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What meal would you make to entice a first meet?

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By *histle do nicely OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow South

I would go down the Italian route..Fresh bruschetta ...Chicken and basil risotto with or without mushrooms... you ?

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By *arpePinguisWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

Baps

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

None, I'm not mental

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By *ornyinConwyMan
over a year ago

Conwy

I wouldn't! I'm not here to date or wine & dine. I'd get myself a girlfriend if I was looking for that.

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By *irty desireWoman
over a year ago

newcatle


"I would go down the Italian route..Fresh bruschetta ...Chicken and basil risotto with or without mushrooms... you ?"

I wouldn’t, I don’t do them kind of meets! Don’t think my club would appreciate me trying to entice sex with a four course meal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

None. Sounds too date like.

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By *9Karm69Man
over a year ago

plymouth/chesterfield

Nuts

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By *unloversCouple
over a year ago

rotherham

Exactly as above

Why would we be cooking for a fab meet

I’m sure most are not looking for that

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

Entice? I don't think I'd entice anyone.

But as I generally enjoy cooking I'd be happy to cook for someone I read meeting at my home. I'd ask for a few ideas of their favourites and choose one.

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham


"I would go down the Italian route..Fresh bruschetta ...Chicken and basil risotto with or without mushrooms... you ?"

I’m with you OP, Italian and bruschetta to start. I make mine with Apple cider vinegar, olive oil, lots of basil, ripe cherry tomatoes and lots of rock salt . Might throw a bit of mozzarella on there too and some kalamata olives though not Italian. For mains , chicken and bacon in creme freche with loads more basil and wholemeal penne tossed in pesto and sesame seeds, maybe some garlic bread

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

A coffee for a first social meet. 30 minutes is more than long enough to find out if there’s a connection and easier to leave if there isn’t.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pot noodle…quick and easy

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By *histle do nicely OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow South


"I would go down the Italian route..Fresh bruschetta ...Chicken and basil risotto with or without mushrooms... you ?

I’m with you OP, Italian and bruschetta to start. I make mine with Apple cider vinegar, olive oil, lots of basil, ripe cherry tomatoes and lots of rock salt . Might throw a bit of mozzarella on there too and some kalamata olives though not Italian. For mains , chicken and bacon in creme freche with loads more basil and wholemeal penne tossed in pesto and sesame seeds, maybe some garlic bread "

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By *histle do nicely OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow South

I wasn't expecting those answers... we all have our own opinions...

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By *irty desireWoman
over a year ago

newcatle


"I wasn't expecting those answers... we all have our own opinions..."

What answers were you expecting op ?

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By *histle do nicely OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow South


"I wasn't expecting those answers... we all have our own opinions...

What answers were you expecting op ?"
a nice meal... sexy...

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By *irty desireWoman
over a year ago

newcatle


"I wasn't expecting those answers... we all have our own opinions...

What answers were you expecting op ? a nice meal... sexy..."

Like av already said on thread I wouldn’t!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I must admit if I'm looking at that first meet I always give the lady the option of going for a drink or meal.

I think it's nice to give them the choice & shows that you've got the time to spend to chat & see if there's an attraction or connection first.

End of the day I go with whatever the lady suggests out of politeness & manners.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wasn't expecting those answers... we all have our own opinions..."

I just think the thought of enticing someone with a meal doesn't really fit. I'm hoping I'll entice them with my charms/ attributes not the promise of a good feed. And I love food, but promise of a 3 course meal won't make me want to meet someone. For sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Liver, fava beans and a nice Chianti.

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By *jonesMan
over a year ago

Plymouth

I've met a fab lady socially...and then gone for a meal...and then had a nice night with her ..

I think most fab ladies just want a bit of chemistry/ attraction and then a shag tho ..

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish


"I've met a fab lady socially...and then gone for a meal...and then had a nice night with her ..

I think most fab ladies just want a bit of chemistry/ attraction and then a shag tho .."

Correct.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't make anything.

Takeaway kebab or burger with chips and a garlic bread with cheese would be on offer though.

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By *illbilly47Man
over a year ago

Faversham

Tea and toast. Doesn’t everyone crave tea and toast after sex or is it just me?

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By *aximuUkMan
over a year ago

Worcester

Fondue maybe, not too heavy and can be sensual and fun

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By *jonesMan
over a year ago

Plymouth


"I've met a fab lady socially...and then gone for a meal...and then had a nice night with her ..

