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By *aughty_builder87 OP   Man
over a year ago

Keston

Ladies how many unread messages do you currently have a friend of mine is on 900 interested if women keep their box tidy or not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I delete mine as they come in, so zero at the moment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

None, I’ve just bulk deleted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I keep a very tidy box

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1! It took a lot of time but I've finally caught up xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

4 but I tend to delete as I go

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

10, I tidied everything up earlier on

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

0 right now but that will change if i log off for an hour or so

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By *ittle-Miss-Cunty-1Woman
over a year ago

Your basement, Cuntsville

25,I delete daily, I love a tidy box

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By *aughty_builder87 OP   Man
over a year ago

Keston

Well done ladies, keep those boxes tidy

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

2 I don't get so many that I can't keep up, but then I have plenty of time to sit on here and go through them all.

Maybe I'll just leave myself signed in for 24hrs and see how many I get

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

14

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

0, clean as they come in.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

3691 . I should really bulk delete but feel that this is rude.

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By *aughty_builder87 OP   Man
over a year ago

Keston


"3691 . I should really bulk delete but feel that this is rude."
wow you’ll need a good few days to get through that lot

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By *lwenWoman
over a year ago

De12 area

Are they unread or read and marked as unread.. I knew someone that did that never understood why.. I don't like the yellow boxes.. They need to be read and dealt with..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ladies how many unread messages do you currently have a friend of mine is on 900 interested if women keep their box tidy or not"

is there a slight touch of innuendo in this thread op?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ladies how many unread messages do you currently have a friend of mine is on 900 interested if women keep their box tidy or not

is there a slight touch of innuendo in this thread op?"

Shaven Haven

Reeeeeespect

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Alot of message can be read without pressing on them as just say a few words.

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

None .I keep my filters tight and I don't get a lot of messages .That's the way I like it as well. I don't see the point of wanting loads of messages that you can't answer or even look at.

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By *aughty_builder87 OP   Man
over a year ago

Keston


"Ladies how many unread messages do you currently have a friend of mine is on 900 interested if women keep their box tidy or not

is there a slight touch of innuendo in this thread op?"

Get your mind out of the gutter

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By *aughty_builder87 OP   Man
over a year ago

Keston


"Alot of message can be read without pressing on them as just say a few words."

Some can but I space my messages out so that won’t work with mine. But clear read messages out of my outbox as I they get read or deleted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only two, from regular people I chat with. My profile is hidden so I rarely get messages.

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By *usty_BethWoman
over a year ago

Wakefield

Bulk delete regularly so just a handful at the moment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"None .I keep my filters tight and I don't get a lot of messages .That's the way I like it as well. I don't see the point of wanting loads of messages that you can't answer or even look at. "

This, makes sense and saves everyone's time

L

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I deleted mine a few days ago as hadn't been on in a couple of weeks and had like 900 or something I had no intention of trying to work through.... Right now it's at 213 and I'll probably ckear it again in a few days

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By *rincessPaula99Woman
over a year ago

near barnsley

560 right now. I don't think guys realise how many we get and that we're not been rude we just don't have time to reply to everyone x p

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By *aughty_builder87 OP   Man
over a year ago

Keston


"560 right now. I don't think guys realise how many we get and that we're not been rude we just don't have time to reply to everyone x p"

Oh we do, but this is why I put it out to demonstrate why sometimes you just won’t get replies. Out of curiosity do you scan through to check if there is anyone who catches your attention and read those specifically.

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By *aughtycp1Couple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

I bulk delete mine. If I miss a day on here it's completely impossible to catch up.

I try and reply to every single message but it annoys me when single guys assume I'm going to meet them just because I send a reply. Most don't even send a face pic but still expect a meet.

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By *aughty_builder87 OP   Man
over a year ago

Keston


"I bulk delete mine. If I miss a day on here it's completely impossible to catch up.

I try and reply to every single message but it annoys me when single guys assume I'm going to meet them just because I send a reply. Most don't even send a face pic but still expect a meet. "

At least you try. I’d never assume a meet based on a reply but would suggest a coffee if I got a few replies and felt it was going well. I have only just started adding pictures to my messages as my face is on my profile

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By *unloversCouple
over a year ago

rotherham

I delete as soon as I e read

Only reply to the interesting ones

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By *aughty_builder87 OP   Man
over a year ago

Keston


"I delete as soon as I e read

Only reply to the interesting ones"

That’s a good approach to have. Out of curiosity how many do you get on an average day?

