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By *eznhannah OP   Couple
over a year ago

leeds

has anyone else come across this at swinging clubs, where the husband has litterally had to drag the wife into the club, and then she will sit there mortified and clearly not ready for it, and he will make excuses like oooo shes shy, but shes a raver when she gets going etc....i always feel sooo sorry for the wife in that situation, one of the first couples we ever tried to swing with were such a couple it was our first visit to a club and we ended up in a room with them,after taking them at face value, but ended things when the guy was trying to drag her hand over to hannahs chest, the girl was in tears and apologised to hannah in the changing rooms saying she had never wanted to come in the first place, seen it a few times since and it is probably the most annoying thing in swinging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"has anyone else come across this at swinging clubs, where the husband has litterally had to drag the wife into the club, and then she will sit there mortified and clearly not ready for it, and he will make excuses like oooo shes shy, but shes a raver when she gets going etc....i always feel sooo sorry for the wife in that situation, one of the first couples we ever tried to swing with were such a couple it was our first visit to a club and we ended up in a room with them,after taking them at face value, but ended things when the guy was trying to drag her hand over to hannahs chest, the girl was in tears and apologised to hannah in the changing rooms saying she had never wanted to come in the first place, seen it a few times since and it is probably the most annoying thing in swinging"

Nope, but we are generaly fairly aware of what is going on around us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've seen it before in clubs too. There actually arn't that many truly bi women out there, merely those looking for attention and those trying to please their partners.

If couples want more of a thrill in their lives why not take up bungee jumping or something?

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By *ickmealloverWoman
over a year ago

a very plush appartment off junt 7 M5


"has anyone else come across this at swinging clubs, where the husband has litterally had to drag the wife into the club, and then she will sit there mortified and clearly not ready for it, and he will make excuses like oooo shes shy, but shes a raver when she gets going etc....i always feel sooo sorry for the wife in that situation, one of the first couples we ever tried to swing with were such a couple it was our first visit to a club and we ended up in a room with them,after taking them at face value, but ended things when the guy was trying to drag her hand over to hannahs chest, the girl was in tears and apologised to hannah in the changing rooms saying she had never wanted to come in the first place, seen it a few times since and it is probably the most annoying thing in swinging"

Yes, I've seen this sort of thing far too many times.

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By *ngel Devil69Couple
over a year ago

Manilva

it's usually the wife, dragging me. Cus i'm shy xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we have also seen this a couple of times the first time was a few years ago ...we used to post on an exhibitionist site and all had a meet at a club etc ...this one poster had his wife in tears after he keep trying to push her onto us and other more experianced swingers, in the end one of the other girls in our group took her back to the hotel and he was asked to leave ..but in the morning it was very clear they had had one almighty row,it had probably put her off swinging and any chance he had of having fun were probably shot to peices we never even saw her post pics again after that nite.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A few months ago i seen a rathering disturbing incident in a club.

the club was busy people were sat in the lounge area chatting,when all of a sudden a bloke barged his way into the club found his cheating partner & had a massive row in front of everyone then tried to drag her out by her hair.kinda killed the mood a little

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By *imfromGlasgowMan
over a year ago

er...guess

You see this nonsense quite a lot outdoors. The 'wife' clearly isn't into any of it and sits nursing a 2 litre bottle of / irn bru/ etc heavily laced with vodka, getting steadily more and more pished.

Anyone with any sense avoids such couples like the plague.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have seen this ........ and i have had a go at the man for doing this too the woman ,, lol she was in the loo crying saying thay had only been together 2 months and she was so in love ... and all he would go on about was meeting other people she would find it fun ,, x well lets say he never found it fun that night. xx jo x

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By *eakcoupleCouple
over a year ago

peak district

recently we went to a closed playroom in Chams with a couple. as soon as we got nude the woman said "I can't do this, I want to go home" and rushed out. he said something like "don't mind her she's new to swinging" and wanted to carry on, but we stopped it and suggested he looked after her. you often see single women sitting alone looking left out of it while their man is off playing somewhere.

it doesn't make for a happy relationship!

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

Once in a while you see the wife also being dragged out again... when she takes to it like a duck to water and suddenly the hubby realises she's getting a great deal of attention... I assume he'd imagined himslef getting loads of pussy and kind of overlooked there might be a queue of cocks for her instead

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By *imfromGlasgowMan
over a year ago

er...guess

I don't do clubs so I can't comment on what happens there but I've seen the 'I can't do this' business at parties. I suspect it's been part of a pre-arranged plan and the woman is only there as a condition of entry.

