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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So what's everyone's _iews on this??

We've done it on a number of occasions, both here and on our annual visit to Thailand.... We love it and take it as part of our lifestyle, no-one is harmed or taken advantage of, we enjoy and get to fulfill various fantasies... And we can afford to.... So all good as far as we're concerned!

Talking to various friends both vanilla and on the scene they don't see our point of _iew though and see this as a step too far.....

Not that it's gonna change what we do our _iews on this we just wondered what other people's thoughts on paying for fun were........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well if it floats ya boat and you enjoy thats good. Everyone to their own I say.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you think about it, anytime you meet someone, you are paying for sex in one form or another. Petrol/Diesel to get there, drinks or a meal, a hotel room, so yes, we all pay for it one way or another.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

You do what you are happy to do to have the fun you want...

I wouldn't pay.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can understand why some pay for their fun, in context of other activities involving sex workers beyond the scope of this site. Such an arrangement guarantees the bfe or gfe and is probably far more reliable than setting up meets normally, and especially if you have 'particular arrangements' that you require.

Wolf

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By *atinaBabeCouple
over a year ago

casa caliente

well if i win in the lotto dont mind to pay for some hot guys to fuck m anytime i want lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So what's everyone's _iews on this??

We've done it on a number of occasions, both here and on our annual visit to Thailand.... We love it and take it as part of our lifestyle, no-one is harmed or taken advantage of, we enjoy and get to fulfill various fantasies... And we can afford to.... So all good as far as we're concerned!

Talking to various friends both vanilla and on the scene they don't see our point of _iew though and see this as a step too far.....

Not that it's gonna change what we do our _iews on this we just wondered what other people's thoughts on paying for fun were........"

What's my thought? Well since you're asking i'd probably tell you "Oh go on then - if you insist - but I do normally do this for free you know!!!"

Oh - it was a question - not a proposal!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I can understand why some pay for their fun, in context of other activities involving sex workers beyond the scope of this site. Such an arrangement guarantees the bfe or gfe and is probably far more reliable than setting up meets normally, and especially if you have 'particular arrangements' that you require.

Wolf

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It's not that we have a problem getting meets, we're regular members on the club scene etc but just find an extra thrill so to speak when we pay for it!

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By *urious.coupleCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

I cant disagree with your reasoning that everyone is happy, no-one gets hurt etc. As long as thats the case I wouldn't see a problem with it per se. . . .

But. And its a big butt. As all mine are. . . .

When people have told me they've paid I wonder why they have to. Are they requesting something too weird that a one night stand wouldn't do? Are they too smelly/ugly/mean/boring/shy to get someone in bed without a cash incentive?

I'm not suggesting this is why you two do it. Far from it, you seem lovely. Perhaps I should rephrase. . . .

What is the benefit of paying that you wouldn't get out of a normal meet?

Do you lose some of the excitement when you're in the act because the paid party is there for money not desire?

I'd be rather turned off by thinking someone was only touching me because it was their job!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess if it's their job you don't have to go though the endless messages and potential let downs like you get trying to arrange meets. You're paying for what you want so you should be satisfied. Yes it's a brilliant idea!! I'll start by offering mr notts a shiny fifty pence piece and see how that goes

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

I don't see anything wrong with it. I wouldn't, just as I would never charge. But I can see an appeal in 'owning' someone for a short while. I can see the appeal of choosing the right person and knowing that I have the power to do that. And it's helping the economy.

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By *urious.coupleCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

Yeah I can see how it would make things quicker and more convenient. . . .but I don't know. . . No thrill of the chase, no reciprocal lust, knowing they are enjoying it and not just groaning like that to try and get a tip. . . . 'i don't think its for me. But hey, live and let live!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I guess if it's their job you don't have to go though the endless messages and potential let downs like you get trying to arrange meets. You're paying for what you want so you should be satisfied. Yes it's a brilliant idea!! I'll start by offering mr notts a shiny fifty pence piece and see how that goes "

You're not supposed to pay them! It's the other way round!

And i'd start at a quid - and then haggle!

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"I guess if it's their job you don't have to go though the endless messages and potential let downs like you get trying to arrange meets. You're paying for what you want so you should be satisfied. Yes it's a brilliant idea!! I'll start by offering mr notts a shiny fifty pence piece and see how that goes

You're not supposed to pay them! It's the other way round!

And i'd start at a quid - and then haggle! "

I can't give it away for free so I'm not sure I'd even get a quid if I tried charging.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing wrong for it... and there are certainly lots of good looking guys out there that pay for the convenience..

Some girls will do it because they love sex.

Master is off to Thailand again soon.. and well.. I wish I was going with him but someone has to have the kids.. but well... its fun and good fun from all accounts I get..

Would and have paid for it.. to be honest if we wanted a 3sum we would rather pay as we can pick the girl we want then.. and after she wont want dinner or a chat.

Cali

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can understand why some pay for their fun, in context of other activities involving sex workers beyond the scope of this site. Such an arrangement guarantees the bfe or gfe and is probably far more reliable than setting up meets normally, and especially if you have 'particular arrangements' that you require.

Wolf

It's not that we have a problem getting meets, we're regular members on the club scene etc but just find an extra thrill so to speak when we pay for it! "

That wasn't implied. It's more a case of what Cali has just said.... People paid to do the job perform as asked and have no extra requirements beyond that. If you have specific fantasies or requirements this can sometimes be very useful.

Wolf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ive paid a few times with women off here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you think about it, anytime you meet someone, you are paying for sex in one form or another. Petrol/Diesel to get there, drinks or a meal, a hotel room, so yes, we all pay for it one way or another."

