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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I would love to walk in on my wife getting fucked is this something alot of couples do

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By *landfordfabbersCouple
over a year ago

Blandford ish

It’s called hotwifing I believe

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By *agicfingers1Man
over a year ago

near Brighton

I'd love to as well

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Blandfordfabbers, have you done it

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By *uriousblondwifeCouple
over a year ago

wickford

Watching this thread with interest

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By *ananas57Couple
over a year ago

lake ariel

My hubby lets me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would love to walk in on my wife getting fucked is this something alot of couples do"
your asking that question on a swingers site!!!!!!!.......No most couples on here are on because they have mistaken it for prayer group and haven't worked out how to log out yet.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Watching this thread with interest "

Is that so how come?x

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By *landfordfabbersCouple
over a year ago

Blandford ish

No, it’s a dynamic of swinging that’s very much not for me. I know many people on here enjoy

It tho!

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By *aughtyTwoCouple
over a year ago

Southampton

Yeah sure xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

NaughtyTwo

Was it a big turn on?

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By *exylovingcoupleCouple
over a year ago

Uxbridge

My hubby certainly lets me play alone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would love to walk in on my wife getting fucked is this something alot of couples do your asking that question on a swingers site!!!!!!!.......No most couples on here are on because they have mistaken it for prayer group and haven't worked out how to log out yet."

Nearly spat my tea out

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By *xcited99Couple
over a year ago

omagh

Yeah we do tbis now and again. I send hubby some photos and have even rang him up while he was at work and I was with another man.

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By *aughtyTwoCouple
over a year ago

Southampton


"NaughtyTwo

Was it a big turn on?"

Yes! Huge. I drove M to a guys house we’d met before and handed her over skipping out of her coat as she went in. Nothing much on underneath. I waited in the car! So good.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Excited 99 and Naughty two

Both sound amazing definitely something we need to try

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

No chance...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My hubby certainly lets me play alone. "

And what makes you decide to hotwife him or play with him each eve?

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By *ittyndCouple
over a year ago

Oldham/Birmingham

lol my guy does x

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By *hocCock1Man
over a year ago

Southampton


"I would love to walk in on my wife getting fucked is this something alot of couples do"

A lot !! I can demonstrate if you like

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By *ecky and justCouple
over a year ago

Godalming

Becky can play alone, as can I, but only with our friends and people we know and trust.

Never a random.

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By *urplechesterCouple
over a year ago

chester

Mr PC is more than happy for me to play with ladies alone, Miss PC

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love my girl fucking herself I just ordered her a new dildo and bullet vibrator for her clit

She usually lies on the bed then starts messaging me telling me that she's busy fucking herself makes me jerk off for her

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Mr PC is more than happy for me to play with ladies alone, Miss PC "

Well Miss PC I am more then happy for you and my wife to play alone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep. Husband and I play together and separately.

So hotwife, stag and vixen.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yep. Husband and I play together and separately.

So hotwife, stag and vixen. "

Would definitely like to walk in on her playing with you guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would love to walk in on my wife getting fucked is this something alot of couples do your asking that question on a swingers site!!!!!!!.......No most couples on here are on because they have mistaken it for prayer group and haven't worked out how to log out yet."

Amen do you mean to tell me that there won't be an early morning mass?!

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By *tarburst babydollMan
over a year ago

Dingwall

Hubby has no objection to me playing alone and the same goes for him in that he can play alone

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By *ovelaughliveCouple
over a year ago

Oldham

To be honest I wouldn't want to whether hubby let me or not, for me the biggest turn on is seeing what it is doing to my hubby not the play with others, but everyone has different things that are their kicks x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"To be honest I wouldn't want to whether hubby let me or not, for me the biggest turn on is seeing what it is doing to my hubby not the play with others, but everyone has different things that are their kicks x"

I definitely do like watching her getting fucked it's such a massive turn on

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By *ovelaughliveCouple
over a year ago

Oldham


"To be honest I wouldn't want to whether hubby let me or not, for me the biggest turn on is seeing what it is doing to my hubby not the play with others, but everyone has different things that are their kicks x

I definitely do like watching her getting fucked it's such a massive turn on "

