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To wink or not to wink?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

That is the question

When you click on other profiles and see someone you like do you..

1) Wink

2) Message

3) Fab a photo

4) do nothing and hope they contact you because you looked at them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll usually wink or fab, I'll send a message if I'm confident

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick

I will normally wink, just to hint that I'm interested and it 'may' get them checking my profile. It's quicker and easier for both of us than a message. If they wrinkled back, I would then send a message.

I would send a message if I'm not busy and have the head space to write one that doesn't make me look like a fool Also, they would need something in the photos or profiles that I could comment on. It's hard sending a good message to an empty profile.

I'll fab photos that I like, but just because I like them. If I get anything in return, that's a pleasant surprise.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m a winker, I only really message if they look at my profile or wink me.

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By *J GeminiTV/TS
over a year ago

Northumberland

I wink as a to see if there is any interest ,

Xx

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By *layful Couple For YouCouple
over a year ago

Lust

We generally wink first, as a statement of attraction. If the wink is returned then we always follow it up with a message to see if we can strike up that rapport that’s needed to actually meet up for some fun.

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By *eventysixCouple
over a year ago

glossop

Fab or wink from us or both

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By *hat_alt_coupleCouple
over a year ago

near you

Wink fab and send a message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All 3

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By *etwifeandhim69Couple
over a year ago

Darlington


"That is the question

When you click on other profiles and see someone you like do you..

1) Wink

2) Message

3) Fab a photo

4) do nothing and hope they contact you because you looked at them?"

Depends.

If they're far away we just fab a photo and thats it.

If they're local-ish then we will message (this comes with the caveat that they're a verified account in some manner).

If they're not verified in any manner but are new, we might wink and leave it up to them. If they have been on the site some time (like a couple of years) we do nothing under the assumption they're just perving.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends, if I really fancy someone I try and wink but happens that my category is blocked on the other hand which sucks x (tho it happened that they saw and unblocked so we could message)

Sometimes I also leave some fabs on pics and see if I get the attention that way x

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By *hatalovelypairCouple
over a year ago

South Wales

We tend to wink if browsing profiles to see if they wink back.

If so, we will always follow up with a message.

Sometimes though if we really like the profile we will message straight away without winking.

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By *eldomVanillaMan
over a year ago

London

I send a wink to show some interest.

I rarely mail nowadays x

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By *urious1973Man
over a year ago

angus

I very rarely get a response to a wink x but i like to receive them x

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By *valanche1001Man
over a year ago

Leeds

I tend to assume that, for the most part winks and fabs go unnoticed (if the ladies are getting 100’s of mails, just imagine the number of winks & fabs!)

If i think there’s a chance of a response it’s always got to be a message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tend to wink..... as an invite to take a peek at my profile.....if they wink and i like ill say hi guess i shouldn't wink really of they are ignored...

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By *MCMan
over a year ago

London/EA

Some don’t like winks, however I usually use them as like an ice breaker - if I get one back I follow up with a message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I ignore winks

Much prefer a message

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.


"That is the question

When you click on other profiles and see someone you like do you..

1) Wink

2) Message

3) Fab a photo

4) do nothing and hope they contact you because you looked at them?"

1 followed by 3 on every single pic they have, followed by 2 every 30 minutes. Then 4 after they've blocked you.

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By *educerMan
over a year ago

Brentwood

A wink tends to show interest

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By *ananas57Couple
over a year ago

lake ariel

I wink

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By *AYENCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

Best to message, what's the worst that can happen? At least you know rather than just left wondering.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mostly wink or fab. Been on here long enough to know the pitfalls of unsolicited messages

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By *oublesixesMan
over a year ago

Corby

Fab and/or message

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By *exandthesuburbans83Couple
over a year ago

EASTBOURNE

We just message them to say hi. Simpler

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By *attoo manMan
over a year ago

Rhyl

wink loads of times. But never get a wink back or a message. Must be winking wrong. lol

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By *ustathingMan
over a year ago

Reading

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By *ustathingMan
over a year ago

Reading

I'll drop a wink, and fab a pic if it caught my eye...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wink, fab and message if they reciprocate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wink

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By *ooo wet tight hornyWoman
over a year ago

lancashire

I like to wink and fab a nice pic and video....

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By *his_Kitty_ScratchesWoman
over a year ago

WSM

I don’t follow up winks, I take it just as a nod that someone liked my profile same with fabbed pictures. I usually have a look at the profile and if I like what I see I fab a picture or two. I think I’ve only ever sent one or two winks and one or two initial messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll wink, fab some pics and send a message

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

To me fabbing a photo means you like the photo, nothing more. I wouldn't ever contact someone following a fab.

A wink is fine but if you're interested, I would rather you sent me a message.

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

If I'm interested in someone, I message them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not everyone will be the same.

We would say message with some really decent effort and if you get a response, keep going with the effort.

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By *ain and sortedMan
over a year ago

Old Harlow Essex

I may be tge biggest winker on here haha, i will wink if i think maybe im out there league or to show im interested, fab a few pics and if its a nice profile i willsend a nice message, time permitting, i know people on here get lots ofmessages and silly messages so we all get mass deleted, thats understandable, so having a wink, one of my 5 a day keeps my hand in haha x

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