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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We love curvy ladies tracey and me...but why do so many insist on guys having a sixpack ( yeh I am 47...dream on !) when they clearly dodge the salads and gym themselves...no intention to offend but we can't all be swimwear models

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The clue is in the W, and as such they can demand anything they want and lots of guys on here are happy to see they get it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

do any guys describe themselves as a "BBM" and would it perk any ladies interest if they did ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"do any guys describe themselves as a "BBM" and would it perk any ladies interest if they did ? "

The term is BHM, Big Handsome Male.

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By *of 9Woman
over a year ago

Cardiff


"do any guys describe themselves as a "BBM" and would it perk any ladies interest if they did ? "

Would mine... big guys are soooo sexy and not up their own arse... that s pure logic for you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They make some cracking cars!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They make some cracking cars!! "

LMAO.............

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be honest we're happy to consider people of most weights... something which winds us both up (and yes, it's silly) is the term "BBW" itself.

I'm not sure why but we both positively cringe at anyone who describes themself as beautiful as we believe beauty is very much in the eye of the beholder.

It's almost an irrational dislike but if a lady described herself as "cuddly" or "plump" or even "a bit overweight" we'd be totally fine with it. The assertion that they're automatically beautiful just because they're fat doesn't really compute with us

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By *eznhannahCouple
over a year ago

leeds


"To be honest we're happy to consider people of most weights... something which winds us both up (and yes, it's silly) is the term "BBW" itself.

I'm not sure why but we both positively cringe at anyone who describes themself as beautiful as we believe beauty is very much in the eye of the beholder.

It's almost an irrational dislike but if a lady described herself as "cuddly" or "plump" or even "a bit overweight" we'd be totally fine with it. The assertion that they're automatically beautiful just because they're fat doesn't really compute with us "

was just gonna say that....nearly word for word, there are some beautiful bigger people, but thers some munters as well just like with all shapes of people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am amazed the word fat was used and the poster got away with it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i hate the term bbw it just seems i dunno horrid!! maybe im too honest about myself "fat female face like a robbers dog is my usual description!!

think i prefer a previous meets pet name for me.. chunky butt lol xx

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By *ittylitterCouple (FF)
over a year ago

Sheffield

I think BBW is a useful term on sites like this - I reckon its a quick way to drop it into their profile that if anyone is looking for size 8 models they should stop reading then!

I fall into the bigger end of BBW, certainly would never claim to be beautiful, don't mind calling it plain old fat but a lot of others aren't as unfazed by it.

I know what the OP means about some BBW women liking exclusively really fit men etc but by the same token whilst it might be a bit more unlikely to happen, if they're getting the meets there is a market for it somewhere!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We love curvy ladies tracey and me...but why do so many insist on guys having a sixpack ( yeh I am 47...dream on !) when they clearly dodge the salads and gym themselves...no intention to offend but we can't all be swimwear models "

Oh we don't all specify a six-pack ... I am quite happy to meet fellow salad dodgers (though I do love rocket and watercress yum!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i dont mind big women at all.

Your are not big to me just normal women.if they like my company who am i to complain.

sense of humor and good fun to be with is all you need.

size means f all to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We love curvy ladies tracey and me...but why do so many insist on guys having a sixpack ( yeh I am 47...dream on !) when they clearly dodge the salads and gym themselves...no intention to offend but we can't all be swimwear models

Oh we don't all specify a six-pack ... I am quite happy to meet fellow salad dodgers (though I do love rocket and watercress yum!)"

Oh i love men with six packs but its hard to find them with intelligence as well.

So prefer to stick to my sexy man who has everything i need

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

We met a great guy with more than a 6 pack recently and he was lovely in everyway,intelligent,funny,sexy as hell and an all round hot guy

I think with every shape and size its all down to personality and how you click with someone,some you do and some you don't

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By *issCognitoWoman
over a year ago

secret location near glasgow

What size do u have to be to be a BBW?

Always wondered.. being a size 14/16 lol!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What size do u have to be to be a BBW?

Always wondered.. being a size 14/16 lol!!

"

It probably comes down to height to weight ratio in most cases!

XXXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

wot a load cows patt we are all here for one thing or the other but if you think your going to find some male model with 6 pac and be all that then you need get ur own head out ur backside 96% are here for no string SEX not a bloody wife/husband

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By *issCognitoWoman
over a year ago

secret location near glasgow


"What size do u have to be to be a BBW?

Always wondered.. being a size 14/16 lol!!

It probably comes down to height to weight ratio in most cases!

XXXX"

Why does everything have to be so complicated lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"wot a load cows patt we are all here for one thing or the other but if you think your going to find some male model with 6 pac and be all that then you need get ur own head out ur backside 96% are here for no string SEX not a bloody wife/husband"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"wot a load cows patt we are all here for one thing or the other but if you think your going to find some male model with 6 pac and be all that then you need get ur own head out ur backside 96% are here for no string SEX not a bloody wife/husband"

Sorry but have to disagree some in fact most folk here will simply shag anything and have a particular type/standard call it what you like of person they wish to have sex with.

