FabSwingers.com forum: Bdsm help

By *ungle VIP 1 OP Man
over a year ago

colchester

Im looling to spice things up and get a bdsm kit, any adive on wear to buy would be helpful, not looking for cheap stuff, any help and advice would be appreciated xx

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By *andy6677Man
over a year ago

crewe

"Im looling to spice things up and get a bdsm kit, any adive on wear to buy would be helpful, not looking for cheap stuff, any help and advice would be appreciated xx"

Lovehoney is good quality I found but also plenty of sellers on ebay even amazon.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

What type of kit do you want?

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

"Im looling to spice things up and get a bdsm kit, any adive on wear to buy would be helpful, not looking for cheap stuff, any help and advice would be appreciated xx"

What are you actually looking to do?

Who are you looking to do it too?

Where are you looking to do it?

Some BDSM kits you can buy are fine for some light bondage and sadomasochistic activities. But it really does depend on what you want to do.

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By *ersey GirlCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Im looling to spice things up and get a bdsm kit, any adive on wear to buy would be helpful, not looking for cheap stuff, any help and advice would be appreciated xx

What are you actually looking to do?

Who are you looking to do it too?

Where are you looking to do it?

Some BDSM kits you can buy are fine for some light bondage and sadomasochistic activities. But it really does depend on what you want to do.

these are a couple to take advice from

r&s

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By *landfordfabbersCouple
over a year ago

Blandford ish

Bdsm kit is a very broad term, it’s a bit like saying I’m looking for food!

You need to explain which area your looking to explore!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like to try a needle in my cock or cock head straight through

Where do I start ?

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By *ondonerMan
over a year ago

London / Essex borders

I'd start by doing you research, doing some reading of more fetish lifestyle sites, and get yourself to a local munch when we can mingle again properly to meet some properly knowledgeable folk in person..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thanks

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By *e Platypuss de ErotiqueMan
over a year ago

Bristol

Do some research first.

What type of things would you like to exsprence?

Can't be a good pvc catsuit and boots.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes you can’t beat going and seeing items for real and it can be fun if you’ve got someone to go along with so there are some big adult superstores or specialist shops and generally genuine people are happy to help and answer questions.

It’s all experience

and enjoy.

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

"Like to try a needle in my cock or cock head straight through

Where do I start ?"

At the beginning.

You need to find yourself a sadist who is into needle play. Some Pro Dommes are into such things if you are happy to pay to have the experience, otherwise you need to find someone that shares the same desires and is willing to do them to you which takes time.

Or you could just buy yourself some gear, do some research on what not stab in your cock, and do it yourself.

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By *ondonerMan
over a year ago

London / Essex borders

Hi Fetcpl,

Good advice as I expected from you guys.

Appreciate you're not looking for guys, so I won't ask to join you, but I LOVE your neon sloshing pictures, that's high on my bucket list!

Do you know of any such club nights etc where one might experience it?

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

"Hi Fetcpl,

Good advice as I expected from you guys.

Appreciate you're not looking for guys, so I won't ask to join you, but I LOVE your neon sloshing pictures, that's high on my bucket list!

Do you know of any such club nights etc where one might experience it?

Thank you, thats very kind of you.

As for clubs, not that we know of at the moment. We did that at home as we were experimenting with different substances to avoid wasting food and the smells that can come with it.

I think the only clubs that would be okay with that type of play would be ones with a wet room/watersports or massive garden area due to the potential mess and cleanup.

Next time I may be nice and warm the stuff up up first

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By *ondonerMan
over a year ago

London / Essex borders

Thanks for the feedback, yes, was assuming the same - maybe some of the more 'unique' clubs such as pissoir might cater?

If you need a photographer for the next round to capture you hoth in play, happy to help

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