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Being put off a meet even if their hot ?

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By *ewismixedbbc OP   Man
over a year ago

birmingham

So what puts you off a meet ? Even if their hot . For me it can be who’s verified them, How about you ?

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Crude updates.

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

Attitude, behaviour, poor hygiene, misogyny, racism, bigotry... lots of things are a turn off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Attitude.

Chat.

Something they say.

If they have met women I can't compete with

Lots of things really

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Low self-esteem, an immature attitude to sex, the use of the word naughty or worse still nawty and chewing gum when they're talking to me

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By *ickdasterdly51Man
over a year ago

Lingfield

Pushy profiles detailing what they will and won't accept in a meet. I get that but they are trying to project themselves as nice people who you'd want to spend a couple of hours with.

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

loads of things put me off... the list is too long to write here

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By *ewismixedbbc OP   Man
over a year ago

birmingham

Theirs to many to list so I just put one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Attitude.

Chat.

Something they say.

If they have met women I can't compete with

Lots of things really"

One thing I need to point out you shouldn't think that you are competing with other women. You bring you to the table and if for any reason that isn't enough they're not worth it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Veris ….I’d say they spoil my attraction 99 percent of the time. My meets are rare because of this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just been put off meeting a hot local couple cause of how pushy they were

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North


"loads of things put me off... the list is too long to write here "

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By *man_4Man
over a year ago

London

Effort put into conversing. Responding with one word or two just makes it difficult to find a connection, and usually puts me off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not being able to hold a conversation, outdated attitudes and generally being pushy are my major turn offs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Asking for bareback and with a load of verifications because I my head I'd always question if they were bareback with all the previous people... just a bit icky for me

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By *rya MyneWoman
over a year ago

Sheffield

I've been instantly turned off by over use of "I bet you can't wait to see me naked" or "coming on your tits" say it once but every message was telling me the same thing. Gorgeous fit guy too. No meet

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By *Ci LutherMan
over a year ago

Cumalot

Lists of demands .. some profiles like a questionaire

Endless profiles … Next !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Attitude.

Chat.

Something they say.

If they have met women I can't compete with

Lots of things really"

You could compete with anyone x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't like people being pushy. Would rather chat and see if we click or not..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met a gorgeous guy about a year ago. I'd been looking forward to meeting him for a long long time. He was tall, handsome, smelled great, well dressed... But Jesus Christ it was the worst, most boring sex I ever had he asked for a repeat but I made sure it didn't happen

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By *xfordshireCoupleMFCouple
over a year ago

Nr. Oxford

Any mention of drugs, puts us completely off.

Lily

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Any mention of drugs, puts us completely off.

Lily "

Yes definitely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't care how hot they are, if they've got no chat or banter I just can't let them put their penis in me

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Too many things to list x

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By *isstinseltoesWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Being pushy or too crude

Sending me dick pics

Asking Wuu2 or wuin2,

Failing to read my profile

Being married /attached without permission.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Being married /attached without permission. "

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By *osweet69Couple
over a year ago

portsmouth

Gynaecological photo but we do try to keep an open mind. We have met people at socials/clubs who have been really lovely but had we seen their profile before we met them we would have ruled them out as not our type.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Veris ….I’d say they spoil my attraction 99 percent of the time. My meets are rare because of this "

Veris. You can't meet with them you don't get a meet without them.

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By *ardiffCoupleNJCouple
over a year ago

Pontypridd/Rhyfelin

Mirroring many other comments:

1. Attitude!

-For example someone (we've been chatting to), just had a Status update saying "is there really noone who wants to give me a blow job?". Blocked.

2. Contrary to the beliefs of many we do read profiles. Lazy profiles, or the 'will fill in later' (yet on Fabs for more than a year) put us right off.

"only looking for single fem", or "looking for single FWB" are very valid and makes it simple for us to skip onto the next profile without pointless messaging etc.

3. No public pics, will get overlooked (& messages no matter how pleasant get ignored). You can see us & we aren't going to chat with anyone without knowing if we might remotely want to meet with.

