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Approaching Wife to Expand our Sex Life

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm a horny man as we all are. I want to be more in the scene but feel awkward approaching my wife on the subject. We have been together for years and never been too adventurous. Adventure seems to fissle out with work and life.

How do I approach my wife on this. Any real advice and suggestions approaches others have taken?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Have an open, honest and loving chat with her. A lot of women find having their emotional needs recognised before their sexual needs a huge turn on.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for this. I need a training course on emotional needs I think.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"Thanks for this. I need a training course on emotional needs I think. "

No you don't.

All you need to do is start just asking small questions and listening to the answers. Don't tell her what she should be doing if she has a problem, ask her how it's making her feel and how you can help her overcome it. Have a couple of evenings where you just talk, no sexy stuff, just holding hands and chatting or laying in bed in each other's arms just talking. Conversations can turn to sexual adventures quite naturally and if someone feels safe and unjudged they'll open up.

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

And ps continue the above for the rest of your life

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok I will

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for your advice. Open to PM aswell.

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

We wrote down what fantasies that turn us on and a yes or no next to it as to whether we would want to try it out...we then swopped lists, saw we had yes to a few that were the same and decided to try them out

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

That's a great idea. Thanks

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