FabSwingers.com forum: Fab peeves

By *reo Dream OP Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

Apart from endless cock pics. What really drives you mad when you view someone's profile or they message you?

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Getting called babe, honey or sweetheart.

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

Them telling me that they've read my profile and clearly they haven't.

I understand hardly anybody reads it but just don't say you have if you haven't

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

Or a long and very detailed message, no doubt copied and pasted, of what they would like to explicitly do to me

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By *urchoicenowCouple
over a year ago

Ashford

Straight profiles messaging to say they're bi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Friend requests when we have not had any chats.....

Also those who omit that they are married and then suddenly change their profile to state they are married and play with permission....

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By *9Karm69Man
over a year ago

plymouth/chesterfield

"Getting called babe, honey or sweetheart."

Sorry darling

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By *9Karm69Man
over a year ago

plymouth/chesterfield

Those who put an age range in but within there profiles say that they'd like an older person, yes I read profiles unless 10 pages long

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By *reo Dream OP Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

For me it's when someone views your profile and either A. Winks and has no pictures. B. Views your profile but you can't view theirs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pet names. Trying to convince me to lower my standards. And being told I don't know what I'm missing

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By *inkylipsWoman
over a year ago

Debauchery

All of the above ….. plus that age old question “what you looking fo?” read my profile duh!

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By *oan of DArcCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

Singletons messaging from a couple's profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any copy & paste or bae, Hun, darling or text talk.

No pic doesn’t bother me as I delete without opening. Probably why my finger is sore

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Lack of pics of the male half of a couple, when they're looking for couples.

Miss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not reading my profile before messaging me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All of the above and sad guys sat at home having a wank who have no intention of meeting yet don't say that, they often won't send pics or just have 1 crap one yet ask me for more pics and vids.

No wankers please!

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By *ubwife4uCouple
over a year ago

Kent

"Not reading my profile before messaging me "

This, one word or one line messages, and guys who put LOL at the end when they have barely managed to compose a sentence and even that is not remotely funny!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Folk who want to receive a face pic when you message them, but don't send one in return when they reply...... You chat for a while then it becomes awkward asking for one lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Those ones thinking they are the first to ever: 'Let me lick your pussy, till you cum'

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By *awandBareWoman
over a year ago

Oxford

Nearly all of the above and probably bellow. The site is now almost unusable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

false flattery is so creepy and a turn off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First messages of "you free?" Or "Wanna meet". Instant block. Also entitled vibes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ugh "hun" is the one that makes me cringe!

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By *lice MaliceWoman
over a year ago

The Facility

No profile to speak of with no pictures, a huge legal disclaimer which is no use to anyone, a status stating their frustration at this site and a hi x message

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By *uck-Me-Hard-Scotland-M2MMan
over a year ago

Barnhill (Outside Dundee)

"Apart from endless cock pics. What really drives you mad when you view someone's profile or they message you?"

I pathologically despise people writing "xx" etc to me. Have even gone as far as to put "please don't" in my profile blurb.

I also roll my eyes when a guy describes himself as "normal". Wtf does that even mean?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A message from a barebones profile including no pics.

Then repeated messages from said profiles. I dont block because I like to see how far they will go.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Passive aggressive single men “you only here for attention?, bet you don’t meet”. I have verifications saying I have met multiple people.

Abuse after rejection “you’re ugly anyway”

“I know I’m not what you’re looking for but I’ll persistently message anyway”

“If that is you in the photo” - well I’m meet and photo verified so....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Apart from endless cock pics. What really drives you mad when you view someone's profile or they message you?

I pathologically despise people writing "xx" etc to me. Have even gone as far as to put "please don't" in my profile blurb.

I also roll my eyes when a guy describes himself as "normal". Wtf does that even mean? "

I've looked in to statement analysis and when someone says they're "normal" it usually means they've been repeatedly told they aren't normal for some reason or they know that something about themselves isn't right.. avoid these people and also those who give you the "I'm a nice guy" speech. Just run lol. I've paid for ignoring my own knowledge on this in the past.

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By *asman777Man
over a year ago

Spondon Derby

Getting a cock pic sent to me although it says I’m straight then realising most gay and TV’ s have bigger picks than me ????

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By *orth_hantscplCouple
over a year ago

camberley

Guys messaging us asking if we’d like to meet but not having or sending any pics at all. You tell them that you’re not interested after a few messages back and forth and then they ask if you want to see some pics, no mate you had your chance, we’re bored now!

