FabSwingers.com forum: Regular Meets or One Offs

By *aughtydante OP Man
over a year ago

Midlands Based But Travel

What are most peoples preference? Now i know fab brings in all types of people looking for all types of things.

But just out of interest whats your preference?

For example the next time you meet someone? Or how many of the next 5 meets would be with one offs or repeats?

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By *tarburst babydollMan
over a year ago

Dingwall

Some of the people we have met have become great friends so we tend to go for repeat meets

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

trouble most likely, or creating it :)

"What are most peoples preference? Now i know fab brings in all types of people looking for all types of things.

But just out of interest whats your preference?

For example the next time you meet someone? Or how many of the next 5 meets would be with one offs or repeats?"
I only really do 1 offs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

While I like the idea of regular, the issue can be it enables emotions to start to develop. It's a very personal decision as to where dividing lines lie x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One offs.

Adds to the thrill.

Limits exposure.

Ensures discretion.

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By *rNaughtyNickMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

Regular x

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By *scouple07Couple
over a year ago

louth, Ireland

If we found an ideal couple then we would hope it was more regular, singles is more a once off

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By *onb21Woman
over a year ago

Cardiff

If it's good, regular.

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

If it's good, meet again if our diaries sync

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By *IG G77Man
over a year ago

GATLEY

One offs are fine if interested regular is also fine I can adapt to both x

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By *etwifeandhim69Couple
over a year ago

Darlington

Both are the reality of fab but we preffer something regular if everyones on the same page.

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By *oooner1Couple
over a year ago

milton keynes

"While I like the idea of regular, the issue can be it enables emotions to start to develop. It's a very personal decision as to where dividing lines lie x"

This. We tend to go with one-offs as a rule, but Deb has been known to have a regular or two.

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By *aughtydante OP Man
over a year ago

Midlands Based But Travel

I most definitely would like to go into the more regular meet.

My ideal is a couple that only adds me into their relationship once a week or so and who i get on really well with both parties aswell as sexually we all being satisfied.

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By *aughty_builder87Man
over a year ago

Keston

I’d ideally go for something regular if I could find the right person.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Regular for me.

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By *izzy.miss.lizzyCouple
over a year ago

Pembrokeshire

"What are most peoples preference? "

depends on how the meet went for us I guess.

We have met people more than once but we will stop if things aren't going the right way for us.

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

We would like a little select group - a couple of couples, a couples of single girls and guys. That way we can arrange play dates based on who is available and what everyone’s preference is.

We also enjoy one off scenarios where we are ticking things off our sex list. These are usually hand picked to fit the criteria

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By *anae21Woman
over a year ago

Nearer than you think

Regular for me. It might be an age thing, but one-offs leave me feeling cheap.

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

Flagrante

We are club goers so they tend to be one offs.

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By *inkycreamCouple
over a year ago

manchester

Regular is good, friendship makes a far better experience.

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By *yantico86Man
over a year ago

drumchapel

Not fussed either or suit's me x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Regular for me. It might be an age thing, but one-offs leave me feeling cheap. "

Same for us. One off’s aren’t as much fun.

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

I don’t like the term regular, but definitely repeat meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On the one hand regular means getting to know what the other person likes and how to fully satisfy them.

Then you have a one off, which can be fun and freaky.

Each to there own I guess.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One off's unless they are something special

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

All 5 repeats

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A little bit of both for us

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By *emon99123Man
over a year ago

London

One offs are fun, but had much much better sex with regular meets

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By *olymalelincsMan
over a year ago

nr southend

Personal preference is for regular meets I like to get to know the person I am playing with so regular meets are the best choice for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d like a regular but wouldn’t say no to anything at the minute. A yes in my inbox would go down a treat.

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By *arciocialWoman
over a year ago

Leicester

I've been here on off for 9 years and had regulars but all further afield, I'd like a local regular. I go to clubs for one offs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both but would like to have a few friends we can go for a drink k with and fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Regular, nothing better than getting to know a lady and what gets her going..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't know that I have a preference, bit of both I suppose

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Regular

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By *J coupleCouple
over a year ago

stone

We like to get to know our Fab friends so regular for us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Regular. I have no interest in one offs.

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By *icola2202Couple
over a year ago

Chatham

At this point any would be great

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Regular would be nice

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By *heRazorsEdgeMan
over a year ago

Wales/ All over UK

I’d prefer regular, but one offs can be incredibly hot..

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By *dquestCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough

Depends... regular couples, one off singles

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Definitely regular

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By *oobyHotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Thurrock

I always used to prefer one offs but am now looking to find a few regular guys I can call upon when the mood takes me /or the husbands at work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both as long as they truthful and upfront on what it is before hand

Ie don’t lead me down the garden path off bs me about wanting regular things then after my knickers are off and dead done get home and message me saying it was great but regular not for me

Just be up front and tell me it’s a one off that way I don’t feel used

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Regular nothing wrong having a small circle of friends and you get on well with when it's not sexually related as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Regular for definite

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By *iss pleasuringWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere near

A demi sexual here

I prefer the emotional attachment to have the sexual attraction

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One male regular meets.

It's worked once for me in the past.

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By *layful HarlequinMan
over a year ago

uxbridge

Definitely a regular for me .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A regular would be amazing.. Only had one and it just got better everytime...

