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Kissing on meets. Yes or no?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

This topic has been discussed today between us. We would be interested to know whether most couples kiss or not during meets.

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By *namCarasCouple
over a year ago

dundee

ive been on a meet with a non kissing female and found it very odd

i suppose we are all different but it doesn’t feel natural to me

i enjoy the passion it brings with it x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes! Love kissing xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing is a big part of a meet for meet. There is very little passion without kissing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes or no meeting

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

Kissing has to happen for me or I'm not interested

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On 1-1's yes kissing has to be there but when meeting couples it comes down to their preference which works for me either way,personally I think kissing increases the chemistry and sexual tension but at the same time I can appreciate why some prefer to keep kissing away from fab meets, each to their own and all that !

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"This topic has been discussed today between us. We would be interested to know whether most couples kiss or not during meets. "

Most couples do. We don't.

What I'd say to you is do what *you're" comfortable with not what the majority do.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"ive been on a meet with a non kissing female and found it very odd

i suppose we are all different but it doesn’t feel natural to me

i enjoy the passion it brings with it x"

Thanks x

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By *rincessB69Woman
over a year ago

North East

Definitely a must

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks all for your input. If this was a poll, then kissing would be winning at the moment. SP

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By *orthampton jamesMan
over a year ago

Northampton

Do love to kiss on a meet, more sensual

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"Thanks all for your input. If this was a poll, then kissing would be winning at the moment. SP"

Kissing always wins .

Do a forum search using "kissing" as the query

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By *ew_to_it_2018Couple
over a year ago

wigan atea

Yes. Definitely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes definitely all part of it

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By *iscreet gent2018Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Yes, absolutely! Kissing is integral to foreplay and passion.

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By *tarburst babydollMan
over a year ago

Dingwall

Kissing always for us. Can't imagine playing without kissing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All depends on whether the other party minds really

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Thanks all for your input. If this was a poll, then kissing would be winning at the moment. SP

Kissing always wins .

Do a forum search using "kissing" as the query "

Thanks, maybe we should have done that search before posing the question

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By *aughtyloversCouple
over a year ago

Hull

Ladies only for us

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By *reedomBonerMan
over a year ago

London

Yes! Always! It’s sensual x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes for me. I played with a couple and started kissing the female but she said oh we don't do that.

Fair enough but I found it hard not to do it and had to catch myself a few times.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our first meet didn't involve kissing and this is what we thought we might of wanted but it felt very odd and didn't flow without it.

Will never have a meet without kissing now, we just love it too much

Her x

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By *ittleAcornMan
over a year ago

visiting the beach

I love kissing, and it's an intrinsic part of any sexual encounter (in my opinion).

It would feel a bit too "sterile" without kissing?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"On 1-1's yes kissing has to be there but when meeting couples it comes down to their preference which works for me either way,personally I think kissing increases the chemistry and sexual tension but at the same time I can appreciate why some prefer to keep kissing away from fab meets, each to their own and all that !"

When I was part of a couple I couldn't bring myself to kiss another guy during a threesome. But 1 to 1 I love it

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By *irlyboyconorTV/TS
over a year ago

Cork

Ah it's a yes from me. Greater ice breaker

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By *0rn1Man
over a year ago

soutport

I’m game… most meets yes… but each meet is different

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

We do, it's all part of the build up. I can see why some couples keep it for themselves, but it would feel too cold for us

Miss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes it is awesome kissing. In fact when we kiss fucking others the kissing is electric between us. We like sharing that with others

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By *exyfuncouple-40Couple
over a year ago

Bloxham

Kissing adds to the excitement

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"On 1-1's yes kissing has to be there but when meeting couples it comes down to their preference which works for me either way,personally I think kissing increases the chemistry and sexual tension but at the same time I can appreciate why some prefer to keep kissing away from fab meets, each to their own and all that !"

Just wat i was gonna say

Love kissing tells a lot and can be bit too passionate for swinging

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By *aughtywifeandhimCouple
over a year ago

bedford

Depends where kissing takes place , my wife likes a kiss on actual first meet , or when guy is cumming , she likes neck and boob kissing during sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely kisses are horny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

100% kissing or no 3rd base

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No kissing no fuckery

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By *rgyll_LadMan
over a year ago

Around

Feels a bit odd not being able to kiss as that's a big part of it for me.

However I know some partners don't like sharing that intimacy which is totally understandable.

