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By *nked_kitten OP   Woman
over a year ago

Ankh Morpork

I was wondering if people bring their own protection when meeting someone?

I always have some but not all guys bring any when they meet me.

One guy knew I only had a couple and kept pulling them off and then said we would have to do bare, and was really disappointed when I managed to find another one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of course - why wouldn’t you !?!

It’s like remembering your clothes or to clean your teeth x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Guys should always carry them on a

meet just in case, but never expect.

Always worked for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was wondering if people bring their own protection when meeting someone?

I always have some but not all guys bring any when they meet me.

One guy knew I only had a couple and kept pulling them off and then said we would have to do bare, and was really disappointed when I managed to find another one.

"

Of course, always! What sort of man wouldn’t?

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I always have condoms in my bag. I do not see why the man should be the only one to bring them along.

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By *amantha TSWoman
over a year ago

Swindon

Always have 1 on me anyway, but especially on any meet. Not because I expect anything, but as I always say "better to have it and not need it, than need it and not have it".

I'm appauled that the guy kept taking them off then expected you to go bare, I'd have kicked him out rather than find another. Cheeky asshole!

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By *ellhungvweMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham

Why would anyone not take condoms? I find that incredible.

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By *inkylipsWoman
over a year ago

Debauchery

Always, I take a bag full of things and make sure I have a good stock of them but it’s been so long I wouldn’t be surprised if they were out of date

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always do better to be safe than sorry

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By *adMerWoman
over a year ago

Sandwich

I used to be amazed how many guys don’t carry them. Nowadays it’s just another filter.

Yes I always have at least 3 with me. Non latex because I am allergic.

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Yes and it pisses me off when the other party doesn't.

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By *ondonerMan
over a year ago

London / Essex borders

I used to keep a small pack of latex free ones to hand to cover all eventualities..

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

I've always brought some with me. I've had a few men who claimed they forgot or didn't have time to stop and buy any.

And yes I do expect them to have condoms if they claim they practice safe sex .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I carry condoms, lube and blue surgical gloves too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

No harm in bringing some yourself. Because people sometimes genuinely forget, misplace or there turns out to be a problem. But if a guy didn't come equipped I would see that as a red flag unless exceptional circumstances that I believe to be true.

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By *umalotagainMan
over a year ago

a town called malice

You dam well should, anyone not bringing wound reduced chances of play by 100%

Always carry if I am going to play

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always take condoms to a meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always take condoms, both normal amd latex free

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Always bring my own if the arrangement has been discussed that the meeting is leading to naughtiness otherwise I don't because I don't do the last minute change. And make further plans to engage and be prepared.

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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area

Yes, always, unless it's purely a social.

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By *rOralMan
over a year ago

Dublin

Defo!

I mean, under normal circumstances one should at least carry one condom because you know…hornyness happen and just in case…On the other hand, if one knows that is going to meet a potencial get-laid person, then of course! every one should be prepared and bring extra condoms, common sense no?

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle


"Defo!

I mean, under normal circumstances one should at least carry one condom because you know…hornyness happen and just in case…On the other hand, if one knows that is going to meet a potencial get-laid person, then of course! every one should be prepared and bring extra condoms, common sense no?"

No because if a person or persons were prepared they would've discussed this prior to the meeting this is being prepared

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By *stbury DavenportMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

I always bring my own because I don't trust anyone else to have some that will fit me.

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By *iamond coupleCouple
over a year ago

leeds

For us, if a guy turns up with no condom he is expecting bare back, so it would be good bye from us.

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By *urulovesnylonMan
over a year ago

Harrow

I always do

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By *goodlengthMan
over a year ago

near Trowbridge

I always take them, without fail. Why wouldn’t I?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always best to be prepared!

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By *rad670Man
over a year ago

South Lakes

surely it's common courtesy and common sense to if there is even an outside chance of needing protection.

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By *hrough the looking gla55Couple
over a year ago

Cheam

We used to have favoured ones just to keep it interesting but have no need for them now.

