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Looks vs personality

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Tricky question to put politely. Who here has had an amazing experience with someone who they didn’t initially find attractive but their personality was?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldnt have sex with someone who I didn't fancy physically, no amount of personality can change that.

Equally I wouldnt have sex with someone attractive but with a shit personality.

Ultimately they are both important.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Many times.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ha that old chestnut!

Well from my experience of women and couples off here that live in my search area, they'd go for looks everytime.

Even if the looker is the most wooden person in the world in bed.

That's not really changed in the twelve or so years I've been on here.

Next....lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is never just one thing. There has to be a mixture but if we had to choose one it would be personality every time.

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By *irty Fun GuyMan
over a year ago

Kidderminster

You have to fancy the other people first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There needs to be some attraction for me, but personality is more important xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say chemisty and how someone carries themselves can be more attractive than looks.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I'm shallow, I won't have sex with someone I don't find attractive.

I try not to infer personality from looks because when it comes to friendship and a person's worth to me or indeed themselves, physicality is irrelevant. Therefore I don't assume good looking people have ugly personalities and vice versa.

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By *tue555Man
over a year ago

Passed Beyond Reach


"Ha that old chestnut!

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Do like answers to these questions cos they are all ...

Nobody in the history of dating has gone phwor look at the personality on that.

Physical attraction always. Personality doesn't come into it unless your looking for a long term nest builder

Breader vs Nest Builders

Many human behaviour studies over the years have proved this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No... I need both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ha that old chestnut!

Well from my experience of women and couples off here that live in my search area, they'd go for looks everytime.

Even if the looker is the most wooden person in the world in bed.

That's not really changed in the twelve or so years I've been on here.

Next....lol"

How do you know the lookers are wooden in bed? And neither looks or personLity Guarentee a good shag... Just that you find them attractive enough to want to find out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

*personality... *guarantee... Ffs!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldnt have sex with someone who I didn't fancy physically, no amount of personality can change that.

Equally I wouldnt have sex with someone attractive but with a shit personality.

Ultimately they are both important."

This for both of us

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By *antric ecstasyMan
over a year ago

Co Durham

Personality comes first. It is what makes people attractive ahead of any physical type.

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

Obviously the first bite is with the eye. But my attraction tends to grow or wane the more I get to speak to and know someone. My attraction is very strong to women who I share an personality or intelligence based connection. Although if she happens to be a bit chunky, with wide hips, a nice big arse, warm smile and a twinkle in her eye then that's a great bonus too.

(Mr)

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By *nfinitylandMan
over a year ago

Leicester

When meeting someone for sex I rarely care how they look, I just want the kind of sex im into. It may sound shallow but im here for a good time. Only thing that would absolutely put me off is poor hygiene

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