I don't understand why some people would think it's a step too far. I don't see anything wrong with it all.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"If you think about it, anytime you meet someone, you are paying for sex in one form or another. Petrol/Diesel to get there, drinks or a meal, a hotel room, so yes, we all pay for it one way or another.

I don't understand why some people would think it's a step too far. I don't see anything wrong with it all."

It'll be the P word... preference.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sure been said before we all pay to get a shag on here be it a new outfit hotel petrol etc we all spend money to get what we want. Think its wrong for a man to assume a gal is on here to be paid but don't think it wrong to pay for or be Payed for sex for those that choose to pay and be paid. What I don't agree with is women being raped etc by men who force them to earn money for them. Consented and given by free will I don't see the fuss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am interested to know what it is extra as such you gain from paying?

The choice? Thrill? Or because it is less hassle?

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By *habsMan
over a year ago

Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex

Not my cup of tea - someone from the scene emailed that was happy to meet and play with me but only at a particular venue that would charge me £50.

I told her "I'll wait for the free entry party, thanks".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So what's everyone's _iews on this??

We've done it on a number of occasions, both here and on our annual visit to Thailand.... We love it and take it as part of our lifestyle, no-one is harmed or taken advantage of, we enjoy and get to fulfill various fantasies... And we can afford to.... So all good as far as we're concerned!

Talking to various friends both vanilla and on the scene they don't see our point of _iew though and see this as a step too far.....

Not that it's gonna change what we do our _iews on this we just wondered what other people's thoughts on paying for fun were........"

We understand, we have been playing for ten years. We still haven't had a ffm!! Not many women are into mff, but a lot of men are. If you enjoy it,, want it and can afford it- go for it!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not something we are interested in but that's just our choice. We prefer to play with those who want to play with us not because they being paid. But then we aren't the type to play with strangers or at clubs either.

Don't see anything wrong with paying for sex it's just not for us. To each their own.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer the chase.

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By *xodussxMan
over a year ago

sheffield

Free for life

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By *ittle-Miss-MuffetCouple
over a year ago

Chester / North Wales


"It's not that we have a problem getting meets, we're regular members on the club scene etc but just find an extra thrill so to speak when we pay for it! "

It's not something we've done yet but have actually talked about it ourselves for exactly the same reasons as you, in that we find the whole idea a turn on in itself. Plus having a fit young lady join us with the sole focus being our pleasure does have advantages too.. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We all pay for it in form or another even if you're married just not directly

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By *ob and VixenCouple
over a year ago

Doncaster

we know at least 4 females on this site that also advertise themselves as sex workers on other sites

We have never met them so we aren't sure exactly how it all gets arranged though, do they have to remember what site you contacted them through?

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I've had 2 offers myself, which is flattering, even though I just do this for fun x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We never have and never would consider paying, but neither would we condemn anyone who does, each to their own as someone else said. There are quite a few single girls and women from couples on this site who are active escorts, but the ones we have met socially at parties in the past, have been lovely and don't charge for playing on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think i'd be too scared they are pros after all lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"well if i win in the lotto dont mind to pay for some hot guys to fuck m anytime i want lol "

You wouldn't have to pay me lol

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By *stmateMan
over a year ago

Notts

Each to their own I say, personally the individual would have to be exceptional for me to part with the cash. I would pay for a night with a pornstar or 2 though. I would love to learn new tricks and get new experiences

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've used an escort site before and there's plenty of them on here...most of them even use the same profile pics!

I'm single, earn plenty of money and it's between two consenting adults, so what's the problem?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't pay for it because I prefer to meet people that actually want to meet me rather than someone just offering services.

Saying that I don't mind paying to travel, providing drink, sharing hotel costs if need be(last one I did they got the room I got food for the evening and breakfast the next day).

The only main benefit I can see in paying for it is if you want a specific thing that you wanted that you don't normally get. Or if you're really struggling to get people to meet you.

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By *uffdiver946Man
over a year ago

Huddersfield

I would get such a buzz out of paying for it, more so with people on here because it would be 'naughty' and out of the usual, with someone who does it for a living it wouldn't be the same, people on here would do it as a role play for real and would presumably be turned on by doing something taboo! If they felt bad afterwards they could always give it back lol! They would have to be classy but also have the ability to play the part and be slutty! My message box is open..... Xxx

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By *orny1sCouple
over a year ago

exeter

o iv never been offerd money

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By *empnbunkCouple
over a year ago

south coast

Each to their own if it floats your boat go for it and enjoy ...personally I wouldnt pay for it ....cause I cant afford it

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By *empnbunkCouple
over a year ago

south coast

Maybe I should start saving ...that way I might get some

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

My former hubby was offered a number of camels (cant remember how many) for me on a holiday once...Does that count?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if you dont buy it somebody else will so shame not to id say xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd never pay but I like the fantasy of being paid. It's not something I'd do but I love the sluttiness of being offered money. It does tie in with my reasons for being on this site but couldn't morally accept payment or anything.

At the end of the day it's whatever shakes your cakes, if people want to pay then it's up to them.

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By *hristina_m82Couple
over a year ago

Leeds/manchester


"So what's everyone's _iews on this??

We've done it on a number of occasions, both here and on our annual visit to Thailand.... We love it and take it as part of our lifestyle, no-one is harmed or taken advantage of, we enjoy and get to fulfill various fantasies... And we can afford to.... So all good as far as we're concerned!

Talking to various friends both vanilla and on the scene they don't see our point of _iew though and see this as a step too far.....

Not that it's gonna change what we do our _iews on this we just wondered what other people's thoughts on paying for fun were........"

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