Oh hubby does too and for me i put on a show with a guy to tease and show the hubby how naughty I can be, so if he wasn't there I might as well go and play with whoever for my own benefit not ours as a couple, if that makes sense x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"To be honest I wouldn't want to whether hubby let me or not, for me the biggest turn on is seeing what it is doing to my hubby not the play with others, but everyone has different things that are their kicks x

I definitely do like watching her getting fucked it's such a massive turn on

Oh hubby does too and for me i put on a show with a guy to tease and show the hubby how naughty I can be, so if he wasn't there I might as well go and play with whoever for my own benefit not ours as a couple, if that makes sense x"

Yeah that makes total sense. I gotta say I actually enjoy watching her more then joining in that's for sure

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By *ovelaughliveCouple
over a year ago

Oldham


"To be honest I wouldn't want to whether hubby let me or not, for me the biggest turn on is seeing what it is doing to my hubby not the play with others, but everyone has different things that are their kicks x

I definitely do like watching her getting fucked it's such a massive turn on

Oh hubby does too and for me i put on a show with a guy to tease and show the hubby how naughty I can be, so if he wasn't there I might as well go and play with whoever for my own benefit not ours as a couple, if that makes sense x

Yeah that makes total sense. I gotta say I actually enjoy watching her more then joining in that's for sure "

Yep hubby loves to sit back and watch and will join in when he feels I want him to x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've been doing this for a quite a while now,

Playing alone and discussing after,

It's a massive turn on for both,

And I love walking in on her xx

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe


"To be honest I wouldn't want to whether hubby let me or not, for me the biggest turn on is seeing what it is doing to my hubby not the play with others, but everyone has different things that are their kicks x

I definitely do like watching her getting fucked it's such a massive turn on

Oh hubby does too and for me i put on a show with a guy to tease and show the hubby how naughty I can be, so if he wasn't there I might as well go and play with whoever for my own benefit not ours as a couple, if that makes sense x"

Exactly our dynamic too

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By *ovelaughliveCouple
over a year ago

Oldham


"To be honest I wouldn't want to whether hubby let me or not, for me the biggest turn on is seeing what it is doing to my hubby not the play with others, but everyone has different things that are their kicks x

I definitely do like watching her getting fucked it's such a massive turn on

Oh hubby does too and for me i put on a show with a guy to tease and show the hubby how naughty I can be, so if he wasn't there I might as well go and play with whoever for my own benefit not ours as a couple, if that makes sense x

Exactly our dynamic too "

Weve come across every kind of couples, and each to their own what works for them, for us though one of us wanting to meet without the other would make us question why??! We are a couple on a swinging site not singles x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have no problem with my mrs playing with other men alone it adds to the fun of knowing she and the other party are having fun as thats all it is. For me it's a massive turn on knowing other men are enjoying my fabulous wife's breasts

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By *d4funtimesMan
over a year ago

Cambridge


"It’s called hotwifing I believe "

And there are beautiful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can, but choose not to. We came into this together as watching each other is a massive part of it for us. Little point if he's not there

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By *uriousblondwifeCouple
over a year ago

wickford

We both say it's very hot but we got into this as it's about us both doing things together so no matter how hot...we won't go there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We both say it's very hot but we got into this as it's about us both doing things together so no matter how hot...we won't go there "

We’re in this space too x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Adrian loves when I meet on my own or he comes home to find me, I do it because it's something that excites us both and that's what being on here is about.

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By *uriousblondwifeCouple
over a year ago

wickford


"Adrian loves when I meet on my own or he comes home to find me, I do it because it's something that excites us both and that's what being on here is about. "

Most definitely, it's about what works for you as a cpl, can most def see the appeal .

Have fun guys x

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By *ovelaughliveCouple
over a year ago

Oldham


"Adrian loves when I meet on my own or he comes home to find me, I do it because it's something that excites us both and that's what being on here is about. "

Exactly, its whatever does it for you both

thats the great thing about the swinging scene we love how even if people are into things we aren't or us for them everyone is very respectful x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would love to walk in on my wife getting fucked is this something alot of couples do"

It’s what works for you at the end of the day buddy

Have fun

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By *aughtycp1Couple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

I have done in the past but only with regular friends. Never with guys I don't know.