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By *asycouple1971Couple
over a year ago

midlands

We would prefer regular if everything clicks, maybe once a month.

Also exciting to have a new one off.

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By *helroyCouple
over a year ago

Skegness

regular for us the sex gets better

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By *ounty durham bbw coupleCouple
over a year ago

darlington

Although not completely against repeat meets we have had one or two guys start getting clingy questioning us when we met other people couples we would definitely get to know on a regular basis but single guys mostly just one offs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like both but probably prefer one offs. I do like to have one or two FWB though xx

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By *layful HarlequinMan
over a year ago

uxbridge

"I like both but probably prefer one offs. I do like to have one or two FWB though xx"

Now you’re just rubbing our noses in to it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally prefer regular fwb

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What are most peoples preference? Now i know fab brings in all types of people looking for all types of things.

But just out of interest whats your preference?

For example the next time you meet someone? Or how many of the next 5 meets would be with one offs or repeats?"

95% one offs. Love the thrill of the unknown.

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By *isser36Man
over a year ago

fylde Coast

Regular for me , I'd love a regular couple or single I always feel more comfortable that way and it's fun finding out what really works for someone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t mind both but it would be a fine thing to have one of them lol

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By *ust_FlynnMan
over a year ago

St Neots

We like regular, it’s cool to find a couple that we click with hang out with and do all the regular stuff with drinks, meals etc

But just with the added bonus of being able to get down and dirty with too haha

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By *inkylipsWoman
over a year ago

Debauchery

I prefer regular as the way I play you need to build trust and boundaries seem to be pushed more with those you are comfortable with. The people I have met have never been one offs and the sex just gets better. I don’t get emotionally attached so for me this is easy but I understand some may struggle

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By *uRocMan
over a year ago

in town

Don't mind one off's, but prefer regular

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't have a preference and go into meets with no expectations. Some can be a one off, other's you want to see again. Just have fun ultimately

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By *imply_SensualMan
over a year ago

warrington

Preference is something regular but I am not averse to one-off

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By *aucy SouthernersCouple
over a year ago

Honiton

We have had and enjoyed both, but the ‘fun’ is so much better with repeat meets when you get to know ‘playfriends’ likes and desires x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Regular only. When I’m back to meeting I will be looking for regular

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely one offs. I’m THAT much of a commitment phobe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Regular for me. It might be an age thing, but one-offs leave me feeling cheap. "

Agree. Regular is a great objective - fabulous experiences built on great chemistry and connection. However one offs are sometimes an inevitable outcome, even if not desired.

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By *oxy lady40Woman
over a year ago

bridgwater

Both

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By *ananas57Couple
over a year ago

lake ariel

Mostly once and done since a failed FWB relationship

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One off for us only, having someone regular either couple or male would put idea in their head thinking can just call and fuck wife while I'm not there so we both agreed from past one offs only.

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By *imjohnCouple
over a year ago

Clacton on sea, Essex

We prefer meeting like minded people similar to us and building good friendships, we are swingers so of course we want to have sex with others but the social accept is also very important to us so one offs wouldn't work for us.

Once you are friends you relax more which makes the sex better & better each time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Previous experience on here seemed to be more one offs with the odd repeat

After being off for long time list touch with many

Would prefer repeat as can try more each meet as get to know each other

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be good to have a meet with a couple or a couple of couples and all being well meet up again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Regular meets for us until they get bored or get a gf lol xx

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By *rs spicyCouple
over a year ago

Chesterfield near centre

I enjoy the thrill of one-off meets , they can be very exciting but I do like to have a regular fuck buddy or two as well.

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By *assing Fancies xCouple
over a year ago

Sherwood Forest

One off can be fantastic but there is nothing like seeing the same person time after time and building a connection as well as learning what eachothers bodies like and the way they like it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely regular, as you get to know each other the sex gets better

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By *ubwife4uCouple
over a year ago

Maidstone Area.

We prefer one off meets. All very exciting. But as we usually only meet with groups, it is sometimes quite relaxing to see a familiar face there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Regular for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd like my wife to do a cpl one off meets to boost her confidence

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Not done any one offs for a while, but they can be fun.

Both kinds have their merits, but overall if the sex is good and the pheromones are flying I'm going to want to see them again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Weve never had regulars however if we came across a couple who fit what we're looking for and we can get along with then we wouldn't rule it out. To be honest we always saw it as "sex is just sex" so never bothered with repeat meets but lockdown has changed our views slightly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer repeats but will not decline one offs, jeez at my age I cannot be too picky can I ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Prefer repeats/regulars. Especially if there’s some good synergy and sexual chemistry. Usually the guys that meet me want to come for seconds/thirds etc

A really small amount is one off but I think To do to change of circumstances (like they moved away/got into a relationship or our timings just didn’t match) x

I don’t mind one/offs but if they are good, I’d always hope for more meets x if they aren’t good then fair enough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We have had and enjoyed both, but the ‘fun’ is so much better with repeat meets when you get to know ‘playfriends’ likes and desires x"

Bingo

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By *hocCock1Man
over a year ago

Southampton

Have had one offs, but happier with regular couples, makes for a better time as you learn what makes people quiver

and in couples they don't want to get into a relationship with you

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