4. We like to see veris. We are not put off by veris. Everyone to their own. Not worried how many veris you've had, in fact we prefer if you've had plenty as it confers (some) degree of credibility and, on the whole, prefer profiles where veris are shown. That way we can recognise that someone who has only ever met others who are 25 years younger may not be looking to meet us (despite what their age range may be saying)!

Similarly if they've only met those with very differng body type, we'd probably feel the same way.

Neither are absolutes but they are good guides.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"Pushy profiles detailing what they will and won't accept in a meet. I get that but they are trying to project themselves as nice people who you'd want to spend a couple of hours with. "

Those profiles are generally written by people that have had enough of idiots doing to them what they say they don’t want.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely the people who have verified them, the number and frequency of verifications, crude pictures and language used on their status to name a few .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve often added a profile to our hotlist when they seem compatible only to be totally put off when I’ve read some of their forum posts/threads which bear no resemblance to the people they’ve portrayed themselves as.

V

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

It doesn’t matter if they’re hot or not. Being attractive is just one part of the puzzle. I can’t compromise on liking them, just because they’re attractive. I have to like them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So what puts you off a meet ? Even if their hot . For me it can be who’s verified them, How about you ? "
this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Them using the word "snowflake" as an insult... Or insulting people because they aren't what they are attracted to... Or because they think it will make me feel better about myself, or some other kinda horseshit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

being attracted for sex is only the beginning anything can go wrong after as someone as already said the list is too long for going wrong...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So I had this one couple, both seemed very hot to go with a CD (me) , but the guy seemed really pushy and when the "woman" finally entered the conversation "she" used exactly the same figures of speech and tone of voice (written) as him.

Now they may have been genuine and just so into each other they'd adopted the same style, but I got an instant red flag and put the brakes on. Also they had no conversation beyond how hot they both were, how much she squirted and he went like a sex Adonis blah blah.

Thanks but no thanks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Veris ….I’d say they spoil my attraction 99 percent of the time. My meets are rare because of this "

Same here... either because the people they have been meeting wouldn’t pass for me, or because the girls are way better than me.

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North


"It doesn’t matter if they’re hot or not. Being attractive is just one part of the puzzle. I can’t compromise on liking them, just because they’re attractive. I have to like them "

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

Someone once, as an intro message, asked if I wore a coil and could meet up tonight for a threesome

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

for me just attitude and lack of coms

nearly got stuck in birmingham after she said she could accom me then didn't talk and went to a different meet in london

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

talking like we know eachother already and telling me what they expect me to do to them... I could go on and on

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By *harlotteBigBoobsWoman
over a year ago

Hull

Lots of pics just of there cocks ,

100 + verifications and basically just been vulgar x

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By *axx82Man
over a year ago

Gloucester


"Attitude, behaviour, poor hygiene, misogyny, racism, bigotry... lots of things are a turn off."

Poor hygiene.

Racism

Behavior

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By *ischer400777Man
over a year ago

stanley county durham

There is nothing a lady or couple can put on there profile unless it is illegal or truly offensive that would put me off them if I find them attractive it would not bother me at all if they had no profile message I am here for sex not there interests or life story there are other places for that

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By *agan gentlemenMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Most of the above comments.

Slightly off topic but I feel is relivent

Although this is a new. Account I was here for 8 years pm the previous

It was commented a few times why are some veri hidden. As I only displayed group no play socails but occasionally they wanted the gritty details of 121. To me that sets off alarm bells as what goes on in my book is private between those involved

Infact it puts me off a person knowing what Tom dick n Harry ( somtimes within a few hrs of each other) did to them in graphic detail in the back of car

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

Attitude towards others, attitude, meets during Covid, smoking, bareback meets... there's a few

LvM

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Veris ….I’d say they spoil my attraction 99 percent of the time. My meets are rare because of this

Same here... either because the people they have been meeting wouldn’t pass for me, or because the girls are way better than me. "

It’s usually when they explain fully what they want….and their veris are very very different. It shows me that they will go with anyone that offers it too then. Not for me x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We’re not all the same…the more veris the less chance you have

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

Lack of effort beforehand and if i catch them in a lie.

