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By *herrystar OP   Woman
over a year ago

birmingham

Hi all

If you've never been to a club before but are interested in going along and finding out if it's for you, what's the best way to approach it?

Thanks for your advice (oh and for those of you that are tempted to say approach it on your back with your legs in the air, not QUITE what I meant!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

go with someone who has been before and is a friend if possible

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The first time I went I went with a couple I'd played with before. It was ideal as I had them there to be my friends and look out for me, but wasn't in a 'couple' myself so could play if I wanted.

Totally depends on how confident you are, the experiences I have had clubs seem to be very nice places with no pressure put on you at all.

Hope you enjoy however you get there xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The first time I visited a club, I was part of a couple and we were voyeurs.

But the first train outa Kings Cross the following morning could have had some great CCTV footage

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

The first time you go, just go to look and get a sense of the place. If you think you might be tempted then don't shave for a week before - that way you'll be less likely to do anything (presumably!)

Then the second time:

You know your way around

You know what to expect

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi all

If you've never been to a club before but are interested in going along and finding out if it's for you, what's the best way to approach it?

Thanks for your advice (oh and for those of you that are tempted to say approach it on your back with your legs in the air, not QUITE what I meant!)"

what club are you planning on going to? i live close to you, im a single straight female so im not offering because im expecting anything from you, but id be happy to go along with you first time so your not alone, i go to a few of the local ones if you fancy someone whos only offering out of friendship to tag along with

feel free to get back to me if you want x

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