FabSwingers.com forum: Brat v obedient submissive

By *anPsurreycouple OP Couple
over a year ago

Surrey

Who enjoys playing with a cheeky brat who likes to tease or taunt answer back to you? How many brats are on fab?

Or do you prefer a obedient submissive who's does as she is told? Who is a obedient sub on fab?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely more brat here x

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

Both can be fun depending on the situation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My hubby is my cuck but I'm definitely submissive with others

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have met both on fab and tbh the bratty girl was undoubtedly more dirty minded and filthy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Who enjoys playing with a cheeky brat who likes to tease or taunt answer back to you? How many brats are on fab?

Or do you prefer a obedient submissive who's does as she is told? Who is a obedient sub on fab?

It depends on my mood to be honest. If I'm radgey and my sub is bratty I'll feel irritated and likely want play to end sooner rather than later.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been known to let my brat out on occasion, depends on my mood. Not sure I'd get away with it as a regular thing but it's fun every now and then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm very much a bratty sub. I love to be cheeky and fight back so to speak, but ultimately want a dominant man to have his way. Xx

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By *uitednbooted2Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

Oh much prefer a Brat ! Much more of a challenge and unpredictable dynamic to be had.

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By *aidtobespankedCouple
over a year ago

Chester

Lucy knows what to expect when she doesn't do as she is told..

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By *nsatiables21Couple
over a year ago

Neverland

100% brat here as it just doesn't come natural to be a good submissive

Mrs

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By *yronMan
over a year ago

grangemouth

I prefer bratty subs, they're more fun and more of a challengee.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely a brat. Like a bit of a fiery character who will chat back and give as good as she gets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Brat here

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By *rincess PhoenixWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

I'm definitely more of a brat but you have to know your audience. I have a regular playmate who prefers me to be an obedient sub but occasionally he lets me release my inner brat. For me brattiness is like a pressure release.

I do switch between obedient sub and brat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good to see all the pro-brats! Can sometimes get a negative press for 'not being what a sub should be; obedient'. But where's the fun in that? I like to be pushed, I like to be challenged and ultimately EARN that obedience through my actions.

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By *ingle ex cuckMan
over a year ago

chester

Most brats just want money

Very few be like that for fun

It’s very much financial domination

Money money money

Sad world we live in

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By *rMrs CumalotCouple
over a year ago

East Mids

Mostly a brat but I knew when I need to behave and obey

Mrs x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im a bratty subby.

I like playing little tricks on Sir to keep him on his toes. Googly eyes stuck on his car with little magnets was a most recent one.

The great diet , malt vinegar switch was a personal favourite and timing was impeccable- passing his special drink once he had worked up a sweat lol.

There is alway loopholes and I love twisting Sirs words against him, He says turn around , I do a 360.

He is smart though knows how to handle me and knows I will always obey him in the end.

I take no responsibility if anyone uses any idea aforementioned and receives consequences.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Most brats just want money

Very few be like that for fun

It’s very much financial domination

Money money money

Sad world we live in "

WRONG

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Most brats just want money

Very few be like that for fun

It’s very much financial domination

Money money money

Sad world we live in "

I disagree, I know a few brats and none of them are in it for financial gain.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Most brats just want money

Very few be like that for fun

It’s very much financial domination

Money money money

Sad world we live in

I disagree, I know a few brats and none of them are in it for financial gain.

Me too, findommes and brats are not the same thing!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Most brats just want money

Very few be like that for fun

It’s very much financial domination

Money money money

Sad world we live in

I disagree, I know a few brats and none of them are in it for financial gain.

Me too, findommes and brats are not the same thing! "

Funnily enough I was chatting to someone earlier about how its near on impossible to find a female Domme who isn't in it for financial but within a " relationship" type thing ( I use the term relationship as loosely as necessary).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Most brats just want money

Very few be like that for fun

It’s very much financial domination

Money money money

Sad world we live in

I disagree, I know a few brats and none of them are in it for financial gain.

Me too, findommes and brats are not the same thing!

There seems to have been an explosion in the amount of findommes in recent years

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By *cunnylassCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

I'm an obedient submissive when I'm playing with another guy.It just feels right!

Mike

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Personally when in proper submissive mode (as opposed to kink play on an equal footing) I can't imagine being bratty - I tend to go into quite serious and focussed mode when I submit and that wouldn't fit with brattiness

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe bratty or cheeky but defo not into having a brat submissive.