But yes both should always carry them that way the fun can last twice as long

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By *spotpleasurerMan
over a year ago

London

I always bring some along, why not be prepared? They don't always get used as the host often has their own within reach.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was wondering if people bring their own protection when meeting someone?

I always have some but not all guys bring any when they meet me.

One guy knew I only had a couple and kept pulling them off and then said we would have to do bare, and was really disappointed when I managed to find another one.

"

Always bring along my porn bag , and in my bag I have , condoms, toothpaste, toothbrush, tissues & a couple of toys

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By *ig Chris75Man
over a year ago

Sandbach

Always take them - always.

I think anyone who doesn’t deserves to be shown the door and blocked…

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

I always have a variety to cover most preferences, but the guys I have met have tended to bring their own preferred brands.

If we're meeting for a social and it turns into more (doesn't happen often!) then I would be more understanding of someone being unprepared than if we've arranged to have sex. As others have said, not having condoms at that point suggests they were hoping to push for bareback and I do find that off-putting.

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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago

Burnleyish (She/They)

I do expect it.

However unless they are in a sealed, unopened container I would only use the ones I provided.

Too many years doing sex work and punters deliberately damaging condoms...

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By *iscreet-is-paramountMan
over a year ago

somewhere only we know.

Always bring your own. How do you know she will have the right ones ?

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By *ourNextAddictionMan
over a year ago

Somerset

I do but most women like to provide their own - if they fit then perfect. If not & she’s not happy with mine. Then we will not be playing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

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By *ofdiamondsMan
over a year ago

Between wisbech & Kings lynn

Of course why wouldn't you?

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By *jones150Man
over a year ago

Manchester

Always take a few to meets just in case. Always ask for preference of brand/non latex etc to if possible.

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By *rikki1967ukMan
over a year ago

peterborough

Always

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

When we were full swap we always took and always used our own condoms. The number of men who didn't have them made it necessary

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By *luttTV/TS
over a year ago

Duns

I do, but I consider them a back-up - the man should really provide them, as it’s him that they have to fit effectively and comfortably.

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By *BR_91Man
over a year ago

Leeds

Always bring them, even if it's a social/date it's better to take them along and not need them then be scrabbling around for some when things should be getting exciting...

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By *ananas57Couple
over a year ago

lake ariel

Hubby has me check my handbag to make sure I have at least 3 condoms before I go out

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By *ornyandachingCouple
over a year ago

Middlesbrough

Always

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was wondering if people bring their own protection when meeting someone?

I always have some but not all guys bring any when they meet me.

One guy knew I only had a couple and kept pulling them off and then said we would have to do bare, and was really disappointed when I managed to find another one.

"

Sounds like he planned that I'm afraid, I don't understand the mentality myself. My gf and I always take our own to meets, no glove no love!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd always take my own. No glove no love and i always put my wellies on before I jump in a puddle

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By *oojCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

If a guy turns up without condoms he can go straight home, same as those that cannot afford deodorant.

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By *irldnCouple
over a year ago

Brighton


"I was wondering if people bring their own protection when meeting someone?

I always have some but not all guys bring any when they meet me.

One guy knew I only had a couple and kept pulling them off and then said we would have to do bare, and was really disappointed when I managed to find another one.

"

We always bring condoms just in case the person/people we are meeting have “forgotten” theirs.

OP what you describe by that guy is disgraceful and disrespectful behaviour. You should have sent him packing!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was wondering if people bring their own protection when meeting someone?

I always have some but not all guys bring any when they meet me.

One guy knew I only had a couple and kept pulling them off and then said we would have to do bare, and was really disappointed when I managed to find another one.

We always bring condoms just in case the person/people we are meeting have “forgotten” theirs.

OP what you describe by that guy is disgraceful and disrespectful behaviour. You should have sent him packing! "

100% right he should be wanking him self in separate room for that.

The man is the one who puts one on so he should have them

I’m back pocket

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By *ig1gaz1Man
over a year ago

bradford


"One guy knew I only had a couple and kept pulling them off and then said we would have to do bare, and was really disappointed when I managed to find another one. "

I wonder what his face would have been like if you said thats it meets over bye

If they dared leave bad feedback I wonder if you would say pulled condoms off for no reason so refused sex with them

Always take a new sealed pack with me on meets dont like carrying loose ones as they can be damaged in transit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always. Always take Skyns too in case or latex allergies.

