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Why do men presume women are submissive?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I have nothing on my profile to suggest I'm submissive (I am absolutely not) but just this morning there have been many messages asking how sub I am or describing exactly how they want to dominate me.

Is it porn? Plain old misogyny? Or just a copy and paste to evey woman without reading the profile

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

I have no idea why people think that, is a pet hate of mine too.

I do have it in my profile, but as we know not many people read them.

The general issue is why people assume that somebody is is submissive without asking.

Also when getting engaged intimately, why sometimes people feel it's perfectly ok to slap my bum or any part of my body (without discussing it first).

In my case it's not ok to slap me at all, ever, anywhere.

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By *aughtycp1Couple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

This is so true. I am not submissive in the least but get guys assuming I will be. Also they assume they can dominate my Husband because he's a cuckold. Nothing could be further from the truth. They get an instant NOT MEETING when they assume this x

Mrs N

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I think it is because alot still think we are the weaker sex and they are more powerful.

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By *ee And MikeCouple
over a year ago

Cannock


"I think it is because alot still think we are the weaker sex and they are more powerful."

Totally agree with that, most men are too stupid to even ask what your preferences are, they just assume

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't see it as a disrespectful thing, I think most men get full pleasure out of taking control and knowing that have completely satisfied a woman. Especially in the bedroom, they need to feel like 'men' so most prefer to be the dominant one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Firstly imo it’s just a small amount of people who believe in gender norms…

Secondly they’re not evolved enough to be able to deal with any other type of woman… so imo they’re hoping hard you are submissive else their dicks aren’t gona get any joy…

Thirdly I think it would be really fun to re-educate them by letting them know they’re dinosaurs on the brink of extinction…. hahaha

Lastly some women reallly benefit from allowing men to think in that way as they’re very easy to manipulate then with reverse psychology haha

x

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

The funny thing is that because I sometimes take a submissive role we have pictures that illustrate that we get a lot of messages from men wanting to be dommed by me

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