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By *ir SupremacyMan
over a year ago

Bolton

A long list of pre conditions like I got job interview for NASA X

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By *ischer400777Man
over a year ago

stanley county durham


"Veris ….I’d say they spoil my attraction 99 percent of the time. My meets are rare because of this

Same here... either because the people they have been meeting wouldn’t pass for me, or because the girls are way better than me. That is a very sweeping generalisation x

It’s usually when they explain fully what they want….and their veris are very very different. It shows me that they will go with anyone that offers it too then. Not for me x"

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By *ollydoesWoman
over a year ago

Shangri-La

Flip flops. Don't care how hot you are.

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By *ischer400777Man
over a year ago

stanley county durham

I saw a guy yesterday who had over 30 veris women and couples praising him to the hilt etc I have never been so jealous in all my life he was a sex god a exceptional male

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By *ollydoesWoman
over a year ago

Shangri-La


"Veris ….I’d say they spoil my attraction 99 percent of the time. My meets are rare because of this

Same here... either because the people they have been meeting wouldn’t pass for me, or because the girls are way better than me.

It’s usually when they explain fully what they want….and their veris are very very different. It shows me that they will go with anyone that offers it too then. Not for me x"

Does that apply to the women to. Only some of my veries are from people I've met that don't fit into what I say on my profile, but I certainly don't go with just anyone.

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By *ischer400777Man
over a year ago

stanley county durham


"We’re not all the same…the more veris the less chance you have "
it is easy for you to say that you are a incredibly attractive woman men lusting over you every day mere mortals have to take whatever chance they can xxx

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By *manaWoman
over a year ago

Basingstoke

Rudeness. Telling me what you're going(!!) To do to me. Hate it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rudeness, being polite costs nothing

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Entitlement.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

More than 4 veris shown on their profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Low literacy

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By *manaWoman
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"More than 4 veris shown on their profile."

I'm out.

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By *etwifeandhim69Couple
over a year ago

Darlington

2 things.

1) We had a meet request up all week for tonight. On multiple occasions now we have had a conversation with multiple people who mesaaged us then have gone absoultely radio silent the moment the word social is mentioned. This isnt 2 or 3 messages in but a decent conversation.

2) posting a social request when you really want to one to come round at midnight to shag you.

People not reading profiles is wearing thin and it's worse than ever.

This site.....its not what it used to be currently. Really need to find a better way to connect with real swingers and not wannabes and chancers who are doing nothing more than trying to get a booty call after a few drinks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"More than 4 veris shown on their profile.

I'm out."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Profiles that come across as overly high-strung and obnoxious - like the ones that have a huge detailed list brashly outlining everything they don’t want and finish with a phrase like “can’t accept that, then don’t waste my time”. I appreciate there are a lot of time wasters - god I get them too, but I’m a nice guy and believe there’s a right and wrong way to get your point across. If I see that, I’d rather avoid that sort of person.

Also women who start out chatting ok, then after a few messages it feels like you’re putting in all the work and getting few-word answers. I just stop at that point and leave it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People being offended by our Profile. I don’t actually expect anyone to read it. But, if they kinda can’t see the funny side of it, then we probably wouldn’t have had the correct fit anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So many! my biggest pet peeve is men saying ‘I’ve always wanted to fuck an Indian girl’ FYI I’m not Indian

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We’re not all the same…the more veris the less chance you have it is easy for you to say that you are a incredibly attractive woman men lusting over you every day mere mortals have to take whatever chance they can xxx"

That’s the difference. I certainly don’t see myself that way….And it certainly doesn’t appeal to women if a man ‘takes whatever chance that can’

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because I don't feel sexy like how I used to be nearly 47 not comfortable on how I look esp when my life took a dramatic turn for the worst at end of 2019 now in my own home trying to keep hold of myself is hard esp weight gain in wrong places some men rather have a slim me than me now and my confidence is shot to pieces can't live up to people's expectations now am happy what I can do fat shaming is one step away from just give up

True reality some people are so cruel yet what makes me laugh is they are far from perfect

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Veris ….I’d say they spoil my attraction 99 percent of the time. My meets are rare because of this

Same here... either because the people they have been meeting wouldn’t pass for me, or because the girls are way better than me.