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By *rchitectMan
over a year ago

Dorchester

Most definitely, kissing is so underrated if it’s done well.

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

Kissing for us - it’s a must.

However saying that, our first meet with a guy was C blindfolded and so she didn’t know who was touching her where so kissing didn’t happen and it didn’t detract.

But for all normal type meets then yes kissing is such a turn on…

K

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing is a must it puts in the mood

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex


"Thanks all for your input. If this was a poll, then kissing would be winning at the moment. SP

Kissing always wins .

Do a forum search using "kissing" as the query

Thanks, maybe we should have done that search before posing the question "

You're fine, it's always good to ask questions

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d rather not and appreciate if guys ask my opinion on it beforehand as I then feel able to say that I’d prefer not to.

It gets a bit awkward when they don’t ask and just dice in for the kids, then I’d probably just go along with it rather than be in an awkward position.

Yes, I also eat meals I don’t like in restaurants - I’m that person

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"I’d rather not and appreciate if guys ask my opinion on it beforehand as I then feel able to say that I’d prefer not to.

It gets a bit awkward when they don’t ask and just dice in for the kids, then I’d probably just go along with it rather than be in an awkward position.

Yes, I also eat meals I don’t like in restaurants - I’m that person "

We've got on our profile that we don't kiss.

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By *leasureseekers123Couple
over a year ago

Heathrow

Yes we definitely kiss. It’s a must for us!

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By *wo4funxxxCouple
over a year ago

southampton

That’s a big yes from us xx

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By *rK MrsJCouple
over a year ago

Kidderminster


"This topic has been discussed today between us. We would be interested to know whether most couples kiss or not during meets. "

Kissing is part of the fun,we enjoy it but would still play with people who don't even though there are things more intimate than kissing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’d rather not and appreciate if guys ask my opinion on it beforehand as I then feel able to say that I’d prefer not to.

It gets a bit awkward when they don’t ask and just dice in for the kids, then I’d probably just go along with it rather than be in an awkward position.

Yes, I also eat meals I don’t like in restaurants - I’m that person "

*dive in for the kiss even - think I need glasses!

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"I’d rather not and appreciate if guys ask my opinion on it beforehand as I then feel able to say that I’d prefer not to.

It gets a bit awkward when they don’t ask and just dice in for the kids, then I’d probably just go along with it rather than be in an awkward position.

Yes, I also eat meals I don’t like in restaurants - I’m that person

*dive in for the kiss even - think I need glasses! "

I'm always doing this

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love to kiss, had a fwb that wasnt into it and it just felt strange with to much urge to kiss from myself x

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By *andCberksCouple
over a year ago

Newbury

Yes. Definitely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Without kiss, it would be like drinking hot beer

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By *ourNextAddictionMan
over a year ago

Somerset

Kissing is the most stimulating part for a women - isn’t there actually science behind it? Like kissing shares test so therefore increase our sex drive?

Having a meet without kissing is like having sex like you’re from the inbetweeners

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of course

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By *ecky and justCouple
over a year ago

Godalming

Definitely kissing.

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By *luttyLaylaWoman
over a year ago

North West

Meeting 1:1 definitely kissing.

Club fucks- I don’t mind, happy for either x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Kissing is the most stimulating part for a women - isn’t there actually science behind it? Like kissing shares test so therefore increase our sex drive?

Having a meet without kissing is like having sex like you’re from the inbetweeners "

Her x

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By *luttyLaylaWoman
over a year ago

North West


"Kissing is the most stimulating part for a women - isn’t there actually science behind it? Like kissing shares test so therefore increase our sex drive?

Having a meet without kissing is like having sex like you’re from the inbetweeners "

Definitely isn’t the most stimulating party here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know your asking couples however from my side I really enjoy the intensity of kissing, obviously I’d respect the limits of the couple I’d be meeting.

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

Yes

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By *ewhorizonsCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

Reminds me of Pretty Women. Julia Roberts had that rule and it turned out ok for her.

Personally I’d find having sex with someone, and not kissing them, awkward and unnatural but who I am to judge others?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

100% needs kissing it's part of sex in my opinion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely kissing. It's always a little disappointing when people mention they don't like kissing. But all our meets tend to be very sensual so without it, it's abit of a deal-breaker

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By *erotic_adventureMan
over a year ago

London, Scotland & The North,


"Reminds me of Pretty Women. Julia Roberts had that rule and it turned out ok for her.

