reading the comments about BB,

Sorry for my ignorance what Prep !? Few people writing down this and never heard of it ?

PrEP is medication which prevents the person taking it from contracting the HIV virus.

It is just one pill a day and has been proven to be more effective than condoms in preventing HIV transmission.

People taking it get a full sexual health screening every 3 months when they collect their next lot of tablets.

Ah thank for that info… just google it and now understand it now

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By *willMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

Been barebacking for 15 up years on here and not once caught anything I’m careful who I play with x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Been barebacking for 15 up years on here and not once caught anything I’m careful who I play with x"

Been very lucky then

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By *hades Of GreyMan
over a year ago

Leeds

(Quote) Been barebacking for 15 up years on here and not once caught anything.

'I’m careful who I play with'

Bacteria and virus are 'not careful' who they play with!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The amount of peeps going bareback and some of the pictures on hear,it's a great advertisement for a trip to your sti clinic

Does an sti clinic need advertising?

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

(Quote) Been barebacking for 15 up years on here and not once caught anything.

'I’m careful who I play with'

Bacteria and virus are 'not careful' who they play with!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nasty people and nasty habits

I went on a first date with a girl I worked with had a great first date and in the end she wanted to have sex with no condom. Killed all the attraction. Lord knows how many times she's done the same in the past

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By *ominyouMan
over a year ago

London

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By *ibsonsgCouple
over a year ago

New Milton

If they have no regard for there own sexual health, then you can bet your bottom dollar they certainly don't give a shit about your sexual health. No glove no love simples init

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By *assing Fancies xCouple
over a year ago

Sherwood Forest

It's because they want to... simple as that

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By *hilliplisa790Couple
over a year ago

Paignton

Bareback does feel 100% better but we only play safe, until we really get to know someone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm planing on loosing my anal virginity in the near future and I want to experience the feeling of his throbbing cock explode, filling me with his warm creamy cum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bareback feels so much better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Bareback feels so much better"

Agreed. We know the risks and it’s our own choice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Imo totally irresponsible. Bare sex and cum inside ect should only be performed with long term partners (again just my opinion and basic knowledge of keeping safe and respecting situations and possibilites)

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By *ornyandachingCouple
over a year ago

Middlesbrough

The feeling is so much better than a condom but for me I really have to trust the person which means it’s rare xx

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By *lex46TV/TS
over a year ago

Near Wells

I believe that 95% of people on here are taking rubbish. They say in public safe only to look good but in reality they don't carry condoms etc.

I get quite a few meets and visit clubs etc. It's extremely rare for a guy visit and bring a condom, the same at clubs, most guys don't use condoms.

Perhaps I just meet the wrong kind of guy and visit the wrong kind of clubs??

I enjoybeing fucked bare and I visit a clinic regularly and have all the jabs etc. I obviously lead a risky life, what with riding motorcycles as well.

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By *inna and SaintCouple
over a year ago

Sherbourne

"Not judging people either

Life's short enough

And after reading about someone who on a course of pep, (I think that's what's they said ) and he's got to tell he's wife ,

Agree it's there choice "

Thats different. That is deciding to exclude a partner.... for whatever reason..... and gettimg caught out.

Thats a decision one makes where you need to decide how it affects those intimate with you. And if you dip and pass on an STI to someone who hasn't consented then that have every right to be pissed at you.

If your a couple and are happy with that decision then that is an assessment they and the people they interact with have made.

Disease can be caught in so many ways... it isnt all about STIs. But still we live on

I think it is important to know if partners are into bareback so participants can make informed decisions. Its fair but as said. Many dont.

Many will skin up for penetrative sex or anal but will suck a cock and take cum unskinned. This protects them how.

Ultimately its there choice and others opinions don't count unless you are or become involved.

Why do people smoke, drink, take , shove up their nose or use crack or heroine.

Doesnt stop them doing it no matter how much fuckwittery is involved....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The amount of peeps going bareback and some of the pictures on hear,it's a great advertisement for a trip to your sti clinic

Why? Do you expect everyone to have STI’s?

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By *lirty_dirtyCouple
over a year ago

Lingfield

After I was divorced and before I met Jane, my sexual preference was to date men( less complicated creatures and my ex had definitely put me off conventional relationships)

I started off playing safe for anal but one intoxicated night went bare and the feeling of being cum in was overwhelming. I was terrified that I'd be dead in a week from all these awful diseases but after a week I was still alive, Hallelujah to the gay sex god!

So, not feeling so great about myself after a horrible divorce i was on a bit of a self destruction mission and did a lot of bareback, like absolutely lots and lots, sometimes more than once a day. I was too embarrassed to visit clinics, I would have to divulge my lifestyle and shameful behaviour. Eventually though, I did go, and I wasn't persecuted or judged, in fact, they didn't give a shit. It turns out it's ok to have gay sex, you don't go to hell for being bisexual.

So, hep hpv vax's and prep is the way forward and regular testing. The home test kits are brilliant. However, it's your body, fuck bare or cover up... just don't be ashamed.

Fortunately Jane loves bareback as much as I do, if not more. Match made in heaven eh

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By *ewismixedbbcMan
over a year ago

birmingham

For me it’s a i to bare back but each to their own I suppose

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By *asterR and slut mayaMan
over a year ago

Bradford

Its between the people invoiled what their choices are .

I don't know about all this stuff never had an sti or visited a clinic

What is this prep that people

Keep talking about .

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By *iman2100Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Its between the people invoiled what their choices are .

I don't know about all this stuff never had an sti or visited a clinic

What is this prep that people

Keep talking about ."

You want answers? Simple answer below.

People do make their own choice on bareback etc. Since AIDS is no longer a killer most TREATED STIs are less harmful than other common diseases. The physical risk is also less but the stigma of a STI still strikes fear into the heart of many.

There are STIs that have no symptoms so, in truth, you do not know you have them and you may already have them. However even the most common STI, chlamydia, can cause damage so you should be tested regularly if you are having sex with anyone at all.

Prep is a pretreatment that acts to prevent you getting HIV-AIDS.

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By *uminsiderMKMan
over a year ago

St Austell

Why do I play bareback? Because my absolute favourite thing to do is to cum inside another man's wife...

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By *attoo manMan
over a year ago

Rhyl

Love the feeling of bareback. No other way for me.

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