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By *uck-Me-Hard-Scotland-M2MMan
over a year ago

Barnhill (Outside Dundee)

"Also entitled vibes."

I had a str8 guy - or so the profile write up said - who wrote demanding to know what was wrong with the pics of his I HADN'T fabbed!

Aside from we all have our "mmmmm" moments, I love monochrome pics and am chest, thighs, pubes admirer. The ones I didn't fab were of his ass; I have no concept what a nice arse is.

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By *uck-Me-Hard-Scotland-M2MMan
over a year ago

Barnhill (Outside Dundee)

I also roll my eyes when a guy describes himself as "normal". Wtf does that even mean?

Extract from reply;

when someone says they're "normal" it usually means they've been repeatedly told they aren't normal for some reason or they know that something about themselves isn't right "

Or - on this version of the site anyway - further declaring their heterosexuality

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By *an hjCouple
over a year ago

Stowmarket

Any message that shows they haven't read the profile, along with "hi how r u, wot u up 2"

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By *moothGrooveWoman
over a year ago

Durham

"hey hun got face pic"....

Delete & block

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When they say "Hello sexy/How are you sexy/How has your day been sexy?". Stop with that word all the time. I know I am, you don't need to keep saying it.

Also, when guys send you unsolicited dick pics, you remind them your profile says not to and they say "it's only one, stop being such a prude". Yeah, I'm such a prude going by the photos I have on my own profile

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By *lex46TV/TS
over a year ago

Near Wells

Negative and moaning profiles. You're meant to be selling yourself?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any profile that has a list of “DO NOT DO THIS” and “DONT BE THAT” statements.

It’s really negative and I find it a massive waste of energy and time, as well as being unattractive. It just doesn’t need to be said. It certainly doesn’t change the view/approach of the cock-wombles who solicit the sort of messages that agitate the recipient in this way, so why bother?

Show your positive and best self - even if you’re lying!

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By *uliette500Woman
over a year ago

Hull

Pet names like darling, sweetheart, love etc etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

""hey hun got face pic"....

Delete & block

It’s the “love-heart” for me

** swoon **

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By *tsallfunangames!!Woman
over a year ago

back of beyond

Having pics full of woman, an if your lucky you might get a very small glimpse of the male whose profile it is, if I'm looking to meet, I don't want to see a profile full of female pics

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By *iss DevilWoman
over a year ago

Bedford

Text speak, all the "Hun"/"babe" etc. Added very recently to my pet hates is them trying to arrange a meet for me and them (even before we even arranged to meet anyway) with others. Or thinking that just because I can accommodate, I'd be happy to accommodate them plus however many others (again, before we even arranged that very first meet).

Last but not least- wanting to take the conversation to other apps and then revealing some things over there that are deal breakers for me (for ex., them having some particularly hardcore kinks).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Them :

Hi, wanna chat

Me:

“You’re not for me but thank you anyway”

Them:

Stupid slut, didn’t like you anyway

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By *isspurplechesterWoman
over a year ago

Chester

People who put on their profile or on the forum , “if you can’t spell or write a decent sentence then don’t contact me” ! As a dyslexic who struggles massively with words, that’s me out! So judgmental and drives me nuts!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People who put on their profile or on the forum , “if you can’t spell or write a decent sentence then don’t contact me” ! As a dyslexic who struggles massively with words, that’s me out! So judgmental and drives me nuts!! "

I think anyone with any decency would make appropriate exceptions. X

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By *landfordfabbersCouple
over a year ago

Blandford ish

I think I have the classic, not reading the profile ( or ignoring it)

We have a quite clear description on our profile for guys, but we still get messages from people who don’t fit the bill as such!

The other is friends requests from total randoms

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

Nice tits gets very boring.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Long winded profiles....they have lost me after 6 lines....

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By *etwifeandhim69Couple
over a year ago

Darlington

"Singletons messaging from a couple's profile."

And vice versa, a single profile wanting to bring a fwb along.

Not happening.

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By *eddy004Man
over a year ago

Toy Town

Discussing a topic of interest on their profile only to have them ask why you're messaging them about it and being told that they aren't into it.

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By *eddy004Man
over a year ago

Toy Town

I'm with you on this.

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

"Just thought I'd take a chance/wondered if you'd make an exception."

No, my boundaries are there for a reason.

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By *ittlemisssassypantsCouple
over a year ago

South East Wales

The repeat messages even though they’ve already been ignored many times before.