Personally I’d find having sex with someone, and not kissing them, awkward and unnatural but who I am to judge others?"

This, it's totally unnatural

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By *uriousblondwifeCouple
over a year ago

wickford

Hell yes

Loads of kissing please

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By *odgerMooreMan
over a year ago

Nowhere

Been on a meet where it wasn’t allowed and neither was licking- just spanking then fuck

Her - wouldn’t do it again was just weird - no connection at all really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Couldn’t progress in a meet of there was no potential to kiss etc

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Always kisses. No kissing to me would feel odd.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This topic has been discussed today between us. We would be interested to know whether most couples kiss or not during meets. "

Why not? Seems strange not to , if you are going to lick a pussy or suck a cock ?

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By *ussieChrisMan
over a year ago

Walsall

I'm all for kisses. Especially if the attraction is there.. But both parties have to be up for it.. Socials included here.

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By *orthseatiger69Man
over a year ago

Ayrshire /North lanarshire

Kisses are a must for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love a good snog!!! But there has to be that energy

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By *entileschiWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

I will see a guy again if he is a good kisser

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hell yeh , no kissing no sex , they both go together for me , love a good snog

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By *ornyharry39Man
over a year ago

Sheffield

Have met and not kissed but I feel the need to kiss can’t have really hot steamy passionate sex and foreplay without kissing in my eyes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely! It's all part of the foreplay, and important part I think! If they're good at teasing with the kiss, I'm interested in taking things further

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So to those saying no kissing - no sex...

Are you saying that if you met a really hot girl/guy, you got on well, you were attracted but they told you they don’t want to kiss, you’d walk away and say “no thanks”?

I’ve never had anyone walk away yet

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By *ornypair300Couple
over a year ago

scottish borders

For us it’s a not , we feel that’s something for us . Unpopular opinion I guess .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For us it’s a not , we feel that’s something for us . Unpopular opinion I guess . "

I agree with you.

Kissing is reserved for someone I’m really into or love, not for random meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to like snogging but now i dislike it. Bear in mind the rona being a respiratory illness passed on by what comes out of the mouth and nose its a pass for me.

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By *etite_delightWoman
over a year ago

BunnyLand

Kissing is an absolute essential in my meets! It won’t progress if there is no kissing and three way kissing is one of the most beautiful things for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love kissing but respect others ground rules and preferences

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"I used to like snogging but now i dislike it. Bear in mind the rona being a respiratory illness passed on by what comes out of the mouth and nose its a pass for me. "

we were talking about this the other day. Not many people seem to be bothered by it though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing is an absolutely essential part of the sensual pleasures that are at the heart of what turns us both on!

We just couldn’t imagine playing without kissing.

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

If there was a queue in a club for guys to get their cock sucked with no kissing, the queue would be out the door, down the road, and past the chip shop

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If there was a queue in a club for guys to get their cock sucked with no kissing, the queue would be out the door, down the road, and past the chip shop "

Exactly!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So to those saying no kissing - no sex...

Are you saying that if you met a really hot girl/guy, you got on well, you were attracted but they told you they don’t want to kiss, you’d walk away and say “no thanks”?

I’ve never had anyone walk away yet "

I would find this out before we met them and if they don't incorporate kissing into meets we say thank you but not for us.

Her x

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By *adMerWoman
over a year ago

Sandwich

My best meets always involve kissing but I don’t mind occasionally if it’s not an option. Variety is the spice of life after all

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"If there was a queue in a club for guys to get their cock sucked with no kissing, the queue would be out the door, down the road, and past the chip shop "

, true that.

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By *orkshrCplCouple
over a year ago

Ripon

Deal-breaker. Too sterile without.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So to those saying no kissing - no sex...

Are you saying that if you met a really hot girl/guy, you got on well, you were attracted but they told you they don’t want to kiss, you’d walk away and say “no thanks”?

I’ve never had anyone walk away yet

I would find this out before we met them and if they don't incorporate kissing into meets we say thank you but not for us.

Her x"

Do you think guys see it as as much of a deal breaker as women? My experience has been that men will fuck anyway, without the kissing (and contact for more!)

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By *etite_delightWoman
over a year ago

BunnyLand


"So to those saying no kissing - no sex...

Are you saying that if you met a really hot girl/guy, you got on well, you were attracted but they told you they don’t want to kiss, you’d walk away and say “no thanks”?

