FabSwingers.com forum: Older woman

By *tokeLad21 OP Man
over a year ago

Newcastle under lyme

Absolutely love older women but hardly get any messages. Any tips for enticing the ladies ?

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By *uzboxCouple
over a year ago

Northwich

Message them?

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By *tarburst babydollMan
over a year ago

Dingwall

"Message them?"

Beat me to it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your shop window is a bit off putting to be fair.!!

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Change your username

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Change your username"

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By *uitednbooted2Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

"Change your username"

Brutal

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

Flagrante

There might be some 99 year olds looking for a 20 year old but they might be a bit thin on the ground. Try refining your search to find a match, bearing in mind its a two way thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s very tricky, as some of us ‘older women’ have kids the same age as you.

Also agree, change your username.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Older women, are beautiful lovers

Older women, they understand

I've been around some, and I have discovered

That older women know just how to please a man

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By *wholeLotOfRosieWoman
over a year ago

Pontypridd

Create a profile and pics that might appeal to mature women.

Change your username.

Go to a club and get to meet people. Loads of mature women go to clubs.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

"Change your username

Brutal

Just my opinion as it would put me off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be grammatically correct.

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By *asmartsCouple
over a year ago

sheffield

Username is off putting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't as your username would instantly make me pass by and delete any message...i dont care if someones a 'top shagger' or not but they have to be worthy of my friendship first.

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By *LiamMan
over a year ago

Midlands

Mint polos and a bingo dabber

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By *ouple2playCouple
over a year ago

Solihull

"Mint polos and a bingo dabber"
. Going to use that as my username in a few years time!

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By *luttyLaylaWoman
over a year ago

North West

Your profile says what you want and your verifications say different lol!

Now I’m not against either, just make it consistent

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By *LiamMan
over a year ago

Midlands

"Your profile says what you want and your verifications say different lol!

Now I’m not against either, just make it consistent

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By *ougie321Man
over a year ago

Milford Haven

I like older and younger women but then I’m fussy

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By *amRod64Man
over a year ago

Gravesend

"Mint polos and a bingo dabber. Going to use that as my username in a few years time!

Get 4 or 5 older ladies together for a’full house’

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By *uitednbooted2Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

"Be grammatically correct."

Read your profile. Totally gutted I’m over 45

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like older and younger women but then I’m fussy"

So... you like women?

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By *r SensualMan
over a year ago

London

I can’t lie OP your profile isn’t the best. You’re already at a disadvantage due to you age as already mentioned most people on this site have children and grandchildren your age.

Gotta put in even more effort than most of us if you wanna get anywhere. As said, I’d change that username as it’s not doing you any favours. Rather than focusing on a woman’s age maybe think about and display what you think you can offer?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Treat every woman as an individual and get to know her. If it progresses then happy days.

Lose the username, it projects an air of immaturity and that may be unattractive to the type of lady you're trying to "be friends with" shall we say.

I probably also wouldn't mention age, not many women get turned on by being called old/any variation of the word.

Good luck in your quest OP

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"I can’t lie OP your profile isn’t the best. You’re already at a disadvantage due to you age as already mentioned most people on this site have children and grandchildren your age.

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By *tokeLad21 OP Man
over a year ago

Newcastle under lyme

Appreciate everyone’s opinion and feedback!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love love older ladies but as I'm nearly 50 they are getting harder to find lol x

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By *jonesMan
over a year ago

Totnes

Love the user name

Some ladies will find it amusing I’m sure

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

act mature, polite and considerate

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

don't demand and act like a spoilt brat when the woman won't hand it on a plate to you

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Wait a few more years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think there saying to put a bit of effort in boys you only get out what you put in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

some of you are great

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By *ourNextAddictionMan
over a year ago

Somerset

Always loved an older woman - know what they want more I find, makes things more enjoyable for everyone

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By *ampshirehotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire

Stop calling us "old"!!!!

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

"Stop calling us "old"!!!!

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Let me guess OP, when you joined fab you thought that all you needed to do was type a couple of lines on a profile, upload a couple of pics and just wait for the offers to flood in.

I'm afraid it doesn't work like that.

Single women rarely go looking for me on fab - they don't need to.