Also not all submissive are passively obedient. It all depends of the type of dynamic or Ds relationship.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe bratty or cheeky but defo not into having a brat submissive.

Also not all submissive are passively obedient. It all depends of the type of dynamic or Ds relationship. "

I love the term passive obedience it's too perfect

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find I take on both roles. Bratty to start but when I reach subspace I'm fully obedient

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By *olymalelincsMan
over a year ago

southend

I love a bratty submissive, so much more fun to be had and much more satisfying to earn their submission rather than have it handed to you on a silver platter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love a bratty submissive, so much more fun to be had and much more satisfying to earn their submission rather than have it handed to you on a silver platter "

No women would hand over her submission on a silver platter!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe bratty or cheeky but defo not into having a brat submissive.

Also not all submissive are passively obedient. It all depends of the type of dynamic or Ds relationship.

I love the term passive obedience it's too perfect "

Well thank you! First time I get a compliment for my so imperfect English

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m a bit of both, I like to be a cheeky brat at times, but he knows how to bring me back into line, usually with a look, but it’s fun.

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By *FirmHandMan
over a year ago

Worcester

Agree with an earlier comment, both can be fun for different reasons but I will admit to enjoying a brat more, especially when they push back and think they have won only to find out different

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By *olymalelincsMan
over a year ago

southend

"I love a bratty submissive, so much more fun to be had and much more satisfying to earn their submission rather than have it handed to you on a silver platter

No women would hand over her submission on a silver platter!! "

As someone that has spent more than a little time (20+ years) involved in the kink scene I can say I have seen those that have done just that I'm afraid, admitidly more often than not it has been those that are very new and inexperienced and hounded by "uber doms" but it does happen even though it shouldn't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe bratty or cheeky but defo not into having a brat submissive.

Also not all submissive are passively obedient. It all depends of the type of dynamic or Ds relationship.

I love the term passive obedience it's too perfect

Well thank you! First time I get a compliment for my so imperfect English

You are most welcome

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love a bratty submissive, so much more fun to be had and much more satisfying to earn their submission rather than have it handed to you on a silver platter

No women would hand over her submission on a silver platter!!

I've seen subs jump in without knowledge too and there are to many wannabe Doms willing to take advantage.

Submission is the most precious of gifts and must never be given out like biscuits ( tbf though I don't give biscuits out either though ...lol)

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By *olymalelincsMan
over a year ago

southend

Submission is the most precious of gifts and must never be given out like biscuits ( tbf though I don't give biscuits out either though ...lol)"

This is perfectly put, although I may be persuaded to give biscuits as rewards lol

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By *olymalelincsMan
over a year ago

southend

"I've seen subs jump in without knowledge too and there are to many wannabe Doms willing to take advantage.

The ones with the dom utility belt that have an array of cheap floggers and a bit of rope hung from them to make them look like they know what they are doing lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m definitely on the obedient end of the spectrum.

Being bratty would be completely out of my comfort zone. But that’s not to say I wouldn’t try it at some point x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love this obedient brattty sub

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By *aeganaWoman
over a year ago

birmingham

Bratty lol but makes it so much more satisfying when a firm hand puts you back in place hehe x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very obedient

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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago

Near Marlborough

I didn’t know it was a thing but a friend did once describe me as a brat. I don’t think I am all the time. Depends on my mood.

V x

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By *S chanel demarTV/TS
over a year ago

peterborough

Some profiles in here lol, can they afford to be choosy......

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

I'm not submissive generally but I do prefer being submissive sexually, however, I do love being put in my place (only with very specific people).

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By *iss pleasuringWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere near

I'm submissive when it comes to sex, I'm not naturally a brat but do sometimes grab an opportunity at how far I can push it

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By *olymalelincsMan
over a year ago

southend

"I'm not submissive generally but I do prefer being submissive sexually, however, I do love being put in my place (only with very specific people)."

*wonders how many have tried it and paid the price for it*

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

"I'm not submissive generally but I do prefer being submissive sexually, however, I do love being put in my place (only with very specific people).

*wonders how many have tried it and paid the price for it*

Several

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've seen subs jump in without knowledge too and there are to many wannabe Doms willing to take advantage.