I’ve never had anyone walk away yet "

I would and I did… just fucking is no fun for me as my wand always does a better job anyway

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By *assing Fancies xCouple
over a year ago

Sherwood Forest

It's kind of a must for us

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By *Ci LutherMan
over a year ago

Cumalot

Really can’t see the point of there no kissing, gotta be passion or may as well buy a blow up doll

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So to those saying no kissing - no sex...

Are you saying that if you met a really hot girl/guy, you got on well, you were attracted but they told you they don’t want to kiss, you’d walk away and say “no thanks”?

I’ve never had anyone walk away yet

I would and I did… just fucking is no fun for me as my wand always does a better job anyway "

To be fair, kissing or not my wand does a better job anyway haha

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By *izzy.miss.lizzyCouple
over a year ago

Pembrokeshire


"This topic has been discussed today between us. We would be interested to know whether most couples kiss or not during meets. "

we do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have been on both, the non kissing feels a little strange to me, almost like some of the foreplay has been removed...

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Single meets most certainly but when it comes to couple's I'd respect their wishes as it's still nice to have something that remains within the relationship some do some don't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Kissing is an absolute essential in my meets! It won’t progress if there is no kissing and three way kissing is one of the most beautiful things for me "

We happily concur

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By *estcountryDadBodMan
over a year ago

Exeter

It’s a yes from me

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"So to those saying no kissing - no sex...

Are you saying that if you met a really hot girl/guy, you got on well, you were attracted but they told you they don’t want to kiss, you’d walk away and say “no thanks”?

I’ve never had anyone walk away yet

I would find this out before we met them and if they don't incorporate kissing into meets we say thank you but not for us.

Her x

Do you think guys see it as as much of a deal breaker as women? My experience has been that men will fuck anyway, without the kissing (and contact for more!) "

I think the way to look at this is that as long as you do things the way you want to it matters not one iota how other people do it. It can get a bit wearing the number of times people say "no kissing, no meet" I grant you but what you have to remember is that the reverse applies too. Its not a rejection of those of us who don't kiss in a bad way, its just clear that there's no compatibility.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes yes yes yes yeeeeesssss!!!

Please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So to those saying no kissing - no sex...

Are you saying that if you met a really hot girl/guy, you got on well, you were attracted but they told you they don’t want to kiss, you’d walk away and say “no thanks”?

I’ve never had anyone walk away yet

I would find this out before we met them and if they don't incorporate kissing into meets we say thank you but not for us.

Her x

Do you think guys see it as as much of a deal breaker as women? My experience has been that men will fuck anyway, without the kissing (and contact for more!)

I think the way to look at this is that as long as you do things the way you want to it matters not one iota how other people do it. It can get a bit wearing the number of times people say "no kissing, no meet" I grant you but what you have to remember is that the reverse applies too. Its not a rejection of those of us who don't kiss in a bad way, its just clear that there's no compatibility. "

Very true

It’s strange how many guys soon don’t mind the no kissing so much when you tell them that you won’t kiss them, it drops straight to the bottom of their list of priorities haha

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By *rad670Man
over a year ago

South Lakes

Kissing builds the passion, I feel there would be something missing, I do always ask and never presume but not been refused on any of my hundreds, no hang on, three meets

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By *reo DreamMan
over a year ago

Berkshire

I enjoy kissing very much but some couples don't allow the guy kissing and some do but I would personally be all for it find it a real turn on kissing a married women or single lady very sensual and helps you relax

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Has to be kissing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So to those saying no kissing - no sex...

Are you saying that if you met a really hot girl/guy, you got on well, you were attracted but they told you they don’t want to kiss, you’d walk away and say “no thanks”?

I’ve never had anyone walk away yet

I would find this out before we met them and if they don't incorporate kissing into meets we say thank you but not for us.

Her x

Do you think guys see it as as much of a deal breaker as women? My experience has been that men will fuck anyway, without the kissing (and contact for more!) "

Ohhhh... probably not tbh! Guess some are happy to just fuck

Her x

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By *attoo manMan
over a year ago

Rhyl

Kiss and meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So to those saying no kissing - no sex...

Are you saying that if you met a really hot girl/guy, you got on well, you were attracted but they told you they don’t want to kiss, you’d walk away and say “no thanks”?

I’ve never had anyone walk away yet

I would find this out before we met them and if they don't incorporate kissing into meets we say thank you but not for us.

