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"If she is very sensitive maybe the clamps would not be her cup of tea, have you discussed it with her? Or are you just trying her up popping in a gag and slapping the clamps on????" Yes, discussed and consented ofc. Really thought that goes without saying. | |||
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"Try a bit of ice on the nipples first to get nice and hard " She adores ice cubes so definitely popping a tray in the freezer! Didnt think of using those first though - top tip! Excuse the pun | |||
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"If she is very sensitive maybe the clamps would not be her cup of tea, have you discussed it with her? Or are you just trying her up popping in a gag and slapping the clamps on???? Yes, discussed and consented ofc. Really thought that goes without saying." you'd be surprised... I would suggest a playfully fact finding giggle session. Full clothed experimenting with clamping force, chain pulling, understanding the attachment, were feels nice, were smarts like fuck. Use the skin between the thumb and first finger as a clamp guide. It's pretty sensitive. Try them on each other nog just her. So you both get a good idea of the sensation. Perhaps add some clothes pegs to the mix, plastic ones have a weaker spring than wooden pegs. But again experiment. You might find direct nipple attachment is to much. But as an example 4 clothes pegs surrounding the nipple is an excellent alternative which could last longer. Nipple clamps are apart of sensation play. There are alot of other items you could add such as a pointy wooden skewer. Not to break the flesh but to induce the feeling. As another mentioned, ice. Or vibration or a combination. Have fun with it before you work then into regular play. | |||
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"If she is very sensitive maybe the clamps would not be her cup of tea, have you discussed it with her? Or are you just trying her up popping in a gag and slapping the clamps on???? Yes, discussed and consented ofc. Really thought that goes without saying. you'd be surprised... I would suggest a playfully fact finding giggle session. Full clothed experimenting with clamping force, chain pulling, understanding the attachment, were feels nice, were smarts like fuck. Use the skin between the thumb and first finger as a clamp guide. It's pretty sensitive. Try them on each other nog just her. So you both get a good idea of the sensation. Perhaps add some clothes pegs to the mix, plastic ones have a weaker spring than wooden pegs. But again experiment. You might find direct nipple attachment is to much. But as an example 4 clothes pegs surrounding the nipple is an excellent alternative which could last longer. Nipple clamps are apart of sensation play. There are alot of other items you could add such as a pointy wooden skewer. Not to break the flesh but to induce the feeling. As another mentioned, ice. Or vibration or a combination. Have fun with it before you work then into regular play. " Wonderful reply, thank you! Taking notes here | |||
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"If she is very sensitive maybe the clamps would not be her cup of tea, have you discussed it with her? Or are you just trying her up popping in a gag and slapping the clamps on???? Yes, discussed and consented ofc. Really thought that goes without saying." Didn't state that a conversation had been had just that you bought them buddy, Scarlets nipples are really sensitive and it's a no to clamps or pegs from her so was just making sure. We are all different and one ladies likes or dislikes don't match the next an all that. | |||
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"If she is very sensitive maybe the clamps would not be her cup of tea, have you discussed it with her? Or are you just trying her up popping in a gag and slapping the clamps on???? Yes, discussed and consented ofc. Really thought that goes without saying. you'd be surprised... I would suggest a playfully fact finding giggle session. Full clothed experimenting with clamping force, chain pulling, understanding the attachment, were feels nice, were smarts like fuck. Use the skin between the thumb and first finger as a clamp guide. It's pretty sensitive. Try them on each other nog just her. So you both get a good idea of the sensation. Perhaps add some clothes pegs to the mix, plastic ones have a weaker spring than wooden pegs. But again experiment. You might find direct nipple attachment is to much. But as an example 4 clothes pegs surrounding the nipple is an excellent alternative which could last longer. Nipple clamps are apart of sensation play. There are alot of other items you could add such as a pointy wooden skewer. Not to break the flesh but to induce the feeling. As another mentioned, ice. Or vibration or a combination. Have fun with it before you work then into regular play. " I have found that a pin wheel is very good for testing sensitivity, can pick one up from Lovehoney for under a tenner. | |||
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