The ones with the dom utility belt that have an array of cheap floggers and a bit of rope hung from them to make them look like they know what they are doing lol"

And a copy of 50 shades in the pocket

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Love this obedient brattty sub "

Such a lucky subby

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By *olymalelincsMan
over a year ago

southend

"I've seen subs jump in without knowledge too and there are to many wannabe Doms willing to take advantage.

The ones with the dom utility belt that have an array of cheap floggers and a bit of rope hung from them to make them look like they know what they are doing lol

And a copy of 50 shades in the pocket"

That's the ones

, I used to try not to sell my oak paddles to those ones, the thought of a heavy oak paddle in the hands of some of them made me feel sick

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By *olymalelincsMan
over a year ago

southend

"I'm not submissive generally but I do prefer being submissive sexually, however, I do love being put in my place (only with very specific people).

*wonders how many have tried it and paid the price for it*

Several

*Looks for the trail of broken bodies* where did you hide them

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've seen subs jump in without knowledge too and there are to many wannabe Doms willing to take advantage.

The ones with the dom utility belt that have an array of cheap floggers and a bit of rope hung from them to make them look like they know what they are doing lol

And a copy of 50 shades in the pocket

That's the ones

, I used to try not to sell my oak paddles to those ones, the thought of a heavy oak paddle in the hands of some of them made me feel sick"

Mmmmmmm heavy oak paddles ...

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By *olymalelincsMan
over a year ago

southend

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By *olymalelincsMan
over a year ago

southend

"I've seen subs jump in without knowledge too and there are to many wannabe Doms willing to take advantage.

The ones with the dom utility belt that have an array of cheap floggers and a bit of rope hung from them to make them look like they know what they are doing lol

And a copy of 50 shades in the pocket

That's the ones

, I used to try not to sell my oak paddles to those ones, the thought of a heavy oak paddle in the hands of some of them made me feel sick

Mmmmmmm heavy oak paddles ...

Made from reclaimed solid oak floor boards so environmentally friendly aswell lol

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By *rFeelsGoodMan
over a year ago

Newcastle Emlyn

A bit of both can be fun. Personally I find it offputting if a chick is constantly bratty. It can kill the fun of it if you constantly have to re-establish boundaries.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not tried D/s dynamics in real life yet but the more I read about it the more I think id prefer a bratty boy than an obedient one. I like to manhandle boys and them being obedient feels like less if a challenge

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By *rincess PhoenixWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

"I've seen subs jump in without knowledge too and there are to many wannabe Doms willing to take advantage.

The ones with the dom utility belt that have an array of cheap floggers and a bit of rope hung from them to make them look like they know what they are doing lol

And a copy of 50 shades in the pocket

That's the ones

, I used to try not to sell my oak paddles to those ones, the thought of a heavy oak paddle in the hands of some of them made me feel sick"

Most of them are easy to spot!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've seen subs jump in without knowledge too and there are to many wannabe Doms willing to take advantage.

The ones with the dom utility belt that have an array of cheap floggers and a bit of rope hung from them to make them look like they know what they are doing lol

And a copy of 50 shades in the pocket

That's the ones

, I used to try not to sell my oak paddles to those ones, the thought of a heavy oak paddle in the hands of some of them made me feel sick

Mmmmmmm heavy oak paddles ...

Made from reclaimed solid oak floor boards so environmentally friendly aswell lol"

Who doesn't love a bit of recycling

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've seen subs jump in without knowledge too and there are to many wannabe Doms willing to take advantage.

The ones with the dom utility belt that have an array of cheap floggers and a bit of rope hung from them to make them look like they know what they are doing lol

And a copy of 50 shades in the pocket

That's the ones

, I used to try not to sell my oak paddles to those ones, the thought of a heavy oak paddle in the hands of some of them made me feel sick

Most of them are easy to spot!! "

I like it when wannabie Doms say,

What bratty things would you do if I were your Dom??

Like I'm stupid enough to give out my best tips....

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By *rincess PhoenixWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

"I've seen subs jump in without knowledge too and there are to many wannabe Doms willing to take advantage.

The ones with the dom utility belt that have an array of cheap floggers and a bit of rope hung from them to make them look like they know what they are doing lol

And a copy of 50 shades in the pocket

That's the ones

, I used to try not to sell my oak paddles to those ones, the thought of a heavy oak paddle in the hands of some of them made me feel sick

Most of them are easy to spot!!

I like it when wannabie Doms say,

What bratty things would you do if I were your Dom??

