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Best advice to give to first time users of fab

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By *ustfortheforums OP   Woman
over a year ago

no

What’s the best advice you could give to first time users of fab?? It could be anything, to profile picture, to profile text anything

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By *rad670Man
over a year ago

South Lakes

BRACE YOURSELF, it's goonna be a rough ride!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don’t bother with that stupid warning that takes up most of people who use it’s profile.

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By *erfectman122Man
over a year ago

from somewhere nice

Don’t hold to many hopes or expectations

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pick a profile pic that’s clear to see and is interesting or unique, or at least not a cock or a silhouette.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"BRACE YOURSELF, it's goonna be a rough ride! "

Haha!

Blocking is merely a time managment exercise.

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By *vpamelaTV/TS
over a year ago

kinkville

Take the time to create a few decent photos, write a decent bio on why you're here. And be polite and respectful but cheeky and don't take yourself too seriously. Also, be patient. Helps to wear dress too!

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Don't take any of it too seriously

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By *ambo1450Man
over a year ago

Newport

If you’re a man, don’t expect much, if you’re a woman, hang onto your hat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What out for the chancers

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By *BWBI2019Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Put the effort into creating a conversation with someone you're interested in! You will stand out from all the one liners! Also don't badger people! Take a no reply as a no thank you!

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By *rad670Man
over a year ago

South Lakes


"What’s the best advice you could give to first time users of fab?? It could be anything, to profile picture, to profile text anything "

To try to be more helpful this time, although best taking advice from the other ladies. If you already know what kind of thing and person you are looking for then you could target that with how your profile is and what kind of photos you put on, at least one photo with or without face would be good. If you have no photo then whoever contacts you doesn't really care who you are or what you look like so obviously will have a go at anything that will get horizontal so not picky and it would be nice to at least get a message for what you look like. Your write up will also give the reader an idea of who you seek, too bitchy and a list of do's and don'ts will put a lot off, not stipulating your type will fill your inbox with unwanteds and take up your time. don't suggest you would meet too easily and make people work for your attention with interesting messages but be prepared to exchange messages not just send three word replies. Really depends how serious you are about finding exactly what you seek and how much respect you want. It could take months it could take days to find a few potential matches but there is someone on here for everyone I believe if you have the thick skin and patience. All the best.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The Above!

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Be specific about what you are looking for

Make an effort with your profile and pics

Be patient

Do your due diligence

Get involved with the forums

Use the block button

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't take any of it too seriously "

The best advice .. it’s awesome fun here and lovely like minded people. But it is what it is … have fun and ignore the rest of the noise x

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By *jonesMan
over a year ago

london

Keep a healthy social life off of here , dont live in this alternative dimension. ..

Dont bother messaging.on here ..go to an organised social to get started..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do the social thing and get verified. Messaging someone without being verified is soul destroying ly difficult.

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By *aunchy RaccoonsCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

Our advice would be to get verified and fill in your profile with pics and a bio before straight up asking to meet.

Also important to read profiles before messaging.

We're amazed at how many don't do this and then moan about not getting any action.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get verified and always wear a party hat lol. No party without party hat. Put a few pics and make sure that you have written a nice genuine profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What’s the best advice you could give to first time users of fab?? It could be anything, to profile picture, to profile text anything "

Brace yourself!

You ll be wanking more than actually meeting someone.

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle


"What’s the best advice you could give to first time users of fab?? It could be anything, to profile picture, to profile text anything "

Hide your profile so you have the opportunity to browse and familiarise with the site at your own pace.

Fill bio with interesting and filthy Facts about you

Photo start with only a few these animals haven't been fed so see what results you get without any

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By *asterR and slut mayaMan
over a year ago

Bradford

read the profiles before mess ageing and do just say hi tell what interested you in their profile that you've messages them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Expect nothing. Familiarise yourself with site rules. Read the FAQ's

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rejection in a very big part of swinging so get used to it and dont let it bother you

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By *urious_Female89Woman
over a year ago

great yarmouth

Go at your own pace with what you feel comfortable with

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By *aughtycp1Couple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

Read a person's profile before sending generic messages asking "how are you" and "wanna meet" or even worse "wanna fuck" etc x

Mrs N

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Make your profile a reflection of you and your personality. Everyone's a critic, you can't please everybody. Have fun and don't take it too seriously

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