FabSwingers.com forum: Best Blow Job Technique

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Stats show that 53% of men say that’s it is actually very difficult orgasm if it’s purely oral unless their partner has a fantastic technique. Take some time below and write down what your BJ technique actually is …. There might be some good advice on the way!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don’t forget the balls!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Enjoy what you are doing.

I reckon that's the secret

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Every guy is different but my 'technique' if you will consists of lips, tongue, deep throat and a twist stroke.

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By *inky_CarpenterMan
over a year ago

Portsmouth

I wouldn't worry so much about technique.... Nothing makes a BJ better than knowing and feeling that your partner is getting genuine pleasure from sucking your cock. Communicate through words, sounds and body language that you are getting off on sucking his cock and he'll be in heaven.

Throw in a little stroking and be careful not to nick his head with your teeth, and communicate about where you want him to cum so that he can just relax and enjoy....

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By *wistedTooCouple
over a year ago

Frimley

Balls deep throating while using tongue on balls below at the deepest part…. Also, if you’re into it, let him use your throat like a pussy and fuck it… loads of various ways to make a guy cum whilst sucking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Twisting tongue around my bellend usually works

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By *cooby5555Man
over a year ago

galway

Get a man to perform the act end of??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Slow and steady wins the race .

Rough and pulling foreskin won't get you anywhere.

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"Get a man to perform the act end of??"

Personally, I can't think of anything worse.

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By *hoot45Man
over a year ago

Ramsgate

This thread is about technique not who

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"Slow and steady wins the race .

Rough and pulling foreskin won't get you anywhere. "

For me, I want a lady's motive to be making me feel good not making me cum, the first bit is what makes the second bit happen.

Cal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never failed to cum threw bj, for me it's the eye contact, noise and sloppiness lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Slow and steady wins the race .

Rough and pulling foreskin won't get you anywhere.

For me, I want a lady's motive to be making me feel good not making me cum, the first bit is what makes the second bit happen.

Cal"

This makes a lot of sense!

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Every guy is different, so try out different strokes and speed with the mouth. I think ultimately to make majority of guys cum would be with enough speed and grip so if you aren’t allowed to use hands then tighten the lips and try make it wet as and possible use the roof of the mouth and go fast.

Or I made some cum from them deep throating me I guess it feels good for some

Either way, even if I don’t make every guy cum for a bj purely on oral alone, I know that everything I do is eye rolling it feels so good x

Its not a one size fit all, so just explore and be patient and I think overall, what makes the Best Bj is:

Dedication and actually enjoy it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Slow and steady wins the race .

Rough and pulling foreskin won't get you anywhere.

For me, I want a lady's motive to be making me feel good not making me cum, the first bit is what makes the second bit happen.

Cal"

Also totally true! X

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By *phrodite_AdonisCouple
over a year ago

Suck, don’t blow

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By *razyjohnMan
over a year ago

derby

Slow and steady sloppy bj with her fingering my prostate got me explode everytime! Heaven!

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By *hoot45Man
over a year ago

Ramsgate

Wet and smooth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve never encountered a technique as such that makes for a superior bj. I think people over complicate what is essentially a very simple act.

As with all sex the key to making it great is simply enthusiasm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer slow and sensual. My missus has a brilliant technique.

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By *rMrsBrightsideCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle

I don't think I have a technique. I just get down there and enjoy what I'm doing. I don't rush and vary what I do. As long as they seem to be enjoying it too then I'm happy.

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By *b1976Man
over a year ago

wigan

I like it when the gf uses her teeth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ve never encountered a technique as such that makes for a superior bj. I think people over complicate what is essentially a very simple act.

As with all sex the key to making it great is simply enthusiasm"

Spot on. I've cum from BJs where it's evident she's really into it and enjoying it, whether that's for her own sake or because she enjoys how much she's turning me on (I think for most women it's the latter and the sense of power and I'm fine with that).

Best one I ever had (came so hard I actually phased out for a few seconds) was a combo of her wanking my shaft hard while sucking on my head equally hard, and when she felt me about to cum she did actually rake her teeth on my glans. Sounds weird I know and was probably accidental but the combination of intense pleasure, sharp pain and an incredibly powerful orgasm... I lost all sense of time and self.

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By *arciocialWoman
over a year ago

Leicester

"Suck, don’t blow "

? I've been doing it wrong all these years!

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By *678Man
over a year ago

Surrey

A tight grip, lots of eye contact, deep throating the entirety of it along with a LOT of saliva..

My balls are aching at the though..

