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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I have my first social planned today with a lovely couple, a nice no pressure no expectations meet, looking forward to a nice chat over a cup of coffee and see if I can help them out with a few jobs, hopefully things can progress to friendship and finally fun I’m nervous but that excited nervous

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Hope all goes well for you. Relax and enjoy.x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are they looking for a handyman?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hope all goes well for you. Relax and enjoy.x"

Thank you xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Are they looking for a handyman?"

Yes that’s how we started the conversation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good luck,relax and enjoy it x

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By *9Karm69Man
over a year ago

plymouth/chesterfield

Good stuff

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By *olourpurpleMan
over a year ago

Waterford

Good luck with it

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Hope it goes well

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By *heGateKeeperMan
over a year ago

Stratford

Good luck. Socials should be relaxed with no pressure and no obligation (as should play meets but you get the jist). Have fun

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Definitely, has to be no pressure no expectations just people chatting and letting things progress naturally, well that’s the dream anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds to me you’ve got the right attitude, enjoy mate

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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Best of luck OP, meeting people is such a thrill and I hope it's a thrilling experience for you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good luck. Hope it all works out. So good when it does!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Definitely, has to be no pressure no expectations just people chatting and letting things progress naturally, well that’s the dream anyway "

Love those kinda socials

Enjoy!

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

OP How did it go ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Didn’t go at all like I expected and not in a good way unfortunately, I’m gutted I won’t lie x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Didn’t go at all like I expected and not in a good way unfortunately, I’m gutted I won’t lie x"

No jackpot joy for you

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Oh no sorry to hear this. What happened ? X

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Long story but basically Mr really applied pressure to play and for me to make a move on Mrs and became quite aggressive, I ended leaving a very awkward situation with them arguing between themselves and they have now disappeared from fab. Not what I was expecting at all. Gutted in all honesty

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By *rad670Man
over a year ago

South Lakes


"Are they looking for a handyman?

Yes that’s how we started the conversation "

This kind of happened to me but the other way round, had a social then discovered they needed a handyman, seems like the job to be in. I love meeting couples less pressure than a single female for sure.

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By *rad670Man
over a year ago

South Lakes


"Long story but basically Mr really applied pressure to play and for me to make a move on Mrs and became quite aggressive, I ended leaving a very awkward situation with them arguing between themselves and they have now disappeared from fab. Not what I was expecting at all. Gutted in all honesty "

Sorry, I put my previous comment before seeing you bad experience, I wouldn't let it put you off, sounds very odd and although I have only met with two couples I can say the experience has been as far away from your as you could get. I'm sure you must have been in the middle of a very poor relationship there, maybe have a good look at their veris in the future and how long they've been on the site, always hard to judge and I never thought I'd see the day a single bloke has to start being choosey. Stick with it, there are some outstanding couples on this site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Long story but basically Mr really applied pressure to play and for me to make a move on Mrs and became quite aggressive, I ended leaving a very awkward situation with them arguing between themselves and they have now disappeared from fab. Not what I was expecting at all. Gutted in all honesty "

Keep hearing stories like this or variations of the theme. Think we’ve just been lucky so far (although a social planned for tomorrow has just let us down . At least there was notice).

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

suns out today so everything is good

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By *erfectman122Man
over a year ago

from somewhere nice

Good luck old chap

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Sorry to hear it didn't go well OP x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

this happens.

sometimes people feel or are placed under pressure to play by a partner.

sounds like you handled yourself with dignity and respect. hope the next experience is a good one.

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