Her x

Do you think guys see it as as much of a deal breaker as women? My experience has been that men will fuck anyway, without the kissing (and contact for more!)

I think the way to look at this is that as long as you do things the way you want to it matters not one iota how other people do it. It can get a bit wearing the number of times people say "no kissing, no meet" I grant you but what you have to remember is that the reverse applies too. Its not a rejection of those of us who don't kiss in a bad way, its just clear that there's no compatibility. "

Yeah definitely

Her x

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By *notherGentMan
over a year ago

doncaster

I had a meet with a lovely couple on Saturday and it was a no kissing above the sort of deal as she wanted to keep that and head for her partner as it’s more intimate, I personally didn’t have a problem with that as I respect that decision didn’t stop us having a great time though

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By *ear in the chairMan
over a year ago

yeah there

No kissing and it's purely platonic for me

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By *tayingpwrMan
over a year ago

Stockport

Kissing is a must. It’s be so weird without

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes kissing is a must for me

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By *etite_delightWoman
over a year ago

BunnyLand


"Kissing is an absolute essential in my meets! It won’t progress if there is no kissing and three way kissing is one of the most beautiful things for me

We happily concur "

mmmm I know it very well

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By *apxxxWoman
over a year ago

North Shropshire not Wales!!!ffs & Manchester

Yeahhhhhh

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By *attoo manMan
over a year ago

Rhyl

Kiss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing for us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely yes to kissing for us x

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By *r SensualMan
over a year ago

London

Whenever I lay my eyes on someone I’m potentially going to have sex with, my first thought is what it would be like to kiss them. Therefore for me, if someone doesn’t like to kiss it’s very unlikely I'm going to want to take things further

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hell yes, it's a huge part of foreplay and sex for us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would kiss on my first date

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By *landfordfabbersCouple
over a year ago

Blandford ish

Girl- girl yes

Own couple- yes

Cross couple - no

Is how we are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, I would be disappointed if a guy didn't want to have a snog.

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By *ydrewMan
over a year ago

forest

Yes

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By *nly4funMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

Without kissing a meet is impersonal. A recreational shag is no replacement for an intimate fusion of wants and desires for which kissing is the best indicator.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes definitely, to mechanical otherwise

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By *onynickiCouple
over a year ago

Bournemouth

Always kiss ……. Part of the passion

Xxxx

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

I do like ending a meet with a snog

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By *ondonerMan
over a year ago

London / Essex borders

I'm not saying I would refuse a meet based on it, but to fuck without kissing feels more like exercise than fun in my mind.

Having met somone that kept that between them, the whole vibe felt unnatutal and almost sterile

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By *ouis CyphreMan
over a year ago

The Midlands

Kissing all the way...

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By *leo and LeoCouple
over a year ago

Worcestershire


"Girl- girl yes

Own couple- yes

Cross couple - no

Is how we are "

This is how we are too.

To be honest, I’ve only ever kissed Kleo, so I would be a nervous wreck to kiss anyone else through fear of being atrocious and killing the vibe

Kleo gets told she’s a great kisser from the girls though!

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By *mids LadMan
over a year ago

West Midlands

Kissing is a big turn on for me , wouldn't be able to meet if kissing wasn't allowed .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I (seiko) love kissing but when we were at a Greedy Girls afternoon at CJs I wanted to keep that for Senpai and the other couple we were with.

When someone is a good kisser it can add to the whole erotic experience and give you a little insight of how good they might be with their tongue

Kissing a washing machine isn’t much of a turn on !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a must from me. Kissing is a big part of foreplay

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely!, but bad breath is the worst passion killer, and I’d never be able to get past that, so kissing is a great tester and fun foreplay.

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By *om cat 215Man
over a year ago

Derby

Does this include cum kissing mmm

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By *ave1963BarnsleyMan
over a year ago

Barnsley

I love kissing, so if the lady I'm playing with likes it too that's great. It's not essential however.

I regularly play with someone who's not big into kissing so we spend our time doing other things instead.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes! Couldn’t imagine having sex without kissing. Odd.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We kiss, we love it.

SINFUL

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing a must i love seeing my mrs passionately kiss another man

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By *uffnmuffCouple
over a year ago

London


"Kissing a must i love seeing my mrs passionately kiss another man "
it's a yes from us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing is definitely on our menu

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By *lasphemousGirlWoman
over a year ago

Cambs

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By *lasphemousGirlWoman
over a year ago

Cambs

Yes please x

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea


"If there was a queue in a club for guys to get their cock sucked with no kissing, the queue would be out the door, down the road, and past the chip shop "

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By * n C NWCouple
over a year ago

Macclesfield

Oh God yes.