There are so many of us, and most of us are the ones doing the looking.Most of the time, the ladies are far too busy wading through their bulging inboxes.

Any messages you do send though, I would suggest are likely to be deleted or ignored.

Pretty much anyone you message will take a look at your profile before even thinking about reading your message, so you need to make sure it;s the best it can be.

As you haven't specifically asked for profile advice, I can't give you any, but it does need a lot of work

Oh, and your username is probably putting the ladies off too

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"Always loved an older woman - know what they want more I find, makes things more enjoyable for everyone

Absolutely perfect way of ensuring the "older" woman will ignore or possibly block you. Just saying....

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By *ourNextAddictionMan
over a year ago

Somerset

"Always loved an older woman - know what they want more I find, makes things more enjoyable for everyone

Absolutely perfect way of ensuring the "older" woman will ignore or possibly block you. Just saying....

Block away - helps steer clear of the sensitive souls

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By *wholeLotOfRosieWoman
over a year ago

Pontypridd

"Always loved an older woman - know what they want more I find, makes things more enjoyable for everyone

Absolutely perfect way of ensuring the "older" woman will ignore or possibly block you. Just saying....

But if someone is younger than you, you are older than them. You’re older. It’s not like you’re being called old.

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"Always loved an older woman - know what they want more I find, makes things more enjoyable for everyone

Absolutely perfect way of ensuring the "older" woman will ignore or possibly block you. Just saying....

But if someone is younger than you, you are older than them. You’re older. It’s not like you’re being called old. "

You know, I really do not mind being called older or even old as you rightly said.... if older than the person asking then you are old(er)

I do mind, however, being approached/ chosen/ considered a target whatever you want to call it.... purely based on that criterium. I have far more to offer than being older... so to me that is a bit indiscriminative and undiscerning.

I am not in the business or mood to teach a younger guy - it is boring, I guess it is why I prefer more mature men who value conversation and social attributes. Each to their own.

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"Always loved an older woman - know what they want more I find, makes things more enjoyable for everyone

Absolutely perfect way of ensuring the "older" woman will ignore or possibly block you. Just saying....

Block away - helps steer clear of the sensitive souls

I am sorry, only just saw this and I did not mean to insult you - I just did not realise you were sensitive. My apologies.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

carry on i say.

more power to you

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

Try to appear more mature yourself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Stop calling us "old"!!!!

Who did that?!? We are "older" though! It's a fact

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"Stop calling us "old"!!!!

Who did that?!? We are "older" though! It's a fact

True, no denying that.

But being searched for that reason alone to me is like being searched out for being of a different nationality... it feels a bit shallow even for a swinger site.

But, as I said above... we are all different in what we seek and enjoy, so I am sure there will be women who would like/ appreciate the OP as a "partner in crime"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i think sometimes people using words like 'older' dont really mean anything by it, they just dont have another word to think of at that moment.

my experiences over the years have shown me i enjoy more encounters with people my age and 'older'. i get more out of it, its always good fun and laughter many a good friendship ive developed.

you appreciate the time more.

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"i think sometimes people using words like 'older' dont really mean anything by it, they just dont have another word to think of at that moment.

my experiences over the years have shown me i enjoy more encounters with people my age and 'older'. i get more out of it, its always good fun and laughter many a good friendship ive developed.

you appreciate the time more."

I agree with you - it is about having something in common, more chance of liking similar music as just one example.

Nothing wrong with either (going for older or younger etc... and each to their own).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Stop calling us "old"!!!!

Who did that?!? We are "older" though! It's a fact

True, no denying that.

But being searched for that reason alone to me is like being searched out for being of a different nationality... it feels a bit shallow even for a swinger site.

But, as I said above... we are all different in what we seek and enjoy, so I am sure there will be women who would like/ appreciate the OP as a "partner in crime" "

I only, really, like younger guys, it's who I find, attractive, most often, so I can't really be miffed if they are messaging me because I am older

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By *wholeLotOfRosieWoman
over a year ago

Pontypridd

"Always loved an older woman - know what they want more I find, makes things more enjoyable for everyone

Absolutely perfect way of ensuring the "older" woman will ignore or possibly block you. Just saying....

