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What do you define as Kinky?

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By *eparrain1 OP   Man
over a year ago

Stone

To me , it is anything that is not vanilla?

Am I correct?

Please share your opinion!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What do you define as vanilla?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What is kinky to one can be normal to next. I had ex that thought oral or stocking etc was bit too kinky. I had ex that thought anal,spanking,etc was just vanilla so no straight answer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My husband says....

"It is only kinky the first time"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One Mans kink is anothers vanilla & vice-versa...........

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By *eparrain1 OP   Man
over a year ago

Stone


"What do you define as vanilla?"

Grteat question. An open debate!

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By *eparrain1 OP   Man
over a year ago

Stone


"My husband says....

"It is only kinky the first time""

Yes

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By *eparrain1 OP   Man
over a year ago

Stone


"One Mans kink is anothers vanilla & vice-versa..........."

It is very personal!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The Stelvio Pass.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Using a feather during sex is erotic, using the whole chicken is kinky!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Using a feather during sex is erotic, using the whole chicken is kinky! "

kink is a spectrum. whole chickens sits somewhere towards the extreme end

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The Stelvio Pass."

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By *eparrain1 OP   Man
over a year ago

Stone


"Using a feather during sex is erotic, using the whole chicken is kinky! "

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By *inkybiblackMan
over a year ago

Leyton

If you have to think twice about it; would you feel judged, you’re unsure how you’ll be perceived, you think some people might find it weird or disgusting or very hot then that’s kink.

It’s situational though, kink activities amongst fabbers will have a higher bar than the woman you met on Tinder.

I met a few kinky women in my 20s -they knew they needed to be spanked or have public sex but were brazen and no nonsense about their sexual needs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doing it with the lights on

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire


"To me , it is anything that is not vanilla?

Am I correct?

Please share your opinion!"

Doing it whilst watch ‘cash in the attic’

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By *inky_CarpenterMan
over a year ago

Portsmouth

By the standards of Sexualy normative society I'm pretty Kinky But by Fab standards I sometimes feel a bit Vanilla

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By *onb21Woman
over a year ago

Cardiff


"What do you define as vanilla?

Grteat question. An open debate!"

P in v, missionary (speaking for straight people only).

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By *rive u crazyMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

We are all kinky. Aren't we weird moaning, sweating, showing bits of bodies that everyone has? But that's fabulous

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have had guys say that I am very kinky, but I think it's just normal fun.

So what I am saying is all depends on the person's perspective. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To me , it is anything that is not vanilla?

Am I correct?

Please share your opinion!"

What some people call vanilla will massively vary.

What some people call kinky will massively vary.

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

The next step up to a new norm’.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t care either way, if it feels good just do it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One person's link is another's vanilla we are different and should embrace our individuality

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To me , it is anything that is not vanilla?

Am I correct?

Please share your opinion!"
anything that shocks a pervert??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was once told the definition of kinky is.....

Erotic is the feather, kinky is the whole chicken......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To me , it is anything that is not vanilla?

Am I correct?

Please share your opinion!anything that shocks a pervert??"

Perversion is about perception...

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By *ensualMan
over a year ago

Sutton

I heard Lee Harrington on a podcast say as follows.

If he is invited to a party at a swinging club he asks what is the kinkiest thing that has happened at the club. If the answer is that a woman has been tied up f*cked and spanked, he knew to leave his bag of knives and needles at home.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Reminds me of a Jimmy Carr stand-up show.

Some guy in the audience talks about pegging.

Jimmy: What the fuck is pegging?

That guy: It's when your girlfriend wears a dildo and does your up your arse.

Jimmy: You mean foreplay?

It's a very subjective thing. But still there are certain things which can be objectively called kinky. Like spanking, bondage and suspension. It's very hard to draw a line between vanilla and kink though.

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By *eparrain1 OP   Man
over a year ago

Stone


"Reminds me of a Jimmy Carr stand-up show.

Some guy in the audience talks about pegging.

Jimmy: What the fuck is pegging?

That guy: It's when your girlfriend wears a dildo and does your up your arse.

Jimmy: You mean foreplay?

It's a very subjective thing. But still there are certain things which can be objectively called kinky. Like spanking, bondage and suspension. It's very hard to draw a line between vanilla and kink though."

Why hard?

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