I prefer my cuckold watching or listening

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can play separate with the couple we’ve initially met

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By *atinocoupleCouple
over a year ago

SF, NY, London (in that order)

Was on our bucket list pre-Covid

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do enjoy my partner to play alone if she wants to as it is an added thrill. Her dressing up for him or following his instructions and then the thrill off maybe getting photos, vidoes and phone calls.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never wanted to do it seperately as the thrill is seeing what unfolds.

So the answer is no.

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By *obandsue 69Couple
over a year ago

north Cornwall

We done both from sue alone to sue upstairs with guy but we both much prefer cuck being there to see all the sexy fun.

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By *iceButtSlimMan
over a year ago

Folkestone

The pair of us play separately and I love getting photos and the like when she does.

The idea of walking in on her unplanned is such a turn on, but with a family it isn't really going to work.

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By *ic_khan2341Man
over a year ago

Manchester


"I would love to walk in on my wife getting fucked is this something alot of couples do"

Yes we have done this in the past but only when pre arranged with all parties. Good fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would love to walk in on my wife getting fucked is this something alot of couples do"
I can confirm,yes,some do

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By *anPsurreycoupleCouple
over a year ago

Surrey

Never to many nut jobs out there. Always wanna be able to protect the person I love most in this world. Here loads of stories of ladies going on dates and turning in to a real bad situation. We have a friend who got her drink spiked by some scumbag

Fair play for who do it but definitely not something Sam ever wants to do

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By *dul147Man
over a year ago

Whitehaven

Just out of curiosity, what are the women who play alone thoughts on men playing alone???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would love to walk in on my wife getting fucked is this something alot of couples do"

This used to happen when we were younger

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By *r and Mrs 81Couple
over a year ago

Leicester


"To be honest I wouldn't want to whether hubby let me or not, for me the biggest turn on is seeing what it is doing to my hubby not the play with others, but everyone has different things that are their kicks x"

That is everything ?? and alot of people really don't understand it x

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By *iman2100Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

My mrs is not a swinger but in our open marriage she meets hear and their with her men friends. I am happy with that but would prefer to be their myself. Their are lots of good reasons for men wanting there wives hear and not their.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I do and did with my previous partner too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My princess peach plays on her own. Walked in on her before being naughty.

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By *inkyKittyWoman
over a year ago

Swindon

Oh I’d love to find a fella who would be into this… love the idea of getting ‘caught’

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fuck yeah

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By *inkyKittyWoman
over a year ago

Swindon


"Just out of curiosity, what are the women who play alone thoughts on men playing alone??? "

I’d be more than happy to see my fell go off, have a session… send me photos/videos and tell me all about it when he returns

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By *iman2100Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Oh I’d love to find a fella who would be into this… love the idea of getting ‘caught’ "

There must be a lot on here Kitty who would be only too willing to catch you.

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By *ogerroger69Man
over a year ago

West Yorks

My Mrs meets her trusted lover for blow jobs and more, yes

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By *aughtywifeandhimCouple
over a year ago

luton

We have a friend that my wife plays alone with , but only about twice a year when he is in area , I am also ok with her playing alone in club as long as I know what room she is in or is within site , I sometimes play alone outside of club , but we enjoy meets better when together, as if not playing as couple we also enjoy watching our partners having a good time

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By *inkyKittyWoman
over a year ago

Swindon


"Oh I’d love to find a fella who would be into this… love the idea of getting ‘caught’

There must be a lot on here Kitty who would be only too willing to catch you. "

10years and still looking

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By *ornyhappyCouple
over a year ago

perth

I choose not to meet alone, for me the enjoyment and excitement comes from sharing the experiences with M.

K

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By *inkyKittyWoman
over a year ago

Swindon

I must be broken… any other women on here get turned on if their partner comes back with juicy sex stories?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would love to walk in on my wife getting fucked is this something alot of couples do your asking that question on a swingers site!!!!!!!.......No most couples on here are on because they have mistaken it for prayer group and haven't worked out how to log out yet."