It’s usually when they explain fully what they want….and their veris are very very different. It shows me that they will go with anyone that offers it too then. Not for me x

Does that apply to the women to. Only some of my veries are from people I've met that don't fit into what I say on my profile, but I certainly don't go with just anyone. "

If someone I’m chatting too is verified; I will certainly look at their veris, and then the veris of people they have met. It’s a long chain….but I’m unapologetic for what I’m attracted to and what I’m not attracted too.

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By *uitednbooted2Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

You have the total right to select who/why/what you wish but what is ‘too verified’ ?

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By *eviant KnightMan
over a year ago

Norton

Text speak, or bad grammar

I'm definitely sapiosexual so to me these are a big turn off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So what puts you off a meet ? Even if their hot . For me it can be who’s verified them, How about you ? "

Asking me to be

Friends with benefits !!!! if the benefit is only sex !!!!!!

Fwb

Play friend

I’m none of these !!

However I do like a highly sexually charged meet or meets with a likeminded respectful guy x mutual respect xxx

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By *heNYCSausageMan
over a year ago

Everton


"So what puts you off a meet ? Even if their hot . For me it can be who’s verified them, How about you ? "

Their personality. If you can’t talk to them and have a free flowing conversation then I won’t be playing.

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By *iger4uWoman
over a year ago

In my happy place


"So what puts you off a meet ? Even if their hot . For me it can be who’s verified them, How about you ? "

This.

And photos that appear.

Dodgy grubby beds or rooms and I'm gone.

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By *llez WorldWoman
over a year ago

SE London


"So many! my biggest pet peeve is men saying ‘I’ve always wanted to fuck an Indian girl’ FYI I’m not Indian "

Oh god, this is my biggest turn off... I've never been with a black woman before I hate it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Text speak, or bad grammar

I'm definitely sapiosexual so to me these are a big turn off"

I have bad grammer because I have mild dyslexia

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You have the total right to select who/why/what you wish but what is ‘too verified’ ?"

Rule of thumb

No verifications - probably fake

Only user verified - likely fake

Only admin verified - less likely to be fake

Admins and user verified - unlikely to be fake

“My pics are uploading or I’m waiting to be verified” - cool; drop up a message later then.

Only user verified? Without reviews. I’ll assume it’s fake until otherwise. Reviews can actually help you find accounts that shouldn’t be ducking verifing each other. These accounts can be 1yr+ old.

Flag,?does go to admin? But name+date on paper? Easy to fake.

Both without review - meh.

Both with reviews. Unlikely to be fake.

Either way. Yep do not trust any of the above.

The only verified I wil trust is telegram or WhatsApp selfie or video call.

Do not ask them to write and hold up name on paper. just before the pic. Tell them how many fingers. Use emoji.s. 4 fingers Vulcan.

If they rush you with a pic it is doesnt look right.tell them to take it again. If they made an excuse. Just go.

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire


"Profiles that come across as overly high-strung and obnoxious - like the ones that have a huge detailed list brashly outlining everything they don’t want and finish with a phrase like “can’t accept that, then don’t waste my time”. I appreciate there are a lot of time wasters - god I get them too, but I’m a nice guy and believe there’s a right and wrong way to get your point across. If I see that, I’d rather avoid that sort of person.

Also women who start out chatting ok, then after a few messages it feels like you’re putting in all the work and getting few-word answers. I just stop at that point and leave it."

yeah they're probably not that interested amd stringing you along just to be "polite"

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By *yronMan
over a year ago

grangemouth


"Any mention of drugs, puts us completely off.