But if someone is younger than you, you are older than them. You’re older. It’s not like you’re being called old.

You know, I really do not mind being called older or even old as you rightly said.... if older than the person asking then you are old(er)

I am not in the business or mood to teach a younger guy - it is boring, I guess it is why I prefer more mature men who value conversation and social attributes. Each to their own.

Ah. Yes, I get your point now. I’m the same, I do not train and if you’re not experienced I’m not interested. I’m here for me, not as a training aid

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Change your username"

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By *aywalton1Man
over a year ago

Walton on the Hill

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By *aywalton1Man
over a year ago

Walton on the Hill

Entice them with a slice of Victoria sponge cake with their cuppa. Guaranteed results, or your money back on the cake!!!

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By *otBunsHunWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

"Absolutely love older women but hardly get any messages. Any tips for enticing the ladies ? "
I have kids older than you lol. So that alongside the username is off-putting to me. But that's only me. I can't speak for other ladies

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

i love younger men... they can dm me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i love younger men... they can dm me

Ditto darling

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By *LiamMan
over a year ago

Midlands

I like older women. They can dm me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Older women can definitely dm me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love older women too, 27 and up

But younger ones aren't too shabby either, they still have some life energy in them

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By *wadingMan
over a year ago

swadlingcote

My wife is 68 and she has a young lover he is 36

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

If what you are doing is working, keep doing it, if it’s not… perhaps try something different?

Just a thought.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I must admit I do like a older lady

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By *REEPALESTINEMan
over a year ago

derby

Be organic in yourself don’t act mature or older

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By *wig1963Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

Was always turned on by older women now older now still love the older girls

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think that all younger guys always prefer older women. But when you get older you don't know what age range you would still want to have a older woman x it's every younger guys fantasy. It's a absolute bonus when it's your 1st time you have been with a older woman x i would love to know what older women think about that .is it the same for them hymmm

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My ex she's 41. Wow miss the experience's

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Absolutely love older women but hardly get any messages. Any tips for enticing the ladies ? "

What have you got to offer the older lady?

They're not just on here, to 'train-up' you boys

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

there's alot of mature minded young men out there. they can dm me anytime as i love young men

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By *assysaz40Man
over a year ago

chorley

Love the older women experience is key

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing turns me on more than a mature woman In lingerie

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By *ampshirehotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire

"Stop calling us "old"!!!!

Who did that?!? We are "older" though! It's a fact

True, no denying that.

But being searched for that reason alone to me is like being searched out for being of a different nationality... it feels a bit shallow even for a swinger site.

But, as I said above... we are all different in what we seek and enjoy, so I am sure there will be women who would like/ appreciate the OP as a "partner in crime" "

Ladies c'mon. Age is just a number! I am fed up of being referred to as 'old' or ' mature'. It makes us sound like we are decrepit!

You're as 'old' as the man you feel....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Stop calling us "old"!!!!

Who did that?!? We are "older" though! It's a fact

True, no denying that.

But being searched for that reason alone to me is like being searched out for being of a different nationality... it feels a bit shallow even for a swinger site.

But, as I said above... we are all different in what we seek and enjoy, so I am sure there will be women who would like/ appreciate the OP as a "partner in crime"

Ladies c'mon. Age is just a number! I am fed up of being referred to as 'old' or ' mature'. It makes us sound like we are decrepit!

You're as 'old' as the man you feel....

Oh may I call you mam

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Be careful...some of these older women may have 'let themselves go'

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"Be careful...some of these older women may have 'let themselves go'

Absolutely, we are unapologetically liberated, say what we want, do what we want and are never afraid to ask for or do anything...

Be prepared - be very prepared!

PS. We (some of us) don't like training young cubs though. Been there, done that!

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By *ucky1sCouple
over a year ago

yorkshire

Still lots of fun left in this old lass xx

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By *azza12Man
over a year ago

Ayrshire

"Still lots of fun left in this old lass xx

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yes she certainly looks very nice

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By *tarburst babydollMan
over a year ago

Dingwall

Firstly the username would put me off. Any messages I get I always check the profile first and with no effort put into it I would not be interested. If you sent a one line message it would simply be deleted but if you'd put effort into any message I would have the decency ro reply with a firm no thanks

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