The phrase “rant over” on profiles. I don’t know why but it really makes me cringe.

Photos with random objects hanging out of vaginas.

Photos with messy/dirty backgrounds.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 01/07/21 19:58:09]

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

The following bug me:

Messages from guys wanting to meet - they clearly haven't read the first bit of my profile.

Profiles with no punctuation, paragraphs or capital letters.

Messages in text speak.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When someone winks your profile and you respond only to get a response, what the bloody hell do you want. Not worth getting out of bed some days. By the way i have two dick pics on my profile, sorry.

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By *arlomaleMan
over a year ago

darlington

Professional

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By *valanche1001Man
over a year ago

Leeds

One word emails and unsolicited friend requests from profiles that scream “no one-liners, friends request will be ignored!”

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By *ollycouple71Couple
over a year ago

manchester

""hey hun got face pic"....

Delete & block

It’s the “love-heart” for me

** swoon **"

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By *agicfingers1Man
over a year ago

near Brighton

"Friend requests when we have not had any chats.....

Also those who omit that they are married and then suddenly change their profile to state they are married and play with permission...."

That's why I explain that in my profile.... tbh it doesn't help me though

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By *oastal1968Man
over a year ago

London

Would of

Should of

Could of

F**k off!

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By *adyx4Woman
over a year ago

Durham

A lot of what has been said above and the “I’m in your area tonight/next week”

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By *arlomaleMan
over a year ago

darlington

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By *arlomaleMan
over a year ago

darlington

What’s considered hung threads normally started by a guy with a fair sized cock

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By *xfordshireCoupleMFCouple
over a year ago

Nr. Oxford

Viewing the profile of a hot looking guy or couple and then seeing they smoke.

Then the inevitable message of “hey, you looked at my profile, like what you see?”

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a hotel near you tonight......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All of the above..

Oh and those who seriously cba reading my ranty profile..

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By *xfordshireCoupleMFCouple
over a year ago

Nr. Oxford

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By *xfordshireCoupleMFCouple
over a year ago

Nr. Oxford

"I have a hotel near you tonight......"

We quite like this one.

Gives us a chance for a social that may develop in to play.

But if it doesn’t then there are no hard feelings as they’d already paid for the room.

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By *nSeeNMan
over a year ago

Z'ha'dum

"Getting called babe, honey or sweetheart."

Is snugglebunny acceptable?

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

I’m in your area this week

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

-Hotel tonight bear you. Meet me.

-Generic message that's mass delivered to every fab user.

-Message with Hi and nothing else.

-Offering to pay me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"-Hotel tonight bear you. Meet me.

-Generic message that's mass delivered to every fab user.

-Message with Hi and nothing else.

-Offering to pay me."

*near

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By *melia DominaTV/TS
over a year ago

Edinburgh (She/Her)

Laziness ... from profile to message to pictures ...

I'm entitled to get this, that and the other for just being me and being here ....

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By *erDirtyRockstarMan
over a year ago

buckinghamshire

Text speak and bad spelling. Baffles me in this brave new world of open communication, most people cant string a cogent and/or considered sentence together.

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

What you looking for?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Professional

Ok, but “proffesional” or “proffessional” will guarantee them joining my block list.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I realise that we have a long and sesquipedalian profile, but there really is a lot of useful information in it...

And it's very very obvious when it hasn't been read!

Biggest bugbear, though, is without doubt those who challenge whether S is straight. It says so, repeatedly, and no, that's not going to change because you want it to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Text speak and bad spelling. Baffles me in this brave new world of open communication, most people cant string a cogent and/or considered sentence together. "

This. If you’re monosyllabic, I’m out

Profile: point 13

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honesty is the best policy...then people have a choice...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I realise that we have a long and sesquipedalian profile, but there really is a lot of useful information in it...

And it's very very obvious when it hasn't been read!

Biggest bugbear, though, is without doubt those who challenge whether S is straight. It says so, repeatedly, and no, that's not going to change because you want it to."

Excellent use of 'sesquipedalian'. Bravo!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wuu2

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wuu2

Sorry, what?

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By *uck-Me-Hard-Scotland-M2MMan
over a year ago

Barnhill (Outside Dundee)

"Wuu2

Sorry, what?"

The dreaded text speech for "Wot you up to"

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By *oastal1968Man
over a year ago

London

"I have a hotel near you tonight......"

Great! Which one. I'll be around after work

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