Like I'm stupid enough to give out my best tips....

The point of bratty behaviour is that its unexpected things to throw a dom off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Complete brat here

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By *MissBehaving-Woman
over a year ago

leeds

Think the name speaks for itself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the best thing about this is that you don't have to pick

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Who enjoys playing with a cheeky brat who likes to tease or taunt answer back to you? How many brats are on fab?

Or do you prefer a obedient submissive who's does as she is told? Who is a obedient sub on fab?

My subspace is almost non verbal so I’m definitely not a brat x

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By *ersey GirlCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

I find the phrase bratty sub an oxymoron. I have have bratty moments but only when my temper has been broken or my limit is exceeded. They have been extremely rare. The bratty part being a conscious decision. A big no for me

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By *inranWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

I like subs who are obedient but I do like that to.come with spirit.i don't want someone to have no opinion or no sense of fun.

I don't personally select people who are submissive and obedient to everyone though. It's a dynamic built of of trust and respect and both people should be selective who they give that part of themselves to in my opinion. (I'm not saying that can't be to multiple people just not to everyone says they are Dom/me)

It's tricky because I like some level of resistance and mischief but not when it turns into an attempt to top from the bottom, bait or just be straight up disrespectful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

bratty sub dynamic keeps me on my toes. always gets a firm but fair response

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mr says I am a brat!

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By *otrockWoman
over a year ago

Essex

I'm a bit of both depending on who I'm meeting, I like to have the brattieness "thrashed" out of me. X

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

What a great thread, lead by submissive’s.

I suspect bratty play is initiated to create a type of reaction.

To me both are stunning, creating different scenes.

Not knowing and the anticipation, well that adds a stronger response.

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

"Who enjoys playing with a cheeky brat who likes to tease or taunt answer back to you? How many brats are on fab?

Or do you prefer a obedient submissive who's does as she is told? Who is a obedient sub on fab?

My subspace is almost non verbal so I’m definitely not a brat x "

Almost non verbal, definitely a brat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Who enjoys playing with a cheeky brat who likes to tease or taunt answer back to you? How many brats are on fab?

Or do you prefer a obedient submissive who's does as she is told? Who is a obedient sub on fab?

Predominately the obedient sub if I’m honest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Who enjoys playing with a cheeky brat who likes to tease or taunt answer back to you? How many brats are on fab?

Or do you prefer a obedient submissive who's does as she is told? Who is a obedient sub on fab?

My subspace is almost non verbal so I’m definitely not a brat x

Almost non verbal, definitely a brat.

Hehe

There’s a quiet calmness to my subspace, a euphoric elation that takes me beyond words. It takes a special set of circumstances to take me there x

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By *iss pleasuringWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere near

Great Post here,

Bout time such topics can be chatted about in here without the Karen's of vanilla fab spoiling it

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By *anPsurreycouple OP Couple
over a year ago

Surrey

Thanks for the response been interesting to see what people like

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

"Who enjoys playing with a cheeky brat who likes to tease or taunt answer back to you? How many brats are on fab?

Or do you prefer a obedient submissive who's does as she is told? Who is a obedient sub on fab?

My subspace is almost non verbal so I’m definitely not a brat x

Almost non verbal, definitely a brat.

Hehe

There’s a quiet calmness to my subspace, a euphoric elation that takes me beyond words. It takes a special set of circumstances to take me there x "

You mean like overpowering sensual stimulation over powering your conscious awareness?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like being a brat to incur more punishment!

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By *urora1912Woman
over a year ago

Norfolk East anglia

Only 1 guy gets me being submissive to him. Sadly he moved away

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

I can be both depending on my mindset. Sometimes I want the battle of wills that I know I'll ultimately loose. It's a bit like a game of chess. Others I'm already in a submissive mood and will readily submit.

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By *anPsurreycouple OP Couple
over a year ago

Surrey

Also I'm sorry just read this post back and noticed I made it sound like it's females only. Sorry about everyone included male or female

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By *onb21Woman
over a year ago

Cardiff

Mostly obedient. Sometimes bratty if he loses control.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Think the name speaks for itself

So, you were, but not any more?!

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By *erboyCouple
over a year ago

manchester

Tend to be more a cheeky obedient-ish subby boy

But will perform to please Herself

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By *abybearandthebossCouple
over a year ago

COLCHESTER

I tend to be more obedient, love to please x

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By *layPrincessDaddyBearCouple
over a year ago

Bracknell

"Im a bratty subby.