Thats not a case of having their head up their arse it's just preferance, most of us have it, some dont but it's all part of what makes swinging happen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sorry if it sounded wrong ment to add go with wot gut feeling is,i dont judge by pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What size do u have to be to be a BBW?

Always wondered.. being a size 14/16 lol!!

It probably comes down to height to weight ratio in most cases!

XXXX

Why does everything have to be so complicated lol x"

Simple really,at 5'7" and size 14/16 you probably look a lot slimmer than a woman the same size but only say 4'10" or 5'2".

So you wouldn't be eligible for the BBW tag but they maybe would.

XXXX

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

well....just perved at your pics and I think the term voluptuous would suit you better...BVW !

beautiful voluptuous woman x

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


"We love curvy ladies tracey and me...but why do so many insist on guys having a sixpack ( yeh I am 47...dream on !) when they clearly dodge the salads and gym themselves...no intention to offend but we can't all be swimwear models "

Just in the same way not all men find larger women appealling, not all women find big guys a turn on. We all have preferences and can't really help what turns us on or off.

Or are you suggesting because a woman is fat she should take whatever offer comes along regardless of her preferences?

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


"What size do u have to be to be a BBW?

Always wondered.. being a size 14/16 lol!!

"

As that is the average size of women in the UK, I'd say you're average.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

no not at all...if she has preferences and finds what she wants then good luck to her....just think it sounds a bit hypocritical to state... " men with sixpakcs only or you will be deleted !"

and then states only guys over 40...come on...I had a six pack in my twenties but lack of sport and middle age catches up and i find the gym a bore so if any guy has a sixpack at my age he must be a jockey !

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


"no not at all...if she has preferences and finds what she wants then good luck to her....just think it sounds a bit hypocritical to state... " men with sixpakcs only or you will be deleted !"

and then states only guys over 40...come on...I had a six pack in my twenties but lack of sport and middle age catches up and i find the gym a bore so if any guy has a sixpack at my age he must be a jockey ! "

Would a thin guy seeking larger women be seen as a hypocrite?

The way her preferences are stated may well imply she is up her own arse to many readers... but she is just as entitled to her preferences as the next person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hate woman caLLing them selfs BBW its a label ..Men saying my wifes a BBW i hate it ,,,,, should be curvy..I had a letter last week from a beautiful curvey lady.. She started of here letter not sure if you would like me but i am a BBW .......... It should have been hello i am a sexie cruvey lady x please hold your heads up curvey is HOT XXXX GIRLS .... KISSES Mrs G X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I fall into the category of "BBW" although I don't consider myself beautiful by any stretch of the imagination..Just take a look at the wording in my profile and you will see what I mean! Again, I suppose it's a category / stereotype, but I think BBW best describes the size of lady you are looking at when reading profiles, And yes if big women aren't your bag then you stop reading and move on. However I always thought men prefered thinner women. But since joining this site I have found that not to be true. And am amazed that so many guys (and girls) love the larger lady. However people wish to catergorise her.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What size do u have to be to be a BBW?

Always wondered.. being a size 14/16 lol!!

As that is the average size of women in the UK, I'd say you're average."

Sitting on our seafront people watching this summer, the average size seemed to be 24/28!

XXXX

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"no not at all...if she has preferences and finds what she wants then good luck to her....just think it sounds a bit hypocritical to state... " men with sixpakcs only or you will be deleted !"

and then states only guys over 40...come on...I had a six pack in my twenties but lack of sport and middle age catches up and i find the gym a bore so if any guy has a sixpack at my age he must be a jockey !

Would a thin guy seeking larger women be seen as a hypocrite?

The way her preferences are stated may well imply she is up her own arse to many readers... but she is just as entitled to her preferences as the next person."

Well a thin guy seeking a larger woman is the norm surely ! (I know...don't call me shirley ) whereas an old guy who could be like johnny Vegas on guiness seeking the perfect page 3 does have a bit of a flaw !

I do agree with you though...just makes me smile when you see it that's all

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I fall into the category of "BBW" although I don't consider myself beautiful by any stretch of the imagination..Just take a look at the wording in my profile and you will see what I mean! Again, I suppose it's a category / stereotype, but I think BBW best describes the size of lady you are looking at when reading profiles, And yes if big women aren't your bag then you stop reading and move on. However I always thought men prefered thinner women. But since joining this site I have found that not to be true. And am amazed that so many guys (and girls) love the larger lady. However people wish to catergorise her. "

looking good hunny

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


"What size do u have to be to be a BBW?

Always wondered.. being a size 14/16 lol!!

As that is the average size of women in the UK, I'd say you're average.

Sitting on our seafront people watching this summer, the average size seemed to be 24/28!

XXXX"

Dare I say it....... is that only because of the size of plane seats... on second thoughts, I'll leave it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

thanks guys, you as well xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

at the end of the day its an americanised label and one i personally dont like but if other people want to use it fair play. dont see many male profiles with bbg (big beatiful guy) on it!

some like them big some like them little some like them tall some like them short some like long hair some like no hair some like smooth some like furr see where this is goin...me im happy if they in my own species!

if we were all honest about what we prefer what we want and what we get and put it on our profiles it would be an all out war... then again usually is cause the wind always blowing in someones face here!!! live and let live!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

everyone likes different dont they, all because your big yourself does not mean you have to like other bigger people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To be honest we're happy to consider people of most weights... something which winds us both up (and yes, it's silly) is the term "BBW" itself.

