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By *rMrs B OP   Couple
over a year ago

Plymouth

Hi all just testing the water would you guys wear a discrete pin badge to the the pub to let other swingers know that you were on the scene if they had there badges on with the possibility of starting to chat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi all just testing the water would you guys wear a discrete pin badge to the the pub to let other swingers know that you were on the scene if they had there badges on with the possibility of starting to chat. "

That's a really good idea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I probably would. Not all the time but yeah.

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By *iman2100Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

There was a time they said pampas grass in the front garden was a sign.

I had it at my house before I started swinging, not knowing what it was supposed to indicate. I often got strange looks from people who did not know me.

Whatever we have to identify ourselves the vanilla people will hear about it and they will start to point.

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

I'm sure this has been discussed before.

Not a great idea.

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By *ud and BryanCouple
over a year ago

Boston, Lincolnshire

We would, in fact we've been looking for some decent Fab lolly pins

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's a great idea ..... make it something that doesn't seem to obvious to others not in the lifestyle

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

No as a refusal often offends

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By *issAphroditeWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

As if women don't get hard enough time already from men who think we're here to be objectified, let alone wearing a badge that to some, would be interpreted as "up for it" and being fair game.

I wouldn't be at all surprised if the visibility of such a badge would be used as a defence in a sexual assault case. Seriously.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

No. Difficult to get away politely if someone you don't fancy thinks you are up for it because you are wearing a swingers pin badge.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Swingers don’t need badges to recognise other swingers.

They have outlets and places to find their crushes.

While out in public, they exercise an old-fashioned thing called discretion. Or used to.

Swingers probably still do. “End-aways” evidently do not

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I can't see a problem with the people who want to wear a badge wearing one. It wouldn't cause a problem for those of us who choose not to. I'm guessing it would be optional

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

Upside down pineapple badge?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Upside down pineapple badge? "

Actually that could work

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By *olymalelincsMan
over a year ago

southend


"No as a refusal often offends "

Not the way it should be but sadly you are right some people do seem to have an issue with being told no even politely

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

I saw a man in Leeds city centre today carrying a pineapple in his hand. Should I have approached him and asked for a quick shag behind the bins at the back of the market ?

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By *ollydoesWoman
over a year ago

Shangri-La

No I wouldnt wear one. I like to keep this side separate. I would also hate to spot people I dont want to spot wearing one. People would find out what it means anyway and then it would be pointless as hardly discreet. I just going around asking if anyone is fabulous on a friday night. No one will know...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No I wouldnt wear one. I like to keep this side separate. I would also hate to spot people I dont want to spot wearing one. People would find out what it means anyway and then it would be pointless as hardly discreet. I just going around asking if anyone is fabulous on a friday night. No one will know... "

I actually dropped that into a conversation with a professional connection on LinkedIn - “have a FAB weekend” - she totally got it!

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By *ollydoesWoman
over a year ago

Shangri-La


"No I wouldnt wear one. I like to keep this side separate. I would also hate to spot people I dont want to spot wearing one. People would find out what it means anyway and then it would be pointless as hardly discreet. I just going around asking if anyone is fabulous on a friday night. No one will know...

I actually dropped that into a conversation with a professional connection on LinkedIn - “have a FAB weekend” - she totally got it! "

and...

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By *ylonlickMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

Yes most definitely.

Let’s make this happen

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By *N69Man
over a year ago

nantwich


"Hi all just testing the water would you guys wear a discrete pin badge to the the pub to let other swingers know that you were on the scene if they had there badges on with the possibility of starting to chat. "

Would make it easier, don’t some swinger clubs do something like that. Colour bands if you are playing and how ?

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

No I wouldn't wear one anyhow . If I'm interested in someone I'd contact them on here .

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By *he Cram-BetweensCouple
over a year ago

A Club or Your Bedroom!

I've just found fab lolly badges on t'bay.... they've found there way into my basket already

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have noticed a big change on this site especially when I had my single profile guys don’t take rejection well I honestly think just because you’re a woman looking for sex we will just shag anyone the abuse I’ve had is ridiculous wearing a badge in public would be a nightmare x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is this Matt Hancock? Hahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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