We love it as much as the fun that follows ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kiss

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By *ophie199Couple
over a year ago

Leeds

I love kissing other guys especially whilst looking at the hubby as watches, come across a few guys that don’t seem into it, still wanna fuck them tho

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By * n C NWCouple
over a year ago

Macclesfield

Hubby loves watching me kiss , either sex xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I adore kissing

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By *utterypopcornCouple
over a year ago

oxford

Definitely!!! no kissing no interest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love kissing but have found some women don't allow anyone but their husbands to kiss them, which i think a real shame. When my first wife and I began 3somes, we found her kissing both of us very arousing.

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By *ookingforfun1970Woman
over a year ago

no knickers

Absolutely yes

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By *iffyjeffMan
over a year ago

I'll go to town

With a sexy nibble on the bottom lip

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Forgive my lack of experience because we have not built up to a meet yet, but both my partner and I feel that kissing is such an integral and sexy part of the experience, we would feel very much less excited without it ... that said, can totally understand why some reserve it just for their partners

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By *akeyFunTimesCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Mexborough

Love the kissing. But very few that can deliver that kiss that kills

- best movie kiss - some kind of wonderful

- Layla

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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough / Stamford

I (Bry) love seeing Char kiss on our meets. Something very sexy knowing that at that moment, she's so close and passionate with someone else.

I'd hate a meet where there's no kissing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always have to be kissers. It’s a big turn on, it helps build sexual chemistry for us. But each to their own. We wouldn’t meet non kissers. The chances are you’re going to be doing something much more intimate than snogging anyway, so for us it would just feel odd and robotic without it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do love to kiss on a meet, more sensual "

Totally agree

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By *issyfaggotfayeTV/TS
over a year ago

Bolton

Definitely kissing ?? you have to feel the spark

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By *d4funtimesMan
over a year ago

Cambridge

Definitely too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a bi guy.. I love it, with both men and women

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By *etwifeandhim69Couple
over a year ago

Darlington

I love kissing....my wife.

We do like kissing and it's not off the table on on a meet. My wife could snog the face of a willing partner, especially the female kind.

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By *zn marriedMan
over a year ago

GLASGOW


"Always have to be kissers. It’s a big turn on, it helps build sexual chemistry for us. But each to their own. We wouldn’t meet non kissers. The chances are you’re going to be doing something much more intimate than snogging anyway, so for us it would just feel odd and robotic without it. "

Totally agree

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By *ugRollersCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle

We have met people who don’t kiss and it’s very odd but you respect that.... I just found it extremely hard on top of him bouncing on his cock and not keep going to kiss him as it feels natural, afterwards he said I was naughty as he felt like I was wanting to kiss him ... but I reckon it was all in his head and that he wanted to kiss me but couldn’t haha x

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By *reakbedsnotheartsMan
over a year ago

bedford

Definitely a yes

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By *incsladyandscotsmanCouple
over a year ago

North fife

We would not meet people who do not kiss. It would feel strange to us.

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By *ubmissive Cuckold CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Nothing hotter than watching my wife kiss another man

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la

No. For me, passionate kissing on the mouth is about an emotional connection, kissing elsewhere is fine but not on the mouth.

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

Yes, it’s part of the meet I enjoy the most

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Some yes some no x

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By *umalotagainMan
over a year ago

a town called malice

There has to be kissing, it is part of the passion and the build up, that said respect others boundaries and all is good in the world

Peace and love ( of and kisses)

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By *ornyandachingCouple
over a year ago

Middlesbrough

No kissing = no licking or sucking as far as we are concerned

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By *attoo manMan
over a year ago

Rhyl

Kiss and fuck

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By *urulovesnylonMan
over a year ago

Harrow

Depending on if there is any spark for me? As someone who loves kissing my preference is to however I’ve had meets where no kissing even during intimate moments

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Defo , what’s the point otherwise . No pee , poo or pain . Outside of that all good lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We totally can't get why people won't kiss. In a straight to the poiny kinda way, it's ok to stick your dick in me or hubby to fuck you, its ok to suck your dick or for us to eat your pussy but we cant kiss wtaf

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