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By *luttyLaylaWoman
over a year ago

North West

Always have them, and always expect them to have them.

My profile makes it clear i don’t play bare and it is something I check before meeting x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I pop one on before leaving the house

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

More often that not men seem to ‘forget’ them. Good job I don’t

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always have them. Wouldn’t want a meet to go further without

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By *ussieChrisMan
over a year ago

Walsall

Since coming into this scene and lifestyle.. I have always had at least one on me.

Would rather have it and not not need it, than need it and not have it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always take condoms with me. Would never presume there will be condoms supplied and if the person I was meeting had none this would make then think I was after bareback.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do every time, not that I get many meets though, must be my age

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

I only meet in clubs but I always have condoms in my bag, I've also had the 'oh no, I only ever play protected but I don't have a condom so just this once we could do it bare'. I simply tell them to wait in the room and I'll go grab a few, once a guy literally disappeared, I think he legged it and left the club

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Best to be prepared at all times no excuses then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always

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By *melia DominaTV/TS
over a year ago

Edinburgh (She/Her)

To be respected as a swinger surely you would remember to bring condoms.

Forget them dont expect a repeat visit and your reputation will spread, visits will dry up..

The more respectful your are. The more offers you are likely to receive.

Take condoms with you, take lube take a small kit bag with essentials.

Surely that is common sense...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes there not expensive

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

I was a boyscout..be prepared...

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By *batMan
over a year ago

Alicante, Spain. (Sometimes in Wales)

Yes, and I would also expect the other person to have them too. Same as I would expect both of us to have showered!

Gbat

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Yes definitely

Miss

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By *anchester_gentMan
over a year ago

Manchester/ Cheshire border

Always. Amazes me that anyone (male) who considers themselves a swinger would leave home without one. Even for a social!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do, always. I believe it's the responsibility of both people to protect their sexual health.

Also, I prefer a specific, latex free brand, so I like to bring my own.

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By *agicroundabout3100Couple
over a year ago

Camberley

We always take them

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By *rOralMan
over a year ago

Dublin

Some likedminded meets are social first, even though you happened to met on Fab. So you can test the chemistry; you don’t really know where it is gonna end. You don’t really arrange/agree to anything else. Thats what I meant.


"Defo!

I mean, under normal circumstances one should at least carry one condom because you know…hornyness happen and just in case…On the other hand, if one knows that is going to meet a potencial get-laid person, then of course! every one should be prepared and bring extra condoms, common sense no?

No because if a person or persons were prepared they would've discussed this prior to the meeting this is being prepared "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We think that is a given by bc all parties involved be it MFM or MFMF or whatever.

Too many risks involved without safe sex.

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

Always have them. Everyone is responsible for safe sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a gentleman, so I would always see it as my responsibility to cum prepared.

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

Of course, as much as I'd like to think the person I'm meeting will be responsible enough to bring and use I ain't risking it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Better safe than sorry

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By *irldnCouple
over a year ago

Brighton

As a single man on the vanilla scene I always carried condoms on a night out...just in case!

On the swinger scene it should be an instant red card! Unless you’re Italian

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.

I always bring a roll of cling film with me

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

In your bed


"I was wondering if people bring their own protection when meeting someone?

I always have some but not all guys bring any when they meet me.

One guy knew I only had a couple and kept pulling them off and then said we would have to do bare, and was really disappointed when I managed to find another one.

"

I'm surprised you persisted.

I think if anyone tried that we would just get up and leave.

If they pull it off once odds are they will try again when you are less aware.

Who wants that when you are trying to have fun.

Plenty of decent guys out there who would be happy to stick to the rules.