I think most fab ladies just want a bit of chemistry/ attraction and then a shag tho ..

Correct. "

I do like a flirty evening tho ...I dont like to rush things....like a good laugh ..not interested in transactional sex , unless it lands in front of me...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn’t to entice them but when had long weekend meets I’ve cooked. Often opt for steak salad and new potatoes etc protein and carbs to get the energy back up.

Oh and I used to make cheese toasties in a old fwbs hotel room

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By *xhib12Man
over a year ago

Blyth


"Baps "

You win

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wimpy

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By *jonesMan
over a year ago

Plymouth


"I wouldn’t to entice them but when had long weekend meets I’ve cooked. Often opt for steak salad and new potatoes etc protein and carbs to get the energy back up.

Oh and I used to make cheese toasties in a old fwbs hotel room "

Do you have a portable toaster?

Or use the iron ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Takeaway, if required

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By *egasus NobMan
over a year ago

Merton

Dick and balls

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Spotty Dick

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He's getting Créme de la Pussay and he should be happy with that

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By *histle do nicely OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow South


"He's getting Créme de la Pussay and he should be happy with that"
best answer x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Beans on toast

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I must admit if I'm looking at that first meet I always give the lady the option of going for a drink or meal.

I think it's nice to give them the choice & shows that you've got the time to spend to chat & see if there's an attraction or connection first.

End of the day I go with whatever the lady suggests out of politeness & manners. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn't! I'm not here to date or wine & dine. I'd get myself a girlfriend if I was looking for that."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can’t cook, I’m not very domesticated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn’t to entice them but when had long weekend meets I’ve cooked. Often opt for steak salad and new potatoes etc protein and carbs to get the energy back up.

Oh and I used to make cheese toasties in a old fwbs hotel room

Do you have a portable toaster?

Or use the iron ? "

I used to take a panini press .

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By *urlycatMan
over a year ago

Southampton

Crumpet

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By *oxesMan
over a year ago

Southend, Essex

Stuffed mushrooms for starters. Spag bol or homemade peppercorn steak with sweet potato fries or a chicken cedar salad desert home made Tiramasu.

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By *oxesMan
over a year ago

Southend, Essex


"I wouldn’t to entice them but when had long weekend meets I’ve cooked. Often opt for steak salad and new potatoes etc protein and carbs to get the energy back up.

Oh and I used to make cheese toasties in a old fwbs hotel room

Do you have a portable toaster?

Or use the iron ?

I used to take a panini press . "

At least 2metresaway sorry that made me giggle.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Vagina

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A coffee for a first social meet. 30 minutes is more than long enough to find out if there’s a connection and easier to leave if there isn’t. "

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

I’ve cooked for my Fab meet but a repeat meet. Not on the first meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

30 minute coffee for a first meet - simple social to see if there’s a connection/spark and as worth meeting up again

I keep meals out for dates/relationships

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up


"Exactly as above

Why would we be cooking for a fab meet

I’m sure most are not looking for that"
this for me. I'd run a mile If anyone offered to cook for me

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By *irty Fun GuyMan
over a year ago

Kidderminster

Mine why on earth would you be making a meal for a swingers meet????!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The best meets I’ve had the man has cooked for me. Shows that he didn’t want just sex and wanted to get to know me. I had great evenings

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By *inky_CarpenterMan
over a year ago

Portsmouth

A bucket of ice and a bottle of bubbly are a nice accompanyment to a first meet..... but generally speaking the only thing I want to eat is the lady, and with special couples a nice cream pie for desert!

Since first meets usually involve multiple, vigorous bouts of hardcore foreplay and extended fucking in various positions, It's not exactly something I'd want to do on a full tummy......

However the ex Chef in me says that if you you do insist, then opt for a light salad based dish that won't fill or bloat. Throw in some easy to digest Zink rich seafood like Scallops or Cockles (just as good as oysters bit better tasting, Avoid heavy onion and garlic of course. Add some sweet fresh fruit like really ripe Mango or baby pineapple to the salad. And your partner will appreciate the way it makes you taste

Salad can be prepped before the meet and seafood cooks in minutes so you won't be losing loads of time between session's if you don't like seafood poach quail or Bantham eggs and have them sitting in warm water, ready to serve on the salad....

Failing that pay homage to Wimbledon traditions with Strawberries and Whipped Cream

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