No grumps on friday! It's a valid question x

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By *uitednbooted2Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

If I had £20 for every couple that approached me about this then couldn’t follow through with it I would be a rich man.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I would love to walk in on my wife getting fucked is this something alot of couples do your asking that question on a swingers site!!!!!!!.......No most couples on here are on because they have mistaken it for prayer group and haven't worked out how to log out yet.

No grumps on friday! It's a valid question x"

Thankyou guys although tbh we just ignored him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I choose not to meet alone, for me the enjoyment and excitement comes from sharing the experiences with M.

K "

This is my feelings too.

I won't play alone with M or F. Partner has to be part of it as that's the whole point of us Swinging together. Our choice x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We only play as a couple, i don't have any interest in playing on my own or Mr J playing on his own as I get off at the fact I'm there with him and were both in the moment together fucking

Her x

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

It's very common from what I've read. For us, Hannah can do whatever she like with a woman and I don't have to be involved. With men,we would only do that together.

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By *orkshrCplCouple
over a year ago

Ripon

Yes x

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By *lansmanMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

I used to enjoy an ex of mine playing alone . Big turn on for us both.

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By *ork and MindyMan
over a year ago

Southampton

We both play alone, it's great to hear or see what she has been up to, love the sloppy seconds lol

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By *cutebum9Couple
over a year ago

wallsend

Wife plays alone also has her own account. Best experience was coming home from work to find her naked on all fours and a guy balls deep fucking her on our living room floor

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By *ettpairCouple
over a year ago

Kettering

Have done this before and hope to do it again....so horny

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By *eckycdTV/TS
over a year ago

northwest

I’d love to watch my wife have sex with another man.

I’ve even suggested a man she can play with but won’t

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm married and having extra fun. My husband leaves me to it xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm married and having extra fun. My husband leaves me to it xx"

You do look like your alot of fun aswell

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over a year ago

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over a year ago


"I would love to walk in on my wife getting fucked is this something alot of couples do your asking that question on a swingers site!!!!!!!.......No most couples on here are on because they have mistaken it for prayer group and haven't worked out how to log out yet.

Amen do you mean to tell me that there won't be an early morning mass?!"

I can tell you I have an early morning mass most mornings but it’s nothing to do with prayer x

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By *oooner1Couple
over a year ago

milton keynes

Deb often plays alone. If I’m lucky she’ll text me while she’s with the other guy telling me what they’re up to and if I’m really lucky she’ll send pics

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By *dul147Man
over a year ago

Whitehaven

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By *xcited99Couple
over a year ago

omagh

The sex afterwards is quite simply amazing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I must be broken… any other women on here get turned on if their partner comes back with juicy sex stories? "

1000% me. You're not alone. It's actually what got us into this. Me going off and sending him videos and him telling me what to do with the guy.

Then on the way home he would tell me what I should do to myself and then when I get in, he reclaims me.

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

Yes, it's how we prefer to play.

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By *uriousblondwifeCouple
over a year ago

wickford


"If I had £20 for every couple that approached me about this then couldn’t follow through with it I would be a rich man. "

Def think it's more a fantasy thing for alot of cpls to be honest

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By *tarburst babydollMan
over a year ago

Dingwall


"Just out of curiosity, what are the women who play alone thoughts on men playing alone??? "

My hubby can play on his own as well. Its only fair

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have done in the past . A few times .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We can both meet solo

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By *ecky and justCouple
over a year ago

Godalming


"Becky can play alone, as can I, but only with our friends and people we know and trust.

Never a random. "

Seems we’ve caused some confusion judging by some messages.

We would only play separately with good friends that we’ve played with before.

Never with someone we hadn’t met before, especially after an experience Becky had.

Trust is everything.

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"I would love to walk in on my wife getting fucked is this something alot of couples do"

I'm not comfortable with the word "let". It suggests control and ownership to me and we're a partnership.

I do meet alone and he is welcome to as well, should he choose to do so.

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By *antasy Explorers 1313Couple
over a year ago

A place where others reside (nr Oxford)

Debs knows she has my blessing to do so but has only acted on it once.