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By *heekyFlirtyCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Stockport

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By *heekyFlirtyCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Stockport

As a couple , we play as a 3 , or a 4 , or maybe more

So obviously is bare with my wife , but condoms for penetration with others

So we go through plenty

With all the swapping about it can be 10 or 20

On , off , on again

Never forget to put one on , never suggest bare , never not bring enough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As a couple , we play as a 3 , or a 4 , or maybe more

So obviously is bare with my wife , but condoms for penetration with others

So we go through plenty

With all the swapping about it can be 10 or 20

On , off , on again

Never forget to put one on , never suggest bare , never not bring enough"

Much like the lovely couple above, I only play bare with my wife and always use condoms with others. We expect people to use our co some aswell as the wife has a severe latex allergy so unless they're definitely using their own latex free condoms, we won't play of they're not willing to use ours.

We also bring dozens with us aswell

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By *uckslut and MCouple
over a year ago

Poole

They don't carry them incase the wife finds them.

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By *rincess PhoenixWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

I carry 3 different sizes (the sexual health people give me a bagful) so they can't claim it won't fit! but I always feel reassured if a guy has some on the bedside table

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was wondering if people bring their own protection when meeting someone?

I always have some but not all guys bring any when they meet me.

One guy knew I only had a couple and kept pulling them off and then said we would have to do bare, and was really disappointed when I managed to find another one.

"

Did you carry on fucking him (with condom) or did you tell him that was the end of it because of his behaviour?

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By *entleman kinksterMan
over a year ago

london

safe sex is mandatory (for me anyway) unless agreed upfront. A gentleman should always have condoms with him when going on a meet

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

It has been so long since I've had sex that my bag of assorted condoms will all have passed their expiry date !

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By *atexbisexTV/TS
over a year ago

Central London

Never leave home without them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It has been so long since I've had sex that my bag of assorted condoms will all have passed their expiry date !"

It’s only a guide. Just sniff them and if they smell ok you can probably still eat them

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By *erms and conditionsCouple
over a year ago

Alton

Always! No excuses

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sykn condoms are soo frigging nice xx

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By *atexbisexTV/TS
over a year ago

Central London


"Sykn condoms are soo frigging nice xx"

Agreed!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always do. The amount of men that don't though are shocking!!

Nikki x

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By *ecky and justCouple
over a year ago

Godalming

We always do.

If it’s a group meet, we’ll bring enough for the whole group as we prefer latex free.

Turning up without any and expecting bareback is a total non starter for us

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

I always take my own condoms.

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By *erfectman122Man
over a year ago

from somewhere nice

Of course it’s just like brushing your teeth

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
over a year ago

Stockport


"It has been so long since I've had sex that my bag of assorted condoms will all have passed their expiry date !"

Mine too. Use them up for decorations at a birthday party (inflated) or knit a lady gaga dress out of them (uninflated)... Anyone got other good suggestions?

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By *xfordshireCoupleMFCouple
over a year ago

Nr. Oxford


"It has been so long since I've had sex that my bag of assorted condoms will all have passed their expiry date !"

We always take backup condoms to meets. We expect the guy to have his own but it doesn’t hurt to have spare.

We just had to update our backup condoms for the quoted reason too!

- John

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By *eeowlsMan
over a year ago

sheffield

Yes off course it’s like my keys my wallet and make sure my condoms are inside the wallet!! X

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By *onnatvsussexTV/TS
over a year ago

littlehampton

yes all ways do , but find more and more guys that never have them.

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley


"It has been so long since I've had sex that my bag of assorted condoms will all have passed their expiry date !

Mine too. Use them up for decorations at a birthday party (inflated) or knit a lady gaga dress out of them (uninflated)... Anyone got other good suggestions?"

Try an inflated dress.

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By *tickler2000Man
over a year ago

St Agnes

Is it not part of the preparation for a meet?

Clean your teeth, have a shower and grab your condoms.

I think it's rude to assume the person you're meeting will have them.

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By *anderMan
over a year ago

Perth

Better to have it and not need it, than need it and not have it

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By *angria_girlukWoman
over a year ago

LUTON

I too am surprised by the number of men who don't carry them. Even in clubs! get in a room, and he says Oh! I don't have any thing.

or is it because they are expensive?

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley


"I too am surprised by the number of men who don't carry them. Even in clubs! get in a room, and he says Oh! I don't have any thing.

or is it because they are expensive?