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By *eznhannah OP   Couple
over a year ago

leeds

wouldnt work with us as we play with both, or dont play, but your right jim it does happen

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

Just as an alternative thought on the matter…

I don’t think the sudden realisation of “I can’t do this” is always an indication that the woman has been pushed into something against her will… and it’s not always said by the woman! There can be a very big difference between being aroused by a fantasy and doing things for real. Sometimes people just can’t make that crossover but don’t know they can’t until they are faced with the reality of being there. Some fantasies are only arousing when left where they started… in your head.

All of us are entitled to change our minds about anything at any point and it’s better folk are brave enough to say so before doing something they cannot erase.

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By *imfromGlasgowMan
over a year ago

er...guess

I have no issue with someone (male or female) genuinely changing their mind and I'd very much rather they do that than regret their actions afterwards.

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton


"Just as an alternative thought on the matter…

I don’t think the sudden realisation of “I can’t do this” is always an indication that the woman has been pushed into something against her will… and it’s not always said by the woman! There can be a very big difference between being aroused by a fantasy and doing things for real. Sometimes people just can’t make that crossover but don’t know they can’t until they are faced with the reality of being there. Some fantasies are only arousing when left where they started… in your head.

All of us are entitled to change our minds about anything at any point and it’s better folk are brave enough to say so before doing something they cannot erase.

"

This is true, I made the mistake of doing something when we first started swinging because I didn't want 'to make a scene' in a club - never again! So yes, respect to people who have the courage to stop if it isn't for them, regardless of how others may perceive them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Polo hit the nail firmly on the head some fantasies are best left in your head.

However I was once at a party and saw a couple where he was having a ball and she was busy trying to get d*unk cos it was the only way she would ever think about sleeping with another man her words.

I asked her why she was at the party she said cos he wanted to be there!!

It turned out she was only interested in talking to people and asking them if she should be there - my answer was if your not happy being here or playing DONT you can talk to people but dont need to be naked to do so.

And most importantly you should only do what you want to do doesnt matter what it is, you should never do something you dont want to do or something that makes you uncomfortable.

Just mt 2p worth.

Shona

x x x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Once in a while you see the wife also being dragged out again... when she takes to it like a duck to water and suddenly the hubby realises she's getting a great deal of attention... I assume he'd imagined himslef getting loads of pussy and kind of overlooked there might be a queue of cocks for her instead "

well said ..!! probably the best reply to this subject at the moment....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i know this is an unblievable story but i swear its true

A couple that used to go to a club i use got banned because he was putting rohypnol in his own wifes drinks so she'd go into play rooms

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i know this is an unblievable story but i swear its true

A couple that used to go to a club i use got banned because he was putting rohypnol in his own wifes drinks so she'd go into play rooms "
How did thay find out he was doing this ??? thats really nasty of him how could he ... you here all sorts but never heard of this before x jo

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By *antsanddorsetMan
over a year ago

southampton


"i know this is an unblievable story but i swear its true

A couple that used to go to a club i use got banned because he was putting rohypnol in his own wifes drinks so she'd go into play rooms "

good god now i've heard everything..

once met a cpl for a drink where it was clear she'd been forced into it - she told me when he went off to loo - needless to say never followed through with that one! but rohypnol.. jeez

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well i only know the story sorta second handand i dont confess to be a rohypnol expert lol but they recon he used to give her just a small amount so as not to knock her out totally, must admit i saw her a few times and she always looked a little drugged up but like most just thought she was peed, but one day he had to take her home i think he'd given her to much and a couple of the single gusy there said they had over heard him telling certain people that he gave it her so then club banned him im sure theres more to it than that tho lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well it just shows that despite all the good humour and Etiquette at meets and swingers clubs there is always a dark side which i'm happy to say we dont see very often

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By *kcouple4funCouple
over a year ago

West Midlands

yes we too have seen this a couple of times

shame on them !!!!

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By *ouvakMan
over a year ago

clacton on sea

i've seen a profile on here where the fella openly says he aint told his wife,that he's put up a profile and that he's going to surprise her with 3 or 4 fella's to do the deed and break her into the swing sceen( needless to say i did point the profile out to admin after an initial half a dozen messages to and fro from himself) and yes it was true he had spoken to her and she had been reluctant

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