FabSwingers.com forum: Dating

By *adylover1000 OP Man
over a year ago

Huntingdon

I know this maybe the wrong place to look for dates and the possibility of a relationship but where else for something non vanilla?

Has anyone had any luck finding a partner on here or is it like the proverbial needle in a haystack?

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By *lwenWoman
over a year ago

De12 area

I met my partner here.. We are still together.. And still play.. Well I do.. He does at clubs etc when we're allowed to go again..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No luck yet and I find dating sites are just like a hook up site. I'm also a slightly misanthropic Hermit too so that doesn't help haha.

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By *adylover1000 OP Man
over a year ago

Huntingdon

"I met my partner here.. We are still together.. And still play.. Well I do.. He does at clubs etc when we're allowed to go again.. "

Nice to hear it actually can happen, we’re you both actively looking at the time or did it just happen?

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By *adylover1000 OP Man
over a year ago

Huntingdon

"No luck yet and I find dating sites are just like a hook up site. I'm also a slightly misanthropic Hermit too so that doesn't help haha."

I find that the normal dating sites as soon as you mention non vanilla type relationship they don’t want to know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No luck yet and I find dating sites are just like a hook up site. I'm also a slightly misanthropic Hermit too so that doesn't help haha.

I find that the normal dating sites as soon as you mention non vanilla type relationship they don’t want to know"

I want both, I want romantic love making but also being pissed inside of

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By *ice_genuine_guyMan
over a year ago

lincoln

Same issue. Girls tend to go a bit funny when you say go to swingers clubs as a hobby haha. A coupon have said they always wanted to try it. Tends to be the more mature women that are open to it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes ladylover and no.

Things happen when you least expect it to.

Don't chase it, let it come to you

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

Go to a swingers club and you’ll find plenty of couples that attend. Some of those couples met the normal way, in a bar, tinder etc.. however a lot of the couples I have spoken to, admitted they met at a club or social.

So get involved in the scene and it’ll just increase your chances of meeting a partner.

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

Why is this the wrong place? Especially if you see a future relationship involving swinging as an aspect? If so sounds a great place to search. If you find someone you'll be able to invest in building a relationship together both knowing when the time is right your both up for staying in the lifestyle. Takes away the pressure of investing in something that could ultimately fail because the other person (like most of the population) is not intrested in swinging. Sounds the perfect place to look. If you find someone just be clear with them to if its causal or a relationship you seek to build with them. No one likes to be fucked about. And if it's a relationship you seek with them be willing to put the swinging on the back burner for a bit and concentrate on the relationship (with the happy knowledge both of you are up for it when the time is right).

We met on here. Granted we both were not seeking a relationship but when you know, you know. Point being its possible to find a relationship on the scene. We did and so has so many others we've come across (no pun intended) on the scene.

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By *carletnsparksMan
over a year ago

halifax

We met on a site like this one and then attended a party, neither were looking for a relationship at that time but we just clicked.

It can happen buddy as there are others like us who have gotten together on here too.

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By *isstonguetasticjoWoman
over a year ago

widnes

I am like yourself

I would love to meet someone regularly developing into a relationship

I just end up getting the following response when u get asked wat are you looking for n i tell them

Bit of company

Social mayb dates

Passion

Then they reply

THIS IS A SEX SITE NOT A DATING SITE, GO N TRY POF N TINDER FOR A RELATIONSHIP

But beleive me they are more like this

All they want in there is a quick fuck n bj just cos they see u online

There are people i know who have met their partners on here and had kids , so they are happy.

Think there are are a few who give me shit cos mayb a bit jelous as they are not in my piccys or videos

Mayb if someone got to know me a bit more then they would be more thsn welcome to receive a daily bj off me n more

But hey ho

Their loss then

Missing out on summit daily

From the same person

More than the amount of fellas on here who are just lookin forca quick last minute fuck n go dont hear off them again

TILL MONTHS MAYB YEARS LATER

Then i get msgs off them asking to meet up with them again

When i ask were they have been turns out they managed to get into a relationship never worked out. They split up then come back on here

But have a cheek to say to me this is not a dating site

If u met soneine on here n u both got on well n were meetin regularly

Then why not couple up then u can njoy the sex as often as u can

Instead of bein fwb/fb shit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have spent along time single , probably joined here for the wrong reasons , have my own insecurities, so I would love to build a relationship with someone on here. The idea of something honest and open makes finding a future partner on here more appealing than conventional dating sites. Vanilla isn’t a option on the preferences, but when you haven’t had it for a long time it’s becomes a fantasy too. Be nice to meet someone likeminded for a mixture of the too.

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By *oreThanCurvyWoman
over a year ago

Bucks

I joined fab 6 years ago and men were laughing when I mentioned that I would love to have a boyfriend from fab. But one found me and I have everything now, a relationship and an amazing sex.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Met my partner here almost 6 years ago, we weren't nt looking for more, but it just happened.

Here is as good as anywhere, I think many are open to more than fun.

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am like yourself

I would love to meet someone regularly developing into a relationship

I just end up getting the following response when u get asked wat are you looking for n i tell them

Bit of company

Social mayb dates

Passion

Then they reply

THIS IS A SEX SITE NOT A DATING SITE, GO N TRY POF N TINDER FOR A RELATIONSHIP

But beleive me they are more like this

All they want in there is a quick fuck n bj just cos they see u online

There are people i know who have met their partners on here and had kids , so they are happy.

Think there are are a few who give me shit cos mayb a bit jelous as they are not in my piccys or videos

Mayb if someone got to know me a bit more then they would be more thsn welcome to receive a daily bj off me n more

But hey ho

Their loss then

Missing out on summit daily

From the same person

More than the amount of fellas on here who are just lookin forca quick last minute fuck n go dont hear off them again

TILL MONTHS MAYB YEARS LATER

Then i get msgs off them asking to meet up with them again

When i ask were they have been turns out they managed to get into a relationship never worked out. They split up then come back on here

But have a cheek to say to me this is not a dating site

If u met soneine on here n u both got on well n were meetin regularly

Then why not couple up then u can njoy the sex as often as u can

Instead of bein fwb/fb shit

Exactly! I find it hard to meet someone like minded. As much as I love the idea of nsa on off meets I’m actually not really interested in that. Ideally would like to meet someone to date and enjoy each other’s company as a couple and possibly attend clubs events etc together.

I like to read about peole who met on here, clicked and now in a relationship.. good for them.

If you mention swinging or anything kinky to people you meet on ‘normal’ dating sites they look at you like your a perv or something lol so yeah I think fab would be the ideal place to meet someone like minded for a relationship.. but alas, I’m yet to find someone who’s wanting a proper relationship in fab!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I joined fab 6 years ago and men were laughing when I mentioned that I would love to have a boyfriend from fab. But one found me and I have everything now, a relationship and an amazing sex."

Congratulations

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