No, it's because they hope they can get away with going bareback.

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By *-4pleasureCouple
over a year ago

Belfast


"I was wondering if people bring their own protection when meeting someone?

I always have some but not all guys bring any when they meet me.

One guy knew I only had a couple and kept pulling them off and then said we would have to do bare, and was really disappointed when I managed to find another one.

"

Sorry but that sounds like coercion. Why did u continue after he did it the first time ???

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Always carry them when going to a club or meet ensuring that we also have some to share as on a few meets the couple have claimed not to have brought any.

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By *ougie321Man
over a year ago

Milford Haven

I have always carried condoms even when I was married, if I ever was in a situation where the woman empowered me I would kindly say “can you put this on please”

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By *ympho6969Woman
over a year ago

glasgow

No, it might sound old fashioned but i expect the guy to deal with this and always make it clear that I don't do bb.

Had one try to pull one over on me and i promptly left.

I have brought them with regular fb if they are out or low

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By *ust_FlynnMan
over a year ago

St Neots

I always offer, but I’ve met couples/ladies in the past who wanted to supply their own (preferences or allergic to latex etc)

I always have plenty myself. One of those essential questions to ask when arranging a meet, they say that assumption is the mother of all fuck ups after all

F xx

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley


"I always offer, but I’ve met couples/ladies in the past who wanted to supply their own (preferences or allergic to latex etc)

I always have plenty myself. One of those essential questions to ask when arranging a meet, they say that assumption is the mother of all fuck ups after all

F xx "

I always have Skyns, I don't have a latex allergy but I'm always conscious that someone else might.

I also find they feel nicer and the guys I've been with say they feel nicer too.

I buy them 20 or so at a time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was wondering if people bring their own protection when meeting someone?

I always have some but not all guys bring any when they meet me.

One guy knew I only had a couple and kept pulling them off and then said we would have to do bare, and was really disappointed when I managed to find another one.

"

I do but if a guy can't be bothered to bring any for protection I send them away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I go to empire wearing leather pants and just take some condoms, just depends on what’ happens. Worst what can happen is I get to see some porn.

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By *ld HeroMan
over a year ago

Luton

ALWAYS! And use them too! Haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes 100%!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always take condoms when going on a meet.

I don't always use them but I take them anyway

X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely

No glove

No love

And definitely no exceptions

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Guys should always carry them on a

meet just in case, but never expect.

Always worked for me"

This a True Fab person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always told my kids to always keep one in your wallet/purse ... you never know what direction life can take!

My fave saying has always been "Always carry an umbrella and a condom as you never know when you'll have sex in the rain"

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By *BR_91Man
over a year ago

Leeds


"No, it might sound old fashioned but i expect the guy to deal with this and always make it clear that I don't do bb.

Had one try to pull one over on me and i promptly left.

I have brought them with regular fb if they are out or low"

I think that's fair enough. It ultimately should be the guy's responsibility to bring them, and as long as you're prepared to kick them to touch if they don't there's no issue!

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By *aveing funCouple
over a year ago

staffordshire

Damn rite no cover no play

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By *LiamMan
over a year ago

Midlands

Usally just a sandwich bag and elastic band. Does the trick

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never have because every woman ive slept with dont like them.

But

I will if requested

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By *LiamMan
over a year ago

Midlands


"I never have because every woman ive slept with dont like them.

But

I will if requested"
rip

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Always, skyns latex free

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials

I think its good practice if both parties arrive prepared

T

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne


"I always told my kids to always keep one in your wallet/purse ... you never know what direction life can take!

My fave saying has always been "Always carry an umbrella and a condom as you never know when you'll have sex in the rain" "

This is now going to be my new saying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would you suck off a condom

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always told my kids to always keep one in your wallet/purse ... you never know what direction life can take!

My fave saying has always been "Always carry an umbrella and a condom as you never know when you'll have sex in the rain"

This is now going to be my new saying "

Just a better way of saying always be prepared oh and embarrassing the kids of course

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By *urplace4funWoman
over a year ago

London


"I was wondering if people bring their own protection when meeting someone?