I'm not sure why but we both positively cringe at anyone who describes themself as beautiful as we believe beauty is very much in the eye of the beholder.

It's almost an irrational dislike but if a lady described herself as "cuddly" or "plump" or even "a bit overweight" we'd be totally fine with it. The assertion that they're automatically beautiful just because they're fat doesn't really compute with us "

this has been said many times before, to be the term BBW does not mean all women who are big think they are beautiful, its purely an expression to let people know they are over weight, a term made up by people who think big IS beautiful but even big lady lovers arnt going to fancy all of them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What size do u have to be to be a BBW?

Always wondered.. being a size 14/16 lol!!

It probably comes down to height to weight ratio in most cases!

XXXX

Why does everything have to be so complicated lol x

Simple really,at 5'7" and size 14/16 you probably look a lot slimmer than a woman the same size but only say 4'10" or 5'2".

So you wouldn't be eligible for the BBW tag but they maybe would.

XXXX"

im 5ft 7 and a size 14 and i class myself as a BBW, but what a BBW is, is subjectional to what you like, you ask 20 men what size a BBW starts from and you'll get at least half a dozen different sizes depending on what they like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What size do u have to be to be a BBW?

Always wondered.. being a size 14/16 lol!!

As that is the average size of women in the UK, I'd say you're average.

Sitting on our seafront people watching this summer, the average size seemed to be 24/28!

XXXX"

i dont sit near the beach greenpeace try n shove me back in!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What size do u have to be to be a BBW?

Always wondered.. being a size 14/16 lol!!

As that is the average size of women in the UK, I'd say you're average.

Sitting on our seafront people watching this summer, the average size seemed to be 24/28!

XXXX

i dont sit near the beach greenpeace try n shove me back in!! "

Hehe..you beat me to it...I stay on the beach...otherwise someone will try to harpoon me..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How about a ratings system:

anorexic

athletic

slim

curvy

cuddly

sturdy

needs a reversing siren

This was written in jest please don't lynch me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i thought it was funny!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"i thought it was funny!!!

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not if it bends the harpoon !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How about a ratings system:

anorexic

athletic

slim

curvy

cuddly

sturdy

needs a reversing siren

This was written in jest please don't lynch me "

Love it hun, LMAO xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Am sure i posted on here or was it a dream ?

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By *Ecouple113Couple
over a year ago

hebburn

Hi

Yeah my wife is BBW and i love her. secretly i bet a LOT of guys who say they prefer skinny women ACTUALLY prefer BBW. As for 6 Pack i totally agree. am 42, not skinny and gotthat middle aged spread lol. met a few cpls and im not bad but some womens standards are way too high

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i used to be a bbw but then i started eating less.......

who gonna shoot first huh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How about a ratings system:

anorexic

athletic

slim

curvy

cuddly

sturdy

needs a reversing siren

This was written in jest please don't lynch me "

u missed out

fat

morbidly obeise what ever i cant spell lol

but i get it the anorix is ok in jest cos slim people have a sense of hunour?

i think i am due on my period lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi

Yeah my wife is BBW and i love her. secretly i bet a LOT of guys who say they prefer skinny women ACTUALLY prefer BBW. As for 6 Pack i totally agree. am 42, not skinny and gotthat middle aged spread lol. met a few cpls and im not bad but some womens standards are way too high"

i dont think many guys say they like skinny woman, comments like this always make me laugh theres no middle ground with some people, its either skinny or fat, i personally dont think many guys like skinny woman i do think most like slim ones tho and their is a difference, i cant see why a guy would not admit to liking a BBW if he does, whats the point in that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

skinny slim fat huge so what they all got cunts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"skinny slim fat huge so what they all got cunts "

lol this i also agree with, most men on here dont really care what size a woman is so long as she meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People do not have to go for people who look identical to themselves. I am a big woman (i too am not keen on the term BBW) and am attracted to athletic/slim men. Should i not be entitled to my preference because i am big? I have dark hair, but often find myself attracted to fair men, is that wrong too? Of course not, people are entitled to have whatever criteria they like, regardless of if it is the same or opposite to themselves.

I am quite fussy about who i want to play with, that is part of me and will never change regardless of what size i am.

This is one big woman who does not fit the “fat birds are more grateful for what they can get” idea that some seem to have. I am choosy, and rightly so.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

here here

im the same, fooking choosy regardless of size.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

and so you should be, we have the rights to be picky no matter whats age/size or anything else we are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

best piece of advice ever.... dont matter if you fat as long as u swallow lol!! (put the guns down people just a light hearted remark!)

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By *e_want_moreCouple
over a year ago

birmingham

i just gota ad, im a size 18 5'9 and have lots of wobbley bits and to be honest used to be really paranoid about my size but since joining this site i dont care and ive learned to love my body the way it is,

as long as there is an attraction there does it matter what 'size' someone is?!

were all here for the same thing, so just have fun, lifes to short

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