FabSwingers.com forum: Is it odd ?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Known a guy for 3 years, met numerous times. He's always had a busier lifestyle than mine. So he decides when to meet. I don't mind that, but with meets irregular, I for one, have the need to chat at least a couple of times a week. Just so I don't feel out of the 'contact loop'. He has various media platforms and visits them to socialise. Is it wrong of me to make a fuss, when I don't get that contact myself - in-between playing times? It has a rejected feel, when chat has stopped and there are massive silences....

By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

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I 100-percent understand and can relate to exactly how you feel.

I had a similar situation with somebody and I just realised our communication style actually didn't suit what I need to feel positive about our sexual interaction and therefore it came to an almost natural end.

All I can suggest is explaining how you feel, and seeing if he wants to understand, compromise and help meet your needs. If not it might just be that you're not compatible in that way.

If you don't end up feeling positive about your relationship towards each other than maybe it's just not right for you.