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By *ovelaughliveCouple
over a year ago

Oldham

My favourite!! Love giving a guy oral

I like to jazz it up a bit lol, nice soft sucks, using my tongue to tease the end, then hard, and fast deep throating taking it all in my mouth till I gag

Mmmmmmmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I use a variety of techniques, but I've never failed to make a guy cum

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By *678Man
over a year ago

Surrey

"I use a variety of techniques, but I've never failed to make a guy cum

xx "

I want … x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Slow/fast mixin up speed

Gettin tha cock wet

Teasing them balls

Using your hand

Rhythem Rhythem Rythem

Sometimes a cheeky finger in or around ur ass hole

Moaning

Being able to gag....

I could go on haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Enjoy what you are doing.

I reckon that's the secret "

I second this. I don't have a "technique" I just love to do it and I guess it shows....

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By *ightower2021Man
over a year ago

donegal

"Enjoy what you are doing.

I reckon that's the secret "

This definitely the woman giving has to be enjoying giving thats what drives me over the edge anyway

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By *atty CoramWoman
over a year ago

Wimbledon

Making a guy cum seems counterproductive to me.

The moment someone makes it clear that their aim is to get to the 'end' as soon as possible, the enjoyment is curtailed.

I enjoy it. Put my heart and soul into it.

Once he's cum, I can't suck anymore.

Where's the fun in that?

Honestly sex is about so much more than cumming.

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

When C orgasms from giving me a BJ I think it’s safe to say she’s enjoying what she’s doing and I can relax and just enjoy every sensation.

Personally eye contact, mouth teasing and slow movement will get me cumming much faster than fast and rigorous

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By *aughtychopsCouple
over a year ago

Dartford

Wetter the better according to Mr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Making a guy cum seems counterproductive to me.

The moment someone makes it clear that their aim is to get to the 'end' as soon as possible, the enjoyment is curtailed.

I enjoy it. Put my heart and soul into it.

Once he's cum, I can't suck anymore.

Where's the fun in that?

Honestly sex is about so much more than cumming.

It really is

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yeah, no one believes that hahahahs

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

You win the award for best post. A great comment here.

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By *aughtycp1Couple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

I've not sucked many cocks that I haven't been able to make cum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lots of eye contact... teasing...deep throat...

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By *irty desireWoman
over a year ago

newcatle

I can’t give away my secret, sorry but theres a video showing it

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By *asycouple1971Couple
over a year ago

midlands

Wife has had a 100% success rate getting ppl to cum by bj.

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By *ackDorianMan
over a year ago

ashford

"I can’t give away my secret, sorry but theres a video showing it

… I approve

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Where did you get the stats? Blowjob scientists mag?

Ok if the guy can’t cum

- he’s wanking too much or watch too much porn

- she’s crap at it and need to learn

- tell her if it’s not working and direct the sucking the way you like it.

Just like going down on a woman, follow her direction, body reaction or read how to do it…

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By *eductiveEyesKillerThighsWoman
over a year ago

Nowhere & Everywhere

Get it wet, verging on sloppy. Eye contact over drive, make sure you let him know how much its turning you on.

Take it as deep as you can, as slow as you can. It's all in the tease.

If you want him to come, read his body as to what is working best for him, and add in more of that!

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By *d4funtimesMan
over a year ago

Cambridge

"Wife has had a 100% success rate getting ppl to cum by bj."

under the tongue of expert

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By *eiclad33Man
over a year ago

all over the country

I like to concentrate on the head lots of licking and sucking them let him go deep and I find that when he makes me gag he goes into overdrive.

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By *odgerMooreMan
over a year ago

Nowhere

"Enjoy what you are doing.

I reckon that's the secret "

This!!

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By *KentMan
over a year ago

Canterbury

Can’t beat utilising a twist stroke, and going pretty sloppy with the saliva too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Recently I enjoy it completely hands free. It totally accenuates what the mouth and tongue is doing.

Feels great if if pops out of their mouth and they have to scoop it back mouth only.

That's just me atm a snapshoot in time. Ask me a year ago and the answer would have been different.

Luckily K is a BJ master, unluckly for me having a 7 month old baby who is co sleeping with us has vastly reduced any BJs in my life currently lol.

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

"Stats show that 53% of men say that’s it is actually very difficult orgasm if it’s purely oral unless their partner has a fantastic technique. Take some time below and write down what your BJ technique actually is …. There might be some good advice on the way!!!"

Can you point me to where the stats are please?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mrs says she reacts based on my reaction & it's not the same every time. Generally though, she starts off licking, then sucking, then plays with my balls and then starts sucking and wanking me till I cum. As I breathe heavier, he quickens the pace. Shes gives the best head I've ever had

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By *d4funtimesMan
over a year ago

Cambridge

"Mrs says she reacts based on my reaction & it's not the same every time. Generally though, she starts off licking, then sucking, then plays with my balls and then starts sucking and wanking me till I cum. As I breathe heavier, he quickens the pace. Shes gives the best head I've ever had "

Wow, sound awesome ??

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