FabSwingers.com forum: Does sex drive increase/decrease with age?

By *eetaguy OP Man
over a year ago

South East

Genuine question and there's probably no better place to ask it than here.

In both men and women how does our sex drive change as we get older?

I image it will differ from person to person but interested as a general rule of thumb...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ours has gone up, depends on situations! Also depends on the person you are with? And what you do sexually. ??

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By *uitednbooted2Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

I can’t speak for others but mine has been highest it’s ever been for the last 5-6 years .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine has gone through the roof

Ha ha

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I think for many older people it becomes more about interesting and erotic encounters rather than frequency of fucks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it does . From people I know irl a lot of women loose libido when they hit menopause.. no rule of thumb mind .

Im going through a chemically induced menopause and have never felt hornier

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine's gone up

My wife's has gone down

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Mine has always been super high.It's a blessing and a curse

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By *eaderMan
over a year ago

Shropshire

Definitely mine has gone up as I've got older but my wife's has done the opposite unfortunately!!

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By *ikilovesCCouple
over a year ago

village life, closest main town inverness

We don't have sex as often as we used to when we were young,

but we probably have longer sessions now, with more play than before

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By *aughtycp1Couple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

Mine has increased

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine has always been high, but it seems to have increased lately...

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By *ltra72Man
over a year ago

edinburgh

"Mine has gone through the roof

Ha ha

Mines gone up after looking at your pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For us it has increased, and got better, age brings experiance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine has gone sky high. Divorced so my hands are busy at the moment haha xx

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

HRT made mine shoot up.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

For me I’d say age doesn’t determine it. It diminishes the longer I go without and increases when I am seeing someone

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By *eetaguy OP Man
over a year ago

South East

Thanks for the genuine responses everyone. Interesting to know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At 40 my sex drive has gone through the roof im lucky i dont work so can chase women evey day for sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

More for me if I could get any lol

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By *inks_n_GigglesMan
over a year ago

Basingstoke

I don't think its age (so much) more circumstance...

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By *elshcouple18Couple
over a year ago

Cardiff

Ours still going strong. Can't go 3 or 4 times like we used to In a day, but very sexual ly active.

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By *ex-BombsCouple
over a year ago

Flitwick

I’ve always been a total nympho

love it Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Genuine question and there's probably no better place to ask it than here.

In both men and women how does our sex drive change as we get older?

I image it will differ from person to person but interested as a general rule of thumb..."

Mine has always been through the roof at every age since being sexually active.

It's only slowed down recently and I think that's a confidence thing. I know if I lost the lockdown weight (no excuses, I'm unmotivated) that my sex drive would be back through the roof and I'd be meeting actively again.

I still masturbate a few times a day but is that a sex drive or just getting horny, I don't know?

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By *as_no_ideaWoman
over a year ago

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The older I get, the higher it gets....

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By *arkus1812Man
over a year ago

Lifes departure lounge NN9 Northamptonshire East not West MidlandsMidlands

"I think for many older people it becomes more about interesting and erotic encounters rather than frequency of fucks. "

Very much so

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

Ours, we have broken previous records in terms of hours spent in bed, most orgasms…we feel that one of us will have to pass out for us to stop having so much sex…

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

Yes...

Everyone is different and I expect most people's sex drive varies during their life, depending on a variety of factors.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have found that since turning 45 my sex drive has increased significantly although in saying that being with someone who knows what he is doing also helps a lot

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