Lily "

Me too

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By *1c4yMan
over a year ago

stourbridge


"So what puts you off a meet ? Even if their hot . For me it can be who’s verified them, How about you ? "

A bare back cock ploughing into them on their pics.

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By *etwifeandhim69Couple
over a year ago

Darlington


"So what puts you off a meet ? Even if their hot . For me it can be who’s verified them, How about you ?

A bare back cock ploughing into them on their pics. "

If it's a couples account its allowed isnt it? Assuming it is the couple.

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By *1c4yMan
over a year ago

stourbridge


"So what puts you off a meet ? Even if their hot . For me it can be who’s verified them, How about you ?

A bare back cock ploughing into them on their pics.

If it's a couples account its allowed isnt it? Assuming it is the couple."

True I should have clarified strangers cock

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By *1c4yMan
over a year ago

stourbridge


"So what puts you off a meet ? Even if their hot . For me it can be who’s verified them, How about you ?

This.

And photos that appear.

Dodgy grubby beds or rooms and I'm gone. "

LoL so true! Clutter bedroom pics with last week's dirty washing on the floor.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

10k word essay in first message detailing what he's gonna do to be.

Yelling me he wants to try a fat girl for a change (yep totally had that one)

Lots of veris from slim petite women. (complete opposite of me)

Come and fuck me now messages.

No pics on profile. Will automatically delete unless there are any sent in the message.

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By *ollydoesWoman
over a year ago

Shangri-La


"Veris ….I’d say they spoil my attraction 99 percent of the time. My meets are rare because of this

Same here... either because the people they have been meeting wouldn’t pass for me, or because the girls are way better than me.

It’s usually when they explain fully what they want….and their veris are very very different. It shows me that they will go with anyone that offers it too then. Not for me x

Does that apply to the women to. Only some of my veries are from people I've met that don't fit into what I say on my profile, but I certainly don't go with just anyone.

If someone I’m chatting too is verified; I will certainly look at their veris, and then the veris of people they have met. It’s a long chain….but I’m unapologetic for what I’m attracted to and what I’m not attracted too."

Absolutely you are. I was referring to the part about when they in their profile one thing and you don't think a person who they have met matches their " requirements " on their profile. How do you know they don't? My veris may not look like they match what my profile says. But they matched up great after chatting. I was just asking does the same apply to women then?

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By *orYourPleasure xxWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"10k word essay in first message detailing what he's gonna do to be.

Yelling me he wants to try a fat girl for a change (yep totally had that one)

Lots of veris from slim petite women. (complete opposite of me)

Come and fuck me now messages.

No pics on profile. Will automatically delete unless there are any sent in the message. "

I can definitely see where you're coming from....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Met a guy on here I really liked and seemed to really get the hotwife thing. However when it came down to it he tried to fuck me like a porno, was obsessed with trying to get me to squirt (which I often find embarrassing unless totally comfortable), and thought endlessly swearing was somehow hot. We didn’t meet again x

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By *toC Thats MeWoman
over a year ago

Sheffield

If they are pushy, asking for more pics, both instantly put me off. X

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By *cloversCouple
over a year ago

Hull


"2 things.

1) We had a meet request up all week for tonight. On multiple occasions now we have had a conversation with multiple people who mesaaged us then have gone absoultely radio silent the moment the word social is mentioned. This isnt 2 or 3 messages in but a decent conversation.

2) posting a social request when you really want to one to come round at midnight to shag you.

People not reading profiles is wearing thin and it's worse than ever.

This site.....its not what it used to be currently. Really need to find a better way to connect with real swingers and not wannabes and chancers who are doing nothing more than trying to get a booty call after a few drinks."

Pretty much essentially this for us as well yet we make it explicit in our profile we will always meet for a social first. There's 4 people in the mix & if doesn't work for one sexual attraction it's a no go BUT we may have made new social friendships that do work so it's still a win!

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over a year ago


"Attitude.

Chat.

Something they say.

If they have met women I can't compete with

Lots of things really"

All of these for me too.

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