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By *r and Mrs B xxCouple
over a year ago

Playa de Ingles Chippenham

I (Mrs) meet alone and have my own profile. I send him pics and videos to show him what I'm doing. He's free to meet if he wishes to, I don't want pics etc though.

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By *iceButtSlimMan
over a year ago

Folkestone


"I would love to walk in on my wife getting fucked is this something alot of couples do

I'm not comfortable with the word "let". It suggests control and ownership to me and we're a partnership.

I do meet alone and he is welcome to as well, should he choose to do so."

But do you discuss who each of you is meeting and if one of you isn't comfortable then the meet doesn't happen? Or would you go against your partners wishes or back?

I think the term 'let' is a simplest term for both of you being in agreement, rather than one of ownership.

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"I would love to walk in on my wife getting fucked is this something alot of couples do

I'm not comfortable with the word "let". It suggests control and ownership to me and we're a partnership.

I do meet alone and he is welcome to as well, should he choose to do so.

But do you discuss who each of you is meeting and if one of you isn't comfortable then the meet doesn't happen? Or would you go against your partners wishes or back?

I think the term 'let' is a simplest term for both of you being in agreement, rather than one of ownership."

I can't speak for him.

However, if my husband chose to meet others, why would it matter to me who he was meeting? I'm not meeting them...

I would want to know who he was meeting, where he was going and when he was ciming home, but would have no other interest in a meet I wouldn't be involved in.

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"I would love to walk in on my wife getting fucked is this something alot of couples do

I'm not comfortable with the word "let". It suggests control and ownership to me and we're a partnership.

I do meet alone and he is welcome to as well, should he choose to do so.

But do you discuss who each of you is meeting and if one of you isn't comfortable then the meet doesn't happen? Or would you go against your partners wishes or back?

I think the term 'let' is a simplest term for both of you being in agreement, rather than one of ownership.

I can't speak for him.

However, if my husband chose to meet others, why would it matter to me who he was meeting? I'm not meeting them...

I would want to know who he was meeting, where he was going and when he was ciming home, but would have no other interest in a meet I wouldn't be involved in."

And no I wouldn't meet behind his back. That's cheating not swinging

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By *lasphemousGirlWoman
over a year ago

Cambs

I play alone but only with women xx

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"I play alone but only with women xx"

Me too

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By *winger coupleCouple
over a year ago

Reading Berkshire

Yes

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By *oneybeesCouple
over a year ago

Worcs, West Midlands

Wife is allowed to play alone whenever she wants to. Last time a BBC joined her at home all day whilst I was at work, came home from work they were still in bed, he also stayed the night and they started again the next morning until about lunchtime. AWESOME

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very sexy _oneybees

I would happily pop round next time your at work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wife plays alone also has her own account. Best experience was coming home from work to find her naked on all fours and a guy balls deep fucking her on our living room floor "

What a great comment

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By *hezzie BikersCouple
over a year ago

Chesterfield

Simple answer yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes a lot of the time x

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By *ewhorizonsCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

When we started I was always present / involved when my wife was with another man. Later I was happy for her to meet guys solo as long as she was going to be safe. It was easier to arrange meets like this for childcare reasons.

She always used condoms on her meets and I knew she’d stop if I asked her to. I loved watching her get ready and then tell me all about it after. I understand why this wouldn’t be to everyone’s tastes but it suited us and I never got jealous. I was happy for her that she was having a good time.

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By *ee And MikeCouple
over a year ago

Cannock


"When we started I was always present / involved when my wife was with another man. Later I was happy for her to meet guys solo as long as she was going to be safe. It was easier to arrange meets like this for childcare reasons.

She always used condoms on her meets and I knew she’d stop if I asked her to. I loved watching her get ready and then tell me all about it after. I understand why this wouldn’t be to everyone’s tastes but it suited us and I never got jealous. I was happy for her that she was having a good time."

This is very much how our dynamic works at times too !

She’s always preferred long term guys as you can build up trust and a rapport but it’s all about my wife enjoying herself and me supporting her in doing that rather than ‘letting’ her !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely…. Positively encouraged !

