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"Hiya. My kids live with me they are teens so I cant accommodate does tha fact that I can't accommodate put couples and ladies off meeting. What are the alternatives. I am happy to pay for hotels etc I just feel frustrated as I have a lovely home but it's so complicated with explaining to the kids Xxx" Doesn't put us off, but... as I keep saying on here.... if you are advertising yourself as a SINGLE male and you can't accommodate, you have GOT to be prepared to justify why you can't (i.e. have you really got one of those strange things called a Wife at home and you're being e naughty boy and not telling her what you're up to...?) You seem to have a legitimate reason why you can't and you should not be afraid to state why in your profile - it won't put people off, but it WILL tell them that you have recognised the problem and addressed it head-on... which is good. Basically, why put an obstacle in the way of you getting meets when it can so easily be dealt with...??? ![]() | |||
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"I am part of the "cant accommodate club" as well. I have a lodger and would not want him to hear what i get up to, with my paper walls. it is a private side of my life. It could sound a pretty lame reason, but is genuine, Is the general consensus to add this to the profile? " Personal choice, add what you feel comfortable with. It will make a difference to some and not others. | |||
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"Justify myself on here, like fuck I would... " I wouldn't ask anyone to justify themselves on here, just that if you put you can accom, it helps if you actually do (not accusing you of that) | |||
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"I am part of the "cant accommodate club" as well. I have a lodger and would not want him to hear what i get up to, with my paper walls. it is a private side of my life. It could sound a pretty lame reason, but is genuine, Is the general consensus to add this to the profile? " Your choice entirely, but if a single guy has the justification in his profile, then it shows he has given what he is doing on here some thought - and that earns brownie points ... ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Justify myself on here, like fuck I would... I wouldn't ask anyone to justify themselves on here, just that if you put you can accom, it helps if you actually do (not accusing you of that)" I would write to people who match what I am looking for in a very honest fashion, I would do my best to establish a trust based conversation with them...a social meet in a coffee shop and I am a good enough judge of character to be able to know if someone is lying ( not always but mostly ) if it led to a possible meet and they asked to come to mine of a certain day and for whatever reason I couldn't accom that day... i would say sorry i can't that day. if it ends there, cool if I had a meet arranged with a couple or female and they cancelled because their period came on, I wouldn't ask them to send the tampax through the post. I would take things at face value. I am a single bi sexual man of 52 years of age who is looking to meet with others on a swingers site. I am honest and I respect others preferences without question. Each to their own but I have integrity and self belief and I am not bowing and scraping to anyone on here in the hope they believe me to get sex. | |||
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"Hiya My kids live with me they are teens so I cant accommodate does tha fact that I can't accommodate put couples and ladies off meeting. What are the alternatives. I am happy to pay for hotels etc I just feel frustrated as I have a lovely home but it's so complicated with explaining to the kids Xxx" I find not accommodating puts people off, i have many times started chatting to guys and seemed to get along and then when they ask if they can come here and i say no, my profile does say i dont accommodate they say things like, well i thought if we got on you would invite me and when i still say no thats the end of the conversation But like you i have kids and im not having people back here, there are 3 clubs within a 10 min drive from my house if all else fails i'll just go to onme of them ![]() | |||
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