I like playing little tricks on Sir to keep him on his toes. Googly eyes stuck on his car with little magnets was a most recent one.

The great diet , malt vinegar switch was a personal favourite and timing was impeccable- passing his special drink once he had worked up a sweat lol.

There is alway loopholes and I love twisting Sirs words against him, He says turn around , I do a 360.

He is smart though knows how to handle me and knows I will always obey him in the end.

I take no responsibility if anyone uses any idea aforementioned and receives consequences. "

Omg I need to do that... off to Order googly eye

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By *layPrincessDaddyBearCouple
over a year ago

Bracknell

I’m a brat I love to push his buttons but only because I know I’m safe and totally loved by him. I’m very lucky. But I would love a brat friend... just to compare notes and advice on new bratty things to do lol xx

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

I switch. As a sub I am compliant and obedient.... And I like the same in a sub when I Dom. What specifically gets me off is my play partner consenting obediently rather than the role play around me persuading her.

I don't really understand the brat dynamic but fair play to those who do.

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By *hateusernames57Couple
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

Obedient submissive here (female), love to lose control and enjoy pleasing others.

Husband is Dom so it works out well.

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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago

Burnleyish (She/They)

I'm a switch-ish.

I'm a bratty masochist, I can count on one finger the amount of men I've been genuinely totally submissive to.

Find it much easier to be dominant... Just don't feel dominant towards men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love cheeky brats, I soon teach them not to answer back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Im a bratty subby.

I like playing little tricks on Sir to keep him on his toes. Googly eyes stuck on his car with little magnets was a most recent one.

The great diet , malt vinegar switch was a personal favourite and timing was impeccable- passing his special drink once he had worked up a sweat lol.

There is alway loopholes and I love twisting Sirs words against him, He says turn around , I do a 360.

He is smart though knows how to handle me and knows I will always obey him in the end.

I take no responsibility if anyone uses any idea aforementioned and receives consequences. "

You sound utter perfection. Although the malt vinegar switch might have a step to far.....my palate is sacred

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Who enjoys playing with a cheeky brat who likes to tease or taunt answer back to you? How many brats are on fab?

Or do you prefer a obedient submissive who's does as she is told? Who is a obedient sub on fab?

My subspace is almost non verbal so I’m definitely not a brat x

Almost non verbal, definitely a brat.

Hehe

There’s a quiet calmness to my subspace, a euphoric elation that takes me beyond words. It takes a special set of circumstances to take me there x

You mean like overpowering sensual stimulation over powering your conscious awareness?"

Absolutely it’s an awesome set of sensations, I can be in that space for hours it wonderful x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love playing with a cheeky one - means I can get more restraints out!

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By *assunachWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere over the rainbow...

I am undoubtedly a cheeky brat. I have yet to play with a sub as bratty as I am. I love pushing my luck and feeling the full force of a firm hand round my neck or spanking my ass. I think I like to test whether a Dom will be truly dominant or a pushover. The later turns me off faster than a light switch.

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By *ommenhimCouple
over a year ago

wigan

"Personally when in proper submissive mode (as opposed to kink play on an equal footing) I can't imagine being bratty - I tend to go into quite serious and focussed mode when I submit and that wouldn't fit with brattiness "

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By *rhugesMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

Love a submissive brat, so many ways to rectify their behaviour

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By *andKBCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth

Im a fully fledged BRAT!! Yes it puts people off. But I dont care.

I also have manners so if someone dislikes it on a meet I stop

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m a bit of both but my bratty side comes out when I’m really comfortable with someone!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Brat for me!

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By *inkycreamCouple
over a year ago

manchester

Submissive masochist.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am undoubtedly a cheeky brat. I have yet to play with a sub as bratty as I am. I love pushing my luck and feeling the full force of a firm hand round my neck or spanking my ass. I think I like to test whether a Dom will be truly dominant or a pushover. The later turns me off faster than a light switch. "
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enjoy the banter of a feisty woman

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By *oco_devilleWoman
over a year ago

Canterbury

100% Brat with a praise kink, here

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By *landfordfabbersCouple
over a year ago

Blandford ish

I can be both, I think when I’ve slept well and had a couple drinks I’m cocky and bratty

When I’m tired or a more relaxed I’m more obedient

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m a bit of both but my bratty side comes out when I’m really comfortable with someone! "

This for me too, it can be fun then, plus I’m more likely to be myself and feel comfortable enough to show it.