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By *urora1912Woman
over a year ago

Norfolk East anglia


"I would love to walk in on my wife getting fucked is this something alot of couples do your asking that question on a swingers site!!!!!!!.......No most couples on here are on because they have mistaken it for prayer group and haven't worked out how to log out yet."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On occasion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love playing alone and getting sent back to hubby full of cum

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By *uzboxCouple
over a year ago

Northwich


"I would love to walk in on my wife getting fucked is this something alot of couples do"

We always meet as a couple but I (he) always makes an excuse to leave her with the guy for a while so that I can return and see how far they have got

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By *ot - CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

Yes we've done it.

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

I have a Hotwife friend. She come to mine. We have food, drinks. Chats and flirting. Then we have fun. She sends her husband regular picture updates.

I think next time we may send him some FaceTime video.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've always said to my wife as long as its not feelings as in love and its just lust or the fact she horny go for it

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

With another couple I massage. The guy keeps disappearing. I thought it odd at first but I think he likes to walk back in on us?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have walked in on my wife dildoing herself it was so fucking horny

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By *IKA26Couple
over a year ago

wirral

That’s for us too love to watch T enjoy herself and maybe me join in when invited but if she really wanted to go it alone I wouldn’t object....don’t own her after all and I know she’ll still come home but safety is paramount..

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By *leopatra 64Couple
over a year ago

Poole


"Mr PC is more than happy for me to play with ladies alone, Miss PC "

Same here , I love having a girlfriend to play alone with

P xx

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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago

nr Stamford

Char is totally free to play with anyone whenever she wants. Most times we'll agree to meet as a couple first, but if it's someone that she's built up some trust with then I'm happy for her to have a first meet on her own.

In the past I've sat in the hotel bar while Char has gone with a guy to his room for an hour. On another occasion a guy that we'd seen before came round for coffee while I was at work and I got sent pictures of him getting a BJ. And more recently another guy came round and they sent me pics of them fucking while I was working.

I'd never stop Char for doing whatever she wanted, and our agreement is that I know about it either before, during or after. As long as it's never a secret then it's all good.

(Bry)

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By *assycouple69Couple
over a year ago

stone

Yes my hubby lets me play alone x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My wife exclusively plays alone.

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By *pearmint RhinoCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

I (Spearmint) play with girlfriends alone, but would only consider proper friends not ‘we met at a party one’ friends. Used to go play at my girlfriends nearly weekly. Her hubby had to stay downstairs while mine started at home.

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By *ewhorizonsCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire


"When we started I was always present / involved when my wife was with another man. Later I was happy for her to meet guys solo as long as she was going to be safe. It was easier to arrange meets like this for childcare reasons.

She always used condoms on her meets and I knew she’d stop if I asked her to. I loved watching her get ready and then tell me all about it after. I understand why this wouldn’t be to everyone’s tastes but it suited us and I never got jealous. I was happy for her that she was having a good time.

This is very much how our dynamic works at times too !

She’s always preferred long term guys as you can build up trust and a rapport but it’s all about my wife enjoying herself and me supporting her in doing that rather than ‘letting’ her !"

Yes exactly. I hate that term “I LET my wife play” like the man owns her. We also preferred regular friends rather than one offs. More of a connection.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

My partner has her own harem

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By *sexyHCouple
over a year ago

Leicester


"I would love to walk in on my wife getting fucked is this something alot of couples do"

I'm always happy to let my wife play alone and come home to tell me when she got upto

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By *hemainintainMan
over a year ago

govan


"lol my guy does x"

I would love love love to entertain you on day x

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By *isiseCouple
over a year ago

Stockport


"I would love to walk in on my wife getting fucked is this something alot of couples do your asking that question on a swingers site!!!!!!!.......No most couples on here are on because they have mistaken it for prayer group and haven't worked out how to log out yet."

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By *isiseCouple
over a year ago

Stockport

Nobody has mentioned whether the guy who is fucking the wife is happy about being walked in on - does he know it will happen or does he leg it out of the window, naked?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mmmmmmm Kitty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've always said to my wife as long as its not feelings as in love and its just lust or the fact she horny go for it "

My husband said the same thing. Don't lie if asked, and don't go falling in love and mess up our home family.