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By *nvincible ButterflyWoman
over a year ago

LEEDS

Currently 22 but it was 356 last night. Took me 2 hours to sort it out.

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By *aughty_builder87 OP   Man
over a year ago

Keston


"Currently 22 but it was 356 last night. Took me 2 hours to sort it out."

That’s a good effort. If you did it that quickly I take it not too many people got replies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ladies how many unread messages do you currently have a friend of mine is on 900 interested if women keep their box tidy or not"

One,

It's staying right there!

*waves* if you're reading this

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

Over night, up to now I only had 13 new messages.

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By *aughty_builder87 OP   Man
over a year ago

Keston


"Over night, up to now I only had 13 new messages."

I would add one but don’t meet your criteria

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh god I wish I was the type of person to keep email inboxes organised.

I’m on 3753 and my actual email isn’t much better. The curious case of kicking the can down the road.

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By *aughty_builder87 OP   Man
over a year ago

Keston


"Oh god I wish I was the type of person to keep email inboxes organised.

I’m on 3753 and my actual email isn’t much better. The curious case of kicking the can down the road. "

Oh no that’s actually horrible I think a bulk delete is the only way forward at this stage.

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By *uliette500Woman
over a year ago

Hull

2 because I haven't checked their profiles yet so the messages have not been read.

Looking at the little part of the message I can see without opening them they will probably be deleted once I have.

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By *aughty_builder87 OP   Man
over a year ago

Keston


"2 because I haven't checked their profiles yet so the messages have not been read.

Looking at the little part of the message I can see without opening them they will probably be deleted once I have. "

Hopefully something in there surprises you and entices you to reply.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

None I bulk delete messages that don't have a certain word i asked for in the title

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By *luttyLaylaWoman
over a year ago

North West

Mass delete daily.... never gonna read that many so why bother?

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By *ustfortheforumsWoman
over a year ago

no

Probably 50 to 60

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By *aughty_builder87 OP   Man
over a year ago

Keston


"Mass delete daily.... never gonna read that many so why bother? "

Do you read any of so, How do you decide what to read before you delete?

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By *nvincible ButterflyWoman
over a year ago

LEEDS


"Currently 22 but it was 356 last night. Took me 2 hours to sort it out.

That’s a good effort. If you did it that quickly I take it not too many people got replies "

About 15 of them got replies

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By *aughty_builder87 OP   Man
over a year ago

Keston


"Currently 22 but it was 356 last night. Took me 2 hours to sort it out.

That’s a good effort. If you did it that quickly I take it not too many people got replies

About 15 of them got replies"

So 1 in 20 odd is a fair return

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

39, most will get deleted when I sort them. I have my filters pretty tight so I don't get more than a couple a day.

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By *akey2somCouple
over a year ago

wakefield

Very tidy box here too, but sometimes can get messy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2.. call me royal mail because all my mail has been delivered

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By *aughty_builder87 OP   Man
over a year ago

Keston


"2.. call me royal mail because all my mail has been delivered "

Well done x

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

0, I keep on top of it.

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By *attoo manMan
over a year ago

Rhyl


"I bulk delete mine. If I miss a day on here it's completely impossible to catch up.

I try and reply to every single message but it annoys me when single guys assume I'm going to meet them just because I send a reply. Most don't even send a face pic but still expect a meet. "
Well done you. It is nice to know that some one reply's to messages.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My fabmin is dire..... mass deleted a few days ago, now at a respectable 434!

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By *inkylipsWoman
over a year ago

Debauchery

396 but I will be culling it shortly, then wait for the moans about why I have deleted their unread message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"3691 . I should really bulk delete but feel that this is rude."

I have this dilemma. Do I bulk delete and say nothing, so it looks rude, it do it with a status update and look like a bragger?

I’ve got 415 atm, which is just annoying me

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By *aughty_builder87 OP   Man
over a year ago

Keston


"396 but I will be culling it shortly, then wait for the moans about why I have deleted their unread message "

I never moan just have to move on

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By *inkylipsWoman
over a year ago

Debauchery

[Removed by poster at 07/07/21 19:36:03]

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By *inkylipsWoman
over a year ago

Debauchery


"3691 . I should really bulk delete but feel that this is rude.

I have this dilemma. Do I bulk delete and say nothing, so it looks rude, it do it with a status update and look like a bragger?