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By *olly_AmberTV/TS
over a year ago

Live Sussex, Work London

I’m more bratty in the hope I get more punishment normally!

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By *aby girl32Woman
over a year ago

Leigh lancs

I'm bratty for sure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely obedient sub here. I love having all the control taken away. Being able to trust the Dom(me) to keep to pre set limits.

Once that trust is gained I will let go and release all control. It's a very liberating feeling to once in a while escape into sub-space!

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By *ot4funcoupleCouple
over a year ago

South Wales

Wife is definitely a brat

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By *iggles and BeardyCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

Bratt every time

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By *ittyndCouple
over a year ago

Oldham/Birmingham

I’m obedient one xxx

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By *rotic desiresWoman
over a year ago

Here and there

Depends on who I'm with and what they release in me

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By *otwife_Couple24Couple
over a year ago

All over

I love being a brat!

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By *aeganaWoman
over a year ago

birmingham

110% brat me sir is the only man so far to ever make me kinda behave haha

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By *mmortalValkyrieWoman
over a year ago

From a galaxy far far away

"I'm very much a bratty sub. I love to be cheeky and fight back so to speak, but ultimately want a dominant man to have his way. Xx"

Same... I dare you to try to tame me.... saying that is a great way to earn spanks too

lol

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By *aptain Caveman41Man
over a year ago

Home

"110% brat me sir is the only man so far to ever make me kinda behave haha"
100% going by how wild your video are

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By *hoirCouple
over a year ago

Clacton/Bury St. Edmunds

"Who enjoys playing with a cheeky brat who likes to tease or taunt answer back to you? How many brats are on fab?

Or do you prefer a obedient submissive who's does as she is told? Who is a obedient sub on fab?

During my years on the scene, I always preferred a brat. There is zero longterm fun in someone who obeys all the time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who doesn't love taming a brat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m both depending on how I feel, some days Beatty but other days I just want to be an obedient little sub

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m both depending on how I feel, some days Beatty but other days I just want to be an obedient little sub

*bratty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m just not natural at brat play plus I’m naturally submissive

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By *issyfaggotfayeTV/TS
over a year ago

Bolton

I can be a bit of both, I'll answer back and be disobedient just to get punished

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Brat just means needing more attention

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is a good read

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

A brat usually means spanking, so I like a brat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bratty sub here xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely bratty here - it’s a great game getting to trigger a Somme to get just what I need

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

Mrs Misfit is a bit of a handful and often gets her self into trouble with me. Be it with her smart mouth or acts of silent disobedience or when she gives me that look of insolence in her eyes. She knows what she's doing and that she'll get the correction from me she seeks. It's a dynamic that works great for both of us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Bratty sub here xx"

Pity am too old to message

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By *ubandsubCouple
over a year ago

Middlesbrough

I have a bratty sub, she can be cheeky at times.

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By *rhugesMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

I used to have a bratty sub ,much prefer that

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By *avexxlMan
over a year ago

local

I like a bratty sub

Still looking for long term play partner

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By *asha86Couple
over a year ago

walsall

Tash is a bratty sub and have to say she certainly keeps you on your toes lol

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By *asha86Couple
over a year ago

walsall

"Who enjoys playing with a cheeky brat who likes to tease or taunt answer back to you? How many brats are on fab?

Or do you prefer a obedient submissive who's does as she is told? Who is a obedient sub on fab?

During my years on the scene, I always preferred a brat. There is zero longterm fun in someone who obeys all the time.

Totally agree with this comment!

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By *ensualMan
over a year ago

Sutton

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely a brat here

Mrs x

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple
over a year ago

Neath valley.

I am a brat when me and john play. But i do pay for it though. Last time i had a riding crop slapping my pussy lips. But i do enjoy pushing back at him sometimes to raise the game

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer an obedient submissive.

With brat play, the brat needs to know what she is doing and what the repercussions of her behaviour will be. Otherwise, I just find it annoying.

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By *asha86Couple
over a year ago

walsall

I enjoy pushing someone's buttons and having them push back whether that be with words or play as both are foreplay to me. Yes I will submit but I won't and don't always do it eagerly.....it has to be earnt. xT

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