I've come home late or stay out overnight countless times, he's also had sex with me many times when I've been sloppy from other men. Never been an issue. Xx

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By *sexyHCouple
over a year ago

Leicester


"I've always said to my wife as long as its not feelings as in love and its just lust or the fact she horny go for it

My husband said the same thing. Don't lie if asked, and don't go falling in love and mess up our home family.

I've come home late or stay out overnight countless times, he's also had sex with me many times when I've been sloppy from other men. Never been an issue. Xx"

Same here

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By *asycouple1971Couple
over a year ago

midlands

My wife met a regular by herself twice.

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By *cotlandHotWifeCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Perth

Mrs was left in a hotel room with the guy on our first meet

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By *riskynriskyCouple
over a year ago

Essex.

My concerns are she's happy and safe, apart from that, she's free to do as she chooses, she's my wife not my property.

She generally prefers me either watching or joining in but has one guy she will spend a night with and a few trusted guys she's happy to wander off with in a club.

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By *aughtycp1Couple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

My hubby does. But it's very rare that I want to. I prefer him being there and enjoying watching me being properly serviced by a big cock.

Something he cannot do.

Mrs N

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yesss

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By *edhotlovers2027Couple
over a year ago

Doncaster

I would be happy to let Cazz fuck other guys,but she's not interested in playing on her own

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By *unloversCouple
over a year ago

rotherham

I also prefer hubby to be there

It’s his pleasure as well so why do it from a distance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From a safety aspect, would rather hubby was there with me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And I love being that male that being invited into there sex lives

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"From a safety aspect, would rather hubby was there with me "

If it's safety you want hun,cum with me literally our men can go have couple of drinks together and await the filthy Pics or phone call

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldnt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We only play as a couple I love seeing her with another guy so her going on her own would do nothing for me at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"From a safety aspect, would rather hubby was there with me

If it's safety you want hun,cum with me literally our men can go have couple of drinks together and await the filthy Pics or phone call "

Now you’ve got me intrigued. PM me please x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would love to walk in on my wife getting fucked is this something alot of couples do"

We have as a Hot Wife couple, loved it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mrs vixen absolutely has permission to play alone as she has done on a few occasions this is usually with someone we have met and spoken to before and have trust with if not then Mr stag is usually around to step in if need be..I have sat in the other bedroom and listened found this to be absolutely horny as hell but it's each to their own xxx Mr stag

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My ex partner used to let me do this, it was a lot of fun, especially telling them what we got upto

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By *ave1963BarnsleyMan
over a year ago

Barnsley


"And I love being that male that being invited into there sex lives "

Absolutely this! I consider it a priveledge that I'm permitted to fuck the partner or wife of the couple's I play with.

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By *antasticMrsFoxMan
over a year ago

Exeter

Love sending mrs fox out to play for a night away.....or at home whilst I'm at work sending photos and videos

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By *voryforebonyMan
over a year ago

boogie town


"I would love to walk in on my wife getting fucked is this something alot of couples do"

Their women, not there women...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He doesn't let me. We agreed that it was something we wanted to do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Normal thing for cuckold hotwife couples x

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By *G CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Newton Stewart

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My hubby sending me off, and literally shaking when I return is the horniest thing ever

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By *ilk and honey 2019Couple
over a year ago

Porthcawl

Wife arranges meets a lot lately

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And I love being that male that being invited into there sex lives

Absolutely this! I consider it a priveledge that I'm permitted to fuck the partner or wife of the couple's I play with."

Yes it is a privilege when a husband shares the most sacred thing he has

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By *ocoTemptationMan
over a year ago

london

Speaking as the single male in my experience the results are mixed. Sometimes even though hubby isn't physically present his eagerness to know what is going on and apatite for pics as they are happening can be a factor that ruins the vibe. There is a delicate balance to be had. So with some couples I've met everyone has tangibly had much more fun with hubby there physically and fully involved.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would love to walk in on my wife getting fucked is this something alot of couples do your asking that question on a swingers site!!!!!!!.......No most couples on here are on because they have mistaken it for prayer group and haven't worked out how to log out yet."

I must have got confused!

Think it’s all the “god I’m coming” that threw me.

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