FabSwingers.com forum: Introducing GF to fab

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi all, I joined this site when single and now have a GF who doesn't know about my occasional visits here. We've flirted about how fun it would be to be watched on a webcam, obviously I know how great fab is for this! Any ideas how I could 'stumble' on this site with her? (I can't remember how I first found it, it must have been after beers!). I don't really want to google 'fabswingers cams' by coincidence!

Thanks!

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

say a work colleague mentioned it to u today on break at work and u came home and checked it out .. 1 thing to be sure u do though is .. delete profile and create a new one so it dont show how long u already been on the site though as that might blow ur cover !

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks, not a bad suggestion. I love the idea of showing her off on here! She'd probably be a bit shy (maybe hide her face) but she's got a great body, slim with 32Ds!

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By *eminiman61Man
over a year ago

mansfield

Do as above but dont delete your profile just hide it you might need it if you and the new gf dont workout.....

If she likes the look of it you could suggest that you create a couples profile as it could be fun.... Assess her reaction though and dont push things.

Good luck with introducing fab to her,she may know about it or even have her own profile

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By *eminiman61Man
over a year ago

mansfield

32d sounds yummy

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Lol I think so!

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By *eminiman61Man
over a year ago

mansfield

Who wunt think so on a slim figure

When are you thinking on slippi.g it to her.....about fab that is

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Not sure, as soon as I get a great suggestion on here!

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

oh another tip .. wen u show her the site .. remember to not know ur way around the site too quickly and deffo dont already know dozens of other members !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You could let her take the lead if you do start using it together, let her use the computer and look at what she wants to, and chat to who she wants, you'd probably find out a lot more what she's comfortable with.

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

You could just be honest with her and tell her that you joined the site and began meeting before you met her and havent done anything since you met her (have no idea if thats true as not checked out your profile and dont know all facts) but just be honest.

Hide your profile and show her it now has nout on it and suggest to her about coming on as a couple.

Am I the only one is tries the hinesty route?

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By *urious.coupleCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

I think honesty is the best idea as well.

Put it this way, if you sneak about pretending its all new to you, she goes for it, but then finds out you've been lying. . . . Well thats you dumped!

But if you're honest and tell her straight, if she doesn't go for it, you can reassure her that you won't come on here again, but the door is always open if her curiosity gets the better of her.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

try being honest with her hide your profile first say its something you used to do for recreational nsa fun, see what her reaction is. If shes game delete the profile and start a new one with her. If shes not interested then maybe shes either not for you or you delete the fab profile and be in a relationship with her. Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you show her your profile you need to think about your verifications which are both from guys watching you on cam. That to me sounds like you're not entirely straight. If that's right, does she know ?

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

"Hi all, I joined this site when single and now have a GF who doesn't know about my occasional visits here. We've flirted about how fun it would be to be watched on a webcam, obviously I know how great fab is for this! Any ideas how I could 'stumble' on this site with her? (I can't remember how I first found it, it must have been after beers!). I don't really want to google 'fabswingers cams' by coincidence!

Thanks!"

Just remember when you do 'stumble'...... there is the risk someone may say "hey... nice you see you back on cam and with a lady too"

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By *appyTrancerMan
over a year ago

Bristol

If she's the slightest bit not stupid and you do come on here having "stumbled" on the site, you better hope she doesn't find this thread!

Just be honest. Lies will inevitably come round to bite you in the ass and, unless you like that kind of end to a relationship, thats never a good thing!

Talk it out, if she's cool with it, bring her into the fold. If she isn't, then you'll have to make the choice between her and us.

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By *A5-1975Man
over a year ago

warrington

Honesty is the best policy

"I think honesty is the best idea as well.

Put it this way, if you sneak about pretending its all new to you, she goes for it, but then finds out you've been lying. . . . Well thats you dumped!

But if you're honest and tell her straight, if she doesn't go for it, you can reassure her that you won't come on here again, but the door is always open if her curiosity gets the better of her. "

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By *A5-1975Man
over a year ago

warrington

being honest is best, she may have things in her past that she wants to share with you but is scared that she might loose you. be open and honest.

"try being honest with her hide your profile first say its something you used to do for recreational nsa fun, see what her reaction is. If shes game delete the profile and start a new one with her. If shes not interested then maybe shes either not for you or you delete the fab profile and be in a relationship with her. Good luck"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be honest - she might already be on fab but not telling you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I still need to tell my fella im on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think honest is best too. What if down the line u did bump into someone you've seen or chatted to before at party or club? I know my guy had been on dating sites on stuff when we'd been on a break and didn't bother me and he certainly didn't mind when I told him id been on fab. Saying that, if uve not been on meets and done clubs it could be something u explore together and start from fresh. If u talk about fantasies with each other and she is broad minded she could well be game. Just not too early in a relationship though. U don't want mistrust and jealousy spoiling things.

Good luck

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