I’ve got 415 atm, which is just annoying me "

usually apologise in a status update, not the amount though and this seems to lesson the grumpy messages calling me rude

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t want to seem like a bragger though, doing that, although I have said it as a status

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"3691 . I should really bulk delete but feel that this is rude.

I have this dilemma. Do I bulk delete and say nothing, so it looks rude, it do it with a status update and look like a bragger?

I’ve got 415 atm, which is just annoying me

usually apologise in a status update, not the amount though and this seems to lesson the grumpy messages calling me rude "

I just replied to you above

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By *inkylipsWoman
over a year ago

Debauchery


"396 but I will be culling it shortly, then wait for the moans about why I have deleted their unread message

I never moan just have to move on"

At least someone does. It’s not even a personal thing though

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By *inkylipsWoman
over a year ago

Debauchery


"I don’t want to seem like a bragger though, doing that, although I have said it as a status "

Honestly I find it works a treat. I never say how many, just say you can’t get through them and honestly it’s cut the amount of moaners down. I think most men realise women get loads.

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By *aughty_builder87 OP   Man
over a year ago

Keston


"396 but I will be culling it shortly, then wait for the moans about why I have deleted their unread message

I never moan just have to move on

At least someone does. It’s not even a personal thing though "

I know I’m not going to appeal to everyone so try to keep positive,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don’t want to seem like a bragger though, doing that, although I have said it as a status

Honestly I find it works a treat. I never say how many, just say you can’t get through them and honestly it’s cut the amount of moaners down. I think most men realise women get loads."

Ok. Here goes

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By *aughty_builder87 OP   Man
over a year ago

Keston


"I don’t want to seem like a bragger though, doing that, although I have said it as a status

Honestly I find it works a treat. I never say how many, just say you can’t get through them and honestly it’s cut the amount of moaners down. I think most men realise women get loads.

Ok. Here goes "

I’d try and be one of the first to get in your empty box but I’m too young for your age range

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By *inkylipsWoman
over a year ago

Debauchery


"I don’t want to seem like a bragger though, doing that, although I have said it as a status

Honestly I find it works a treat. I never say how many, just say you can’t get through them and honestly it’s cut the amount of moaners down. I think most men realise women get loads.

Ok. Here goes "

Haha I just did mine too, please don’t blame me if it goes wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don’t want to seem like a bragger though, doing that, although I have said it as a status

Honestly I find it works a treat. I never say how many, just say you can’t get through them and honestly it’s cut the amount of moaners down. I think most men realise women get loads.

Ok. Here goes

Haha I just did mine too, please don’t blame me if it goes wrong "

Done, and I won’t

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By *lasphemousGirlWoman
over a year ago

Cambs

Nil, no unread messages, but then I have gents blocked from messaging me

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By *all me FlikWoman
over a year ago

Galaxy Far Far Away

6

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By *aughty_builder87 OP   Man
over a year ago

Keston


"6"

A nice and tidy box

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By *inkylipsWoman
over a year ago

Debauchery


"I don’t want to seem like a bragger though, doing that, although I have said it as a status

Honestly I find it works a treat. I never say how many, just say you can’t get through them and honestly it’s cut the amount of moaners down. I think most men realise women get loads.

Ok. Here goes

Haha I just did mine too, please don’t blame me if it goes wrong

Done, and I won’t "

Apparently I’m fucking rude and I’m a rude cunt because I deleted his message. Don’t listen to me

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By *aughty_builder87 OP   Man
over a year ago

Keston


"I don’t want to seem like a bragger though, doing that, although I have said it as a status

Honestly I find it works a treat. I never say how many, just say you can’t get through them and honestly it’s cut the amount of moaners down. I think most men realise women get loads.

Ok. Here goes

Haha I just did mine too, please don’t blame me if it goes wrong

Done, and I won’t

Apparently I’m fucking rude and I’m a rude cunt because I deleted his message. Don’t listen to me "

Just block and ignore people like that x

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By *idFreeWeekendCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Currently over 100. I’m not sure the etiquette if you aren’t interested? Do I just delete, or do you respond with no thanks? There are some interesting messages in there

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By *aughty_builder87 OP   Man
over a year ago

Keston


"Currently over 100. I’m not sure the etiquette if you aren’t interested? Do I just delete, or do you respond with no thanks? There are some interesting messages in there "

It’s each to there own really if it was me I would read and only reply to the ones that I was interested in

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