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By *b1976 OP   Man
over a year ago

wigan

Would you say it’s harder for men to make women orgasm these days seeing most regularly use toys

One ex use to come very quick and never used toys , we’re another the toy was needed aswell as me

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

At the risk of repeating myself, all women are different and I'm not sure that it's any more difficult for women to achieve orgasm than it ever was

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By *oetic licenceCouple
over a year ago

Darley Dale

I wry rarely use toys, much prefer a real touch on my pussy and clit. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"At the risk of repeating myself, all women are different and I'm not sure that it's any more difficult for women to achieve orgasm than it ever was "

They have proven that over use of wands etc reduces sensitivity and makes it harder to orgasm without them...as eventually you'll need a jack hammer to feel anything....just saying....take it up with google not me

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By *oan of DArcCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Would you say it’s harder for men to make women orgasm these days seeing most regularly use toys

One ex use to come very quick and never used toys , we’re another the toy was needed aswell as me "

It might be due to (some) men making assumptions about what women do and think and not being sensitive to their individual needs and preferences!

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

Off on a slight tangent but why do men focus on the orgasm?

Does every man start out with the sole intention of making a woman orgasm so they can then get to theirs?

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

I don't use toys and banging away won't make me cum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would you say it’s harder for men to make women orgasm these days seeing most regularly use toys

One ex use to come very quick and never used toys , we’re another the toy was needed aswell as me "

It has nothing to do with toy usage.

My current partner cums very easy, with or without toys and has never been shy of a vibe!

Another fwb is the opposite and takes significant warming up despite not being into toys at all.

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Different strokes for different folks.

As for the old "wand will make you numb" line, I've been using mine for the last 20 years and all is good .

I'll report back in another 20

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By *lice AgainTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

When I first got together with my o/h (its complicated at the moment), I was the biggest she'd had and the first to actually try and succeed in making her cum.

Throughout our relationship I've always been about the outcome for both of use.

Towards the end (temporary split, or so we hope), she was wanting more and more fingers in the foreplay until eventually... the hand.

Sadly this appears to be it for her now and my slightly above average cock is not enough.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"At the risk of repeating myself, all women are different and I'm not sure that it's any more difficult for women to achieve orgasm than it ever was

They have proven that over use of wands etc reduces sensitivity and makes it harder to orgasm without them...as eventually you'll need a jack hammer to feel anything....just saying....take it up with google not me "

What qualifies as over use? I use toys a fair bit but I haven't yet needed a jackhammer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't use toys and banging away won't make me cum.

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My wife would agree with you.

For her to orgasim it has to be combination of things.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dont shoot the messenger....

Guys who wank too much or too hard (death grip) have the same sensitivity and orgasm issues...

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"Dont shoot the messenger....

Guys who wank too much or too hard (death grip) have the same sensitivity and orgasm issues... "

Nobody is shooting the messenger but we need to know what's over use. If I'm going to need a jackhammer at some point I want to get my order in now

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By *oan of DArcCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Off on a slight tangent but why do men focus on the orgasm?

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..or compelling women to 'squirt' their entire bodily fluids into a messy reservoir onto a newly made up bed!

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