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By *amei OP   Man
over a year ago

Aviemore

Theres to many fakes or rude people. They say read my profile and you do what they say. In the end they just delete and block you. Ruins the site for everyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wouldn’t worry, it’s like the rubbish taking itself out x

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"Theres to many fakes or rude people. They say read my profile and you do what they say. In the end they just delete and block you. Ruins the site for everyone "

How does it ruin the site for everyone? Just because you've read their profile and *think* you match, doesn't mean they think you're a good match too, nor does it entitle you to even a reply.

Site FAQs are clear that no reply should be taken as a no thank you.

Rather than blaming others for your perceived lack of "success" from the site, perhaps take a look at what you could do differently or how you could enhance your experience?

There are many ways you could do this, all within your control, for example revamping your profile and pics, or taking a different approach to the site, or re-setting expectations etc

While it's easy to look at what others are doing and point a finger, sometimes you have to look closer to home for the answers.

Good luck though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why does it matter if they block you, if you aren't what they are looking for?

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By *amei OP   Man
over a year ago

Aviemore


"Theres to many fakes or rude people. They say read my profile and you do what they say. In the end they just delete and block you. Ruins the site for everyone

How does it ruin the site for everyone? Just because you've read their profile and *think* you match, doesn't mean they think you're a good match too, nor does it entitle you to even a reply.

Site FAQs are clear that no reply should be taken as a no thank you.

Rather than blaming others for your perceived lack of "success" from the site, perhaps take a look at what you could do differently or how you could enhance your experience?

There are many ways you could do this, all within your control, for example revamping your profile and pics, or taking a different approach to the site, or re-setting expectations etc

While it's easy to look at what others are doing and point a finger, sometimes you have to look closer to home for the answers.

Good luck though "

In there profile they saud they will guarantee a reply even if it's a no thanks.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"Theres to many fakes or rude people. They say read my profile and you do what they say. In the end they just delete and block you. Ruins the site for everyone

How does it ruin the site for everyone? Just because you've read their profile and *think* you match, doesn't mean they think you're a good match too, nor does it entitle you to even a reply.

Site FAQs are clear that no reply should be taken as a no thank you.

Rather than blaming others for your perceived lack of "success" from the site, perhaps take a look at what you could do differently or how you could enhance your experience?

There are many ways you could do this, all within your control, for example revamping your profile and pics, or taking a different approach to the site, or re-setting expectations etc

While it's easy to look at what others are doing and point a finger, sometimes you have to look closer to home for the answers.

Good luck though

In there profile they saud they will guarantee a reply even if it's a no thanks."

So what difference would a reply saying "No thanks" have made over a deleted message?

Whilst I agree that if that had been said then a reply would have been polite, it ultimately wouldn't have made any difference.

Either way try and look at it as a positive that you've not actually lost anything by it, and just move on to the next profile that catches your eye.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Theres to many fakes or rude people. They say read my profile and you do what they say. In the end they just delete and block you. Ruins the site for everyone

How does it ruin the site for everyone? Just because you've read their profile and *think* you match, doesn't mean they think you're a good match too, nor does it entitle you to even a reply.

Site FAQs are clear that no reply should be taken as a no thank you.

Rather than blaming others for your perceived lack of "success" from the site, perhaps take a look at what you could do differently or how you could enhance your experience?

There are many ways you could do this, all within your control, for example revamping your profile and pics, or taking a different approach to the site, or re-setting expectations etc

While it's easy to look at what others are doing and point a finger, sometimes you have to look closer to home for the answers.

Good luck though

In there profile they saud they will guarantee a reply even if it's a no thanks."

Maybe they changed their minds but not their profile... Maybe they didn't think you put in enough effort with your message... Maybe you didn't do something they wanted... Maybe you did something they didn't... Who cares?! You can't always get what you want and you could always look at it as a lucky escape from people you wouldn't like anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can be rude in a sexual way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can be rude in a sexual way "

Oohhh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve had nasty people talk to me just f… then off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

I delete and block anyone I'm clearly not interested in as i get inundated with messages from people I never be interested in. Don't take it personally, not everyone you meet on the street wants to sleep with you, why you think on here will be different? Especially as women have tons of choice.

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

How is deleting and blocking rude ? They didn't reply I don't think that is rude they were obviously not interested in you so blocked you from being able to message again. None of that is rude. Sending an abusive message would have been rude

Just because you thought you were a good match doesn't mean they thought the same.

I understand it's tougher for men on here and not getting replies must be very frustrating but that's the site and it's not going to change.All you can do is deal with how you react to it. One of the easiest ways is to delete your sent messages after you sent them therefore you're not constantly checking to see if they have been read or deleted .

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