I always have some but not all guys bring any when they meet me.

One guy knew I only had a couple and kept pulling them off and then said we would have to do bare, and was really disappointed when I managed to find another one.

"

Its only fair both parties should have condoms wheather you decide to use or not - its not down to one person - his behaviour would be a turn off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always

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By *urora1912Woman
over a year ago

Norfolk East anglia

I do as guys seem to conviently forget to being them.

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley


"Would you suck off a condom"

No but I only tend to suck penises, not random objects.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always

Miss S x

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By *ornyharry39Man
over a year ago

Sheffield

Always have a few spare in car never know

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By *attoo manMan
over a year ago

Rhyl

Always but prefer bareback.

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By *wistedbambi69Woman
over a year ago

Somerset

I always take them when I go on a meet and I take a selection so there are no excuses

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By *veragecouple321Couple
over a year ago

Leamington Spa

We always have some on us, but if they want a specific brand or type then it's on them to bring them, otherwise we will use what we have.

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By *zlakMan
over a year ago

Norwich

I have never turned up to a meet without them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always bring a pack with me, though I’m more conscientious to get latex free now just incase the person(s) I meet is allergic to latex x

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By *reya73Woman
over a year ago

Whitley Bay


"I was wondering if people bring their own protection when meeting someone?

I always have some but not all guys bring any when they meet me.

One guy knew I only had a couple and kept pulling them off and then said we would have to do bare, and was really disappointed when I managed to find another one.

"

disrespectful.. It would be a goodbye for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I carry a selection so there is no excuse not to use them... If there are still excuses not to wear them, I make my excuses and end the meet

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By *reya73Woman
over a year ago

Whitley Bay

I carry them in my make up bag. A couple in the car. In the house. I would expect lovers to have them too.

I would find it presumptuous and disrespectful if they expected otherwise. But I have good dialogue and communication with people I'm intending to have sex with. I'd sniff out the slack attitude a mile off x

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By *rMrs CumalotCouple
over a year ago

East Mids

When I was on the scene as a single female I always had some on me when going for a meet or to a club. I would expect the other person to bring them but never rely on that.

I know hubby also always had them when he was on the scene as a single and now we always have them as a couple.

Maybe we are just too prepared but I thought everyone would have them

Mrs c x

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By *taffsloverboyMan
over a year ago

Hednesford

I always carry a condom and viagra.

1. Safety first, pleasure second

2. Don’t need the blue or green ones but it’s nice to know you can go on and on like a Duracell battery and put a big smile on a ladies face

3. If a regular meet asks for bareback it’s down to trust and knowing them well.

4. Anal with ladies at the ladies discretion. Sorry guys

5. If your unsure always use a condom

Good luck

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By *r-OreoMan
over a year ago

telford

Yes I do. Always

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By *uddly GoblinMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Always take them, even if it's supposed to be just a social as you never know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

always take them as i know what feel good for me but also when meet bring them i don't mind as might suit her talk about it when we or ready go things are booked or in motion

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By *araJayneWoman
over a year ago

Bishop Auckland


"Always have 1 on me anyway, but especially on any meet. Not because I expect anything, but as I always say "better to have it and not need it, than need it and not have it".

I'm appauled that the guy kept taking them off then expected you to go bare, I'd have kicked him out rather than find another. Cheeky asshole!"

So much same to this honestly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always. Bareback is simply not an option, and as I'm the one wearing it I consider it my responsibility to have them with me if there's any chance of needing them.

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By *hesblokeMan
over a year ago

Derbyshire village

I would have thought it would be an auto-include? Phone, wallet, keys, condoms...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

as being on this scene for 25 ++ years i can say out of all the guys ive met only a hand full have brought condoms with them .... lucky for me i have a massive selection ... those whos face drop as a result of me saying condoms only are shown the door

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was wondering if people bring their own protection when meeting someone?

I always have some but not all guys bring any when they meet me.

One guy knew I only had a couple and kept pulling them off and then said we would have to do bare, and was really disappointed when I managed to find another one.

"

Cheeky fecker...shocking behaviour!!!

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